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How good of a friend are you if you aren't afraid to tell your friends the person they're dating just may not be the one. When red flags, Yeah, when you should, I do agree. Red flags are flying and you're like, hey, yeah, I'm just noticing this this guy you're dating or this woman you're dating. It's just ooh and apparently you know, their vision is clouded over by lust, by they got a hot body, or they're you know whatever. I mean. At some point you feel like you should say something, don't you.

How good of a friend are you if you aren't afraid to tell your friends the person they're dating just may not be the one. When red flags, Yeah, when you should, I do agree. Red flags are flying and you're like, hey, yeah, I'm just noticing this this guy you're dating or this woman you're dating. It's just ooh and apparently you know, their vision is clouded over by lust, by they got a hot body, or they're you know whatever. I mean. At some point you feel like you should say something, don't you.

I think it's you're that close to the person then you should say something because you don't want them to get to the point where, you know, it gets really serious and they move to the next step. If you're seeing these red flags this early in the relationship, there's a little something going on, yes, but they have to be.

I think it's you're that close to the person then you should say something because you don't want them to get to the point where, you know, it gets really serious and they move to the next step. If you're seeing these red flags this early in the relationship, there's a little something going on, yes, but they have to be.

Meaning full red flags.

Meaning full red flags.

It can't just be you being a jerk because you don't like this Ryan like a real red flag.

It can't just be you being a jerk because you don't like this Ryan like a real red flag.

Well, for instance, if they say to you, God, I really like her a lot, or I like him a lot, but there's this one thing she does. It's like, oh God, I don't know there's the red flag. They're recognizing the red flag. They're telling you the red flag, and you're saying, well, don't you hear what you're saying? You're really you got a red flag flying? It's flopping in the breeze. Yes, carry.

Well, for instance, if they say to you, God, I really like her a lot, or I like him a lot, but there's this one thing she does. It's like, oh God, I don't know there's the red flag. They're recognizing the red flag. They're telling you the red flag, and you're saying, well, don't you hear what you're saying? You're really you got a red flag flying? It's flopping in the breeze. Yes, carry.

I know someone who's very early in the relationship and she wants him to FaceTime her immediately. She used these random spot checks when he's out with his friends, all of a sudden, FaceTime me now and then. Or she'll just FaceTime to see where he is and what.

I know someone who's very early in the relationship and she wants him to FaceTime her immediately. She used these random spot checks when he's out with his friends, all of a sudden, FaceTime me now and then. Or she'll just FaceTime to see where he is and what.

He's up to do. She doesn't trust where he is, right So I just said, I said, that's a red flag. You guys have no trust in the relationships. It's ridiculous. I mean, she's got a trust that you're doing the right thing.

He's up to do. She doesn't trust where he is, right So I just said, I said, that's a red flag. You guys have no trust in the relationships. It's ridiculous. I mean, she's got a trust that you're doing the right thing.

And are you sure that's.

And are you sure that's.

Why she's doing it? Are you sure they don't just communicate that way?

Why she's doing it? Are you sure they don't just communicate that way?

Who the hell does that?

Who the hell does that?

You're out with the bullets, you're out with the boys, expects, Hey, why aren't you answering my FaceTime right now? Well, you know I'm out.

You're out with the bullets, you're out with the boys, expects, Hey, why aren't you answering my FaceTime right now? Well, you know I'm out.

With my boys right now. Don't don't do that, Okay? That that flag could not be more red together three months frog's going to say something that.

With my boys right now. Don't don't do that, Okay? That that flag could not be more red together three months frog's going to say something that.

I was going to say. What does he have a track record as he'd lied to hear in the past about where he is. Maybe if that's happened, maybe that's the problem. But if it's only three months in, yeah, it's an issue.

I was going to say. What does he have a track record as he'd lied to hear in the past about where he is. Maybe if that's happened, maybe that's the problem. But if it's only three months in, yeah, it's an issue.

