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Ryan is on the phone today for a first day follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Laila. So in a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second day. But first, Ryan, how long has it been since your date?

Ryan is on the phone today for a first day follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Laila. So in a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second day. But first, Ryan, how long has it been since your date?

It's been almost almost a week now. Have you been trying to hit her up?

It's been almost almost a week now. Have you been trying to hit her up?

Yeah, I've been trying to get ahold of Layla for a bait. We ended up like, we ended up spending a whole day together, and I've just been trying to you know, call and text without being overwhelming or anything like that, but I just can't seem to get any sort of response from her.

Yeah, I've been trying to get ahold of Layla for a bait. We ended up like, we ended up spending a whole day together, and I've just been trying to you know, call and text without being overwhelming or anything like that, but I just can't seem to get any sort of response from her.

We'll tell us about the date, okay, Yeah, so the day was great, Like we planned to meet for lunch, but we ended up spending the whole day together, which I didn't really expect, like just like.

We'll tell us about the date, okay, Yeah, so the day was great, Like we planned to meet for lunch, but we ended up spending the whole day together, which I didn't really expect, like just like.

A quick little coffee at this cafe, but it just like kept i don't.

A quick little coffee at this cafe, but it just like kept i don't.

Know, like the date just kept going on and on and on, and so after that we wouldn't like grab a couple of bikes and went for this ride by the water and stopped to grab some snacks and you know, are grabbing snacks and just like chatting and everything.

Know, like the date just kept going on and on and on, and so after that we wouldn't like grab a couple of bikes and went for this ride by the water and stopped to grab some snacks and you know, are grabbing snacks and just like chatting and everything.

You know, we're by the water.

You know, we're by the water.

And she's just like we started talking about seafood for some reason, and it's so weird because I don't like seafood, and she she goes, oh, I don't like seafood.

And she's just like we started talking about seafood for some reason, and it's so weird because I don't like seafood, and she she goes, oh, I don't like seafood.

I don't know why would anybody want to surf and turf and you can just do you know, double turf. I thought it was so funny. It's just like tell me about herself and her family and all this stuff. And like I was like, well, you know, likes, let's keep the conversation going. Let's go grab some steaks. We'll go back to my place and just like cook some dinner together. And she's like, well, forgetting steaks, we should grab some wine.

I don't know why would anybody want to surf and turf and you can just do you know, double turf. I thought it was so funny. It's just like tell me about herself and her family and all this stuff. And like I was like, well, you know, likes, let's keep the conversation going. Let's go grab some steaks. We'll go back to my place and just like cook some dinner together. And she's like, well, forgetting steaks, we should grab some wine.

Like okay, And That's what I'm saying. Like the whole day just ended up building on it.

Like okay, And That's what I'm saying. Like the whole day just ended up building on it.

Just she was so cool and I don't know, I'm not much of it, like a Netflix and chill guy.

Just she was so cool and I don't know, I'm not much of it, like a Netflix and chill guy.

And so when she came over, she's like, hey, I see you have uno. It's like, yeah, do you do you play cards? It's just like of course I've like cards, and turns out she's like really competitive, and so we feel like like we ended up playing, you know, and just like putting music on the speaker, back and forth, taking turns and like felt I know this sounds super cheesy, but it felt like a scene out of the movie really fun.

And so when she came over, she's like, hey, I see you have uno. It's like, yeah, do you do you play cards? It's just like of course I've like cards, and turns out she's like really competitive, and so we feel like like we ended up playing, you know, and just like putting music on the speaker, back and forth, taking turns and like felt I know this sounds super cheesy, but it felt like a scene out of the movie really fun.

Yeah, it does sound fun. Did anything else happen as your place?

Yeah, it does sound fun. Did anything else happen as your place?

Like she spent the night okay, but I well not like, listen, we've been drinking.

Like she spent the night okay, but I well not like, listen, we've been drinking.

I don't want you driving until you're like comfortable, but like you can take my bed and like sleep out on the couch.

I don't want you driving until you're like comfortable, but like you can take my bed and like sleep out on the couch.

It's just like I don't know, I didn't want the night to end this date.

It's just like I don't know, I didn't want the night to end this date.

What could have gone wrong?

What could have gone wrong?

I don't know, Like I'm worried I came on too strong because like I really hadn't felt like I connected with somebody like this.

I don't know, Like I'm worried I came on too strong because like I really hadn't felt like I connected with somebody like this.

