In this unforgettable episode of Dear Future Wifey, Nick opens up about the divine timing of their love, the joy of fatherhood, and the unthinkable grief of losing his soulmate. With powerful honesty, he shares how he’s held onto faith, rebuilt his life for his sons, and continued to believe in purpose even through pain.

 

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In this unforgettable episode of Dear Future Wifey, Nick opens up about the divine timing of their love, the joy of fatherhood, and the unthinkable grief of losing his soulmate. With powerful honesty, he shares how he&rsquo;s held onto faith, rebuilt his life for his sons, and continued to believe in purpose even through pain.
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This is more than a story &mdash; it&rsquo;s a testimony.
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🙏 Share this with anyone walking through loss, questioning God&rsquo;s plan, or needing a reminder that beauty can still rise from ashes.
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Journey with me, Laterras R. Whitfield, as I discover, uncover, and recover love. From interviews with singles, married, divorcees, and maybe even those in polyamorous relationships, we promise every episode to be L.I.T. (Living Intentionally Transparent).

Dear Future Wifey

Journey with Laterras R. Whitfield, host of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, as he discovers, uncovers, and recovers love. A divorcee who created this podcast as a platform for his public healing, Laterras dives deep into the realities of relationships. Through candid conversations with relationship experts, celebrities, and everyday people, he explores the intricacies of love, loss, and personal growth. Whether you're searching for love, strengthening it, or healing from it, this podcast offers heartfelt insights and practical advice. Subscribe and join Laterras on this transformative journey to "Live Intentionally and Transparently."

Journey with Laterras R. Whitfield, host of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, as he discovers, uncovers, and recovers love. A divorcee who created this podcast as a platform for his public healing, Laterras dives deep into the realities of relationships. Through candid conversations with relationship experts, celebrities, and everyday people, he explores the intricacies of love, loss, and personal growth. Whether you're searching for love, strengthening it, or healing from it, this podcast offers heartfelt insights and practical advice. Subscribe and join Laterras on this transformative journey to "Live Intentionally and Transparently."

Heaven Holds Her (Guest: Nick Stotzer)

Setting the Stage for Co-Parenting After

The Viral Divorce Ride

Navigating Co-Parenting and Shared Living

The Desire for Marriage After Divorce

Shifting Dating Expectations Post-Divorce

The Old Dating Game: Being the "Kept Woman"

Shifting Expectations: From Luxury to

The Importance of Spiritual Alignment

Navigating Modern Dating as a Soft Hearted

The Challenge of Letting Go

The Struggle with Church Men

The Churchmen Dilemma

Two Contrasting Relationships

The Christian Standard Conundrum

A Disturbing Encounter

Navigating Spiritual Alignment in

Personal Reflections on Christian

The Importance of Spiritual Leadership in

The Voice of Jesus and Spiritual Intimacy

A Call to Spiritual Growth

The Struggle Between Desire and Conviction

Transparency and Honesty in Relationships

Post-Divorce Life and Family Challenges

Prayer for Christina and Her Family

Kingdom Royal - A Home for Foster Boys

Closing Thoughts and Future Wishes

Dear Future Wife Podcast Promotion

In this episode of the Dear Future Wifey podcast, host Laterras talks with Kristina Smith about navigating co-parenting and dating after divorce. Kristina shares her story of staying in the marital home with her ex-husband, citing concerns for their two daughters' normalcy and her own financial uncertainty. They discuss the challenges of dating as a single mom, including her desire for a partner who can provide spiritual covering and support. Kristina also opens up about her past relationships and her current dating life, highlighting her growth and newfound expectations. This conversation offers a raw and honest look at the complexities of modern relationships.

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In this episode of the Dear Future Wifey podcast, host Laterras talks with Kristina Smith about navigating co-parenting and dating after divorce. Kristina shares her story of staying in the marital home with her ex-husband, citing concerns for their two daughters' normalcy and her own financial uncertainty. They discuss the challenges of dating as a single mom, including her desire for a partner who can provide spiritual covering and support. Kristina also opens up about her past relationships and her current dating life, highlighting her growth and newfound expectations. This conversation offers a raw and honest look at the complexities of modern relationships.
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Finding Me After Divorce (Guest: Kristina Smith)

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Setting the Stage for Marriage Discussions

The Marriage Contract Mindset

Student of Love Book Promotion

The Challenges of Dating and Relationships

Rob's Journey to Marriage

The Importance of Communication and Conflict

The "Might as Well" Mentality

Picky Preferences and Past Relationships

The Picky Nature of Rob's Dating Life

High School Heartbreak and Hair Changes

The Importance of Communication in

Rob's First Serious Relationship

The Challenges of Dating "Out of Your League"

Rob's Dating Philosophy and Self-Perception

The Importance of Protecting One's Heart

Rob's Views on Marriage and Family Planning

Closing Thoughts on Relationships and

Algorithm Insights and Secret Followers

Defiling and Personal Growth

The Power of Spicy Questions

Water Parks and Super Soakers

Love Letter to Future Wife

Closing Remarks and Call to Action

In this episode of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, host Laterras talks with Rob Howard about his journey to finding love and his views on marriage. Rob shares his thoughts on what he's looking for in a partner, including a business partner. He also discusses his past relationships, including a high school girlfriend who cheated on him, and how that experience shaped his views on love and commitment. Additionally, he talks about his current life as a single father and his desire to find a partner who can be a good teammate.

