Through marriage. Now that in your second marriage, your new marriage, what are the like, the best advice that you can give us that are trying to make things work.

Through marriage. Now that in your second marriage, your new marriage, what are the like, the best advice that you can give us that are trying to make things work.

I think it's definitely communication, but more communication when you don't feel like it.

I think it's definitely communication, but more communication when you don't feel like it.

I used to be the one that would criticize the stay at whole month. I'll be honest, and I've been doing it for about a year and I'm just like, no, honestly, my respects. You start at six am and you don't stop till eight nine o'clock at night, and you don't get paid for this, dude.

I used to be the one that would criticize the stay at whole month. I'll be honest, and I've been doing it for about a year and I'm just like, no, honestly, my respects. You start at six am and you don't stop till eight nine o'clock at night, and you don't get paid for this, dude.

Hello you guys, and welcome to season three of Cheeky's and Chill in our brand new set. You guys right up, applause for that. I'm so excited. This is our very first episode and I am grateful when I have like little cards of that we are elevating this so to start this very first episode the third season, thanks to you guys, To all the listeners, thank you so much. I have a very special actually two very special guests. One of them have been on the pod before. She is a entrepreneur, she is a singer, she is a CEO a very important company. She's a mommy, she's a wife, and she's my sister, Jacqueline, Jacqueline rivera compos and her husband, Mike compos You guys, a round of applause for them. Everyone at home clap too. And I'm just kidding. Just be careful. But anyways, you guys, thank you so much for coming, Thank you for staying here.

Hello you guys, and welcome to season three of Cheeky's and Chill in our brand new set. You guys right up, applause for that. I'm so excited. This is our very first episode and I am grateful when I have like little cards of that we are elevating this so to start this very first episode the third season, thanks to you guys, To all the listeners, thank you so much. I have a very special actually two very special guests. One of them have been on the pod before. She is a entrepreneur, she is a singer, she is a CEO a very important company. She's a mommy, she's a wife, and she's my sister, Jacqueline, Jacqueline rivera compos and her husband, Mike compos You guys, a round of applause for them. Everyone at home clap too. And I'm just kidding. Just be careful. But anyways, you guys, thank you so much for coming, Thank you for staying here.

Thank you.

Thank you.

Of course, the colors are warm, right, very cute. Yes, exactly because you guys actually we're talking about this and and thank you because I wanted it to be very warm and homey and for it to give you like a nice little just warm hub. Yes, and talking about that, there's a few things that I'm going to talk to my sister, sure and Mike about. I call Mike my bro or you know, that's my homie. But I don't want to talk too much about a certain subject about their relationship because, as many of you may know, or maybe you don't know, Jackie and Mike, you guys have been married for how long, eleven years in total, eleven years in total. They just got remarried. They just renewed their vowels and that was beautiful. I have to I have to say, you guys have had a blast ethnic wedding.

Of course, the colors are warm, right, very cute. Yes, exactly because you guys actually we're talking about this and and thank you because I wanted it to be very warm and homey and for it to give you like a nice little just warm hub. Yes, and talking about that, there's a few things that I'm going to talk to my sister, sure and Mike about. I call Mike my bro or you know, that's my homie. But I don't want to talk too much about a certain subject about their relationship because, as many of you may know, or maybe you don't know, Jackie and Mike, you guys have been married for how long, eleven years in total, eleven years in total. They just got remarried. They just renewed their vowels and that was beautiful. I have to I have to say, you guys have had a blast ethnic wedding.

Sister, your speech was amazing.

Sister, your speech was amazing.

Really, I don't remember. I was. I was a little buzzed, but it was so funny because let me, can I be honest, the first wedding it was. I was like, okay, let me tell you, guys. The first wedding there was no alcohol. No, there was only Christian.

Really, I don't remember. I was. I was a little buzzed, but it was so funny because let me, can I be honest, the first wedding it was. I was like, okay, let me tell you, guys. The first wedding there was no alcohol. No, there was only Christian.

We got married on Wednesday.

We got married on Wednesday.

They got married on a Wednesday. My mom and I. I think stuff was getting a little weird between my mom and I then, so it was the tension was weird. Anyways, Fine, it was, it was great, but this one was so much better.

They got married on a Wednesday. My mom and I. I think stuff was getting a little weird between my mom and I then, so it was the tension was weird. Anyways, Fine, it was, it was great, but this one was so much better.

And I mean it was. It's very completely different.

And I mean it was. It's very completely different.

I did.

I did.

Like an alto.

Like an alto.

So is it safe to say that you guys were more religious back then? Yes? And the mindset by the rules, living by the rules, which is there's a difference between like religion and being a person of faith. Yes, right, relations explained that real quick. I don't know who wants to go first, but you guys.

So is it safe to say that you guys were more religious back then? Yes? And the mindset by the rules, living by the rules, which is there's a difference between like religion and being a person of faith. Yes, right, relations explained that real quick. I don't know who wants to go first, but you guys.

Well very you know. I'll let Jackie explain it more in details. But back then it was more taught if you act a certain way out like if I look better outside outwardly, then then that makes you a good Christian. So that's why our first wedding you can kind of see there was a lot of like, let's make sure it looks good. But then at that time I didn't know what was more important was the inside.

Well very you know. I'll let Jackie explain it more in details. But back then it was more taught if you act a certain way out like if I look better outside outwardly, then then that makes you a good Christian. So that's why our first wedding you can kind of see there was a lot of like, let's make sure it looks good. But then at that time I didn't know what was more important was the inside.

So yeah, the relationship exactly, which I see a huge difference in you, Mike in so many different ways, you guys, because we're going to talk a little bit. And again, the whole point that I was saying was we can't talk too much. We don't want to talk too much about the depth of the relationship because they've gone through a lot and they got remarried and they're just two completely different people. Their relationship is completely different. Because Mike, my brother in law here, is going to come out with his own actually already came out with his own podcast. His podcast is called what is it called? I want him to introduce it.

So yeah, the relationship exactly, which I see a huge difference in you, Mike in so many different ways, you guys, because we're going to talk a little bit. And again, the whole point that I was saying was we can't talk too much. We don't want to talk too much about the depth of the relationship because they've gone through a lot and they got remarried and they're just two completely different people. Their relationship is completely different. Because Mike, my brother in law here, is going to come out with his own actually already came out with his own podcast. His podcast is called what is it called? I want him to introduce it.

It's embarrassing to be proud. Well, in the process, I'm working in my own self confidence and stuff like that. But it's actually going to be called the Mac effect.

It's embarrassing to be proud. Well, in the process, I'm working in my own self confidence and stuff like that. But it's actually going to be called the Mac effect.

So the Mac effect, you guys. So I think I think it's awesome, but it's also because those are your initials.

So the Mac effect, you guys. So I think I think it's awesome, but it's also because those are your initials.

Those are my initials.

Those are my initials.

Because he's a mac.

Because he's a mac.

Daddy, but he ain't no mac daddy, Okay, And then what are you going to talk about on that podcast?