And she was just like yeah, I know people go to term adventures around a lot, but the fact that she was just like kept adding onto the date. It was just so fun and like I was just I was gung ho, Like I was like, yeah, let's go for it. And then I was just something she'd like, yeah, let's go for it. So I know she was into it too. I just can't figure out why. Like I mean, I kind of have a theory. I just I don't want it to be true.

And she was just like yeah, I know people go to term adventures around a lot, but the fact that she was just like kept adding onto the date. It was just so fun and like I was just I was gung ho, Like I was like, yeah, let's go for it. And then I was just something she'd like, yeah, let's go for it. So I know she was into it too. I just can't figure out why. Like I mean, I kind of have a theory. I just I don't want it to be true.

What is it?

What is it?

Okay, So like when I invited her back to.

Okay, So like when I invited her back to.

My place, like it wasn't actually my place, so it was house sitting for my boss.

My place, like it wasn't actually my place, so it was house sitting for my boss.

Oh okay, you think she knows that.

Oh okay, you think she knows that.

No, no, she does not know that. There's no way because I just kind of like played it off and I wasn't trying to lie, like I'm not I'm not that kind of person. I just like got caught up in the moment like she's like talking about.

No, no, she does not know that. There's no way because I just kind of like played it off and I wasn't trying to lie, like I'm not I'm not that kind of person. I just like got caught up in the moment like she's like talking about.

Stakes and like, well, let's go back.

Stakes and like, well, let's go back.

I was like, oh, yeah, let's go back, and she's like, just you know, I'll hop in a car with you, and I just kind of went on like you know, automode and I don't know me.

I was like, oh, yeah, let's go back, and she's like, just you know, I'll hop in a car with you, and I just kind of went on like you know, automode and I don't know me.

I'm just like like I didn't say it was my place.

I'm just like like I didn't say it was my place.

Or anything like that, Like I know my way around the kitchen, I'm like stay sitting in my boss's place before.

Or anything like that, Like I know my way around the kitchen, I'm like stay sitting in my boss's place before.

But like I don't know, like I'm worried. I don't know.

But like I don't know, like I'm worried. I don't know.

Maybe she saw like the mail or something with and didn't have my name on it.

Maybe she saw like the mail or something with and didn't have my name on it.

I just I don't know, So.

I just I don't know, So.

You just didn't say anything. Was it like a mansion?

You just didn't say anything. Was it like a mansion?

Yeah right, Yeah, it's a really nice house. It's a really nice house, and.

Yeah right, Yeah, it's a really nice house. It's a really nice house, and.

Like I'm in a condo, and I just like the difference is so staggering. It's just I just feel awful, Like I wish I just told her, like, hey, I'm house sitting.

Like I'm in a condo, and I just like the difference is so staggering. It's just I just feel awful, Like I wish I just told her, like, hey, I'm house sitting.

I don't know why I didn't say that.

I don't know why I didn't say that.

Yeah right, Well let's see if that is the reason.

Yeah right, Well let's see if that is the reason.

Well, play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you a second date.

Well, play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you a second date.

Okay, okay, yeah, all right, we'll get.

Okay, okay, yeah, all right, we'll get.

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Right in the middle of your first day follow up, and if you're just joining us, Ryan is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Leila. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why and maybe get him a second date. But first, Ryan, before we do that, why don't you recap your date real quick?

Right in the middle of your first day follow up, and if you're just joining us, Ryan is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Leila. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why and maybe get him a second date. But first, Ryan, before we do that, why don't you recap your date real quick?

Okay? Yeah, So Leila and I went out.

Okay? Yeah, So Leila and I went out.

It was supposed to be a short day and it turned out into like a whole day affair.

It was supposed to be a short day and it turned out into like a whole day affair.

And I invited her back to my place to cook some dinner.

And I invited her back to my place to cook some dinner.

She had just spending the night, but I was I was house sitting on my boss's place that wasn't actually my place.

She had just spending the night, but I was I was house sitting on my boss's place that wasn't actually my place.

And you think she might have found that out?

And you think she might have found that out?

I definitely That's all I can think about.

I definitely That's all I can think about.

All right, are you ready for us to call her?

All right, are you ready for us to call her?

Who? Yeah?

Who? Yeah?

Yeah, okay, Hello him, I speaking to Layla.

Yeah, okay, Hello him, I speaking to Layla.

Please. This is Laila. How are you? This is the Jubile Show. It's a radio show. Hi, Leila, I'm Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria Hi.

Please. This is Laila. How are you? This is the Jubile Show. It's a radio show. Hi, Leila, I'm Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria Hi.

And before no, I'm so sorry. Did I win something?

