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It's the after Party podcast. Hi, y'all, y'all do it? So, you know, years and years ago, we used to have this event that we threw from time to time called the meat Market way before you were here, Gandhi, long long time ago, before you Nate actually, and so at these meat markets get togethers, we would meet at Webster Hall or some other huge place a venue in New York City, and we would invite people to come to meet other people, singles, single people, and of course, you know, a couple of married creepers got in there. But we always wondered, like god, those many years ago, did they ever work? Did anyone ever meet anyone at our meat market? We would play games and introduce people and it was a very fun time. Well that was years ago. We stopped doing them. The other day, Scary was on I Think X and he saw a listener post his entrance badge number on on social media from all those years ago. His name is Joel. We got in touch with him.
You want to meet him?
Yeah, here's Joel. Hi Joel welcome to the show.
How are you, what's happening? How are we doing?
We're doing okay, So this is wild. You came to our meat market at Webster Hall, what twenty five years ago?
Oh yeah. It was a bunch of guys from Hoboken. What to do tonight? And we will always listen to you guys, and let's try this meat market thing out.
So you show up with your you show up with you your bros. And you put on your registration, your tag with the big number. Do you remember what your number was? What number were you?
Was?
Number eight fifty five. We were featured in the catalog because it was a meat market, so they called the catalog right, the cattle catalog.
It was like a description of you, right, like what your likes?
Yeah, I believe, I believe you know. It was like what your what your likes is a mountain biking and cooking and some of our friends had some stuff. I really can't say, but it was a fun time. It was definitely cool.
It was like a pamphlet of tinder profiles.
Yeah, basically all the women would get it when as soon as they entered the meat market.
That many people sometimes yeah, sometimes we had we do it outside what was then known as South Street Seaport. We did one there. That's where Scary yelled at the guy would playing the game who was using his hands and it wasn't supposed to and he started screaming, no hands, no hands, and realized the guy had no hands. Remember anyway, so Joel was there and uh, so the night starts going. We're up on stage, you know, being everybody, but you met someone? Did you meet Diane?
So we were we were dancing and the guys just hanging out. When I think they I spink people still dance at clubs, but uh, back then, I was wearing the tag and I believe Skeary and Greg and Covey were giving away a trip to Hawaii and this blonde girl walked up and he said, I want to go to Hawaii. I said, I'll take you, and then we just started dancing and that you know, at the end of the night, we had we had a kiss goodbye, and I just told her not to wait for three days to call me.
Yeah, and then what happened?
Tell us more keep going then. I was so drunk then and I don't remember what you looked like. So when she came to my apartment a hobok, and I was praying that she was a good looking so, you know, I looked over the stairs when she was coming up to the second floor. I was like, oh, thank god, No.
This is.
Good, this is good.
Now.
You gotta keep in mind, this happened. This happened twenty five years ago. So what did you take Diane to Hawaii?
We did go to Hawaii, Yeah, we did. We went the islands and we had a great time and got married. They have two beautiful children. Yeah, they were going on a twenty three years of marriage in May.
May. Wow.
Wow, are the kids still living with you? You and Diane still have the kids in the house? Are they done? Now?
We have two dogs in the house that we are empty nesters. I have a son born in the University of Florida, he's a pater, and my daughters at Coastal Carolina. So twenty year old.
Amazing, all because of our silly, our silly little meat market. Look at that. That's awesome. There you go. So I must assume that more people who met at these events got together as well. You know, maybe maybe it didn't turn out as happy as you guys, but that's that's crazy. That's how long we've been around, guys A long time.
Yeah, what was the thing when people celebrating anniversaries on T one hundred, would you always say and they never had a fight, right, yeah, they never had a fight. We never had a fight.
Well, yeah, we stop stop saying that because we assumed that everyone's.
When you guys have a fight. Do you blame Elvis?
Oh stop yeah, yeah, he's the one. He was down in the pit getting them together. Wow, that is so crazy. So any questions for Joel? This is awesome.
Did you invite anybody from the show to your wedding?
I believe Scary was at my wedding?
Yeah you were.
We actually became close as a result of this. This is your friend he yeah, well I haven't spoken him in a long long time. He just reached out to us on X that today's the day. So I haven't seen Joel in years and years, but I did end up going to his wedding.
Wow. Wow wow.
I don't know if Greg t went as well, but yeah, but yeah, it was fun.
That's awesome.
See, there are good things that have come out of this awful, awful show.
Do you know that when my parents met, my dad was drunk and he didn't remember what my mom looked like either. He found a piece of paper in his like wallet or something, and he's like, oh, I think I probably should call this person, and they wound up calling and then yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
The way people our friend of Ki is married to Rnita. He met her by knocking on the wrong door one day. Oh wow, and now they're married with three kids.
Yeah, there's there's a hope for you. Can we this event back?
It was a great event.
I think this is a fantastic idea. Yeah yeah, most of the game.
Joel found the love of his life. For god, what we're gonna say, Joel?
What was that Vitamin C was performing? It was that one song?
What was that song? Something about squol Rember now the graduation song? Oh yeah, okay, there you go, Vitamin C. We had some real clunkers at some of those shows. I'm not saying she's a clunker.
Yeah, Gandhi, I think now's the time to bring it back because people are lonelier than they've ever been. Everybody complains about dating apps and how terrible they are, and it's impossible to find somebody you just want to know about that chemistry and you're face to face. Now is the time.
Let's do it everything.
What people have to be able to, you know, to actually communicate with one another, because everyone's always looked at their phones.
It's a different time them up in those bags.
I Elvis, you may be interested. I've found a lot of younger people aren't even trying the apps. They've already given up on the dating apps.
Wow. Wow, so they want to just need somebody, like at a meat market lame date dinners. That was so much fun when we.
Do oh, I got look, I got scared doing the blind date dinners and the meat marks. I was afraid someone was going to take someone take someone on a date like they they'll find them in a closet dead. So thank god you didn't kill your wife, Diane. I'm so happy.
No, no, no, no, wow.
Things have changed so much since then, So maybe we can try to apply this maybe, you know, the blind date inners were interesting some of the but when you had it on match like we did with these thousands of people that came to these events, that was a big thing.
Because I know it was a lot of did we even vet anybody back like we didn't. I think it was just sign up and show up.
That's what Yeah, show up.
That was it.
Come on, psycho killers, let's have a party.
That's what it was.
Any well, Joel, thanks for sharing that with us, and please give Dian our best and our congratulations to twenty five years together. And you met at our meat market. I love that. Thank you, Joel.
That's awesome.
Thank you guys the best.
Have a great day.
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