Daddy, but he ain't no mac daddy, Okay, And then what are you going to talk about on that podcast?

Well, the purpose for it at first, because I already have I actually sat down with my wife and I asked for her help as far as you know, helped me how to schedule the first season. So I already have the first ten episodes as far as what we're going to discuss. But the purpose of it is to help other men. I really want to help men because I feel like we don't get that help. Like it's not easy for a man to say, hey, you know what, I'm struggling in my marriage or I'm struggling.

Well, the purpose for it at first, because I already have I actually sat down with my wife and I asked for her help as far as you know, helped me how to schedule the first season. So I already have the first ten episodes as far as what we're going to discuss. But the purpose of it is to help other men. I really want to help men because I feel like we don't get that help. Like it's not easy for a man to say, hey, you know what, I'm struggling in my marriage or I'm struggling.

As a man, especially as latinos han. Yeah, I'm a cheesemoll. There's a little bit of yeah pride.

As a man, especially as latinos han. Yeah, I'm a cheesemoll. There's a little bit of yeah pride.

Oh and I'm still going through it now. So that's kind of the purpose. And then if it branches off to other stuff, you know, for marriages and things like that, then let's go for it, you know.

Oh and I'm still going through it now. So that's kind of the purpose. And then if it branches off to other stuff, you know, for marriages and things like that, then let's go for it, you know.

And yeah, you guys are going to talk about all the because there were so many things that were said and not even said but made up too about your guys' relationship and just a lot of stuff. I'm shure, you guys are going to talk about that, which I think is super cool because you it should come out of you guys, and this is your relationship and you guys should do it together, which I think is awesome. So congratulations on that, bro. I think that's awesome. I think that that's what I do here on the podcast. I'm very honest and about everything, and that's the only way is to change lives is if we're honest and well exactly being vulnerable. There's so much power and being vulnerable. So I think that that's great, especially being a voice for Latino men in general. I mean there, I think we there's so many taboos, you know, and all this stuff. So so I think that's great. I wish you the very best, and maybe one day I can go on your podcast.

And yeah, you guys are going to talk about all the because there were so many things that were said and not even said but made up too about your guys' relationship and just a lot of stuff. I'm shure, you guys are going to talk about that, which I think is super cool because you it should come out of you guys, and this is your relationship and you guys should do it together, which I think is awesome. So congratulations on that, bro. I think that's awesome. I think that that's what I do here on the podcast. I'm very honest and about everything, and that's the only way is to change lives is if we're honest and well exactly being vulnerable. There's so much power and being vulnerable. So I think that that's great, especially being a voice for Latino men in general. I mean there, I think we there's so many taboos, you know, and all this stuff. So so I think that's great. I wish you the very best, and maybe one day I can go on your podcast.

Dude, Yeah for sure.

Dude, Yeah for sure.

Okay, well, all right, we're gonna go to mac Daddy's. I mean, not mac Daddy's, the Mac Effect. Okay. So I don't even know. I didn't really have too much planned as to what we wanted to talk about, because there's so much to talk about. I do want to kind of and I'm glad that that Mike is here because we've had, we've been on the on the podcast, and we've talked about different things, even on Janica's podcast over Comfort You guys check those episodes out as well, because we had very deep conversations on there as well. I know. Anyways, we're such cribaby and media always says, I mean, I was like, you and Jackie are like like so much alike. It's crazy. We're like goofy and silly and like.

Okay, well, all right, we're gonna go to mac Daddy's. I mean, not mac Daddy's, the Mac Effect. Okay. So I don't even know. I didn't really have too much planned as to what we wanted to talk about, because there's so much to talk about. I do want to kind of and I'm glad that that Mike is here because we've had, we've been on the on the podcast, and we've talked about different things, even on Janica's podcast over Comfort You guys check those episodes out as well, because we had very deep conversations on there as well. I know. Anyways, we're such cribaby and media always says, I mean, I was like, you and Jackie are like like so much alike. It's crazy. We're like goofy and silly and like.

The voice everything everything is true.

The voice everything everything is true.

So this is you, guys. Raised Yeah, So okay, So I wanted to talk to you about first of all, the mom makeover okay, which I was there. Yes, I helped out, but I have to tell you guys, and I said this on Thanksgiving again, I was drinking the case. I don't remember too, but it was awesome because I've seen the change in your guys' relationship and in both of you, but I got to experience it firsthand being there helping take care of you. Yeah, and I love that he was like this is my wife. Like he was like on it, you know what I mean, And like even the first day you're like, I respected like, hey, do you need me there? The very first day you're like okay, no, like I think it's it was beautiful. But anyways, I got there helping her out. But dude, let me tell you, guys, the patience of this man that I was, like, whoa asked that melanim It gives me emotional because it gets me emotional because he was very different. And he'll tell you guys about this on his podcast. He's going to be like, but he was very different. I mean even you sister were very pa You're very different. Now it's I see it. It's a very strong relationship. But the fact that he was taking care of my sister and was wiping her booty and everything, like was patient to I don't know how this guy did it. I don't know how he did it because he would wake up and take the kids to school and and he would make them their their pack, their lunch and the breakfast and take some and then come back and pick up the other one and then take care of my sister. And it was just I'm glad of that Janica and I because it wasn't just me. Janica also helped out that you freaking were there, dude, and the way that you're loving my sister, like I can tell you that I'm so grateful that you guys have stayed together and have four beautiful children, you know, and I'm very proud of you guys. I have to say it. And what I said on Thanksgiving, and I don't really remember what it was, but I know it was about your relationship. But like this guy and I was crying.

So this is you, guys. Raised Yeah, So okay, So I wanted to talk to you about first of all, the mom makeover okay, which I was there. Yes, I helped out, but I have to tell you guys, and I said this on Thanksgiving again, I was drinking the case. I don't remember too, but it was awesome because I've seen the change in your guys' relationship and in both of you, but I got to experience it firsthand being there helping take care of you. Yeah, and I love that he was like this is my wife. Like he was like on it, you know what I mean, And like even the first day you're like, I respected like, hey, do you need me there? The very first day you're like okay, no, like I think it's it was beautiful. But anyways, I got there helping her out. But dude, let me tell you, guys, the patience of this man that I was, like, whoa asked that melanim It gives me emotional because it gets me emotional because he was very different. And he'll tell you guys about this on his podcast. He's going to be like, but he was very different. I mean even you sister were very pa You're very different. Now it's I see it. It's a very strong relationship. But the fact that he was taking care of my sister and was wiping her booty and everything, like was patient to I don't know how this guy did it. I don't know how he did it because he would wake up and take the kids to school and and he would make them their their pack, their lunch and the breakfast and take some and then come back and pick up the other one and then take care of my sister. And it was just I'm glad of that Janica and I because it wasn't just me. Janica also helped out that you freaking were there, dude, and the way that you're loving my sister, like I can tell you that I'm so grateful that you guys have stayed together and have four beautiful children, you know, and I'm very proud of you guys. I have to say it. And what I said on Thanksgiving, and I don't really remember what it was, but I know it was about your relationship. But like this guy and I was crying.

