In this powerful episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield sits down with Brian & Alexis Cole for an honest conversation about love, growth, and building a life rooted in faith and commitment.

Known for their transparency and authenticity, the couple opens up about their love story, the lessons they’ve learned through marriage, and the intentional work required to stay connected through every season. They share candid insights on navigating challenges, strengthening their foundation, and choosing each other daily—even when it isn’t easy.

Together, they discuss the importance of communication, shared values, and spiritual alignment, as well as the reality of growing individually while remaining united as one. With both wisdom and vulnerability, they reveal how their journey has shaped their purpose and deepened their understanding of covenant.

This conversation is filled with practical encouragement, heartfelt moments, and powerful reminders that strong marriages aren’t built on perfection—but on commitment, grace, and the willingness to grow together.

Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this episode will inspire you to build love that lasts.

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In this powerful episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield sits down with Brian &amp; Alexis Cole for an honest conversation about love, growth, and building a life rooted in faith and commitment.
Known for their transparency and authenticity, the couple opens up about their love story, the lessons they&rsquo;ve learned through marriage, and the intentional work required to stay connected through every season. They share candid insights on navigating challenges, strengthening their foundation, and choosing each other daily&mdash;even when it isn&rsquo;t easy.
Together, they discuss the importance of communication, shared values, and spiritual alignment, as well as the reality of growing individually while remaining united as one. With both wisdom and vulnerability, they reveal how their journey has shaped their purpose and deepened their understanding of covenant.
This conversation is filled with practical encouragement, heartfelt moments, and powerful reminders that strong marriages aren&rsquo;t built on perfection&mdash;but on commitment, grace, and the willingness to grow together.
Whether you&rsquo;re single, dating, or married, this episode will inspire you to build love that lasts.
#DearFutureWifey #TheColeLife #Marriage #ChristianMarriage #RelationshipGoals&nbsp;
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Journey with me, Laterras R. Whitfield, as I discover, uncover, and recover love. From interviews with singles, married, divorcees, and maybe even those in polyamorous relationships, we promise every episode to be L.I.T. (Living Intentionally Transparent).

Dear Future Wifey

Journey with Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield, co-hosts of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, as they discover, uncover, and recover love—together.

Created as a platform for Laterras’ public healing after divorce, the podcast has evolved into a powerful space where real love stories are told with honesty, wisdom, and depth. Now joined by his wife Ashley, the conversations expand to include both personal reflection and shared perspective on love, marriage, and growth.

Through candid dialogue with relationship experts, celebrities, and everyday people, Laterras and Ashley dive deep into the realities of relationships—exploring love, loss, healing, and what it truly takes to build something lasting.

Whether you’re searching for love, strengthening your marriage, or healing from heartbreak, Dear Future Wifey offers heartfelt insight, practical tools, and transparent conversations to guide the journey.

Subscribe and join Laterras and Ashley as they continue to live intentionally and transparently.

Journey with&nbsp;Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield, co-hosts of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, as they discover, uncover, and recover love&mdash;together.
Created as a platform for Laterras&rsquo; public healing after divorce, the podcast has evolved into a powerful space where real love stories are told with honesty, wisdom, and depth. Now joined by his wife Ashley, the conversations expand to include both personal reflection and shared perspective on love, marriage, and growth.
Through candid dialogue with relationship experts, celebrities, and everyday people, Laterras and Ashley dive deep into the realities of relationships&mdash;exploring love, loss, healing, and what it truly takes to build something lasting.
Whether you&rsquo;re searching for love, strengthening your marriage, or healing from heartbreak, Dear Future Wifey offers heartfelt insight, practical tools, and transparent conversations to guide the journey.
Subscribe and join Laterras and Ashley as they continue to live intentionally and transparently.

