Club Shay ShayOn the latest episode of Club Shay Shay, Shannon Sharpe sits down with the one and only Yung Miami—platinum-selling rapper, award-winning podcast host, viral influencer, and trendsetting entrepreneur. Flying in straight from Dade County, the star brings her signature charisma and unfiltered honesty to the conversation, covering everything from her booming business ventures to her take on love, money, and modern relationships.
Yung Miami and Shannon dive into her new card game, Resha Roulette, playing a few rounds while discussing the inspiration behind turning her love for games into a thriving business. She opens up about dating in the spotlight, her thoughts on 50/50 relationships, and whether kissing on the first date is a green light or a red flag.
No topic is off-limits as she addresses rumors about her love life, including Stefon Diggs, the age of the oldest man she’s dated, and what she’s learned about relationships. Miami keeps it real about the hardships of growing up in the 305, how her mother’s prison sentence shaped her, and the grind that got her to the top. She also shares the story behind the City Girls’ rise, from childhood dreams of being a mortician to making hit records with JT and getting the ultimate co-sign from Drake.
Plus, the two chop it up about social media drama, industry politics, and the reality of fame—whether it's dealing with DJ Akademiks, navigating Quality Control's decisions about her music, or the double standards Black artists face.
And of course, Yung Miami talks about the luxuries she loves—her Ferrari, the importance of investing and paying taxes, and how she’s building an empire beyond music.
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Hello, Welcome to another episode of Club Sha Shay. I am your host, Shannon Sharp. I'm also the proprid of Club Sha Sha and today we're at Spotlight La stopping by for conversation on the drink. Today is a force to be reckoned with in the music and media. She's known for a bubbly, down to earth personality, hilarious commentary, and catchy sayings like period she says the tone for being a bold and ambitious A member of the most popular girl group of this decade, she has created them for women empowerment and independence. She's a larger than life presence. She's a platinum selling rapper, award winning podcast host, must watch entertainer, viral influencer, trend setting artists, a talented content creator, a loving mother, a rising executive producer, an exceptional entrepreneur who's building an empire with a card game richa Roulette. Miami's on. She flewed all the way from Dade County. Kresha is a government name, but you know it's young Miami. Welcome to the s EO.
That was a good instroduction. Yes, I'm like, cocky, cocky.
So when you hear me reading all this off and you're like, damn, I did all that? Do you realize what you've done at such a young age?
No, I mean I realized it, But that right there is just settled in. I'm like, oh oh, it just kept going good.
Like okay, but thank you so much, thank you for joining us on Club Shashae. Normally we toast, but you have a game. It's called Richia Roulette and rehab Racial Roulette relod. So we're gonna play this game to start off. So give me a a brief synopsis of what we're doing here.
Okay, So the rich Roulette, which is a card game, come with one hundred deck of cards and becoming some shot the less you wish, Just take a shot the reloading. Now it comes with a wheel. Okay, so we're gonna spend the wheel, spend the wheel and whatever. You gotta pick it from that category. So there's three categories. Either they're pay, take a shot, or get wild.
Let me see. Oh you're cheating.
You're already looking at the car.
What a money at you got some money? Because if you ain't gonna do this day, I need my money. You're gonna have to pay me up. Yeah, ain't got the money. Yeah, so I'm gonna spend a wheel.
Take a shot.
Damn, I got the muscle. We don't even ask no question.
No, I gotta pull it from the deck of car. Now take a shot.
That what you get?
Okay, it's a take a shot. If you go through the self checkout to steal when times it's hard, I ain't gonna lie.
I done went through this, going to get one. Go to get what, go to get what?
I done, went through the self checkout and I we ain't scared my arms before.
Scam one and take put two in the bag.
Shot the walmart.
All right?
All right, okay, yeah, okay, it says, oh no you moved your pick right. Okay, y'all pick which one you want to pick from, so you get to pick your your deck of cards. What you want?
Do you want? I would do? Dare play?
Okay, allow the player of your choice to purchase something online right now for up to twenty dollars with your debit or credit card, or pay five dollars to another player.
I ain't got no debit card. I probably should have took a shot. I give you five dollars here you.
Go out out of y or something. My Famazon.
You have this money, but are you supposed to have real money?
So you can pay with you can play with real money, or you can use the Risha bucks.
Okay, I'm gonna hear you bus all right, your turn. You got to you gotta see it.
I like them, Okay, let me see Okay, okay, you know not that.
Two minutes of the game and you cheat. You have to tell another shot.
Okay, let say it. Stay take a shot.
I like it.
I like it.
See this why I'm like playing my game?
Yeah?
So what do you say? What you gotta do?
It says take a shot? If you gotta use loube to hear.
Wet Yeah, I don't know, but you gotta take it.
No, I ain't got to take no shot to dad, you ain't got okay?
Okay, slippery with wet.
Yeah, I no, take a shot.
Damn.
I want you to get a cook one.
Can I go? Do I have to pick up the top of the deck.
You can pick from where you want.
To take a shot. If you've ever did something strange for a piece of change, absolutely not.
Don't they ever do that? I ain't got you. Go ahead, yo, go yo, go yo.
Turn Look, let me see.
Shot.
Take a shot. Yeah, that's okay, take a shot. If I got this a good one? Tell me if you know this, it's say finish these lyrics? Yeah, we know. Can there puckin?
I don't know nothing about that. Knuck if you buck?
Yeah, we nuck and they're punkin.
No man, take a shot?
Good?
Oh yeah, we nucky and they bucky and they're ready to fight.
See I'm cool.
I'm cool comic colect I don't do that kind of So let me ask you this, why are we playing this game? How do you come up with the idea of creating a game?
Because I like to play like I'm a time of risient I'm very like I like to get to know people, so I love to play. I never have I ever.
Drink out of the person's cup next to you or pay everybody one dollar.
Here, let me gonna give you so many I don't know.