I think, I think you're really grateful for him.

I think, I think you're really grateful for him.

People. I'm grateful for you to. I'm grateful for you, and I'm proud of where you guys have come and how long you guys and how hard you guys have both worked for this relationship and you guys, you guys have Can I say who your therapists are? Your counselors? Okay, because Tanya, who's also been on the podcast, you guys. I met Tanya because of my sister and Tanya, and I think I kind of touched on it a little bit. So my sister gave me five sessions to Tanya for Christmas and was it a Christmas for my birthday? Was my birthday? One of the best gifts ever, you guys, And from there developed we had like a like I mean, she's helped me out so much with so many things, and now she is also and Rudy is now Tanya's husband is also now a medial s life coach, so it's going to be. They did a whole two hour session the other day. He came to dude, I'm blown away.

People. I'm grateful for you to. I'm grateful for you, and I'm proud of where you guys have come and how long you guys and how hard you guys have both worked for this relationship and you guys, you guys have Can I say who your therapists are? Your counselors? Okay, because Tanya, who's also been on the podcast, you guys. I met Tanya because of my sister and Tanya, and I think I kind of touched on it a little bit. So my sister gave me five sessions to Tanya for Christmas and was it a Christmas for my birthday? Was my birthday? One of the best gifts ever, you guys, And from there developed we had like a like I mean, she's helped me out so much with so many things, and now she is also and Rudy is now Tanya's husband is also now a medial s life coach, so it's going to be. They did a whole two hour session the other day. He came to dude, I'm blown away.

I am mentor.

I am mentor.

He's your mentor. Yeah, so that's who helped you, guys your relationship. Right.

He's your mentor. Yeah, so that's who helped you, guys your relationship. Right.

Well, first, Tanya was his therapist before I started going.

Well, first, Tanya was his therapist before I started going.

I started going. We were separated because I you, I needed the help, so I started going to Tanya before and then uh, and it was just crazy, like Tanya really blessed me because her testimony is insane. And then uh, and then I don't know, out of the boose, I convinced her again to give you another shot. And while we were talking, I said, well, I told her like, hey, if we're going to try this again, like we're going to do things differently, which is we're definitely getting counseling, like we're not doing this alone. And those were some sessions.

I started going. We were separated because I you, I needed the help, so I started going to Tanya before and then uh, and it was just crazy, like Tanya really blessed me because her testimony is insane. And then uh, and then I don't know, out of the boose, I convinced her again to give you another shot. And while we were talking, I said, well, I told her like, hey, if we're going to try this again, like we're going to do things differently, which is we're definitely getting counseling, like we're not doing this alone. And those were some sessions.

Wow, dude, so it came from you. I didn't know this.

Wow, dude, so it came from you. I didn't know this.

Yeah.

Yeah.

See you guys, Okay, see like there's I'm a I'm a huge advocate for for for therapy. You guys, I always say so thanks to Mike, he's the one that introduced us to Tany. They're amazing breath of a breath of breath of breath of life. You guys, so if you want to check them out, But okay, so that's awesome and you guys still go with them. Yeah, it's it's I think it's do you think like it's in life thing that that well we're gonna need.

See you guys, Okay, see like there's I'm a I'm a huge advocate for for for therapy. You guys, I always say so thanks to Mike, he's the one that introduced us to Tany. They're amazing breath of a breath of breath of breath of life. You guys, so if you want to check them out, But okay, so that's awesome and you guys still go with them. Yeah, it's it's I think it's do you think like it's in life thing that that well we're gonna need.

I think definitely, just because we have different seasons in our life. I mean there's different curve balls that life throws at us, and you you just need that sounding board to get it all off.

I think definitely, just because we have different seasons in our life. I mean there's different curve balls that life throws at us, and you you just need that sounding board to get it all off.

You know.

You know.

Sometimes you're gonna feel really amazing. Sometimes you're just gonna be like, no, I need to go back, And there's nothing wrong with that. Yeah, It's not like you get better and then that's it.

Sometimes you're gonna feel really amazing. Sometimes you're just gonna be like, no, I need to go back, And there's nothing wrong with that. Yeah, It's not like you get better and then that's it.

You're good for life.

You're good for life.

Yeah. I feel it's kind of like a like a like a car. We need a sign change, we need to fine tuning exactly because I think for sure it's something that I want to do for the rest of my life. And now you know it's premarital counseling that I there are things that you know, I'm realizing and I'm not perfect right. You know, I thought I was okay, So it's like, okay, Emilio's so patient. He's just so different. I mean, you should have them on your podcast too, that would be awesome, so you guys would talk about that would be cool. How is the relationship now that you're CEO, Like, has it been Has it been tough? Honestly?

Yeah. I feel it's kind of like a like a like a car. We need a sign change, we need to fine tuning exactly because I think for sure it's something that I want to do for the rest of my life. And now you know it's premarital counseling that I there are things that you know, I'm realizing and I'm not perfect right. You know, I thought I was okay, So it's like, okay, Emilio's so patient. He's just so different. I mean, you should have them on your podcast too, that would be awesome, so you guys would talk about that would be cool. How is the relationship now that you're CEO, Like, has it been Has it been tough? Honestly?

I think, I mean, I think there's moments that make it tough.

I think, I mean, I think there's moments that make it tough.

And I'm CEO of January Enterprises by the way, just in case anyone doesn't know that's our mom anyways.

And I'm CEO of January Enterprises by the way, just in case anyone doesn't know that's our mom anyways.

I think there's moments that are tough just because I'm I'm totally like not Mike is taking care of the home, so there's growth that he.

I think there's moments that are tough just because I'm I'm totally like not Mike is taking care of the home, so there's growth that he.

Had to learn, and then there I had to let go in order for me to take care of Jerry.

Had to learn, and then there I had to let go in order for me to take care of Jerry.

But it's a lot of checking in and when we got to talk, and sometimes being intentional about having those meetings is the tough part. Like it takes a lot of intentionality because we can get a disconnect and you don't want that. I don't want to get into a routine and then check out of my home because I'm trying to take care of this.

But it's a lot of checking in and when we got to talk, and sometimes being intentional about having those meetings is the tough part. Like it takes a lot of intentionality because we can get a disconnect and you don't want that. I don't want to get into a routine and then check out of my home because I'm trying to take care of this.

So you're being smart.

So you're being smart.

There's a lot of intentionality that's needed.

There's a lot of intentionality that's needed.

Okay, So when you say take care of the home, like, what do you mean? Like he I saw it, So I mean he you take.

Okay, So when you say take care of the home, like, what do you mean? Like he I saw it, So I mean he you take.

Care of everything he does. He's significed a lot.

Care of everything he does. He's significed a lot.

Yeah, And that's what I wanted to ask you, because again, being a Latino man, how is that?

Yeah, And that's what I wanted to ask you, because again, being a Latino man, how is that?

