Setting the Stage for Marriage Discussions

The Marriage Contract Mindset

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The Challenges of Dating and Relationships

Rob's Journey to Marriage

The Importance of Communication and Conflict

The "Might as Well" Mentality

Picky Preferences and Past Relationships

The Picky Nature of Rob's Dating Life

High School Heartbreak and Hair Changes

The Importance of Communication in

Rob's First Serious Relationship

The Challenges of Dating "Out of Your League"

Rob's Dating Philosophy and Self-Perception

The Importance of Protecting One's Heart

Rob's Views on Marriage and Family Planning

Closing Thoughts on Relationships and

Algorithm Insights and Secret Followers

Defiling and Personal Growth

The Power of Spicy Questions

Water Parks and Super Soakers

Kingdom Royal - A Home for Foster Boys

Love Letter to Future Wife

Closing Remarks and Call to Action

In this episode of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, host Laterras talks with Rob Howard about his journey to finding love and his views on marriage. Rob shares his thoughts on what he's looking for in a partner, including a business partner. He also discusses his past relationships, including a high school girlfriend who cheated on him, and how that experience shaped his views on love and commitment. Additionally, he talks about his current life as a single father and his desire to find a partner who can be a good teammate.

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In this episode of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, host Laterras talks with Rob Howard about his journey to finding love and his views on marriage. Rob shares his thoughts on what he's looking for in a partner, including a business partner. He also discusses his past relationships, including a high school girlfriend who cheated on him, and how that experience shaped his views on love and commitment. Additionally, he talks about his current life as a single father and his desire to find a partner who can be a good teammate.
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Journey with me, Laterras R. Whitfield, as I discover, uncover, and recover love. From interviews with singles, married, divorcees, and maybe even those in polyamorous relationships, we promise every episode to be L.I.T. (Living Intentionally Transparent).

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Journey with Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield, co-hosts of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, as they discover, uncover, and recover love—together.

Created as a platform for Laterras’ public healing after divorce, the podcast has evolved into a powerful space where real love stories are told with honesty, wisdom, and depth. Now joined by his wife Ashley, the conversations expand to include both personal reflection and shared perspective on love, marriage, and growth.

Through candid dialogue with relationship experts, celebrities, and everyday people, Laterras and Ashley dive deep into the realities of relationships—exploring love, loss, healing, and what it truly takes to build something lasting.

Whether you’re searching for love, strengthening your marriage, or healing from heartbreak, Dear Future Wifey offers heartfelt insight, practical tools, and transparent conversations to guide the journey.

Subscribe and join Laterras and Ashley as they continue to live intentionally and transparently.

Journey with&nbsp;Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield, co-hosts of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, as they discover, uncover, and recover love&mdash;together.
Created as a platform for Laterras&rsquo; public healing after divorce, the podcast has evolved into a powerful space where real love stories are told with honesty, wisdom, and depth. Now joined by his wife Ashley, the conversations expand to include both personal reflection and shared perspective on love, marriage, and growth.
Through candid dialogue with relationship experts, celebrities, and everyday people, Laterras and Ashley dive deep into the realities of relationships&mdash;exploring love, loss, healing, and what it truly takes to build something lasting.
Whether you&rsquo;re searching for love, strengthening your marriage, or healing from heartbreak, Dear Future Wifey offers heartfelt insight, practical tools, and transparent conversations to guide the journey.
Subscribe and join Laterras and Ashley as they continue to live intentionally and transparently.

Questions In Dating (Guest: Rob Howard)

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Setting the Stage for Dr. Cheyenne Bryant's

The Promise of Marriage

Mastering Celibacy and Emotional Regulation

A Journey of Transformation Through Letters

Welcome to The Dear Future WIFE Podcast

The Blended Family Dilemma

Navigating Relationships and Pivoting When

The Power of Prayer and God's Timing

From Entrepreneurship to Domestic Bliss

The Importance of Family and Children

Navigating Blended Families and Polyamory

The Importance of Being a Stepmother

Mastering Celibacy and God's Promises

The Story of Boaz and Ruth: A Lesson in

Balancing Free Will and Divine Guidance

Trusting God's Timing and Discernment

The Power of Discernment in Relationships

The Importance of Obedience and Submission

God's Timing and Singlehood

Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth

The Key to God's Peace in Singleness

Introducing "Live Your Promise" Book

The Book's Three-Part Approach to Alignment

The Impact of "Live Your Promise"

***DISCLAIMER*** This episode was recorded weeks before the recent online backlash surrounding Dr. Cheyenne Bryant’s doctoral credentials. Furthermore, no questions in the episode addressed her credentials.

Dr. Cheyenne Bryant joins Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield to unpack her deal-breaker: she doesn’t date men with kids. They explore her relationship standards, her experiences, and the lessons she’s learned. It’s a conversation you’ll want to hear!. Dr. Cheyenne Bryant joins Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield to unpack her deal-breaker: she doesn’t date men with kids. They explore her relationship standards, her experiences, and the lessons she’s learned. It’s a conversation you’ll want to hear!

