Today, we're talking about male bystanders. Why is it that when a CNN investigation exposes an online rape academy with 62 million monthly visits, the loudest response from men isn't outrage, it's not all men?

Jas, Carly, and Jen continue their conversation with Andrew 'Bernie' Bernard, unpacking how men can move from performative masculinity to genuine accountability, the insidious on-ramps to coercive control hiding in plain sight, and why "calling in" beats "calling out" every single time. They're officially adding male silence to the FckIt List.

Trigger warning: this episode contains discussion of men's violence against women, sexual assault, coercive control, and self-harm.

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