Well, there's and I'll go more into depth, you know some other time, either here mine or it doesn't matter. But what's crazy is just that you know, there's there's past trauma that we're still living through or we were living through. So just to kind of give a little bit of an example in our I always say in our first marriage because we're in our second one, you know, but in our first marriage, we kind of tried the I quit my job and I was trying to pursue real estate at that time. And at that time, real estate is just like it's infested with agents, Like everyone has a THEO or a THEA or someone that's in real estate. So it's just it's hard. And then it wasn't working for us, and that's when we kind of started having our hardship, and that's when we broke up. When we separated, So then coming back together. I was working, She's working, and then we get hit with the hey, you know, Jerry's coming. I'm gonna start working for my mom. It's gonna become serious. What do we do? And we start noticing the kids are just everywhere because I was so busy at work, she was busy at work, and we had a nanny or a babysitter, but like JJ when he would go to the babysitter, he would just start crying like he didn't like it.

Well, there's and I'll go more into depth, you know some other time, either here mine or it doesn't matter. But what's crazy is just that you know, there's there's past trauma that we're still living through or we were living through. So just to kind of give a little bit of an example in our I always say in our first marriage because we're in our second one, you know, but in our first marriage, we kind of tried the I quit my job and I was trying to pursue real estate at that time. And at that time, real estate is just like it's infested with agents, Like everyone has a THEO or a THEA or someone that's in real estate. So it's just it's hard. And then it wasn't working for us, and that's when we kind of started having our hardship, and that's when we broke up. When we separated, So then coming back together. I was working, She's working, and then we get hit with the hey, you know, Jerry's coming. I'm gonna start working for my mom. It's gonna become serious. What do we do? And we start noticing the kids are just everywhere because I was so busy at work, she was busy at work, and we had a nanny or a babysitter, but like JJ when he would go to the babysitter, he would just start crying like he didn't like it.

Yeah, which made that for six months.

Yeah, which made that for six months.

Yeah, yeah, first, so it was it was quite some time. And then eventually I just told her, I said, hey, look, I'll be honest, like at my job too, I'm unhappy because it's it's always I was a recruiter, and it's always it's always like get more people, get more people like nunka. It's never enough, so there's always demand, demand, demand. So then I'm like, I'm not happy with that, like I you know, I'm not, and we just kind of both felt like should you stay home? And then I dedicate myself into this full time, which.

Yeah, yeah, first, so it was it was quite some time. And then eventually I just told her, I said, hey, look, I'll be honest, like at my job too, I'm unhappy because it's it's always I was a recruiter, and it's always it's always like get more people, get more people like nunka. It's never enough, so there's always demand, demand, demand. So then I'm like, I'm not happy with that, like I you know, I'm not, and we just kind of both felt like should you stay home? And then I dedicate myself into this full time, which.

For for us it's it was hard.

For for us it's it was hard.

It seemed like it was going to be the best thing for our family, but it was also carried trauma from from what happened the first time. So it's like we had to intentionally heal those things that way we can do this because it felt like we both had an understanding that this is what needs to happen.

It seemed like it was going to be the best thing for our family, but it was also carried trauma from from what happened the first time. So it's like we had to intentionally heal those things that way we can do this because it felt like we both had an understanding that this is what needs to happen.

But it's scary.

But it's scary.

It's scary. Yeah.

It's scary. Yeah.

And then and then the machismo part too, is like, you know, you don't want people saying that you know, it's not Montaniano and all this stuff. So I had my sessions with Rudy and I'm like, what do you think? And Rudy's like, Bro, if God puts you in a place, what does it matter what people say, That's the place God puts you in. And I still battle with it till today. Like till today, I'm like, man, like I feel like I need to be doing something, but you see the fruits in the house.

And then and then the machismo part too, is like, you know, you don't want people saying that you know, it's not Montaniano and all this stuff. So I had my sessions with Rudy and I'm like, what do you think? And Rudy's like, Bro, if God puts you in a place, what does it matter what people say, That's the place God puts you in. And I still battle with it till today. Like till today, I'm like, man, like I feel like I need to be doing something, but you see the fruits in the house.

Like you are doing something like Jackie Saw.

Like you are doing something like Jackie Saw.

I tell Jackie all the time. You know, I'm gonna be honest. I used to be the one that would criticize the stay at home moms. I'll be honest. I would say, you know, how hard is.

I tell Jackie all the time. You know, I'm gonna be honest. I used to be the one that would criticize the stay at home moms. I'll be honest. I would say, you know, how hard is.

It to stay home to cook and to clean?

It to stay home to cook and to clean?

Yeah, Like I'm like you're cooking, you're cleaning, you're picking up the kids, you're dropping off, Like, how hard can this be? It is, And I've been doing it for about a year and I'm just like, no, honestly, my respects because where you start at six am and you don't stop till eight nine o'clock at night, I know. And you don't get paid for this, dude, so it's like it's work.

Yeah, Like I'm like you're cooking, you're cleaning, you're picking up the kids, you're dropping off, Like, how hard can this be? It is, And I've been doing it for about a year and I'm just like, no, honestly, my respects because where you start at six am and you don't stop till eight nine o'clock at night, I know. And you don't get paid for this, dude, so it's like it's work.

Yeah. No, And I saw it, and I commend you because it's a question I've been wanting to ask you because we've never we have never talked about it, and my sister was just like, and it just says, you know, it works. I respect it works for you, guys. I see why, and I think you raising your children is way better than someone else. Especially if JJ was crying. There's a reason why he was crying, so he prefers his dad. While you're doing what you got to do, and you figure that out in your organizing everything, then you guys can figure out what you do next year the following. But I think it's definitely an amazing thing that you're doing because I saw you wake up super early. My sister couldn't even talk to the kid she was in so much she just felt not so nauseous. You guys, that's the whole other thing we can talk about another time, but her experience. But it is a lot of work. It is a lot of work. In a way. It's kind of like, oh, just go and wake up and go to work and come back and but staying home because a dish a boom. That's why I was like when I was like, I'm gonna help them watch the dish, it like I'm gonna like, I don't want him to worry because he was caring for my sister and then the kids, and it's a lot. So I think I personally feel that that's that's dope that you that you could say, I'm gonna put my pride to the side, and I f what everyone else says middle fingers up and boom because it doesn't matter. Rudy's absolutely right. It's what works for you, guys. And I think it's awesome that you can go and you do what you're doing for mom, which I know that's hard in itself. Sister.

Yeah. No, And I saw it, and I commend you because it's a question I've been wanting to ask you because we've never we have never talked about it, and my sister was just like, and it just says, you know, it works. I respect it works for you, guys. I see why, and I think you raising your children is way better than someone else. Especially if JJ was crying. There's a reason why he was crying, so he prefers his dad. While you're doing what you got to do, and you figure that out in your organizing everything, then you guys can figure out what you do next year the following. But I think it's definitely an amazing thing that you're doing because I saw you wake up super early. My sister couldn't even talk to the kid she was in so much she just felt not so nauseous. You guys, that's the whole other thing we can talk about another time, but her experience. But it is a lot of work. It is a lot of work. In a way. It's kind of like, oh, just go and wake up and go to work and come back and but staying home because a dish a boom. That's why I was like when I was like, I'm gonna help them watch the dish, it like I'm gonna like, I don't want him to worry because he was caring for my sister and then the kids, and it's a lot. So I think I personally feel that that's that's dope that you that you could say, I'm gonna put my pride to the side, and I f what everyone else says middle fingers up and boom because it doesn't matter. Rudy's absolutely right. It's what works for you, guys. And I think it's awesome that you can go and you do what you're doing for mom, which I know that's hard in itself. Sister.