See, I like to play with you. I don't leave with me a good change. But team were saying some real money. Yeah, yeah, I leave with some money.
And see here's the thing. We ain't got one player. But see how many players can play at this game at one time?
You could play it with to ten people. How many many people you want to play with?
You like, you know, it's gonna be get like a little event, so you can play with the ten seven people.
So you're sitting around one night and you say, you know what, because obviously if you're playing this game, you like to play card games. You like to play games. I mean, what's your favorite card game to play?
Okay? You like to play tumk?
Yeah, I'm gonna play spades.
Okay, So so how do you play tunk? So let me ask you a question, because we play at several different ways. Obviously, if you go down and get caught, you got to pay that person double.
But the way we also play. So I played before.
If you go down and somebody catches you, you have to pay everybody at the board.
Have you see I don't playing for money. I'm just out there.
No, no, no, ain't nothing for fun. Hell you even got you got money right here? Okay, you'll turn you know.
Because I know that people love to play card games for money. Yeah, like that's what my daddy them do. They played, they play spades, and they be talking and they like, yeah, keep my money. You get so intent. Yeah yeah, And I'm like, oh my god, I'll be seeing. I'm like, damn, this is interesting. So when I need the first one, I just see it like take a shot this when I'm like, you know what, I'm gonna add some of the Risha bucks to it so it could be like a little more intense, so a little more fun. And that's what made me want to add the money to it.
Yeah, but they need to come with their oh they own real money.
No, you can play with real money. But I know that some are consumers. Yeah you know Monopoly, you know, yes, yes, I feel like a little twain to it. But me and my friends were playing with real money, like you we're gonna play with real money.
Oh, you try to get my money. You try to get because.
I see you. You you're ready to You're like, yeah, yeah, you ain't gonna do nothing of there. I see me. I ain't giving you my money.
So you go, you're gonna spill the beans.
Huh?
Yeah'm gonna do to death? What's up?
Come on spilling wheel?
Seey'll keep letting on. Take a shot, take a shot. Let me see.
See you ain't got no It's say eat a spoon ful of mustard, or take a shot.
We don't got no mustard.
Well, yeah, you gotta take another one.
Mm hmmm.
What is that thing?
Yeah, it's say text your eggs by y'all mean she will take a shot.
TAXI.
Let me tell you something. I'm miss get the I don't miss shooting, So I'm gonna take my shot. I don't mean.
Dawn. You know we're gonna see this, right.
You'll be debling back?
Do you double back or none to spend the block?
Yeah?
So once you own but he gonna see this. You know this right?
Okay, Okay, text me if you miss me. Yeah I'm not you know, like you know, chase me.
But let me ask you this Okay, you have this idea for a card game. How do you take that idea and turn it into a business.
So I feel like I love money. I love money so and I love to play games, so I gotta turn my game into some money.
So I just called, like I gotta creative director. I call.
I said, hey, can you help me invent this card game? And we put the we put the move ward together and we just brought.
It to life.
How long did it take you? Six months or yeah?
I say six months because we got to go through the cards. We gotta play it. I'm the type of person I'll approve something and it will beat our in production. It's done, I'm like, hell no, whatever I spit, we gotta change it. Like I want everything to be right.
Right, so make so.
Obviously these cards, so all a lot of these cars have to be some of your own ideas. It's like, okay, I want this on the car, that I want that on the car. Did you have other people giving you ideas or insight of what they think?
I did? Okay, I did.
I came up with majority of the cards, but I didn't have some people like Dann, what I can put on the car?
What we be doing it, says a wild card who's trying to get wild.
Now, So what that means I can pick any cars.
You gotta pick from the deck of get wild.
So this is right here, Get wild.
Okay, Okay, I don't know if you want to pick for the top, might want to pick for the men.
Okay, okay, cause you better just set me up. Okay, I got right here, Get wild.
Spend the bottle whoever it lands on, give them a body massage for thirty seconds.
We ain't got no bottle.
See, that's why you gotta play this game. I always say.
So we got it. So there's certain items that you're gonna have to have. So you're gonna have to have food. You're gonna have to have mustard. You're gonna have to have hot sauce or ketch up for X, Y and Z. You're gonna have to have a bottle so you can spend a bottle. So there are several things the opportunity you're gonna have. If there are certain I mean like the key little Kanyak. Is there any like any other beverages? You can have soda water.
Play with your own beverage. That's just like if you went to the house party, put out a game. Y'all Ari in the city, right, So y'all, let's just play the game.
Okay, okay, okay.
But I always say, like, don't play with your man, don't play with your wife, and don't play with your mama because it's it's gonna get wild. And your wife because it'd be like text your eggs. Oh no, but like, let me go through your phone.
The wife like, yeah, go through the phone.
Yeah, well, I might have to pull that one out before.
Let the person next to you go through your phone for ten seconds, go through your apps.
All that, like yeah, yeah, you a you asking for trouble right.
Now, I want to see the last lift you son, let me see that lyft account. Don't play with your hey, but I got my pick. I'm gonna do a dr page Okay, whatever, say Shelley, We can't do that.
It says, transfer a shot from your mouth to the mouth of a person next to you, or pay that person three dollars. Come on, come on with it, Kha, come on with it. Dodger Man, you try to blow up?
Oh my god.
Okay, see this is what I'm saying.
This is why it's gonna get messy it say type your name in a pair of your choice phone in review while your name was mentioned for ten seconds. So that's all I was like, give me your phone and I'm gonna type my name in their assarch history and see what you were saying about me.
I ain't say nothing, but you want to get my phone with Joe Lima.
Imagine you was playing with Michelle.
Oh did you and you had the tape with Shell and.
Uh so I where I go? Where I go?
Okay, you'll go like to your messages and then you're just type koorsha. Right, Me'm saying that. See that's what I'm saying. We are good, we are we are cool.