No are you sure?

No are you sure?

Pokay, Well, so, so the groundwork is is being place.

Pokay, Well, so, so the groundwork is is being place.

How do you say that though, because I know I've encountered the situation and I want to say something, but I also don't want to crush their hopes and dreams of a relationship.

How do you say that though, because I know I've encountered the situation and I want to say something, but I also don't want to crush their hopes and dreams of a relationship.

You talked about your relationship, You did your relationship.

You talked about your relationship, You did your relationship.

Exactly, and and and if they defend it, they defend the relationships. And Okay, you've said your piece in the Okay, you can only say so much. You can't go on and on about So let's say where where we're at dinner? And yeah, you know I'm dating this girl, and uh, just I have to pick her up take her to the airport, and you know, then she asks that I pick her up at the airport and drive her to her house. I mean, okay, by the way, if you're listening anyplace other than New York City, then this is really relevant in New York. You don't drive people to the airport. You just don't mean I don't people Daniel, that's a red flag. Well, I mean, look, if you live if you live in Manhattan, let's say, and there's an airport, I mean you got to get a get a car out of a garage. And it's like, no, just take an Uber. Really you live in the suburbs, it's a little different. You know, God I do too. You know, I'm still not going to drive you as to the airport, but anyway, you know, there's a red flag, like I insist you take me to the airport. Well, you know, Uber, it's right there. That's not as big a red flag as the facetiming down to nowhere when you know.

Exactly, and and and if they defend it, they defend the relationships. And Okay, you've said your piece in the Okay, you can only say so much. You can't go on and on about So let's say where where we're at dinner? And yeah, you know I'm dating this girl, and uh, just I have to pick her up take her to the airport, and you know, then she asks that I pick her up at the airport and drive her to her house. I mean, okay, by the way, if you're listening anyplace other than New York City, then this is really relevant in New York. You don't drive people to the airport. You just don't mean I don't people Daniel, that's a red flag. Well, I mean, look, if you live if you live in Manhattan, let's say, and there's an airport, I mean you got to get a get a car out of a garage. And it's like, no, just take an Uber. Really you live in the suburbs, it's a little different. You know, God I do too. You know, I'm still not going to drive you as to the airport, but anyway, you know, there's a red flag, like I insist you take me to the airport. Well, you know, Uber, it's right there. That's not as big a red flag as the facetiming down to nowhere when you know.

I don't know, it's like the check in, like where are you? I want to know where you are at all times?

I don't know, it's like the check in, like where are you? I want to know where you are at all times?

What the only reason that I'm I'm a little hesitant on this.

What the only reason that I'm I'm a little hesitant on this.

Based on the way you guys are looking at it. Yes, very crazy. I do that to my sister all the time.

Based on the way you guys are looking at it. Yes, very crazy. I do that to my sister all the time.

But that's.

But that's.

But I do it to my friends. I do it to people. I'm like, why aren't you answering when I need you at this moment?

But I do it to my friends. I do it to people. I'm like, why aren't you answering when I need you at this moment?

Right now you know what, then there's a red flag on Gandhi right now, red flag? Hold on, there's a flag on the play. There's a flag on the play.

Right now you know what, then there's a red flag on Gandhi right now, red flag? Hold on, there's a flag on the play. There's a flag on the play.

I guess too, though. I mean, when you think about this stuff, does all of us have red flags?

I guess too, though. I mean, when you think about this stuff, does all of us have red flags?

Every single one of us? Of course some have really major red flags. I'm looking right.

Every single one of us? Of course some have really major red flags. I'm looking right.

At you, just like me. I just at what point do you cut people off for one thing? We all have these things.

At you, just like me. I just at what point do you cut people off for one thing? We all have these things.

But I just think like something like that where you need to know everywhere I am and every moment three months in is just for the future.

But I just think like something like that where you need to know everywhere I am and every moment three months in is just for the future.

