One of the biggest issues couples face is unmet expectations. Have we ever considered the possibility of those expectations being unrealistic? Today’s guests are Diane and Charles Wolford, pastors of Cross Point Bible Fellowship, and they’ve agreed to leave the cloak at home to keep it L.I.T. as they candidly share their wisdom on, “Unrealistic Unmet Expectations.”



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One of the biggest issues couples face is unmet expectations. Have we ever considered the possibility of those expectations being unrealistic? Today’s guests are Diane and Charles Wolford, pastors of Cross Point Bible Fellowship, and they’ve agreed to leave the cloak at home to keep it L.I.T. as they candidly share their wisdom on, “Unrealistic Unmet Expectations.”
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Journey with me, Laterras R. Whitfield, as I discover, uncover, and recover love. From interviews with singles, married, divorcees, and maybe even those in polyamorous relationships, we promise every episode to be L.I.T. (Living Intentionally Transparent).

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Journey with Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield, co-hosts of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, as they discover, uncover, and recover love—together.

Created as a platform for Laterras’ public healing after divorce, the podcast has evolved into a powerful space where real love stories are told with honesty, wisdom, and depth. Now joined by his wife Ashley, the conversations expand to include both personal reflection and shared perspective on love, marriage, and growth.

Through candid dialogue with relationship experts, celebrities, and everyday people, Laterras and Ashley dive deep into the realities of relationships—exploring love, loss, healing, and what it truly takes to build something lasting.

Whether you’re searching for love, strengthening your marriage, or healing from heartbreak, Dear Future Wifey offers heartfelt insight, practical tools, and transparent conversations to guide the journey.

Subscribe and join Laterras and Ashley as they continue to live intentionally and transparently.

Journey with&nbsp;Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield, co-hosts of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, as they discover, uncover, and recover love&mdash;together.
Created as a platform for Laterras&rsquo; public healing after divorce, the podcast has evolved into a powerful space where real love stories are told with honesty, wisdom, and depth. Now joined by his wife Ashley, the conversations expand to include both personal reflection and shared perspective on love, marriage, and growth.
Through candid dialogue with relationship experts, celebrities, and everyday people, Laterras and Ashley dive deep into the realities of relationships&mdash;exploring love, loss, healing, and what it truly takes to build something lasting.
Whether you&rsquo;re searching for love, strengthening your marriage, or healing from heartbreak, Dear Future Wifey offers heartfelt insight, practical tools, and transparent conversations to guide the journey.
Subscribe and join Laterras and Ashley as they continue to live intentionally and transparently.

One of the biggest issues couples face is unmet expectations. Have we ever considered the possibility of those expectations being unrealistic? Today’s guests are Diane and Charles Wolford, pastors of Cross Point Bible Fellowship, and they’ve agreed to leave the cloak at home to keep it L.I.T. as they candidly share their wisdom on, “Unrealistic Unmet Expectations.”

Unrealistic Unmet Expectations (Guests: Diane & Charles Wolford)

Welcome to Dear Future Wifey Podcast

Book Promotion and Upcoming Live Event

Introducing the Dynamic Couple

The Power of Servant Leadership

Overcoming Mental Health Challenges Together

The Importance of Communication in

Marriage at a Young Age: A Successful

From Friendship to Forever

Navigating Menopause and Building a Strong

The Prevalence of Menopause

Navigating Hormonal Changes

The Importance of Consistency in

Supporting Partners Through Menopause

The Power of Hugs and Emotional Support

Love and Relationship Tour Promotion

Reconciling Family Relationships

The Value of Communication in Marriage

Closing Thoughts on Long-Term Marriage

In this unforgettable episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield sits down with gospel music icons, actors, and beloved husband-and-wife duo David Mann and Tamela Mann for a powerful conversation about love, faith, and the journey of building a marriage that lasts.

 

David and Tamela reflect on the early days of their love story, including how they met while David was performing in a trio with Kirk Franklin. What began as a musical connection eventually led to years of traveling the world together while touring with Kirk Franklin and serving in ministry through music.

 

Throughout the conversation, the couple shares candid moments from their decades-long marriage—discussing the importance of faith, laughter, and choosing each other through every season. David also opens up about his mental health struggles, offering an honest look at the battles he has faced and the role Tamela’s love and support have played in his healing journey.

 

Tamela, in turn, speaks about what it means to stand beside your spouse through difficult seasons, while David proudly expresses how he remains her biggest fan, celebrating her gifts, her success, and the woman she continues to become.

 

With humor, vulnerability, and wisdom, this episode highlights the power of partnership, perseverance, and keeping God at the center of your relationship.

 

Whether you’re single, dating, or married, David and Tamela’s story is a beautiful reminder that love grows stronger when two people commit to walking through life—together.

 

 

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In this unforgettable episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield sits down with gospel music icons, actors, and beloved husband-and-wife duo David Mann and Tamela Mann for a powerful conversation about love, faith, and the journey of building a marriage that lasts.
&nbsp;
David and Tamela reflect on the early days of their love story, including how they met while David was performing in a trio with Kirk Franklin. What began as a musical connection eventually led to years of traveling the world together while touring with Kirk Franklin and serving in ministry through music.
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Throughout the conversation, the couple shares candid moments from their decades-long marriage&mdash;discussing the importance of faith, laughter, and choosing each other through every season. David also opens up about his mental health struggles, offering an honest look at the battles he has faced and the role Tamela&rsquo;s love and support have played in his healing journey.
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Tamela, in turn, speaks about what it means to stand beside your spouse through difficult seasons, while David proudly expresses how he remains her biggest fan, celebrating her gifts, her success, and the woman she continues to become.
&nbsp;
With humor, vulnerability, and wisdom, this episode highlights the power of partnership, perseverance, and keeping God at the center of your relationship.
&nbsp;
Whether you&rsquo;re single, dating, or married, David and Tamela&rsquo;s story is a beautiful reminder that love grows stronger when two people commit to walking through life&mdash;together.
&nbsp;
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#DearFutureWifey #DavidAndTamelaMann #KirkFranklin #Marriage #FaithAndFamily #BlackLove #LaterrasWhitfield
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Laughing Our Way (Guests: David & Tamela Mann) 