Inter-Ethnic Love (Guests: Brian & Alexis Cole)

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Setting the Stage for Dear Future Wifey

The Power of Clarity in Relationships

The Birth of Dear Future Husband

A Journey of Prayer and Transformation

The Proposal and Wedding at the Same Spot

Marriage, Singleness, and Biblical

The Bible's Perspective on Singleness and

The Power of Positive Mindset in

The Importance of Faith and Hope in Dating

The Pitfalls of Dating Lists and Standards

Redefining Attraction and Completeness in

The Need for Healthy Masculinity Models

Nurturing Growth and Confidence in

The Value of Prayer and Commitment in

Testimonies and the Impact of "Dear Future

Closing Thoughts and Call to Action

In this transparent and faith-filled episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield sits down with Christian Bevere, host of the Dear Future Husband podcast, to talk about love, identity, and trusting God’s timing from singleness to marriage.

 

Christian shares how her platform began while she was praying for her future husband, documenting her journey of faith, preparation, and surrender long before she ever met him. She opens up about the incredible testimony of meeting her husband and getting married within just seven months, and the spiritual clarity that gave her confidence in their covenant.

 

She also speaks candidly about the pressures of marrying into a well-known ministry family as the daughter-in-law of John and Lisa Bevere, and how she had to guard her identity, her voice, and her marriage while navigating expectations and public perception.

 

In addition, Christian discusses the heart behind her new books, sharing how her personal seasons of waiting, becoming, and marrying inspired her message to others who are believing God for love.

 

This conversation is filled with wisdom for singles and newlyweds alike—covering the reality of waiting, the responsibility of marriage, and the importance of becoming secure in who God called you to be before saying “I do.”

 

Whether you’re in a season of preparation or promise, this episode will encourage you to trust God’s process with your love story.

 

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In this transparent and faith-filled episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield sits down with Christian Bevere, host of the Dear Future Husband podcast, to talk about love, identity, and trusting God&rsquo;s timing from singleness to marriage.
&nbsp;
Christian shares how her platform began while she was praying for her future husband, documenting her journey of faith, preparation, and surrender long before she ever met him. She opens up about the incredible testimony of meeting her husband and getting married within just seven months, and the spiritual clarity that gave her confidence in their covenant.
&nbsp;
She also speaks candidly about the pressures of marrying into a well-known ministry family as the daughter-in-law of John and Lisa Bevere, and how she had to guard her identity, her voice, and her marriage while navigating expectations and public perception.
&nbsp;
In addition, Christian discusses the heart behind her new books, sharing how her personal seasons of waiting, becoming, and marrying inspired her message to others who are believing God for love.
&nbsp;
This conversation is filled with wisdom for singles and newlyweds alike&mdash;covering the reality of waiting, the responsibility of marriage, and the importance of becoming secure in who God called you to be before saying &ldquo;I do.&rdquo;
&nbsp;
Whether you&rsquo;re in a season of preparation or promise, this episode will encourage you to trust God&rsquo;s process with your love story.
&nbsp;
#DearFutureWifey #ChristianBevere #DearFutureHusband #MarriageTestimony #ChristianDating #FaithAndLove
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How To Get A Husband (Guest: Christian Bevere)

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Welcome to Dear Future Wifey

Valentine's Day Reflections and Self-Date

The Importance of Marriage and Personal

The Journey to Finding "The One"

Subscribe to Dear Future Wifey Podcast

Ashley's Role as Co-Host and Upcoming Events

The Proposal Story

Dating Yourself on Valentine's Day

God's Unwavering Commitment

The Power of Authenticity in Relationships

From Friend to Fiancé: The Strength of

The Bahamas: A Spiritual Refuge

The Bahamas: A Haven of Peace and Joy

Cultivating Peace and Spirituality at Home

Embracing Discomfort for Personal Growth

Emotional Intelligence: The Key to Navigating

The Power of Being a Student of Love

The Eight Types of Love

Setting Intentions and Trusting in God's Plan

Upcoming Events and Closing Thoughts

Kingdom Royal - A Home for Foster Boys

In this special solo episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield interviews himself while his co-host and bride, Ashley, is in Los Angeles working the GRAMMYs and the Super Bowl.