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In this episode of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, host Laterras talks with Rob Howard about his journey to finding love and his views on marriage. Rob shares his thoughts on what he's looking for in a partner, including a business partner. He also discusses his past relationships, including a high school girlfriend who cheated on him, and how that experience shaped his views on love and commitment. Additionally, he talks about his current life as a single father and his desire to find a partner who can be a good teammate.
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Questions In Dating (Guest: Rob Howard)

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Setting the Stage for a Discussion on Purity

The Importance of a Virgin Husband

Introducing Shaquilla: A Virgin's Journey

The Birth of the Sexless Tribe

Finding Stability and Purpose

The Sexless Tribe's Origin Story

From Book Promotion to Live Interviews

The Sexless Tribe App and Community

The First Meetup and Pastor Philip's Impact

God's Call to Abstinence and Purity

Navigating Attacks and Leadership

Shakia's Journey from Troubled Youth to

Connecting with Shakia and Supporting the

The Power of Conviction

Shakia's Merchandise and Community

Dating After Abstinence

The Importance of Relatability in Ministry

The Virginity vs. Abstinence Debate

Challenging Societal Norms on Sex and

Closing Thoughts and Call to Action

Letter to My Future Wife

A Personal Journey to Adoption

The Vision for Kingdom Royal

Kingdom Royal Capital Campaign

A Lesson from Past Missions

A Letter to My Future Wife

In a culture obsessed with casual relationships, Shakia Seabrook stands as a powerful counternarrative. This episode dives deep into her journey as the founder of The Sexless Tribe, a community dedicated to abstinence and purity that has grown from social media conversations to global meetups with hundreds of attendees.

 

Shakia shares her remarkable story of maintaining virginity at 37 years old - not from a place of religious upbringing, but from witnessing the emotional toll of casual relationships around her. What makes her perspective unique is her recent awakening to actually desiring marriage after years of contentment in singleness. Through her seven-year wilderness experience where God stripped away everything, she discovered a deeper purpose in creating a movement that's changing lives across continents.

 

## Timestamps:

- 8:30 - Shakia explains how she maintained purity without religious influence

- 22:15 - The birth of The Sexless Tribe and how it grew from Instagram Lives

- 36:40 - Her seven-year wilderness experience that shaped her ministry

- 48:25 - The double standard between how society views male and female sexuality

- 1:01:30 - Her thoughts on dating timeframes and what she's looking for in a partner

 

## Key Takeaways:

- Purity isn't just for the religiously raised - it can be a personal choice based on witnessing the consequences of casual relationships

- Building a community around abstinence creates support systems for those who feel isolated in their convictions

- There's often a double standard where men want to "sow wild oats" but expect purity from potential wives

- True intimacy requires vulnerability and letting someone fully into your life - something Shakia is now learning to embrace

 

Ready to be inspired by a woman who's created a global movement around purity while navigating her own journey toward marriage? Listen now to this powerful conversation that challenges cultural norms and celebrates the beauty of waiting.

 

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In a culture obsessed with casual relationships, Shakia Seabrook stands as a powerful counternarrative. This episode dives deep into her journey as the founder of The Sexless Tribe, a community dedicated to abstinence and purity that has grown from social media conversations to global meetups with hundreds of attendees.
&nbsp;
Shakia shares her remarkable story of maintaining virginity at 37 years old - not from a place of religious upbringing, but from witnessing the emotional toll of casual relationships around her. What makes her perspective unique is her recent awakening to actually desiring marriage after years of contentment in singleness. Through her seven-year wilderness experience where God stripped away everything, she discovered a deeper purpose in creating a movement that's changing lives across continents.
&nbsp;
## Timestamps:
- 8:30 - Shakia explains how she maintained purity without religious influence
- 22:15 - The birth of The Sexless Tribe and how it grew from Instagram Lives
- 36:40 - Her seven-year wilderness experience that shaped her ministry
- 48:25 - The double standard between how society views male and female sexuality
- 1:01:30 - Her thoughts on dating timeframes and what she's looking for in a partner
&nbsp;
## Key Takeaways:
- Purity isn't just for the religiously raised - it can be a personal choice based on witnessing the consequences of casual relationships
- Building a community around abstinence creates support systems for those who feel isolated in their convictions
- There's often a double standard where men want to "sow wild oats" but expect purity from potential wives
- True intimacy requires vulnerability and letting someone fully into your life - something Shakia is now learning to embrace
&nbsp;
Ready to be inspired by a woman who's created a global movement around purity while navigating her own journey toward marriage? Listen now to this powerful conversation that challenges cultural norms and celebrates the beauty of waiting.
&nbsp;
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Purity Meets Purpose (Guests: Shakia Seabrook) 

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