I get home super tired.

I get home super tired.

Sometimes it's a lot, it's mentally emotionally, especially with everything that we've been through. The past year with the family, and I'm sure you hear it, because I'm sure she cries at night and tells you. And it's a lot of stress. And that's another thing, Like I say it all the time, I'm so proud of my sister, and like it's I was there and what it is to my mom was here physically, like, but when I was helping my mom build her her her empire, that was hard. But even now not having her and you want to ask her, like, Mom, what do you want? It's just the right decision.

Sometimes it's a lot, it's mentally emotionally, especially with everything that we've been through. The past year with the family, and I'm sure you hear it, because I'm sure she cries at night and tells you. And it's a lot of stress. And that's another thing, Like I say it all the time, I'm so proud of my sister, and like it's I was there and what it is to my mom was here physically, like, but when I was helping my mom build her her her empire, that was hard. But even now not having her and you want to ask her, like, Mom, what do you want? It's just the right decision.

That's I'm like, damn, I don't even know what she would want.

That's I'm like, damn, I don't even know what she would want.

And how like you have your business, you guys have the Colores, you have your household, you have it's so.

And how like you have your business, you guys have the Colores, you have your household, you have it's so.

Much, it is, it's a lot. I think, like I said last time, it just takes a lot of intentionality. I think with mom in the business, there's been a lot of science, which I'm so grateful because I get peace.

Much, it is, it's a lot. I think, like I said last time, it just takes a lot of intentionality. I think with mom in the business, there's been a lot of science, which I'm so grateful because I get peace.

But then you know, there's a lot.

But then you know, there's a lot.

Of drama as well, and I have I think this year has been not bringing that stuff home, yeah, you know, and not checking out at home because I'm so tired from the day and so emotionally drained or mentally drained. And Tanya told me the other day, like, you, I think you've checked out a little bit.

Of drama as well, and I have I think this year has been not bringing that stuff home, yeah, you know, and not checking out at home because I'm so tired from the day and so emotionally drained or mentally drained. And Tanya told me the other day, like, you, I think you've checked out a little bit.

You've got to be intentional.

You've got to be intentional.

At home, yeah, and keep us like this together. So it's like, all right, pulling energy from I don't know where, to ask the kids how they were, and help with this and just different things. But I really I've been trying not to bring the emotional stress home, yeah, because you know, I mean, Tanya told me once that the mom is like the brings changes the energy at home. So thermostat, Yes, it's the thermostat of the home, and if I'm not okay, then everyone else is going to feel it.

At home, yeah, and keep us like this together. So it's like, all right, pulling energy from I don't know where, to ask the kids how they were, and help with this and just different things. But I really I've been trying not to bring the emotional stress home, yeah, because you know, I mean, Tanya told me once that the mom is like the brings changes the energy at home. So thermostat, Yes, it's the thermostat of the home, and if I'm not okay, then everyone else is going to feel it.

Damn. Yeah, and that's a lot of pressure. Maybe huh, a little bit.

Damn. Yeah, and that's a lot of pressure. Maybe huh, a little bit.

But I do want to say, you know, publicly as well, and I've said it to her privately, that she's doing a great job, that I'm proud of her as her husband, Like I see the cleanup that she did with the company, dude, like like it's almost like she threw almost everything out and it's like we need to rebuild from ground up. And I see that and I've helped her with some of that too. Like we're at the office trying to organize files correctly and things that you you can just tell from Casello. I don't know, Masasi. And like eight o'clock, nine o'clock at night, kids there they're eating in the in the breakroom or in the in the conference room while we're doing putting the files away or whatever. And it's like, man, and then I'm just I'm proud of her because I even see like it's silly, but even in like the quality of the shirts, I'm just like, this is way better.

But I do want to say, you know, publicly as well, and I've said it to her privately, that she's doing a great job, that I'm proud of her as her husband, Like I see the cleanup that she did with the company, dude, like like it's almost like she threw almost everything out and it's like we need to rebuild from ground up. And I see that and I've helped her with some of that too. Like we're at the office trying to organize files correctly and things that you you can just tell from Casello. I don't know, Masasi. And like eight o'clock, nine o'clock at night, kids there they're eating in the in the breakroom or in the in the conference room while we're doing putting the files away or whatever. And it's like, man, and then I'm just I'm proud of her because I even see like it's silly, but even in like the quality of the shirts, I'm just like, this is way better.

Everything's better. It's good. Okay. So I I just my my little sister. Guys grew up. That's really that's all I can say. Like I grew a pair. It's just like I'm like I even said it. I think the other day I was like this, she's now the big sister. And that's how I feel. It's like sometimes I'm like, Okay, this is my sister's position. I respect her. I respect it, like and I want to say thank you to you too, honestly, Mike, for for allowing her, because this is a huge thank you for letting her take on this responsibility for all of us, you know, for my for all of us from my mother because it is it is. It was a mess, and it's still kind of. We have a lot of work. There's a lot of stuff, you guys, stuff that we've never talked about that I don't know if we ever will talk about publicly, but only if it's necessary, only if it's necessary.

Everything's better. It's good. Okay. So I I just my my little sister. Guys grew up. That's really that's all I can say. Like I grew a pair. It's just like I'm like I even said it. I think the other day I was like this, she's now the big sister. And that's how I feel. It's like sometimes I'm like, Okay, this is my sister's position. I respect her. I respect it, like and I want to say thank you to you too, honestly, Mike, for for allowing her, because this is a huge thank you for letting her take on this responsibility for all of us, you know, for my for all of us from my mother because it is it is. It was a mess, and it's still kind of. We have a lot of work. There's a lot of stuff, you guys, stuff that we've never talked about that I don't know if we ever will talk about publicly, but only if it's necessary, only if it's necessary.

I'm not going to speak details. But even Jackie saw, like I saw certain files where I saw and I saw how generous my mother in law was, and I even just started crying because I'm like, that's a lot.

I'm not going to speak details. But even Jackie saw, like I saw certain files where I saw and I saw how generous my mother in law was, and I even just started crying because I'm like, that's a lot.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, an.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, an.

I I do want to say I'm grateful for Mike because I felt when coming in it's yeah, yess, I felt unsure of myself and my abilities. But then also as a mom, it's like I'm.

I I do want to say I'm grateful for Mike because I felt when coming in it's yeah, yess, I felt unsure of myself and my abilities. But then also as a mom, it's like I'm.

Only used to being home with my kids.