So is this a Let me ask you a question? Is this a good game for a first date?
So?
Would you play this game on the first date?
I would you asking for trouble m cause you know what like cause you know that that card that you pull says okay transfer alcohol to his to uh somebody, and then all of a sudden, y'all will end up start kissing, kissing lead the other thing on the first day.
I'm kissing on the first day.
Uh.
I mean, if if I done went on a date with you.
That means I like you. Okay, I mean we done got past like the little talking stage. Really if I want to go on to day, it's like, yeah he kiss kiss.
Oh okay, okay, but when you transfer, you got to get down in there because you don't want to steal none on your clothes.
He don't. You don't want to get none on your dress.
You don't care.
So on first dates.
No, I'm a gentleman. I'm old school, though I know our school they be kissed on the first date. Now because I'm I'm learning a lot. You know, they be doing a lot of stuff.
I know.
You know, everybody in the world is different, yes, so to each his own. You got some people that kiss on the first dad, you got some people that don't.
So let me ask you this, what's an idea first date?
I'm not gonna lie like I want the carpet red out, like rolle out from me on the first on.
The first date.
Yay, damn, it's the first impression. It's a first impression.
Somewhere you go from that.
If he does that, he rolled the red carpet out on the first date, what are you gonna do? You gotta do for the second date. Take your answer, Sancho pet No.
Now you can see me in the bunny and stuff, see you what am I little bunny? You can see me like am I sweats with my makeup and stuff? Off a second date? Because we done got through the first stage.
Damn.
Like on the first date? What you're gonna do? You want to? Did you just be boring?
No?
No, I thought the first date? Okay, first date? Okay, we done talk? Okay, where would you like to go? We're gonna go grab a boat to eat. Where would you like to go? Blah boo boom, Okay, we're going out to eat. Probably she gonna take an uber left. I can't remember last time I've actually driven the suff I'm from the old school where you used to drive to go pick up the lady. Yeah, to go take her. I can still do that. No, hell nah, because don't nobody trust you like that? Because it's the first date. You know what I'm saying. So ain't nobody really trusting you like that? Even who I am?
If they know me?
Blah blah blah. I get it. I have a problem with that. But I grew up in an era where you went and picked the lady up, and you had the date you went to where you go movies, out to eat or to an event, and you brought her back home.
Right.
I like that.
That's very grown, intimate and sexy. They let me know that I can trust you.
Yeah, you make.
Sure I get back home. Yeah, pick me up.
You're a gentleman. Sure I got back home. An that sending me a lift. I don't know if I could trust you because when you see me a lift, where you going?
Oh you think he going to where I be?
I need you to drop me.
Off and make sure I get home safe, and I want you when I come out, I want you to open up the door for me.
Get me in Kyrie ride.
We're gonna have a little playlist, we're gonna talk, and we're gonna be grown six.
That's what I like.
Yeah, and see you know I dropped the person off. Hey, Hey, thank you. You know, walk you to the door, make sure you get in the place, and then I turn and go. I ain't going up to your place.
I don't like that we meeting each other, you going in before now, Okay, I'm grown, Okay, court me made me feel made me feel like you. You like me, you know, interested.
But I'm saying you say you don't like the guy. I mean, he's been couraged. He didn't have to send that. He could have made you go get your own rides here, but he sent you an uber. He sent you a nice black If it's a day, hi, I'm want to But I'm saying, so that's what you the expectation level of. If he asked you out of the date, he's supposed to arrange everything. Yes, where y'all? You don't just tell me where I need to be, what time I need to be there.
That's a date. Yes, Okay, as a man. If a man set up a date for you, I feel like he set up the date. Everything is you just come?
Okay? Okay, do you agree? Yes? Yes I do, yes. But but for me, okay, what do you like? You know?
I need to know what you like to eat, what you know what some of the places. Obviously I don't want to go to a particular place that you've probably been before. But although you might've been there before, somebody else and they like with damn, she was just here you know the other day with such and such, and if they come to that, oh hey, Karrisha if everybody walk by, Hey, Karriesia, Hey y'all, Miami, how you doing, I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa what damn? How many times you don't been up in this joint? So I'm gonna be feeling some type of way. So I just want you to know when I'm sitting over there quiet, I'm on swollen. I'm just just go ahead, keep it a thign with you. I'm on swore because I'm feeling some type of way, like with damn, she must be a regular in this piece.
But I'm not gonna lie. I got a restauran in Miami. Did I love Poppy Steak? I'm a regular in there.
Day Oh Jo told me about that one.
Oh it's so good.
It's good.
It's so good.
You know how like some times you could go to a restaurant and it's like, nah, I need a break, it's so good. So it's like I just go down a regular Like sometimes I go out to eat with myself and yeah.
Can I tag along?
We gonna have a ball there we go. So, okay, first date, what is some of the stipulations? Okay, if you go on the first date, what's some of the things that he has done to make sure he gets a second date, or some of the things that he didn't do to make sure he doesn't get a second date.
I just felt like boring. I don't like a man. I feel like I don't like people that can't hold a conversation. Okay, like we can't just be get and then and we boach. It's quiet, really, I like personality.
Are you a quiet person?
I am that?
Okay, So you want somebody to talk?
Yeah, Like I want you to like get it out of me.
You want to get me open and make me feel comfortable, like such as share something.
So the mask your question, you go to the you go to the they seet you. You want him to sit across from you, or you want him to sit next to you.
So at first I want you to start across from me, because I like, I can't take okay, look in your eyes't even know that we like connecting.
And then like, by the end of the night, I need you like next to me.
Okay, Okay, then y'all all hugged up, everybody looking at him.
Because by the end of the night, I'm gonna know if this and I go right, or if I see you again.
Tomorrow.
Tomorrow.
I was thinking about next week.
No, that's too long. Yeah, why next week? I need you to text me good morning, beautiful, like I already enjoyed last night with you.