 

With vulnerability and gratitude, Laterras reflects on the first three months of marriage, sharing what has surprised him, stretched him, and strengthened their union. From newlywed adjustments to spiritual growth, he opens up about what this new season has truly been like behind the scenes.

 

For the first time ever, Laterras also shares never-before-seen footage from his proposal, giving viewers an intimate look at the moment that changed everything.

 

But this episode isn’t just about marriage—it’s about the journey to it. Laterras offers heartfelt encouragement to those who are still waiting on their spouse, reminding them that waiting is not punishment—it’s preparation. He speaks directly to the singles who have prayed, hoped, and trusted God through seasons of delay.

 

This episode is reflective, inspiring, and deeply personal—a reminder that love is worth the wait, and when the promise arrives, it will have been worth every process.

 

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In this special solo episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield interviews himself while his co-host and bride, Ashley, is in Los Angeles working the GRAMMYs and the Super Bowl.
&nbsp;
With vulnerability and gratitude, Laterras reflects on the first three months of marriage, sharing what has surprised him, stretched him, and strengthened their union. From newlywed adjustments to spiritual growth, he opens up about what this new season has truly been like behind the scenes.
&nbsp;
For the first time ever, Laterras also shares never-before-seen footage from his proposal, giving viewers an intimate look at the moment that changed everything.
&nbsp;
But this episode isn&rsquo;t just about marriage&mdash;it&rsquo;s about the journey to it. Laterras offers heartfelt encouragement to those who are still waiting on their spouse, reminding them that waiting is not punishment&mdash;it&rsquo;s preparation. He speaks directly to the singles who have prayed, hoped, and trusted God through seasons of delay.
&nbsp;
This episode is reflective, inspiring, and deeply personal&mdash;a reminder that love is worth the wait, and when the promise arrives, it will have been worth every process.
&nbsp;
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Pray Your Faith Fails Not (Guest: Laterras R. Whitfield)

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In this special returning guests episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield welcomes back Dotha & Chanell Sykes for a refreshingly real conversation about love, faith, and navigating uncertainty together.

 

The couple opens up about Dotha’s life as a professional stunt double, pulling back the curtain on the instability that often comes with a career in Hollywood and how that uncertainty impacted their relationship. They candidly revisit the early days of their love story—when Dotha was unemployed—and discuss modern dating norms, expectations, and whether Chanell would recommend dating a man who’s in between jobs.

 

Together, they dive into the importance of shared values, mutual support, and what it truly means to take care of one another through sickness and health—not just in theory, but in real life. The conversation is layered with wisdom, laughter, and honesty as they share how comedy—both literally and figuratively—became a source of healing, strength, and connection in their marriage.

 

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&nbsp;
In this special returning guests episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield welcomes back Dotha &amp; Chanell Sykes for a refreshingly real conversation about love, faith, and navigating uncertainty together.
&nbsp;
The couple opens up about Dotha&rsquo;s life as a professional stunt double, pulling back the curtain on the instability that often comes with a career in Hollywood and how that uncertainty impacted their relationship. They candidly revisit the early days of their love story&mdash;when Dotha was unemployed&mdash;and discuss modern dating norms, expectations, and whether Chanell would recommend dating a man who&rsquo;s in between jobs.
&nbsp;
Together, they dive into the importance of shared values, mutual support, and what it truly means to take care of one another through sickness and health&mdash;not just in theory, but in real life. The conversation is layered with wisdom, laughter, and honesty as they share how comedy&mdash;both literally and figuratively&mdash;became a source of healing, strength, and connection in their marriage.
&nbsp;
This episode is equal parts practical and playful, offering encouragement to couples, singles, and anyone navigating love in the middle of uncertainty.
&nbsp;
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Healed My Heart (Guests: Dotha & Chanell Sykes)

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Inter-Ethnic Love (Guests: Brian & Alexis Cole)

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