Only used to being home with my kids.

I mean I worked from home and the coloratas and stuff like that, and he's definitely just having that peace of mind really allows me to keep myself focused at work into and the decisions that need to be made, whether it's JRF for Jerry.

I mean I worked from home and the coloratas and stuff like that, and he's definitely just having that peace of mind really allows me to keep myself focused at work into and the decisions that need to be made, whether it's JRF for Jerry.

But you know, I'm.

But you know, I'm.

Grateful because he's he's even definitely he's grown, like he's learned to cook, you know, not all the big.

Grateful because he's he's even definitely he's grown, like he's learned to cook, you know, not all the big.

Things, but you know he can make some mac and cheese.

Things, but you know he can make some mac and cheese.

He makes a killer, a killer uh, strilled cheese. Things good.

He makes a killer, a killer uh, strilled cheese. Things good.

Yeah, so he's that. You know, I'm just proud And it might not look normal.

Yeah, so he's that. You know, I'm just proud And it might not look normal.

What people say, but it's really what's best for us and and that's all that matters.

What people say, but it's really what's best for us and and that's all that matters.

That's all that matters. And the kids are happier, and.

That's all that matters. And the kids are happier, and.

They really are.

They really are.

They're doing better in school, Like it just kind of goes to show the need of a father in the home. Yes, you know, like they're doing so good in school, they know how to express themselves better, Like they're so trustworthy. We have Jayla is a teenager now, and you would think this is the time where it's gonna get really hard because boys and just whatever and drugs and all that stuff.

They're doing better in school, Like it just kind of goes to show the need of a father in the home. Yes, you know, like they're doing so good in school, they know how to express themselves better, Like they're so trustworthy. We have Jayla is a teenager now, and you would think this is the time where it's gonna get really hard because boys and just whatever and drugs and all that stuff.

But she's extremely open. And I've even come to see like she's more open with him that I was.

But she's extremely open. And I've even come to see like she's more open with him that I was.

That they tell him everything. Yes, oh in this guy, and he did that and he has a whole conversation. I'm listening and I'm like, damn, the kids really like there of him. Yeah. Does it make you feel any type of way, like a little I don't know, jealousy or.

That they tell him everything. Yes, oh in this guy, and he did that and he has a whole conversation. I'm listening and I'm like, damn, the kids really like there of him. Yeah. Does it make you feel any type of way, like a little I don't know, jealousy or.

Like, no, honestly, it does. Sometimes I've had moments where I've.

Like, no, honestly, it does. Sometimes I've had moments where I've.

Felt very like outside, like I get home and I feel like I don't belong.

Felt very like outside, like I get home and I feel like I don't belong.

And I've thought about like Mom, like if she's had ever felt that way, but that's with me. Yeah, Like it's like.

And I've thought about like Mom, like if she's had ever felt that way, but that's with me. Yeah, Like it's like.

Sometimes and then obviously with my my sessions with Tanya, she's just she's like no, like you just got to fight that and ask them and then they're they're dying to talk about it. So it's like a little battle that I've had to learn as a full time working mom. It's like, Okay, how do I how do I get myself back into the family mode. So yeah, but there's moments it's it's hard, and I've thought of Mom. I'm like, man, I can't I kind of get what she might have been feeling, especially if she left for the weekends and you know.

Sometimes and then obviously with my my sessions with Tanya, she's just she's like no, like you just got to fight that and ask them and then they're they're dying to talk about it. So it's like a little battle that I've had to learn as a full time working mom. It's like, Okay, how do I how do I get myself back into the family mode. So yeah, but there's moments it's it's hard, and I've thought of Mom. I'm like, man, I can't I kind of get what she might have been feeling, especially if she left for the weekends and you know.

And she did and I didn't understand that then. And I when she asked me to move out, and she's like, I just want my home to feel like my home. I want my kids to feel like my kids. Because it was obviously this is a marriage very different, but like I felt like in a way that was like a marriage. She was the husband, yeah, and I was the wife and I stayed home and the kids, and it's like I would lay down the rules and then she would come and it's like, what do you mean, Like I took away his iPad because he's been a bad boy, but but I haven't seen him. Yeah, so it's just like I get that, you know what I mean. So I was wondering. I was like, it's very different, but no, mom felt that way where I was like, now I get it. Now, I'm like, damn, I get it. It was but it was more of like.

And she did and I didn't understand that then. And I when she asked me to move out, and she's like, I just want my home to feel like my home. I want my kids to feel like my kids. Because it was obviously this is a marriage very different, but like I felt like in a way that was like a marriage. She was the husband, yeah, and I was the wife and I stayed home and the kids, and it's like I would lay down the rules and then she would come and it's like, what do you mean, Like I took away his iPad because he's been a bad boy, but but I haven't seen him. Yeah, so it's just like I get that, you know what I mean. So I was wondering. I was like, it's very different, but no, mom felt that way where I was like, now I get it. Now, I'm like, damn, I get it. It was but it was more of like.

She felt left out.

She felt left out.

She felt left out, you know. But that's why I'm glad that you guys are communication. Communication. That's what I was gonna ask you for a marriage now that in your second marriage, your new marriage. What are the like, the best advice that you can give us that are trying to make things work. You just said communication. That's huge.

She felt left out, you know. But that's why I'm glad that you guys are communication. Communication. That's what I was gonna ask you for a marriage now that in your second marriage, your new marriage. What are the like, the best advice that you can give us that are trying to make things work. You just said communication. That's huge.

I think that's personage.

I think that's personage.

What's another one's always right?

What's another one's always right?

No, yes, but no, I think it's definitely communication.

No, yes, but no, I think it's definitely communication.

But more communication when you don't feel like.

But more communication when you don't feel like.

It, there's gonna be there's like there's sometimes there's moments where you're like I don't even but that those are the moments you should push through the most I feel a lot of forgiveness because you have to remember, like I thought, just because I had met him at church, he was gonna be like the perfect guy and he was gonna have it all together.

It, there's gonna be there's like there's sometimes there's moments where you're like I don't even but that those are the moments you should push through the most I feel a lot of forgiveness because you have to remember, like I thought, just because I had met him at church, he was gonna be like the perfect guy and he was gonna have it all together.

But he comes with baggage.

But he comes with baggage.

I come with baggage, and you have to be ready to like be ready to forgive because they're not gonna be perfect. They're gonna make mistakes. I'm gonna make mistakes, so definitely, I think. And then intentionality, especially now, like because he's tired for me with the kids all day, I'm tired for being at work. But it's like intentionality and our personal relationship. Just because we're taking care of kids together doesn't mean we're building our marriage.

I come with baggage, and you have to be ready to like be ready to forgive because they're not gonna be perfect. They're gonna make mistakes. I'm gonna make mistakes, so definitely, I think. And then intentionality, especially now, like because he's tired for me with the kids all day, I'm tired for being at work. But it's like intentionality and our personal relationship. Just because we're taking care of kids together doesn't mean we're building our marriage.

Right, So you guys still have to find that time for.

