Intern Stephanie had a BFF breakup and she credits actor Jordan Fisher for helping her say enough is enough!
Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the morning show.
One of our favorite interns, Stephanie.
This is your second round with us, right yeah, yeah, Stephanie as as a student at Fordham University, and you've done a lot of work with other entities other than our show at iHeart, including iHeart Broadway.
Right, yes, I have so. In doing so, you met.
Several Broadway stars, including one of my favorite guys, Jordan Fisher, who we love.
He's amazing, he is.
He's got really white teeth, yeah, good kids, got good teeth, great voice.
We've known him for many years. Actually, wasn't he just in Urine Town?
He was, Yes, and now he's going to be in mu On Rouge as well.
You're you're in. Yeah, just look it up to pee. Its weird.
Yeah, you know if you're going to have a slogan. Uh So, Okay, the whole point of those stories, you were talking to Jordan Fisher during the interview process and off and you started talking about a friend of yours.
Tell me the conversation.
Yeah. Basically what happened is he came in for a shoe with iHeartRadio Broadway and Diana was really doing all the interviewing, and then at that very end he was very personal with everyone working the set. So he was talking about he made a reference to a show that he loves called The Boys, which I've never seen before. Supposed to be great. Yep, never seen it though, but I asked him if he's seen gen V because that's the spin off based on like all the kids of the people on the show The Boys, And he was like, oh my gosh, you've seen that, but not The Boys. I go, yeah, my friend made me watch it. He's like, what friend would make you watch that first instead of The Boys? Like they're toxic and that the next day, kid, you not that friend? And I ended it blocked up on everything, like no longer friends.
But that's no offense. But there must be more toxic stuff going on. Yeah, we super toxic. It like a little bit of a petty reason to drop a friend.
Not because of that, but that helped me like like justify.
It really, Yeah that was the tipping point.
Yeah, So so okay, more about friend. I mean, you said there was toxic things going on already, Yeah, how long had you wanted to end this relationship? A lot of people listening are going through the same thing with at least one toxic friend.
So last semester he was really like not loyal to me, Like he was hanging out with people that have hurt me in the past or been like terrible roommates to me. So I'm like, okay, like you were there for me and we're consoling me when all that was happening. How come now you're just going around and hanging out with them like it's nothing right. So then then like my red flags were raised for that, and I almost ended it then last semester, but then this semester he did basically the same thing but worse, and I was like, okay, yeah, done, And Jordan Fisher said so so why not?
Wow? We all needed Jordan Fisher in all that we do. I mean, this story really has nothing to do with Jordan Fisher.
Nobody helps me, like get.
Over it, okay, okay, yeah. If someone says, so, why do you drop a Joey as your friend? Well, A B and C.
And the final straw was, is Jordan Fisher from Broadway from You're in town where you have to pay to pee.
Right told me to drop him as a friend exactly.
And so as you're having this conversation everyone in the room and everyone listening right now, you know, when you're driving to work right now, you're listening to this going Okay, I can name that one friend of my life that I need to crap can right now right because I can think of one. Yeah, I can think of one, absolutely. And why do we hold on to them for so long? Do we expect them to change?
Definitely? I think so. And like at that point, like I just can't change how he feels, like if he wants to hang out with those people, I can't just tell him not to.
Did she ever tell him? Look, the things you're doing are hurting me a little bit. Oh yeah, and that didn't matter.
Nope?
All right, kind of says a lot about this guy. Yeah, it's either immaturity or he's going to be a narcissist pig the rest of his life.
Both.
Wait, Wait, how are we sure that Sevani's not the toxic one?
Well, we're not sure, but she but she's here and he's not. So there's that's true.
Behind her back when she walks out the door, dam, we're gonna lighter on fire. You know what having toxic people in your life is, it's from the little bitty things that irritate you all the way to the god the Gabby story on Netflix. When you're in a domestic violent violence relationship, I mean, that's at the top of the heap where we keep these people in our lives and we we don't we don't flush them out fast enough. For whatever reason, we hold on to them we think they're going to change, or we depend on them because we don't want to be lonely.
Or whatever.
We got all we all need to find that power within to take care of ourselves.
What if you work with them and you have no choice? Why are you looking at God deep?
Daniel?
You know what, that is a good point. That is a good point. Or sometimes you can't help it. You can't just say, hey, you gotta go. Yeah.
Well, employment is a sort of marriage, right and you there's a there's a bond, there's a contract. Well I need to pay the bills. They're like kids defeat and I get it. You know, if once we figure out a way to take care of ourselves first, put ourselves first without too much collateral damage, then we win. And it's all ways. Your good friends and people you read about who finally shed themselves of that awful boyfriend or husband or wife or whatever, or that awful boss or that awful friend, and they talk about how life changed after they finally made that decision.
You know what I'm saying. Yeah, absolutely.
When I think about my life and a friendship or relationship that I've been ready to end, I always used to think, I'm just gonna wait for things to turn around, because maybe this person's in a bad place. And if you keep waiting for the right time, you're just gonna wait forever. And time is the one thing you don't get back. So when you see the red flags, just got to cut it and go.
And we're all guilty of it. Yeah.
Anyway, look, you know, thank you, Stephanie. This is supposed to be about a Broadway a Broadway actor telling you to cut a friendship, but you turned into something deeper.
Yeah, thank you. So therefore I'm so glad you came back for your second term with us.
Yeah, and life is better now.
There you go. Thank you. In turn, Stephanie from Fordham University.
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