First Date follow Up Howard by the Advocates Injury Attorneys online at Advocates Law dot com.

First Date follow Up Howard by the Advocates Injury Attorneys online at Advocates Law dot com.

Kane is on the phone today for a first ave follow up and he's getting ghosted by Leah. So in a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. But first, Kane, how long has it been since you heard from Leah?

Kane is on the phone today for a first ave follow up and he's getting ghosted by Leah. So in a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. But first, Kane, how long has it been since you heard from Leah?

If I remember, I want to say it's been about a week or two.

If I remember, I want to say it's been about a week or two.

A week or two. How many times have you reached out to her? That'll kind of help to I.

A week or two. How many times have you reached out to her? That'll kind of help to I.

Reached out last I think about two days ago, but I've I've probably reached out about two three times.

Reached out last I think about two days ago, but I've I've probably reached out about two three times.

Okay, Well, let's talk about the date. How did you guys meet? How was it?

Okay, Well, let's talk about the date. How did you guys meet? How was it?

Well? We met through a mutual friend, and I mean, at least from my perspective, I thought it was a pretty good time. We got burgers and fries at the super Chill Retro diner, and honestly, it was nothing fancy. It was just nice and easy vibes. She picked it, which I liked. I mean, I love a woman who can commit to a greasy spoon. Yeah.

Well? We met through a mutual friend, and I mean, at least from my perspective, I thought it was a pretty good time. We got burgers and fries at the super Chill Retro diner, and honestly, it was nothing fancy. It was just nice and easy vibes. She picked it, which I liked. I mean, I love a woman who can commit to a greasy spoon. Yeah.

Fair, Okay, Yeah.

Fair, Okay, Yeah.

We had great conversation and at least, like I said, I swear I thought we were vibing. We talked about how we both loved the color orange, which, at least to my understanding is is not a common favorite color.

We had great conversation and at least, like I said, I swear I thought we were vibing. We talked about how we both loved the color orange, which, at least to my understanding is is not a common favorite color.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah, yeah, And at the end of the date, she even let me eat her pickle, which I thought was really cute.

Yeah, yeah, And at the end of the date, she even let me eat her pickle, which I thought was really cute.

Who what, Jane, I don't know why or something else. I was just talking about a pickle delivery.

Who what, Jane, I don't know why or something else. I was just talking about a pickle delivery.

He didn't want it, and I like pickles, So if.

He didn't want it, and I like pickles, So if.

Everybody needs a friend who doesn't like their pickle.

Everybody needs a friend who doesn't like their pickle.

Did you guys like kiss or anything after the day?

Did you guys like kiss or anything after the day?

No, you know, we did that little you know, thanks for the night hug kind of side hug at the end of the night. But other than that, no, not much more physically.

No, you know, we did that little you know, thanks for the night hug kind of side hug at the end of the night. But other than that, no, not much more physically.

How did it end? Does she sound like she was ready for another date after that one?

How did it end? Does she sound like she was ready for another date after that one?

I mean I didn't really get like one way or the other. It just kind of seemed like a pretty casual ending, you know, not positive negatives.

I mean I didn't really get like one way or the other. It just kind of seemed like a pretty casual ending, you know, not positive negatives.

Is there anything that could have gone wrong on the date?

Is there anything that could have gone wrong on the date?

I mean, nothing that's really coming to mind, honestly now, nothing at all. I mean, my family works in politics. I brought that up pretty early. I know some people can be a little weird.

I mean, nothing that's really coming to mind, honestly now, nothing at all. I mean, my family works in politics. I brought that up pretty early. I know some people can be a little weird.

Enough by that, Okay, yeah, I mean politics are always dicey uh huh, especially on a first date.

Enough by that, Okay, yeah, I mean politics are always dicey uh huh, especially on a first date.

Did you talk about your family's politics on that date too, or you just mentioned that that's what they do.

Did you talk about your family's politics on that date too, or you just mentioned that that's what they do.

I mean, I was trying to do as little as possible, but she did keep asking questions despite the briefness of my answers.

I mean, I was trying to do as little as possible, but she did keep asking questions despite the briefness of my answers.

So maybe maybe Yeah, they work.

So maybe maybe Yeah, they work.

In politics, so when she asked about them, what do they do?