Really, Yes, yes, that I'll be seeing I'll be feeling some type of way that she thinks like, oh, we ain't got nothing to do with this time.
He already texted me, I'm not gonna ask a woman. We are like once, we already got them feelings. It's like we be like, okay, well he gonna text he's conference he texts good morning, like okay. It's that when you would like somebody if you don't like him, he's.
Just like, so first date, you know, I just saw this store.
I don't know if you saw this study they say seventy five eighty percent of the men has never asked a one I went out on a date personally. So me and you having a conversation. Hey, I'm shuching, I'm shinning sharp, how are you doing? What's your name? Blah blah blah. I would like to take you out. Most of the time, they say it's through d MS, it's third party interaction. Yes, we've lost the art of asking another person out on a date.
What happened?
I never got to ask him to day?
Really? Now, so they sliding your DM.
Huh, it's just be like it goes down in the DM. I'm not gonna.
Yeah, yeah, you.
Don't get my phone re quick.
I'm not gonna lie. I mean my DM, and I don't like I went on the day off of my DM? Did you?
He had to be started a M and.
Then it went to text. But I ain't gonna lie, like I feel like.
I don't know when that kind of like take the lead a lot because it was like in a DM, I'm like, nigga, just text me you you exit tune off of my neighbor.
Here's somebody, but text me if you want to go on the date. Let's just get to it.
Because this whole DM thing is yeah, going back and forth.
Yeah, I'm not gonna keep working up opening my apps to see if you like.
So clearly he had to be someone of prominence so that clearly you trust him and you're like, okay.
I can I can go on a date with him? So how did that work out? It was cool? It was cool you went on the second date?
Did you?
It was cool? I ain't gonna lie.
He did his one on the first day. I was like, okay, that's how you come on the first day. It was real cute. It was real cute.
Did y'all go to Poppy State?
No?
Okay, I actually we wasn't in Miami.
Y'all wonder that?
So okay, it's later the dem Have you ever been on a dating app?
No?
No, I'm not doing that really m mmmm already just give me some cats or something by that time.
So what what's what's the Obviously you're in the uh, you're in the music industry. I'm sure a lot of entertainers like want to entertain you. But also you have that look, you have that body that athletes crave and the desire. You have a preference who as far as what the type of man you like athletes or you like entertainers, even though athletes are.
I ain't gonna lie.
The athlete is different.
I ain't gonna lie. I don't know if it's like I don't know, I think.
Hear me out.
I never really dated an athlete like that. Yeah, but it's a little different, like it's a little you was supposed to athlete, right, was a football player. I was y'all like to play a little playful, right, I'm not, but some do. You never play food young days?
No, No, I've.
Always been very matter of fact for real. Yeah, I don't do that. I don't do that playing around.
So you never played around in the locker room?
No, you know, I played the jokes.
But I'm saying, like, like with my partner, I've been serious because because you know it's gonna happen, you pill a fight and then you hit somebody hit too hard and you throw water and when you're not expecting to get you and so your own swore. So I say, you know what, let's just not even start that and we keep it a relationship relationship.
But no, I don't you know, do you know what you want to know? What I do?
Like that athletes do what when they do a touchdown? They yeah, that's so cute.
We entertainers they be doing it when I mean when they were on stage.
Yeah, But it's like different when you do it like a love score you do like the love.
I like is it because like you're in the music, you're in the you're in the music business, and you call a lot of a lot of guys that try to approach you. I'm saying, guys, I've used that loosely.
I don't know.
But anyway, Uh, you probably know a lot of them athletes, you're not kind. I mean, you might recognize them by the face, but you don't really know them.
Probably like you.
Know now, I'm missing sports. I'm not gonna lie.
I go to basketball games, I go to football games. I think that, Like, I think I would do more of the entertainment world because I think it makes sense. You know, I feel like athletes is two damn serious. Like its like us. It's rappersitions, entertaining as we get to do what we want. Like with athletes, it's like a schedule, like you gotta work out, you gotta do this, and it's like you don't like that. It's structure. It's two damn serious. It's like, godamn, you.
Like spontaneous, huh. You like being able to just pick up and go do whatever.
However, it's like they can't be caught out. They got like it's too serious. I don't like serious.
You don't, so let me ask you that. Okay, you go, you went out with an athlete?
What was cool?
What athlete?
I'm just going No, you have haven't gone out one. No, you want to go out with one?
I mean I will. I'm open to it.
Okay, y'all heard that guy. You open to an athlete?
Now, you like you like big defensive lineman sixty five to sixty.
You like the like offense. You're like, oh so you like a wide receiver R offense? Okay, I like offense. Okay, I like I like.
I like when a ball in your court. I like the ones they got to like, you know.
They got to catch the ball and do something get the ball. Yeah, okay, And you're like wide receivers, running.
Back, yeah, maybe a quarterback to a quarterback.
You like the quarterback?
The quarterback. I ain't never had no quarterback. I'm just saying. But I'm just saying. You know, they like they're the MVP.
You don't.
Yeah, yeah yeah, but a lot of most of the quarterback they're like they either married or have a serious relationship.
So I'm trying to get you something that you know, So.
Would you put hook me up with if you had to, like put me on a blind day or if you can like.
Ooh me.
Damn. That's a very good question. Uh, I don't know if C J. Stroud. You know ce J Stroud take a quarterback for the Texas.
Why would you go?
J just asked me to hook you up down, you say, why go ahead?
That man is a Christian.
You might get changing.
Oh you know what, I think it's start to split up wheel again.
Okay, you go on a date, you go on a first date, second date, whatever the case may be.
Give me a red flag.
Oh a red flag is you just can't hold a conversation, like I hate a nigga. That shit can't talk like, hey, babe, like, what's up? What about to know me?
What about it for guy y'all having the time? You know he across with you and he looked at his phone.