Right, So you guys still have to find that time for.

You Yeah, which is a little hard sometimes, you know, because I decided to move all the way far far away, so I don't how my siblings to help take.

You Yeah, which is a little hard sometimes, you know, because I decided to move all the way far far away, so I don't how my siblings to help take.

Care of the kids.

Care of the kids.

But I mean, we gotta figure that out, Tanya and Rue, he really taught us that date nights don't mean date nights to get out of your house. That means like just turn off the TV and talk to each other, play a game.

But I mean, we gotta figure that out, Tanya and Rue, he really taught us that date nights don't mean date nights to get out of your house. That means like just turn off the TV and talk to each other, play a game.

Yeah, Okay, Yeah, yeah night, is that go out again? Okay? Cool? Just just be together?

Yeah, Okay, Yeah, yeah night, is that go out again? Okay? Cool? Just just be together?

Yeah, without our phones, That's that's a big thing.

Yeah, without our phones, That's that's a big thing.

And have you, sister, ever thought of in this whole almost two years of being the CEO, have you thought I've never asked you this, but have you read that I I don't want to do this. I want to quit?

And have you, sister, ever thought of in this whole almost two years of being the CEO, have you thought I've never asked you this, but have you read that I I don't want to do this. I want to quit?

Probably a handful of times.

Probably a handful of times.

Okay, I think.

Okay, I think.

I think it's then it's mostly emotional. Okay, that's mostly like I just can't deal with the emotional stress. The there's really hard decisions that need to be made, and I'm like, I wish someone else could make these. I wish it wasn't me. So I have thought and I've prayed. I'm like, Okay, when how long am I going to be doing this for?

I think it's then it's mostly emotional. Okay, that's mostly like I just can't deal with the emotional stress. The there's really hard decisions that need to be made, and I'm like, I wish someone else could make these. I wish it wasn't me. So I have thought and I've prayed. I'm like, Okay, when how long am I going to be doing this for?

Is this forever? Is this just an assignment for this moment?

Is this forever? Is this just an assignment for this moment?

Okay? Because I don't want you to like give up on your vit. Yeah, so I've I really need you to like that to decide a bit, but just a little bit. But I'm still working on Like I've recorded a few things when I have time could And this year is definitely the year, you know, my album's coming out. Thank God. I can't wait for you guys to listen to it.

Okay? Because I don't want you to like give up on your vit. Yeah, so I've I really need you to like that to decide a bit, but just a little bit. But I'm still working on Like I've recorded a few things when I have time could And this year is definitely the year, you know, my album's coming out. Thank God. I can't wait for you guys to listen to it.

So I'm also going to have to get used to like whatever change comes to readjust again.

So I'm also going to have to get used to like whatever change comes to readjust again.

And also to say, Okay, you're organizing, and it took a long time to organize and put everything the right way and situate it. But once you have those people, I've told you it's okay, then you delegate and you're supervising and you could still do you and do your family. Because I think you don't want to live with Oh, Mom doesn't want that for you. I can tell you right now. I know Mom, Okay, we all know, but I feel like Mom would say I need you. She wanted you to be on that stay. She wanted you to sing, she wanted you to She wants all of us to do what we want to do, you know. So, and I know you never have to worry about all of us or we all of us, and I can probably speak for all of your siblings as well, like we're gonna be fine with it. We want you to be happy, you know what I mean, Like your family is important. So I wanted to say that. And the sister if there's anything a piece of advice as far as like what not to do in a relationship, like something that is like don't do this or anything like. For instance, for me, I have a problem with when I'm upset, I bring up stuff that happened in the past that you hurt my feelings about you have it and that's not good. Tanya's like, huh uh, yeah, she gotta faget. Yeah, She's like, you need to stop doing that. And I said, okay, So that's like my little card. I was like, well, you did this, and this is why I'm like this, and I'm like mad and I'm sad and you know, but for me, that's that is there one that you guys have.

And also to say, Okay, you're organizing, and it took a long time to organize and put everything the right way and situate it. But once you have those people, I've told you it's okay, then you delegate and you're supervising and you could still do you and do your family. Because I think you don't want to live with Oh, Mom doesn't want that for you. I can tell you right now. I know Mom, Okay, we all know, but I feel like Mom would say I need you. She wanted you to be on that stay. She wanted you to sing, she wanted you to She wants all of us to do what we want to do, you know. So, and I know you never have to worry about all of us or we all of us, and I can probably speak for all of your siblings as well, like we're gonna be fine with it. We want you to be happy, you know what I mean, Like your family is important. So I wanted to say that. And the sister if there's anything a piece of advice as far as like what not to do in a relationship, like something that is like don't do this or anything like. For instance, for me, I have a problem with when I'm upset, I bring up stuff that happened in the past that you hurt my feelings about you have it and that's not good. Tanya's like, huh uh, yeah, she gotta faget. Yeah, She's like, you need to stop doing that. And I said, okay, So that's like my little card. I was like, well, you did this, and this is why I'm like this, and I'm like mad and I'm sad and you know, but for me, that's that is there one that you guys have.

I mean I used to be like that. To be honest with you, I could definitely hold a grudge for quite some time. Still do, but through counseling and mentorship, you know, they kind of open your eyes to realize, like why you're doing that, And when you realize you're doing that, you're like, oh man, that's kind of childish and petty of me. So then it forces you to change. But you know, we all have we all go through our process and we all go through our growth at our own time. So it's almost like I'm not judging anyone else for doing it, you know. For me, it's just almost like like it's crazy, like if I don't know, Like like the other day, Jayla was like, man, that everyone knows the password to your phone, and I said everyone in this household. I said, everyone in this household. And why because I'm not hiding anything, so you guys can go through my phone at any time when you want and go for it, you know. And she just kind of looks at it, looks at me, and she's like, Okay, whatever da And for her it's like whatever.

I mean I used to be like that. To be honest with you, I could definitely hold a grudge for quite some time. Still do, but through counseling and mentorship, you know, they kind of open your eyes to realize, like why you're doing that, And when you realize you're doing that, you're like, oh man, that's kind of childish and petty of me. So then it forces you to change. But you know, we all have we all go through our process and we all go through our growth at our own time. So it's almost like I'm not judging anyone else for doing it, you know. For me, it's just almost like like it's crazy, like if I don't know, Like like the other day, Jayla was like, man, that everyone knows the password to your phone, and I said everyone in this household. I said, everyone in this household. And why because I'm not hiding anything, so you guys can go through my phone at any time when you want and go for it, you know. And she just kind of looks at it, looks at me, and she's like, Okay, whatever da And for her it's like whatever.

Not.

Not.

But but I know in the future one day she's going to look back at that and be like, Wow, there's there's transparency there exactly. That's awesome.

But but I know in the future one day she's going to look back at that and be like, Wow, there's there's transparency there exactly. That's awesome.

And that's what I see in you too, Mike, Like where you for you even saying like, you know what, I'm still working on this, I was this way that I don't. We had a conversation a few months ago and we talked about it, and I was like, Dude, that shows growth when we can say, hey, I'm not perfect, I've messed up. I have to up here like that. That's awesome.