In politics, so when she asked about them, what do they do?

It's kind of hard to see on that totally.

It's kind of hard to see on that totally.

Yeah, did she tell you hers or was she just asking questions?

Yeah, did she tell you hers or was she just asking questions?

No, just asking questions. I'm not even sure where she stands, honestly.

No, just asking questions. I'm not even sure where she stands, honestly.

Okay, well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you.

Okay, well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you.

We'll play a song come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you a second data.

We'll play a song come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you a second data.

Right, so good, all right, we'll get your first day follow.

Right, so good, all right, we'll get your first day follow.

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Resmill your first day follow up If you're just joining us. Kane is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Leah. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him. But first, Kane, why don't you remind us of your day real quick?

Resmill your first day follow up If you're just joining us. Kane is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Leah. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him. But first, Kane, why don't you remind us of your day real quick?

Yeah? Sure, no worries. So you know, basically, we got the burgers and fries at this nice chill retro diner, and you know, we have some great conversations. Yeah, We've talked about some common interests and you know it just kind of ended like naturally.

Yeah? Sure, no worries. So you know, basically, we got the burgers and fries at this nice chill retro diner, and you know, we have some great conversations. Yeah, We've talked about some common interests and you know it just kind of ended like naturally.

All right, And you really don't have any idea why you're getting ghosted?

All right, And you really don't have any idea why you're getting ghosted?

Huh other than my political parents. Nothing I could really think of.

Huh other than my political parents. Nothing I could really think of.

Okay, my political parents like a sitcom? All right, you ready for us to call her? Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Leah.

Okay, my political parents like a sitcom? All right, you ready for us to call her? Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Leah.

Please.

Please.

This is Leah.

This is Leah.

Hey Leah, how are you? This is the Jubil Show. It's a radio show. Hi, Leah. My name is Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jubell. How are you.

Hey Leah, how are you? This is the Jubil Show. It's a radio show. Hi, Leah. My name is Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jubell. How are you.

Hi?

Hi?

I'm good?

I'm good?

How were you great? Thank you for asking. Have you ever listened to the show before?

How were you great? Thank you for asking. Have you ever listened to the show before?

Yes?

Yes?

I have.

I have.

Have you ever heard of first Date follow Up?

Have you ever heard of first Date follow Up?

I have?

I have?

Ye?

Ye?

Yes.

Yes.

So you know that's the segment where if you go somebody. They can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're being ghosted. Yes, well guess what, Leah, somebody emailed us about you.

So you know that's the segment where if you go somebody. They can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're being ghosted. Yes, well guess what, Leah, somebody emailed us about you.

Uh huh oh you Ghoston girl.

Uh huh oh you Ghoston girl.

This is about Kane, isn't it.

This is about Kane, isn't it.

It has to be king, Yes, it is about Kane. Kane emailed us. We talked to him a little bit about your date. He said he thought you guys really hit it off. And he has no idea why you're not calling him back. And it's been like two weeks.

It has to be king, Yes, it is about Kane. Kane emailed us. We talked to him a little bit about your date. He said he thought you guys really hit it off. And he has no idea why you're not calling him back. And it's been like two weeks.

So he's a Virgo, and I just I can't do it. What I mean, Okay, that's not the only reason. But it was the first red flag. But I'm a Gemini, and that combo is just like a cosmic disaster. We're just wider differently. Like he's very grounded and analytical. I'm like slowy and talkative. He like structure. I like chaos. Like I knew it wasn't going to work when he started stacking the sugar packets by heights at the table. So like the virgo thing was the first red flag. Then it was the stacking of the sugar packets. Then he's put mustard on his French fries, and not catch up, not rich grape yellow mustard and he didn't even explain it. He just casually dipped it like it was normal.

So he's a Virgo, and I just I can't do it. What I mean, Okay, that's not the only reason. But it was the first red flag. But I'm a Gemini, and that combo is just like a cosmic disaster. We're just wider differently. Like he's very grounded and analytical. I'm like slowy and talkative. He like structure. I like chaos. Like I knew it wasn't going to work when he started stacking the sugar packets by heights at the table. So like the virgo thing was the first red flag. Then it was the stacking of the sugar packets. Then he's put mustard on his French fries, and not catch up, not rich grape yellow mustard and he didn't even explain it. He just casually dipped it like it was normal.