Yeah, I don't like that phone. Shit, neither put your phone down. I'm not even gonna be on my phone. You probably won't even know that I got a phone.
Wow.
So he's gonna get your undivided attention. You won't that in return?
Yeah, once I'm on a date, you know I'm here, like you're here.
You press it?
That means I like you. We made it to this plane. I want to get to know you, and I'm gonna give you all my how.
Many phone calls? A guy got to put in before you get a date.
You just gotta be consistent, you know, just throughout the day, maybe you say good morning, I understand you got worry. End gotta be an all day thing, but it definitely got to be like some follow ups, like how they going good morning?
Good night.
Let me ask you a question.
The average line of a phone conversation somebody trying to get to know a young Miami. How long do the conversation? Is it ten minutes? Is it thirty minutes? Is it forty five minutes?
Is an hour?
I like to text?
She just text me?
Oh you like texting?
Yeah? Text?
See I see that. That's that's too informal, that's too impersonal. God, you don't want to pick the phone and talk to me. You want my under You got FaceTime and yeah, but after rip, No, you got to build up the face time.
Yeah, fast time.
It's the thing now it ain't. I swear to god. Everybody's just FaceTime. You see the young school what y'all call because you are school?
So what y'all call them?
Like the little yeah them? Yeah, I'm younger, the youngest.
They want to FaceTime. You spread off the rip now ain't no calling regular. They FaceTime straight off the rep.
Yeah, what what happened?
They just need to see your face. They want to know the background where you're at. It's FaceTime.
Yeah, this is trying to call me face If I call.
Face time me, I'm like, I ain't doing that. My wig was just lifting.
But yeah, now I just hit the client. I'm talking to you FaceTime, but I'm talking to the person. Why are you facetiming me? If you're talking to.
Need to see the background. So that way when I know the next time I faced dang, dang, your.
Bad Where you trying to figure out all that?
Yeah?
Yeah, man, see m mm hmmm. What about some green flag? What's a go?
This is a goal?
I ain't gonna lie a green flagg. It's just always like high O day going. Are you okay? Is it anything I can do to make you feel better?
It's just like XM okay, I love it, man, that's XM. I okay.
What's the longest you've ever what's the longest you've ever talked on the phone?
You had to somebody put they call you.
I'm saying it could be FaceTime, it could be regular called what's the longest you've conversation you've had on.
The phone, Like what a man?
Yeah night three hours?
Okay, that's a good conversation. Was into that you was into that car work?
No, it's just like we started talking and I just sat on my phone and they just sat on the phone while I was just doing whatever I was doing.
That's a man that like you. Yeah, yeah, was that face tame? Three hours of FaceTime?
Damn.
I like men that I really likes me, you know, like I'm very into that. Like I like men that like that's really into me, you know, like that one is just know what I'm doing that can't stay away from me.
I'm used to that.
Like the men that I date, we do everything together, like we they gonna sit with me to get my hair down, my nails, Oh.
No, not too much. That's you know how long that take? Yes, I ain't got that kind of time. And to get your nails done too.
My clam team right now, they come vouch for me.
You trying to show it more? He's like, they got this, do you You trying to show it? Hate it?
I'm not.
I'm just saying what I like.
Lord that merchant they be doing, Who's more toxic me and women both you like toxicity.
Sometimes I can tell.
Sometimes sometimes it keeps a relationship going.
I had kill Mitchell one. He mentioned something about soul ties. You believe there's such a thing.
I believe in Tho sizes.
Yes, that's spend the whel I spent the wheel. Last time you do get wild?
Don want to get well. Let's shun the shark. Okay, I think it's to get well.
Let me say you laughing, let me see what he says. Let me see what he's able to read it.
Lick a person opposite sex toes for ten seconds, or take a shot, and I.
Being it's so cute, like I.
Start an only fan for my toes.
May sure y'all zoom in on my toes, hold on, I'm a start of only fans for this.
I get that you can start that after this here. But he just says that.
You don't want to read it.
But reading I just wanted because I want to wake up whoever reads I want. I wanted to make I wanted to make sure. No, I wanted to make sure because you buy because you like M because I don't think I didn't think you were gonna read what was actual in the car.
So hollo, old your success.
I know you got non athlete fee, don't put out. I wanna run out of here.
Ain't no look at that? Look at that?
Let me see. Oh god, I love it, man.
I take I take three to three showers every day.
Ooh, you ain't got athlete fee. I'm surprised.
Why are you surprised?
Because oh man, think bad, especially the athlete.
I get a manic every week.
They be having a corns. They be crusty.
Yeah they do that. Ain't me though, Man, that ain't me. Okay, but you have to take no shot. You ain't gonna take no shot. Obviously you like this game?
Get this guy. I'm telling y'all, y'all gonna have a ball. Y'all might end up just getting with your husband.
This is This reminds me of a game. I don't know if you have players, a drinking game called questions. So it's you get like ten people playing and you ask a question and the person has to respond with a question. So I ask you where are you from? You can't say Miami. You have to say what's your favorite position? You have to ask a yes question. It's called questions. Now, if you don't answer in the form of a question, you have to take a shot. So you can imagine after playing for several hours with you, people not paying attention because normally someone asks you a question, you answer yeah, but you have to answer in the form of a question.
Yeah, boy, who there was when I was young? Lord, have mercy.
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Let me ask you a question, what's some of the most What's some of the most common toxic traits that you see in relationships?
On the TIC for tag, you do something, I gotta do something like proving a point to each other. I feel like sometimes two roles. Don't make it right. You got to know when to walk away.
Don't make a level either. Yeah, well, let me ask you this. You believe in getting your lick back?
Oh ya?
Wow?
What I thought you didn't like ten for ten?
Oh? I said, best I listen, I'm gonna get my nick bag if I gotta get like, trust me bade dam y'all know, because sometimes the nigga could just do you start wrong that you're gonna pay for what you did, Like you're gonna feel the pain that I felt. It just depends on the level of like pain that you put me through. Right, if you already did.
