Marriage is a continual journey of discovering self while discovering the intricacies of your mate. Randy Sneed, a therapist, biggest client is himself. As he's navigating health issues with his wife, Alicia, he's learning what total surrender looks like in a marriage. Alicia is a devout Christian who only has eyes for her husband. This episode is titled, "Therapy & Marriage."



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Marriage is a continual journey of discovering self while discovering the intricacies of your mate. Randy Sneed, a therapist, biggest client is himself. As he's navigating health issues with his wife, Alicia, he's learning what total surrender looks like in a marriage. Alicia is a devout Christian who only has eyes for her husband. This episode is titled, "Therapy &amp; Marriage."
 
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Journey with me, Laterras R. Whitfield, as I discover, uncover, and recover love. From interviews with singles, married, divorcees, and maybe even those in polyamorous relationships, we promise every episode to be L.I.T. (Living Intentionally Transparent).

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Journey with&nbsp;Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield, co-hosts of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, as they discover, uncover, and recover love&mdash;together.
Created as a platform for Laterras&rsquo; public healing after divorce, the podcast has evolved into a powerful space where real love stories are told with honesty, wisdom, and depth. Now joined by his wife Ashley, the conversations expand to include both personal reflection and shared perspective on love, marriage, and growth.
Through candid dialogue with relationship experts, celebrities, and everyday people, Laterras and Ashley dive deep into the realities of relationships&mdash;exploring love, loss, healing, and what it truly takes to build something lasting.
Whether you&rsquo;re searching for love, strengthening your marriage, or healing from heartbreak, Dear Future Wifey offers heartfelt insight, practical tools, and transparent conversations to guide the journey.
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Therapy & Marriage (Guests: Randy & Alicia Sneed)

Courtney and Joshua Washington had preferences. Strong ones. And according to those preferences, they should have never ended up together. Courtney had made up her mind that she didn’t want Black children, so dating Black men wasn’t part of her plan. Joshua was equally certain about his own non-negotiable: he didn’t want to date a woman with children. Courtney had four. On paper, they were everything the other person said they didn’t want.

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Courtney and Joshua Washington had preferences. Strong ones. And according to those preferences, they should have never ended up together. Courtney had made up her mind that she didn&rsquo;t want Black children, so dating Black men wasn&rsquo;t part of her plan. Joshua was equally certain about his own non-negotiable: he didn&rsquo;t want to date a woman with children. Courtney had four. On paper, they were everything the other person said they didn&rsquo;t want.
But sometimes God has to deliver you from your preferences before He can introduce you to His provision. In this powerful episode of "Dear Future Wifey", Courtney and Joshua unpack how God challenged their biases, dismantled their checklists, and revealed how preferences can sometimes become barriers to the very love we&rsquo;ve been praying for. Their story asks a provocative question: "What if the person God has for you doesn&rsquo;t look anything like the person you&rsquo;ve been looking for?"
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God Delivered Us From Our Preferences (Guests: Joshua & Courtney Washington)

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Lisa Nichols has inspired millions to believe they are worthy of more, but when love finally showed up for her, receiving it became the real work.

In this powerful episode of Dear Future Wifey, Lisa and Marcellus Hall unpack the eight-year journey that eventually led them to love. Lisa reveals how past heartbreak caused her to prejudge Marcellus for things he had never done, creating scenarios in her mind and nearly self-sabotaging the relationship before giving him the opportunity to show her who he truly was.

Marcellus shares what it took to patiently love a woman who was still learning how to receive the very love she deserved.

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Lisa Nichols has inspired millions to believe they are worthy of more, but when love finally showed up for her, receiving it became the real work.
In this powerful episode of&nbsp;Dear Future Wifey, Lisa and Marcellus Hall unpack the eight-year journey that eventually led them to love. Lisa reveals how past heartbreak caused her to prejudge Marcellus for things he had never done, creating scenarios in her mind and nearly self-sabotaging the relationship before giving him the opportunity to show her who he truly was.
Marcellus shares what it took to patiently love a woman who was still learning how to receive the very love she deserved.
This conversation explores healing, vulnerability, self-sabotage, and the difficult truth that sometimes the greatest obstacle to healthy love isn&rsquo;t finding the right person. It&rsquo;s believing you&rsquo;re safe enough to receive them.
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The Love I Had To Heal For (Guests: Lisa Nichols & Marcellus Hall)

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Tareasa "Reesa Teesa" Johnson captivated millions with a story that sounded too unbelievable to be true. But behind the viral series was a real woman navigating heartbreak, deception, disappointment, and the painful realization that the person she loved wasn’t who she thought he was. In this powerful episode of Dear Future Wifey, Reesa Teesa sits down with Laterras and Ashley R. Whitfield for a conversation that goes beyond the headlines and viral moments.

She opens up about the emotional aftermath of her marriage, the red flags that became clearer in hindsight, and what the experience revealed about her own desires, vulnerabilities, and relationship patterns. But this conversation isn’t simply about who lied. It’s about what happens after the truth sets you free. Reesa shares how telling her story publicly changed her life, what healing looks like when millions of people know your heartbreak, and how she’s learning to trust herself again while remaining open to the possibility of healthy love.

This is the story beyond the story. It’s a journey from deception to discernment, heartbreak to healing, and becoming wiser without becoming hardened. Because sometimes the greatest lesson from loving the wrong person is finally learning how to recognize and receive the right kind of love.

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Tareasa "Reesa Teesa" Johnson captivated millions with a story that sounded too unbelievable to be true. But behind the viral series was a real woman navigating heartbreak, deception, disappointment, and the painful realization that the person she loved wasn&rsquo;t who she thought he was. In this powerful episode of Dear Future Wifey, Reesa Teesa sits down with Laterras and Ashley R. Whitfield for a conversation that goes beyond the headlines and viral moments.
She opens up about the emotional aftermath of her marriage, the red flags that became clearer in hindsight, and what the experience revealed about her own desires, vulnerabilities, and relationship patterns. But this conversation isn&rsquo;t simply about who lied. It&rsquo;s about what happens after the truth sets you free. Reesa shares how telling her story publicly changed her life, what healing looks like when millions of people know your heartbreak, and how she&rsquo;s learning to trust herself again while remaining open to the possibility of healthy love.
This is the story beyond the story. It&rsquo;s a journey from deception to discernment, heartbreak to healing, and becoming wiser without becoming hardened. Because sometimes the greatest lesson from loving the wrong person is finally learning how to recognize and receive the right kind of love.
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From Betrayal To Becoming (Guests: Tareasa "Reesa Teesa" Johnson)

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