So that bothers you.

So that bothers you.

Yeah, I mean I tried to look past the rugo thing. But the mustard, who was the universe telling me run and I trust signs?

Yeah, I mean I tried to look past the rugo thing. But the mustard, who was the universe telling me run and I trust signs?

So the mustard really put it over the top.

So the mustard really put it over the top.

Yes, that was kind of the final straw.

Yes, that was kind of the final straw.

Okay, what do they say about people that eat mustard on their French fries?

Okay, what do they say about people that eat mustard on their French fries?

Ew? Great, Okay, that's and that's it?

Ew? Great, Okay, that's and that's it?

Like everything, what about you know, just his personality? Was it cool other than him being a virgo and dipping his French fries and mustard?

Like everything, what about you know, just his personality? Was it cool other than him being a virgo and dipping his French fries and mustard?

Yeah, I mean we couldn't see friends. I just don't see like with all those things. I just lifted there being like a romantic connection. We're just wired differently.

Yeah, I mean we couldn't see friends. I just don't see like with all those things. I just lifted there being like a romantic connection. We're just wired differently.

Were you attracted to him?

Were you attracted to him?

I mean, he's an attractive person. I just don't think he's like my person.

I mean, he's an attractive person. I just don't think he's like my person.

Thank you for being honest with us. I appreciate that.

Thank you for being honest with us. I appreciate that.

Thank you.

Thank you.

And Leah Kin is actually on the phone listening.

And Leah Kin is actually on the phone listening.

Oh, of course you're on the phone.

Oh, of course you're on the phone.

But what would you say to that? Kane? Hi?

But what would you say to that? Kane? Hi?

Leah? So it wasn't the political parents. It was mustard and star signs.

Leah? So it wasn't the political parents. It was mustard and star signs.

That did me in Kine, You're great, You're really really great. But it's like the Virgo Gemini dynamic. You spend our whole relationship with reorganizing my spice cabinet. Well, I'm trying to plan like a spontaneous trip to Tuloom.

That did me in Kine, You're great, You're really really great. But it's like the Virgo Gemini dynamic. You spend our whole relationship with reorganizing my spice cabinet. Well, I'm trying to plan like a spontaneous trip to Tuloom.

That sounds kind of balanced to me. I bring snacks in an I and you bring chaos in a passport?

That sounds kind of balanced to me. I bring snacks in an I and you bring chaos in a passport?

Aren't you getting ahead of yourself? Though? Like, don't you need to know?

Aren't you getting ahead of yourself? Though? Like, don't you need to know?

It's like, because I feel like you're planning right now, Leah for the future to be so unstable before you even know it.

It's like, because I feel like you're planning right now, Leah for the future to be so unstable before you even know it.

I don't know. Like he brings mustard to fries and he brings secretive energy.

I don't know. Like he brings mustard to fries and he brings secretive energy.

Secretive energy, I mean the way I was raised, it's not secretive. It's for I didn't want to bore you with political drama on a first date. I like to think that's called emotional intelligence.

Secretive energy, I mean the way I was raised, it's not secretive. It's for I didn't want to bore you with political drama on a first date. I like to think that's called emotional intelligence.

That's called virgo energy.

That's called virgo energy.

You're always trying to control the flow, and you're a Gemini talking in metaphors and checking co star mid convo.

You're always trying to control the flow, and you're a Gemini talking in metaphors and checking co star mid convo.

Because it work.

Because it work.

Checking what mid combo? What is the co star? It's an app I used to have it.

Checking what mid combo? What is the co star? It's an app I used to have it.

It's a chastrological app.

It's a chastrological app.

Did you do that?

Did you do that?

Leah?

Leah?

Did you check your astrology?

Did you check your astrology?

Why wouldn't I?

Why wouldn't I?

Yeah, we were literally talking about a second date when she pulled out her phone and started changing the conversation to tomorrow's horoscopes. So, just to recap, you're literally ghosting me over horoscopes and condiments.

Yeah, we were literally talking about a second date when she pulled out her phone and started changing the conversation to tomorrow's horoscopes. So, just to recap, you're literally ghosting me over horoscopes and condiments.

If I wouldn't have checked it, I wouldn't have known. Of course, I'm going to check it. It also shows me like both of our charts and like the compatibility and everything.