Something or you'll get it back, you're gonna he gonna pay. He gonna make him hurt her.
You're gonna suffer. And I need that.
So he you're gonna get your lick back? Is it played out? You like? Uh huh.
This ain't gonna be quick, This ain't Alma, this ain't this ain't Amazon Prime. You ain't gonna get this the next day or a couple of hours. This is gonna be methodical. You ain't gonna even see this coming.
I don't want to put nobody on the.
Spot, but you got your lick back one time thanking and I ain't played hm damn. He was like, you don't playing on games? I said, I don't ever play me like that at again in your life.
And then y'all got back together.
No, but I'll see him from time to time.
But let me you question if you could you get your lick back and be back with it?
Oh?
Now, why where they do that?
An right here?
Because now we even.
Now you know even now you know don't know women licks hurt more you don't like.
But okay, as a man, this is what I don't understand. Men just be like, but I love you though I love you too, bab I love you just as much as you love me. But I just speak like as a woman, I would never like. I'm the type of woman that It's like, I'm never gonna do you like that. I got too much respect for you. But once you show me you can do me like that, I gotta do you the worst way because you hurt me.
But that lick. But you know, it's like, well.
I gotta spell you if you ain't gonna spell me. Huh, why do I have to spell? You're not gonna spare me?
But see here is the thing we playing. We playing a hitting game. I hit you like that and do you ba?
Yeah?
Yeah, bah baby you you dirty.
Bed fag onna play? But call a referee.
Yeah you're gonna get them back like that?
What at the super Bowl?
You know everybody gonna be down there.
That Yeah, No, cause I just be I don't like that. I just be feeling like women are. So I'm gonna speak for me. I come in everything genuine, like I feel like if I'm with you, I'm not gonna you like if I don't see no interest in you, I probably talk to you for like the first week, I thought, I'm just like, nah, you know what I'm saying, Like, I don't even want to even make you feel like that if it's not that. And I come in every situation gen win cause it's like I'm with you, right and I'm gonna be honest. Whatever you want to know, just asks me, baby, And if it ain't gonna great, it's not gonna great.
But once you start playing games.
With me and I'm being genuine and I really with you, and you're gonna hurt me the queen, let.
Me let me ask you this. Okay, you've been a relation have you lost interest in a guy like, Damn, I really like this dude, I really like him. I'm really digging and blah blah blah. And then five six months, seven months saying you're like this issuin't what I thought it was? Yeah, how you tell them? How you tell them? Like, bro, this ain't working? Just you stop asking this call now?
See what see all them face time, call face. I know you want to go out now.
Because I don't even know what to say to you. AT's funny. I don't even know how to tell you like it ain't working. You know why you don't know what to say?
Just say it ain't working.
Bro.
Me and a lot of high value men worried about being in a situation where they get trapped. Women have kids, blah blah blah. Do you worry about that? Do you worry about being a high value woman like yourself getting trapped?
Ooh I ain't gonll I got two kids. I do want one more.
But I am the type of person I think that like women do try to trap me in yeah all the time.
I see, But you got a little bit more control.
You ain't gonna like it because you know y'all have things now y'all go to the drug.
I always tell women like, Babe, child support is cool, but I raising the child, it's a sertain more important. You know, It's not all about the money, like the broken family. This is a thing, right, Like it's important to have a mom and dad. Like money can be cool, but it's like this childy the father, and it needs to be some type of parents. And sometimes when it's just like a money grab, you have the child, you be miser fool the child support and then she just raising the child on your own. It's not easy. So when it comes to like me getting trapped, I ain't having no baby. I ain't even let a nigga trap me.
You ain't gonna let it happen.
I mean, I want more kids, but definitely got to be a family man though, yeah, probably like two more, damn you I do.
I want five. I want mom. I love my kids.
I feel like like when you're want five kids, I can go to five. I love kids like my house is you could drop your kids off to my house, like I love kids like I love kids. I'm very like I'm a family person, Like I love to be in the house with the kids. I love to go like though, you know Disney World and this stuff with the kids, Like I feel like that's what life about.
Okay, right, quick take a shot right here. Act out your favorite sex position.
Oh yes, I want you to do this. I want you to like you set up that line. I want to get to that. Yes, I already do because you know why. I mean, I show you my favorite fank position. I need I need a muse. You just got to act out you gonna like you.
I don't know how to act.
You never been no MoES, never heard of TV show naming this show trying to shine? Why here on clubs? See that's what happened to me? All with my ass up there all b m L try to act?
Yes, see my husband? Why is uh? Why? Why you? Why you?
Why?
People keep on? Everybody? Just come up here and ask me?
Because that was our conic.
For who It wasn't for me, Yes it was. It wasn't because I ain't gonna lie. When I heard that, I was like, I know what position he was in. It was the growling for me. You would said that thing?
You see? You see what happened now, my.
My my intimacy has been And how that make you feel How does that make you feel?
That's a very important question. I wanted to say, ek you that how does that make you feel? It's something that so intomate in front of the world, and we all just got our own perception of what happened. Like I just knew what possession you was in.
I don't even know. But it's not that you can tell me that can make me change my mind.
It doesn't because I'm such a private person and I've done a great job of keeping my personal life private as good a job as I could hield in my kids, my relationships, because I believe public relationships, when they end, they have to end publicly. Also, so I like to be behind the scenes. I like to date privately. I like to if we end this relationship, I like to end it privately. And here I am. That's the first time that I've ever been on IG Live. People actually think I intended to do that. Really lose my job potentially, you know, fifty million dollars from Disney gone, all these advertising and sponsors, that club, Shasha Nightcap and all the affeeliates that's up under Sha Shape media lose that for what?
That's how that in that you explained that so well. And that's how I feel in my situation. How just in the situation Juwi just was in it didn't even know that happened.