It's not good.

It's not good.

It is going to one might be crazy, but I'm just saying, like a red flag doesn't necessarily mean you have to cut it off immediately.

It is going to one might be crazy, but I'm just saying, like a red flag doesn't necessarily mean you have to cut it off immediately.

Red flag, of course exactly.

Red flag, of course exactly.

Look I said it earlier. I'll say it again. If you want to say something and you feel like you owe it to them, and then you say it, but then you got to leave it up to them, that's all you can do. If they have to learn on their own, right. But if you let it go now, it's going to be a problem later. So if you if you set a precedent of letting it go now, then it's hard to say something later down the road.

Look I said it earlier. I'll say it again. If you want to say something and you feel like you owe it to them, and then you say it, but then you got to leave it up to them, that's all you can do. If they have to learn on their own, right. But if you let it go now, it's going to be a problem later. So if you if you set a precedent of letting it go now, then it's hard to say something later down the road.

Yeah, then when something happens and then you say, well I kind of knew, They go why didn't you tell me?

Yeah, then when something happens and then you say, well I kind of knew, They go why didn't you tell me?

Why didn't you tell me this?

Why didn't you tell me this?

But I did back on March March night. That night, Hey, let's talk talk to Hannah. Oh, I'm beautiful Burlington, Vermont. I love Burlington from Mont. Hannah. What a beautiful place to live. You love living there?

But I did back on March March night. That night, Hey, let's talk talk to Hannah. Oh, I'm beautiful Burlington, Vermont. I love Burlington from Mont. Hannah. What a beautiful place to live. You love living there?

I absolutely love it. This is the best place to live.

I absolutely love it. This is the best place to live.

I got it, I got it all right. So we're talking about red flags. Do you have a friend that you actually had to talk off a ledge with a red flag? Or were you the red flag person? Or what's going on here? Hannah? What's your story?

I got it, I got it all right. So we're talking about red flags. Do you have a friend that you actually had to talk off a ledge with a red flag? Or were you the red flag person? Or what's going on here? Hannah? What's your story?

So? I wish that I had listened to my friends when they noted all my ex's red flags. I was with my ex for nine years, and from the beginning, my friends and my family tried to tell me all about his red flags, and I just would not listen.

So? I wish that I had listened to my friends when they noted all my ex's red flags. I was with my ex for nine years, and from the beginning, my friends and my family tried to tell me all about his red flags, and I just would not listen.

Yeah. The thing is is they told you. Do you remember them telling you?

Yeah. The thing is is they told you. Do you remember them telling you?

Oh, totally, I remember them telling me. They tried so hard to get me to listen.

Oh, totally, I remember them telling me. They tried so hard to get me to listen.

I know, but at some point, like I said, you got they have to be there for you, as your family, as your friends and say hey, red flag, red flag, that's all they can do. You had to learn on your own. I mean you were on your own. You're an adult. You can make your own decisions, right right.

I know, but at some point, like I said, you got they have to be there for you, as your family, as your friends and say hey, red flag, red flag, that's all they can do. You had to learn on your own. I mean you were on your own. You're an adult. You can make your own decisions, right right.

I totally think that. You know, you can say all you want about red flags and everything, but until they want to change or they want to do what they have to do or what they think they have to do, Like, there's nothing really you can say.

I totally think that. You know, you can say all you want about red flags and everything, but until they want to change or they want to do what they have to do or what they think they have to do, Like, there's nothing really you can say.

Hey, let me ask you this. Well, by the way, I'm assuming you're out of this relationship and you're doing much better now, right, All good?

Hey, let me ask you this. Well, by the way, I'm assuming you're out of this relationship and you're doing much better now, right, All good?

Yeah? I am currently married and beautiful baby and super happy.

Yeah? I am currently married and beautiful baby and super happy.