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Intro

The Preacher's Message

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Student of Love Book Promotion

Meet Julika and Joshua

The Power of Authenticity in Ministry

The Journey to Public Courting

Prayer and Support in Relationships

Balancing Public and Private Life

Challenging Traditional Masculinity

The Path to Marriage

The First Encounter - A TikTok Connection

A Year of Longing and Preparation

The First DM - Overcoming Fear and Doubt

Julika's Perspective - A Mutual Friend and

The Power of Purpose in Relationships

The Ring Dilemma - Perfection vs. Commitment

The Promise Ring Ceremony

A Year of Dating and Growth

Key to Love: Julika's Insight

Key to Love: Josh's Perspective on Sacrifice

Introducing Kingdom Royal

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Social media makes love look effortless.
But what happens behind the posts?

In this powerful episode of Dear Future Wifey, Joshua & Jalyka — the viral social media couple known for their chemistry, humor, and transparency — open up about what it really takes to build a relationship that lasts.

From sliding in the DMs to navigating purpose, pressure, and public perception, they share:

• How they knew this was “the one”
• The challenges nobody sees online
• Setting boundaries in a public relationship
• Faith, accountability, and keeping God at the center
• What dating with intention actually looks like

This conversation is real, refreshing, and deeply relatable for singles, couples, and anyone believing God for love done right.

If you’ve ever wondered how to balance influence, intimacy, and integrity — this episode is for you.

✨ Watch until the end for the advice they would give their “future spouse selves.”

Subscribe for more conversations that prepare you for the love you’re praying for.

#DearFutureWifey #JoshuaAndJalyka #ChristianDating #RelationshipGoals #FaithAndLove #KingdomMarriage

Social media makes love look effortless. But what happens behind the posts?
In this powerful episode of Dear Future Wifey, Joshua &amp; Jalyka &mdash; the viral social media couple known for their chemistry, humor, and transparency &mdash; open up about what it really takes to build a relationship that lasts.
From sliding in the DMs to navigating purpose, pressure, and public perception, they share:
&bull; How they knew this was &ldquo;the one&rdquo; &bull; The challenges nobody sees online &bull; Setting boundaries in a public relationship &bull; Faith, accountability, and keeping God at the center &bull; What dating with intention actually looks like
This conversation is real, refreshing, and deeply relatable for singles, couples, and anyone believing God for love done right.
If you&rsquo;ve ever wondered how to balance influence, intimacy, and integrity &mdash; this episode is for you.
✨ Watch until the end for the advice they would give their &ldquo;future spouse selves.&rdquo;
Subscribe for more conversations that prepare you for the love you&rsquo;re praying for.
#DearFutureWifey #JoshuaAndJalyka #ChristianDating #RelationshipGoals #FaithAndLove #KingdomMarriage

Young Love, Old Souls (Guests: Joshua Hoover & Jalyka Smith)

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In this powerful episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield sits down with Brian & Alexis Cole for an honest conversation about love, growth, and building a life rooted in faith and commitment.

Known for their transparency and authenticity, the couple opens up about their love story, the lessons they’ve learned through marriage, and the intentional work required to stay connected through every season. They share candid insights on navigating challenges, strengthening their foundation, and choosing each other daily—even when it isn’t easy.

Together, they discuss the importance of communication, shared values, and spiritual alignment, as well as the reality of growing individually while remaining united as one. With both wisdom and vulnerability, they reveal how their journey has shaped their purpose and deepened their understanding of covenant.

This conversation is filled with practical encouragement, heartfelt moments, and powerful reminders that strong marriages aren’t built on perfection—but on commitment, grace, and the willingness to grow together.

Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this episode will inspire you to build love that lasts.

#DearFutureWifey #TheColeLife #Marriage #ChristianMarriage #RelationshipGoals 

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In this powerful episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield sits down with Brian &amp; Alexis Cole for an honest conversation about love, growth, and building a life rooted in faith and commitment.
Known for their transparency and authenticity, the couple opens up about their love story, the lessons they&rsquo;ve learned through marriage, and the intentional work required to stay connected through every season. They share candid insights on navigating challenges, strengthening their foundation, and choosing each other daily&mdash;even when it isn&rsquo;t easy.
Together, they discuss the importance of communication, shared values, and spiritual alignment, as well as the reality of growing individually while remaining united as one. With both wisdom and vulnerability, they reveal how their journey has shaped their purpose and deepened their understanding of covenant.
This conversation is filled with practical encouragement, heartfelt moments, and powerful reminders that strong marriages aren&rsquo;t built on perfection&mdash;but on commitment, grace, and the willingness to grow together.
Whether you&rsquo;re single, dating, or married, this episode will inspire you to build love that lasts.
#DearFutureWifey #TheColeLife #Marriage #ChristianMarriage #RelationshipGoals&nbsp;
WITH OUR GUEST
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&nbsp;
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Inter-Ethnic Love (Guests: Brian & Alexis Cole)

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