No, I did not.
You just having a good time. Thank you, doing the things you like to do.
And it got in front of the orum.
Now you got it, like I know.
You did that on purpose, and it's like you didn't.
I didn't the truth, yes, but it's nothing you could say.
And that's what you realize that the Internet has their own perception of what things is. They'll believe something that that isn't true, and then they'll they won't believe something that is true. Right, And the Internet has done on I mean I love the I mean the Internet has this pros and cons, but it's done a horrible job. I mean, people believe damn near everything that comes out on the Internet, and it's not the case. Let me ask you this, fifty to fifty relationships, you open the fifty fifty relationships.
I'm up until like if I mean, you pay the bills, you know, like things like that. I feel like men and I and I hate like this subject is so you know, people are I'm tired of this subject.
I just feel like men are providers. That's just the way it is.
Have you ever played for a date?
I ain't paying for I ain't paying for no dates.
You ain't gonna pay.
You take your man for well, I would, I would being on my man.
I'm not gonna lie.
I'm I give. I'm a giving person. I'm very selfish, like I'm gonna give whatever. Like if I put you like I don't look at it, and it's like you gotta do for me, Like if I like you, your birthday come, I'm gonna make me.
I'm gonna make you feel special.
So I just think that like fifty fifty with bills if I was like, you know, like I have been fifty fifty before before I became famous, Like you know, how to make you feel. It made me feel like it's regular to some people.
It's regular.
You trying to say, like if this person work at job, you have to bring something to the table.
As a woman in sex.
Is just not everything what that ain't how they feel.
You get this cat and yeah sometimes the cat don't even be here or nothing.
But but I just do feel like as a woman, like you gotta be a mother, it gotta be something special about you. You just can't think sex is the key. You know, you got you gotta either cook, clean something. You gotta be a a woman in some aspect like sex is not always the answer for real?
Would you be okay being the bread winner? Could you date a guy? Let's just say for the sake of argument, he's not an athlete, he's not a music Why do you keep saying athlete because for me, I'm surprised that you haven't been with an athlete. But I'm just going because that one coming, I'm gonna talk it up.
Okay, Yeah, let's talk of that later. Uh, you just keep referring, Oh no, this athlete, musician, entertainer, thanking a normal guy.
He has a I mean, he doesn't make the money that you make, but he's a great man.
Love your kids as if he was their own.
He makes sure when you come home everything is hey, the houses in order, everything that you need when you come in from the road.
He got you covered your kids. You know, he got you you Okay, in a situation like that.
I'm not gonna lie. I've been in this situation like that. It feels good. It always feel good to know that, like your kids is saved you say you comfortable, Like that's the best feeling. I feel like just knowing that you're like comfortable and this person and loves me. But it be comes a time where you just like you do want to feel special when it comes to like gifting or somebody sitting like Valentine's Day coming up, your birthday, you want that chamage or sometimes it's just like him like we don't be able to get you know, but it's like it all depends on like what you Some people not materialistee, but I would prefer like feeling good open materialist and things because it's for me. It's the memories. I could always be like damn, I remember that time and then these pell shoes them.
She's just stated, So.
You want a situation like for Valentine's Day, you won't. You won't rose pedals leading up the stairs. You want all these.
Big everyone want to feel good.
I ain't gonna sit here and say like, okay, it's Valentine, say it's just another day.
I do want to feel good, right, I do want.
So you want to go all out for your birthday, that thing's better be litt Oh hello, private jet.
It ain't gotta be private jet because I don't fly private all the time. I ain't gonna lie like every nigga can't send the jet right, But when I leave their room, way to be something.
But let me ask you this.
Being a woman in your position, you earn a good living, You've been the hell of your house for an extended period of time. Are you okay letting a man lead.
I like a man that People say that, I want a man that lead. God said, Lee, I'm gonna follow. Hmm, I'm gonna follow. I like a man that lead. I don't want to leave no man.
What are your thoughts on women saying they're in their soft girl era?
Oh, my soft girl era. I'm not gonna that is.
I'm just like soft gral era is just like when you.
At peace, you calm, you feeling good Like soft girl era is just like you just focused on you, You just pouring to you, You just feeling good, like everything that you just putting out there is just gonna right come back to you like you.
It's just a soft girl era. Like I'm just feeling good. I'm focused on you.
I want to get up, I want to work out, I want to like focus on my business, focused on myself. I'm not running after this. I'm not running after that. I'm not a gospeling like. I'm just in my software era. I feel like that that's me, that's you right now, twenty twenty five.
How long are you gonna be in that era?
Twenty twenty five?
That's it?
Yeah, Okay, next year, I like me talk.
This year, I'm I'm in my software. I'm gonna focus on me. You know, I'm gonna focus on me? Is I just feel like this year is the year that I need to like lock in and focus.
I don't know if you saw this, this viral tweet of a woman, Uh, guy send her woman twenty dollars his woman twenty dollars to go shopping. She said, don't send twenty dollars to go shopping. It's not enough. I mean, how much if a guy's send you, what's what's the amount of money someone should send you that you go, like not feel like cheap ass or send it back to it?
Ooh, like for a regular person, like just at least spent saying I'm gonna say a thousand for a regular dude, five hundred, five hundred fifty on spit gas so high eggs high, like everything is high.
Well, I mean, go vegetarian, stop eating it. I mean, but you know.
It costs more to eat healthy though it does. I ain't gonna lie. I ain't gonna lie when I just because I just started working out and I just I'll be going like that Joe's and the juice. If y'all see this for real, like a green juice, be then out forty dollars.
Yeah, you might start using yourself.
That's what I said.
I was like, God, damn, because you ain't gonna.
Like to clean up because I've juiced before, I've tried it all. It's to clean up by the time you you know, and it takes so much, so many carries, so many beats, so many green leaves and all that stuff apples oranges, and then to clean up, to break that machine down and clean it.