Oh cool, cool, Okay, that's all good news. So we're talking about sharing locations with your phone, like, for instance, Gandhi, she and all of her friends they have this network where they all know where each other are at all times. Yes, but when you're dating someone, Gandhi's asking like, how soon is too soon to start sharing locations?

Oh cool, cool, Okay, that's all good news. So we're talking about sharing locations with your phone, like, for instance, Gandhi, she and all of her friends they have this network where they all know where each other are at all times. Yes, but when you're dating someone, Gandhi's asking like, how soon is too soon to start sharing locations?

Oh that's a tough one. My husband and I do share locations, but we didn't start sharing locations until I got pregnant, So I don't know what would be too soon. I feel like maybe honestly, until you're married.

Oh that's a tough one. My husband and I do share locations, but we didn't start sharing locations until I got pregnant, So I don't know what would be too soon. I feel like maybe honestly, until you're married.

Yeah, yeah, you know, Alex and I we don't share locations at all, and I don't, Okay, I don't. I totally trust everything's fine, but for other.

Yeah, yeah, you know, Alex and I we don't share locations at all, and I don't, Okay, I don't. I totally trust everything's fine, but for other.

Got the only reason it's for safety, Yeah.

Got the only reason it's for safety, Yeah.

Exactly, safety first, but not like snooping around knowing where you are. But in a relationship, if you're just starting to date someone and they go, hey, you know, I know, we've been dating each other for like a month and I've had so much fun, let's share locations a month, I don't know. No way, yeah, which way too early?

Exactly, safety first, but not like snooping around knowing where you are. But in a relationship, if you're just starting to date someone and they go, hey, you know, I know, we've been dating each other for like a month and I've had so much fun, let's share locations a month, I don't know. No way, yeah, which way too early?

Maybe maybe if you're in an uber you know, and you want to make sure the person got someplace that's exactly, but I don't want yeah exactly.

Maybe maybe if you're in an uber you know, and you want to make sure the person got someplace that's exactly, but I don't want yeah exactly.

I hate that.

I hate that.

That one's extra turkey now, especially because when you first start dating somebody, until they've been to your home or you've been to theirs, you don't want them to know where you live. I wouldn't share that location for a long time, and even then I don't want you to know when I'm home.

That one's extra turkey now, especially because when you first start dating somebody, until they've been to your home or you've been to theirs, you don't want them to know where you live. I wouldn't share that location for a long time, and even then I don't want you to know when I'm home.

People are crazy, people do crazy things. I don't know. Andrew having my location scares me enough.

People are crazy, people do crazy things. I don't know. Andrew having my location scares me enough.

Well, I know, but we were asking so Andrew, he went down to uh Miami in South Florida. He said, I'm just going to work out of the Y one hundred office this week. Okay, Well, we know for a fact he's still at home. He's probably in bed. He's not working out of any office, didn't. We just talked to Claudia, why whatever is Andrew? Is he there yet? Did you have a desk for him? Whatever? She's like, Andrew, is he coming in.

Well, I know, but we were asking so Andrew, he went down to uh Miami in South Florida. He said, I'm just going to work out of the Y one hundred office this week. Okay, Well, we know for a fact he's still at home. He's probably in bed. He's not working out of any office, didn't. We just talked to Claudia, why whatever is Andrew? Is he there yet? Did you have a desk for him? Whatever? She's like, Andrew, is he coming in.

Anyway?

Anyway?

All right? Well listen, thank you for your call, Hannah. I have a beautiful day and beautiful Burlington, Vermont. I love it up there.

All right? Well listen, thank you for your call, Hannah. I have a beautiful day and beautiful Burlington, Vermont. I love it up there.

It's so gorgeous.

It's so gorgeous.

Oh so much, thank you, thanks for listening. God scary. Remember your roommate whose girlfriend used to rip her hair out and leave it on the bathroom floor to kind of mark her territory.

Oh so much, thank you, thanks for listening. God scary. Remember your roommate whose girlfriend used to rip her hair out and leave it on the bathroom floor to kind of mark her territory.