And before no, I'm so sorry. Did I win something?

Well? I don't No. Kind of kind of depends on how you see it.

Well? I don't No. Kind of kind of depends on how you see it.

I guess we're calling you today because we do a segment that's called the first Date follow Up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, that person can email us.

I guess we're calling you today because we do a segment that's called the first Date follow Up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, that person can email us.

To get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting? Oh that's awful, And you got an email about you from somebody about me? Yes? Are you ghosting anybody?

To get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting? Oh that's awful, And you got an email about you from somebody about me? Yes? Are you ghosting anybody?

Oh my god.

Oh my god.

No, no, I've been ghosted. That's awful. I would never Okay, I mean I've been out on like a few dates.

No, no, I've been ghosted. That's awful. I would never Okay, I mean I've been out on like a few dates.

No, I mean and you haven't ghosted them.

No, I mean and you haven't ghosted them.

No.

No.

I mean literally, I've gone out on like two dates.

I mean literally, I've gone out on like two dates.

There was one really casual and then this other guy who I actually kind of dug.

There was one really casual and then this other guy who I actually kind of dug.

But yeah, okay, Well the email we got about you came from somebody named Ryan.

But yeah, okay, Well the email we got about you came from somebody named Ryan.

Yeah, no, I know Ryan, I'm not Does he think I'm ghosting him?

Yeah, no, I know Ryan, I'm not Does he think I'm ghosting him?

Yes, you're not ghosting him?

Yes, you're not ghosting him?

No?

No?

Well, first of all, date, our date was like three days ago, and no, my phone died and then I had brought it to Apple.

Well, first of all, date, our date was like three days ago, and no, my phone died and then I had brought it to Apple.

I actually just got it back today. Okay, does he really think I'm ghosting him? Oh my god? Wait wait wait wait wait so you're not You're not ghosting me? Then?

I actually just got it back today. Okay, does he really think I'm ghosting him? Oh my god? Wait wait wait wait wait so you're not You're not ghosting me? Then?

Yeah, Ryan is actually on the phone wants to talk to you.

Yeah, Ryan is actually on the phone wants to talk to you.

Oh my gosh, Ryan, Hi the hello?

Oh my gosh, Ryan, Hi the hello?

Hi?

Hi?

Yeah, Hi, You're not ghosting me? Okay great?

Yeah, Hi, You're not ghosting me? Okay great?

No, wait, why would you think that I had a really good time with Okay, we went out just like a few days ago.

No, wait, why would you think that I had a really good time with Okay, we went out just like a few days ago.

I would never. First of all, I would never do that because I've been ghosted. But why would you think that I would ghost you. I had a really good time with you. I I'm so happy that.

I would never. First of all, I would never do that because I've been ghosted. But why would you think that I would ghost you. I had a really good time with you. I I'm so happy that.

Like I had a good time too, I really did. I thought we we connected, and I just I hope, oh god, I just hope. I'm not coming on that like a crazy person, been too strong. I just you know, I was worried that I hadn't heard back from you.

Like I had a good time too, I really did. I thought we we connected, and I just I hope, oh god, I just hope. I'm not coming on that like a crazy person, been too strong. I just you know, I was worried that I hadn't heard back from you.

It felt like a week.

It felt like a week.

No, it was three days ago. Oh and my screen is like, no, I mean it's fine, this is weird. But we had a really good date. That was a great date.

No, it was three days ago. Oh and my screen is like, no, I mean it's fine, this is weird. But we had a really good date. That was a great date.

That was a great date, right, yeah, no, it was. They were really good. I actually was impressed. Yeah, me too. And you're a great Duno player, Like who would have thought. I didn't. I thought that was a game of luck, but apparently it's not. You're very good at that. I think.

That was a great date, right, yeah, no, it was. They were really good. I actually was impressed. Yeah, me too. And you're a great Duno player, Like who would have thought. I didn't. I thought that was a game of luck, but apparently it's not. You're very good at that. I think.

I'm just.

I'm just.

I'm just I'm just so relieved that you're not ghosting me. Then I've been. No, I would never no, No, I'm so sorry my phone died and no, it's fine.

I'm just I'm just so relieved that you're not ghosting me. Then I've been. No, I would never no, No, I'm so sorry my phone died and no, it's fine.

I just I was so worried, because you know, I was I was actually house sitting for my boss, and I just really thought that, like I don't know, maybe you thought that I was just trying to like squat or or lie about.