It ain't healthy.
Costs a lot, it does.
It costs more than a damn meal, right Like for I was like, whoa.
Bab But let me ask you a question. He ain't send you a thousand, he sent you two fitty. You gonna send it back?
I ain't seen it nothing back. I ain't gonna lie. I made it two fifty, right, I just figure out what I could do it. I'm very appreciative.
I'm not a person that's not unappreciative, like I appreciate anythings.
Right, But do you you're keeping a middal note like damn. Oh, boy, ain't saying me?
But I who I was? I ain't gonnae I'm very locked in.
Okay, so you like it? So am? What if he ain't got what if he ain't got no cash? Apps?
Zell Apple pay cash, no.
Oh cash, no, no Zail, no Venmo, no Apple pay? What a PayPal? What else they got?
They got all types of ship So.
I ain't got nothing. I mean, so he ain't got none of that?
All he got the cash and the only time he didn't get cash, you be seeing you, but he ain't.
I don't like it like that. I don't put up forgetting the money.
But you gotta put and here. And he don't live in Miami.
Oh that ain't all right.
Oh you can't do long.
I could do it on thistance, but like I'm getting.
The money, you gotta pull up.
Tell me I gotta fly to get the money for two hundred.
Dollars, No, no, not two hundred Yeah.
I don't mind like I'm I ain't gonna lie.
I'm like, I'm.
Really an I'm really a good girl, like I go with the floor.
You have a flow, you have a flown to god?
Mm hmm.
What you saying him now? Like flying man to see me?
Yeah?
Hell no, I ain't buying no man on a flight to get on a plane.
Why not?
That's too sassy?
That show that, that show him that you really really buy I don't care.
He better make arrangements to come see me.
Hey, y'all see y'all, y'all, y'all are y'all ain't trying to do right?
Y'all don't want Why would I fly a man to come see me?
Why not?
Why would I?
You don't like him like that? I dooo okay, Well.
He need to be trying to come see me.
He gonna come see you. But I'm saying, you know what, that's you know what.
A bro sitting as a flight ticket of my dead body.
I promise you never we'll spend it spending will Hey, Hey, guys, see what y'all getting yourself into?
Now?
No, I'm a good girl. Okay, take a shot. What it's say? Show tes right now? Take two shots.
It's gonna take two shots. Fish that off right there.
I love the gay cause guess what you keep drinking like that. Everything that's in the cars gonna.
Be for at the end of the night, everything the car gonna be happening.
I love the game right here, I love it. I love it.
You see why I'm saying you can't pay with your miss your girl like, yeah.
Yeah, you do that because that when I'm not around, ain't gonna telling what.
You Okay, ain't now, girl, baby girl.
Also, this this lady a guy send him? He said, he send his last thirty dollars for her to have lunch. I fuck with him, he said, he said, what y'all think I'm gonna eat unch at McDonald's and send it back to it?
Man, I would have girl, don't do that, And nigga sent it his last Yeah, that's a nigga.
That's for you.
Yeah, like a nigga he put him, he put youself with that. I would have suent it back. I probably would have been like, you know what here come like sixty one hundred.
I don't know.
I would have just sent that bad though. I probably would have made me a ham sandwich.
And you to put you to put an extra thirty with his thirty send it back to it. You a good woman? Yeah, somebody gonna get them a good woman.
Ain't nigga that like spendence last time? Mean, that's a nigga that's for you, that they gonna rock out with you.
Man, what's the best gift of man has ever given you? And y'all say your kids.
Kids A fast gift for men have ever given me? Was his time?
You know this is some boy jibe.
I ain't gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie like a getaway. I'm gonna say I get away where y'all go.
Bahamas had a little had a little private, little bungalow doing open up to the beach.
It was like a we went to the Bahamas and it was just us, just and we just had quality. Sign that was the best gift promise you were just.
Communicate.
I bet y'all would body talking? Do you feel relationships are starting to become transactional?
Of course marriage nobody ain't marrying a broke ass man.
And I feel like, but that's a contract that's one sided for the most part. Now, every once in a while you will find a woman that out earns the man and the contract is it. But for the most part the contra track. I mean, think about it. You get married, you signing a contract, right, m about that proposition.
That's why I used to say I don't want to get married because I fel like marriage is just like it's it's too much on the title. Like you feel like, oh my god, I'm married now I'm a wife. I can't do this. I can't do that. It just becomes it just becomes like your wife, you can't do this. It's like y'all, damn. Yeah, It's just it's a big commitment. But I also just feel like sometimes like what works for you works.
For you, right, but you okay just having a boot So let's just say, y'all hold it down.
Because guess what, I want to get the vorce Now. I got to check you down inside of these people.
Now everybody saying, oh, yeah, but you're still married, that's aggravating because he don't want to sign the papers or whatever the situation is. It's just like I want to just get the phone right next, thank you, next that easy wow. You know, like sometimes you know it will really good a situation that make you want to leave, like you leave y'all never have contact. Now I got to pay a lawyer. You like it become too many fees. It ain't tracked out.
So let me ask you this. You're in a relationship. How often does a man have to buy you gifts? Is it weekly? Is it monthly? Is it every three? Or is it it's how he sees fit you expect the thing, birthday, Mother's Day, Christmas.
I'm more off like a feeling type of person, like I go off of feelings for for real materialist to things. It's it's cool, Like it's cool you could buy me a bag. It's cool you could buy me a car. But hey, you on my car.
The bag. You're doing good with the bag. Baby, some shoes. Damn. You ain't gonna want no camera. You ain't gonna want no honter. You're gonna want bens a BMW.
I'm just saying tricking big these days.
Two days.
Yes, this concludes the first half of my conversation. Part two is also posted and you can access it to whichever podcast platform you just listen to part one on. Just simply go back to Club Sha shaped profile and I'll see you there.