Yup.

Yup.

She used to spray her perfume on pillows and things.

She used to spray her perfume on pillows and things.

Horror show, and I had warned him these are red flags, get out now while you can. She ended up being all kinds of crazy. She went back crap level one to ten in about two months. And then he's like, I'm sorry I should have listened to you.

Horror show, and I had warned him these are red flags, get out now while you can. She ended up being all kinds of crazy. She went back crap level one to ten in about two months. And then he's like, I'm sorry I should have listened to you.

I'm like, I told you so ripping out your hair.

I'm like, I told you so ripping out your hair.

Oh my god, Oh yes, you're everywhere.

Oh my god, Oh yes, you're everywhere.

She's just spread it everywhere because in case another woman came.

She's just spread it everywhere because in case another woman came.

Over her blonde hair.

Over her blonde hair.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Well look, you know, if you're dating someone like that and be your friends just saying red flag, you'd like to think, Well, you may think that's a red flag, but I know them better because i'm dating them, so maybe I'm seeing something in them you don't see. Well, maybe maybe there is a red flag.

Well look, you know, if you're dating someone like that and be your friends just saying red flag, you'd like to think, Well, you may think that's a red flag, but I know them better because i'm dating them, so maybe I'm seeing something in them you don't see. Well, maybe maybe there is a red flag.

Yeah, because sometimes you're just blinded by like oh my gosh, they're so hot, or you're booty drunk, right exactly, and so you know, because you can't see because you're booty drunk. Sometimes it takes somebody else to say, hello, wake the hell up.

Yeah, because sometimes you're just blinded by like oh my gosh, they're so hot, or you're booty drunk, right exactly, and so you know, because you can't see because you're booty drunk. Sometimes it takes somebody else to say, hello, wake the hell up.

Have the booty drunk glasses on. As the best person booty drunk.

Have the booty drunk glasses on. As the best person booty drunk.

Like ever in the history of relationships, a friend has said to another friend who is deeply in love with someone, Hey, this person has a red flag. And the friend said, you know what, You're right, I'm gonna listen to you and just move right along. No, they have to experience it for themselves.

Like ever in the history of relationships, a friend has said to another friend who is deeply in love with someone, Hey, this person has a red flag. And the friend said, you know what, You're right, I'm gonna listen to you and just move right along. No, they have to experience it for themselves.

Probably for the most part, at the very least. If someone came to me and said hey, red flag going on here. I would go, oh, know, everything's fine, it's okay. But at least it's now it's been registered.

Probably for the most part, at the very least. If someone came to me and said hey, red flag going on here. I would go, oh, know, everything's fine, it's okay. But at least it's now it's been registered.

You're thinking about it.

You're thinking about it.

So at least you know it's it's something I'm thinking about. Okay there, all right, let's get into the three things we need to know from Gandhi. We never did the Danielle report. No, we've skipped it three times.

So at least you know it's it's something I'm thinking about. Okay there, all right, let's get into the three things we need to know from Gandhi. We never did the Danielle report. No, we've skipped it three times.

We're fine.

We're fine.

Danielle Les's work for me.

Danielle Les's work for me.

An hour.

An hour.

I'm tired.

I'm tired.

You know we love that hour. All right, let's get into the three things we got. Danielle's report. It's floating. It's a fluid thing on the clock. I don't know it'll happen. Also, we got to play password. We gotta get inut of that. I also promised zombie Boy from Lady Gaga. We we go off on these tangents about other stuff and we never get to the stuff we promised. So typical of this show.

You know we love that hour. All right, let's get into the three things we got. Danielle's report. It's floating. It's a fluid thing on the clock. I don't know it'll happen. Also, we got to play password. We gotta get inut of that. I also promised zombie Boy from Lady Gaga. We we go off on these tangents about other stuff and we never get to the stuff we promised. So typical of this show.