If I wouldn't have checked it, I wouldn't have known. Of course, I'm going to check it. It also shows me like both of our charts and like the compatibility and everything.

It's very thorough, Lea. Do you use charts for everything in your life or just dating such everything?

It's very thorough, Lea. Do you use charts for everything in your life or just dating such everything?

Yeah?

Yeah?

Is it usually right?

Is it usually right?

Yeah? Very right. I mean it's thousands of years old for a reason. Mm hmm.

Yeah? Very right. I mean it's thousands of years old for a reason. Mm hmm.

And this is the same person who says I'm too organized, and there you go.

And this is the same person who says I'm too organized, and there you go.

It's that virtual energy again.

It's that virtual energy again.

I mean, I gotta be honest with you, guys. I barely even know my horsecope. I don't even know what that means.

I mean, I gotta be honest with you, guys. I barely even know my horsecope. I don't even know what that means.

It's also not really a horoscope, it's a birth chart. So it's like kind of like we're talking, we're just talked. We're talking to different languages and like Kay, I'm so sorry. You're you're attractive and you're kind, but I need someone who won't judge me for like talking to my plants, and I really think you will.

It's also not really a horoscope, it's a birth chart. So it's like kind of like we're talking, we're just talked. We're talking to different languages and like Kay, I'm so sorry. You're you're attractive and you're kind, but I need someone who won't judge me for like talking to my plants, and I really think you will.

Wait wait, wait, wait, you talk to your plants.

Wait wait, wait, wait, you talk to your plants.

Any green thumb knows that you need to talk to your plants to get them to grow.

Any green thumb knows that you need to talk to your plants to get them to grow.

And when you talk to your plants, do you hear responses?

And when you talk to your plants, do you hear responses?

Well, it's obviously not like a human response, but it can energy.

Well, it's obviously not like a human response, but it can energy.

Yeah, how do you feel about that, Kane?

Yeah, how do you feel about that, Kane?

I mean, I thought the horoscopes was a little off putting, but now we have Mother Nature here speaking to plants. I don't even know where to go with that.

I mean, I thought the horoscopes was a little off putting, but now we have Mother Nature here speaking to plants. I don't even know where to go with that.

I mean, I'll give you second chance. You can meet my fern and I can see what kind of energy it gives me after, and then I'll know for sure.

I mean, I'll give you second chance. You can meet my fern and I can see what kind of energy it gives me after, and then I'll know for sure.

All right, it's first vote, Leah. Would you like another date with Kin? We'll pay for it.

All right, it's first vote, Leah. Would you like another date with Kin? We'll pay for it.

I mean, we can try. I do feel like he's going to be more compatible with like a grounded tourist who appreciates the mustard, and like bullet Point planned the worst case scenario, we end up being friends, you know, But I have no problem like seeing how my plants interact with him.

I mean, we can try. I do feel like he's going to be more compatible with like a grounded tourist who appreciates the mustard, and like bullet Point planned the worst case scenario, we end up being friends, you know, But I have no problem like seeing how my plants interact with him.

Oh, ok that's great second date.

Oh, ok that's great second date.

I mean I would consider it. I have to ask, though, does the fern have a name, Yeah, Miguel.

I mean I would consider it. I have to ask, though, does the fern have a name, Yeah, Miguel.

Oh okay, what do you think, Kane, give it another shot? I meant, Miguel the fern gotta do it.

Oh okay, what do you think, Kane, give it another shot? I meant, Miguel the fern gotta do it.

Yeah, I don't know you guys, Lea, that might be too much for me. As you said, like, I'm too much of a virgo for this. I wish you and Miguel the best.

Yeah, I don't know you guys, Lea, that might be too much for me. As you said, like, I'm too much of a virgo for this. I wish you and Miguel the best.

Oh okay, yeah, I know.

Oh okay, yeah, I know.

This is what I said from the start. But you know, Kane, no ill will. If I ever see you in the streets, I'll definitely say hi, Like it's not your fault, you're a virgo.

This is what I said from the start. But you know, Kane, no ill will. If I ever see you in the streets, I'll definitely say hi, Like it's not your fault, you're a virgo.

Okay, well, good luck. Juble's first day follow up

Okay, well, good luck. Juble's first day follow up