I just I was so worried, because you know, I was I was actually house sitting for my boss, and I just really thought that, like I don't know, maybe you thought that I was just trying to like squat or or lie about.

You know, my situation. Wait, what do you mean how I was sitting that That wasn't my house, that was my that was my boss.

You know, my situation. Wait, what do you mean how I was sitting that That wasn't my house, that was my that was my boss.

That was.

That was.

No, no, no, and that was That's like when when you were asking about the car and everything, I was just like, oh yeah, trying to like change the subject.

No, no, no, and that was That's like when when you were asking about the car and everything, I was just like, oh yeah, trying to like change the subject.

That's wait, but Brian, my house. Wait, hold on a second. You literally were talking about your couch. You were like, I bought this because I went to Tuscany with my sister and I just was inspired. You literally were talking about no no, no, no no no no no no no no no, okay, like you're messing with me.

That's wait, but Brian, my house. Wait, hold on a second. You literally were talking about your couch. You were like, I bought this because I went to Tuscany with my sister and I just was inspired. You literally were talking about no no, no, no no no no no no no no no, okay, like you're messing with me.

Technically, I don't live there, You're right, but I did go to Italy and I got the I want to have.

Technically, I don't live there, You're right, but I did go to Italy and I got the I want to have.

Some day you see. That sounds like you're trying to act like that's your place, right Yeah, yeah.

Some day you see. That sounds like you're trying to act like that's your place, right Yeah, yeah.

No, I that's but weird you. No, No, I'm not. I'm not trying to lead you on. Like I'm not trying to lead you on. It is such a cool place. No, that's just blatantly lying. It's not a lie. It's a technicality. But no, but I do. Literally we're talking about a cow. No I do right, No, that's no please, I've just never pulled a girl like you before. It's just.

No, I that's but weird you. No, No, I'm not. I'm not trying to lead you on. Like I'm not trying to lead you on. It is such a cool place. No, that's just blatantly lying. It's not a lie. It's a technicality. But no, but I do. Literally we're talking about a cow. No I do right, No, that's no please, I've just never pulled a girl like you before. It's just.

I can tell you like somebody wait Ryan, No, I'm sorry, No, okay, listen.

I can tell you like somebody wait Ryan, No, I'm sorry, No, okay, listen.

And I had a really good time with you. I enjoyed our day. I liked you. It was real you.

And I had a really good time with you. I enjoyed our day. I liked you. It was real you.

But now I'm actually not sure that no real me. Like Ryan, you're not actually listening to me. You blatantly lied about where we were. You would talk about the couch, the lamp. You even talked about the painting.

But now I'm actually not sure that no real me. Like Ryan, you're not actually listening to me. You blatantly lied about where we were. You would talk about the couch, the lamp. You even talked about the painting.

Oh my god. No sorry, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope.

Oh my god. No sorry, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope.

Now, Leila, would you like to go on another day with Ryan? We will pay for it.

Now, Leila, would you like to go on another day with Ryan? We will pay for it.

Ryan.

Ryan.

Look, I I had I had a good time with you. I think that you're nice, but clearly you've got some stuff that you need to work through.

Look, I I had I had a good time with you. I think that you're nice, but clearly you've got some stuff that you need to work through.

But no, no, thank you. That's some sure.

But no, no, thank you. That's some sure.

Dude.

Dude.

I could never trust you. You literally were talking about items in a house that you don't live in.

I could never trust you. You literally were talking about items in a house that you don't live in.

So what I want because that's what I want to provide, Like I want to be able to get that and provide it for you, like and you're not even like going to give you a chance. Ryan, I mean no, I don't want to give up. No, listen, Ryan giving up. I'm sorry, that's but I but that's weird. You know you're not you?

So what I want because that's what I want to provide, Like I want to be able to get that and provide it for you, like and you're not even like going to give you a chance. Ryan, I mean no, I don't want to give up. No, listen, Ryan giving up. I'm sorry, that's but I but that's weird. You know you're not you?

No, please please leaves.

No, please please leaves.

Just like please one more time and I just won't make you an even better steak and you can like, oh come my god.

Just like please one more time and I just won't make you an even better steak and you can like, oh come my god.

No, Well but this is really you to my apartment. I will take you to my apartment. Ryan, this is fully giving me the X factor. Okay, I gotta go. This is ridiculous. But you're so hot. Okay, thank you.

No, Well but this is really you to my apartment. I will take you to my apartment. Ryan, this is fully giving me the X factor. Okay, I gotta go. This is ridiculous. But you're so hot. Okay, thank you.

I have to go.

I have to go.

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