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***DISCLAIMER*** This episode was recorded weeks before the recent online backlash surrounding Dr. Cheyenne Bryant&rsquo;s doctoral credentials.&nbsp;Furthermore, no questions in the episode addressed her credentials.
Dr. Cheyenne Bryant joins Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield to unpack her deal-breaker: she doesn&rsquo;t date men with kids. They explore her relationship standards, her experiences, and the lessons she&rsquo;s learned. It&rsquo;s a conversation you&rsquo;ll want to hear!. Dr. Cheyenne Bryant joins Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield to unpack her deal-breaker: she doesn&rsquo;t date men with kids. They explore her relationship standards, her experiences, and the lessons she&rsquo;s learned. It&rsquo;s a conversation you&rsquo;ll want to hear!
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That's A Deal-Breaker (Guest: Dr. Cheyenne Bryant)

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Setting the Stage for a Love Story

The Power of Persistence and Faith

Early Struggles and Broken Relationships

A Purpose-Driven Journey

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A Dynamic Couple's Journey to Marriage

The Birth of a Second Chance

Overcoming Past Hurts and Building Trust

The Proposal and Engagement

The Unexpected Engagement Party

A Moment of Divine Alignment

The Power of Faith and Purpose

From Screenwriter to Entrepreneur

The Birth of Hammer and Nails

Faith-Infused Love Stories on Screen

The Collaborative Process of Screenwriting

The Importance of Intentionality in

Wedding Planning and Guest Lists

Keys to a Successful Relationship

The Power of Forgiveness in Relationships

Nurturing Super Faith in Your Partner Search

Remembering God as the Source

Listening for God's Call

Closing Thoughts and Gratitude

Podcast Wrap-up and Call to Action

Michael Elliot spent years writing some of culture’s most beloved love stories, including "Brown Sugar", "Ruth and Boaz", and "Relationship Goals". Through unforgettable scripts, romance, and emotionally rich characters, he mastered the art of portraying love on screen. But behind the scenes, there was one thing he admits he had never fully experienced for himself: a love deep enough to make him completely choose commitment.


In this heartfelt episode of Dear Future Wifey Podcast, Michael and his fiancée, Adia May, share the real-life love story years in the making. Long before the proposal, there was history. Timing pulled them apart when Michael wasn’t ready to define what they had. Though their connection was real, he wasn’t prepared to put a title on it. But life has a way of revisiting unfinished chapters.


Now, years later, Michael returned—not just with words, but with intention, clarity, and a ring. Together, they unpack the evolution of a man who could write romance for Hollywood yet struggled to surrender to love in real life. This episode explores timing, emotional maturity, fear of commitment, second chances, and what happens when a man finally raises the stakes for the woman he was never truly able to forget.

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Michael Elliot spent years writing some of culture&rsquo;s most beloved love stories, including "Brown Sugar", "Ruth and Boaz", and "Relationship Goals". Through unforgettable scripts, romance, and emotionally rich characters, he mastered the art of portraying love on screen. But behind the scenes, there was one thing he admits he had never fully experienced for himself: a love deep enough to make him completely choose commitment.
 In this heartfelt episode of Dear Future Wifey Podcast, Michael and his fianc&eacute;e, Adia May, share the real-life love story years in the making. Long before the proposal, there was history. Timing pulled them apart when Michael wasn&rsquo;t ready to define what they had. Though their connection was real, he wasn&rsquo;t prepared to put a title on it. But life has a way of revisiting unfinished chapters.
 Now, years later, Michael returned&mdash;not just with words, but with intention, clarity, and a ring. Together, they unpack the evolution of a man who could write romance for Hollywood yet struggled to surrender to love in real life. This episode explores timing, emotional maturity, fear of commitment, second chances, and what happens when a man finally raises the stakes for the woman he was never truly able to forget.
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From "Untitled" To Fiancée (Guests: Michael Elliot & Adia May)

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Setting the Stage for a Powerful Story

The Shocking Accident

A Husband's Prayer and Devotion

The Engagement and Proposal

The Aftermath of the Accident

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She forgot the man she loved… So he became her memory.

They met in 2017. 

He proposed on 10/16/21.

They said “I do” on 6/23/22.

They welcomed their first child on 3/17/24.

Then, on 9/9/24… everything changed.

In this exclusive interview with Laterras R. & Ashley R. Whitfield, Devante & Qieana Mitchell open up about life after a tragic car accident that resulted in a brain aneurysm and memory loss. Their story is a testament that even when memories fade, true love remains—and sometimes, love has to be relearned. 

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She forgot the man she loved&hellip; So he became her memory.
They met in 2017.&nbsp;
He proposed on 10/16/21.
They said &ldquo;I do&rdquo; on 6/23/22.
They welcomed their first child on 3/17/24.
Then, on 9/9/24&hellip; everything changed.
In this exclusive interview with Laterras R. &amp; Ashley R. Whitfield, Devante &amp; Qieana Mitchell open up about life after a tragic car accident that resulted in a brain aneurysm and memory loss. Their story is a testament that even when memories fade, true love remains&mdash;and sometimes, love has to be relearned.&nbsp;
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He Became Her Memory (Guests: Devonte & Qieana Mitchell)

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Questions In Dating (Guest: Rob Howard)

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