And that's what I see in you too, Mike, Like where you for you even saying like, you know what, I'm still working on this, I was this way that I don't. We had a conversation a few months ago and we talked about it, and I was like, Dude, that shows growth when we can say, hey, I'm not perfect, I've messed up. I have to up here like that. That's awesome.

Yeah. No, And I even noticed it, like when you were opening the show or the episodever, like, well, I even tell Jackie it recently in a conversation that we were having, I said, with me, talk to me straightforward, like tell me like, hey, you did this wrong, or I don't trust because of this. Tell me, because you know, I'm not afraid to see or to hear that and see if maybe I am wrong or maybe I can help heal you for you thinking what you're thinking, you know, because we're afraid to say, like for example, you know, if she she's afraid that I'm being in faithful, she might be afraid to ask the question. Well, I don't want to ask him if he because he's just going to straight up li to me and to me, I'm like, be honest, like, if that's the fear you have, ask me and then we and then like you'll be able to see it either in his in the reflection and how he responds like you know, and go for it, like you know, my mom used to say, so I'm like, okay, yeah.

Yeah. No, And I even noticed it, like when you were opening the show or the episodever, like, well, I even tell Jackie it recently in a conversation that we were having, I said, with me, talk to me straightforward, like tell me like, hey, you did this wrong, or I don't trust because of this. Tell me, because you know, I'm not afraid to see or to hear that and see if maybe I am wrong or maybe I can help heal you for you thinking what you're thinking, you know, because we're afraid to say, like for example, you know, if she she's afraid that I'm being in faithful, she might be afraid to ask the question. Well, I don't want to ask him if he because he's just going to straight up li to me and to me, I'm like, be honest, like, if that's the fear you have, ask me and then we and then like you'll be able to see it either in his in the reflection and how he responds like you know, and go for it, like you know, my mom used to say, so I'm like, okay, yeah.

And my mom always used to say, ask asking you will learn. Don't be that little girl that's scared to lift your hand. Always ask questions, you know. So it's like it's true you gotta ask in order to know. So okay, sister, so you could be doing anything and everything. Okay, you could have said no, I don't want to do this, CEO Jr. E. Because whatever reasons, why did you say yes?

And my mom always used to say, ask asking you will learn. Don't be that little girl that's scared to lift your hand. Always ask questions, you know. So it's like it's true you gotta ask in order to know. So okay, sister, so you could be doing anything and everything. Okay, you could have said no, I don't want to do this, CEO Jr. E. Because whatever reasons, why did you say yes?

Well?

Well?

I prayed a lot about it because it was going to be a sacrifice on many different levels. And I felt God say it was actually an analogy of like a basketball in our hands is nothing, but in the hands of Lebron James, it's millions and millions of dollars. And I felt God say, this company, in the right hands will be blessed abundantly. And I really felt like, Okay, it's gonna be hard, and it's gonna help me grow, and it has helped me grow. I felt Mom so close like teaching me really to grow.

I prayed a lot about it because it was going to be a sacrifice on many different levels. And I felt God say it was actually an analogy of like a basketball in our hands is nothing, but in the hands of Lebron James, it's millions and millions of dollars. And I felt God say, this company, in the right hands will be blessed abundantly. And I really felt like, Okay, it's gonna be hard, and it's gonna help me grow, and it has helped me grow. I felt Mom so close like teaching me really to grow.

But it's I feel like.

But it's I feel like.

It's gonna be blessed because it's going to be in there finally in the right hands.

It's gonna be blessed because it's going to be in there finally in the right hands.

And that's not just me the right hands.

And that's not just me the right hands.

But us. Yeah, and you've been really good with involving us and everything. I think you've been so great with that. You think you're doing a great job, sister, And I'm sorry for everything that has happened and publicly and so much crap that has been said. And you know, just for the record, did anyone force you to do this job?

But us. Yeah, and you've been really good with involving us and everything. I think you've been so great with that. You think you're doing a great job, sister, And I'm sorry for everything that has happened and publicly and so much crap that has been said. And you know, just for the record, did anyone force you to do this job?

No one forced me to do this job, and no one forced me to sue anyone.

No one forced me to do this job, and no one forced me to sue anyone.

It was the right decision that needed to be made.

It was the right decision that needed to be made.

Okay, sister, Okay, great, because for some reason everyone thinks I forced you and that I'm the big bad witch that is like, do this, Jackie, and do this. Johnny and Jenica you say this, and Mikey you be a penis, And no, it was not me. You guys kids, and they're not kids. They're grown as hell. Johnny's twenty three. They're grown. They have You guys have always had a mind of your own. And I'm just I'm here and I respect them, and if I'm like, hey, this seems a little weird, at the end of the day, you have a mind of your own, and you have grown so much in so many different ways. You're so different for the better. You've grown in every way, and I just I wanted to kind of say that because I'm just like sometimes I'm like, oh, I wanted to out and safe, get on alive and just go to people's houses, and I'm like ah, because but I'm like, okay, I'm gonna compose. You gotta trust God.

Okay, sister, Okay, great, because for some reason everyone thinks I forced you and that I'm the big bad witch that is like, do this, Jackie, and do this. Johnny and Jenica you say this, and Mikey you be a penis, And no, it was not me. You guys kids, and they're not kids. They're grown as hell. Johnny's twenty three. They're grown. They have You guys have always had a mind of your own. And I'm just I'm here and I respect them, and if I'm like, hey, this seems a little weird, at the end of the day, you have a mind of your own, and you have grown so much in so many different ways. You're so different for the better. You've grown in every way, and I just I wanted to kind of say that because I'm just like sometimes I'm like, oh, I wanted to out and safe, get on alive and just go to people's houses, and I'm like ah, because but I'm like, okay, I'm gonna compose. You gotta trust God.

Trust God, and he knows everything.

Trust God, and he knows everything.

And just for the record, when I was thinking about this, because just the decision to do the lawsuit was not easy, I think for any of us.

And just for the record, when I was thinking about this, because just the decision to do the lawsuit was not easy, I think for any of us.

Yeah, it was very hard.

Yeah, it was very hard.

There was days where it's like, let's do this, and there was days like I can't. This is crazy. But you're the one that told me.

There was days where it's like, let's do this, and there was days like I can't. This is crazy. But you're the one that told me.

Let's just pray about it. Let's pray a little bit, and we did. We gave it a whole year.

Let's just pray about it. Let's pray a little bit, and we did. We gave it a whole year.

So a whole year, you guys, And so I just you know, you can't talk about the details, obviously, because we're going to leave that in the hands of the law and we're just trying to do things as right as possible. I know some people might think, oh my god, they're stealing their grandpa. It's so much. It's beyond that. And unfortunately, a lot of our family has been a lot very business and fortunately or unfortunately, what's right is right, and Mom worked very hard for myself and my siblings, and it is what it is. People want to understand it until.

So a whole year, you guys, And so I just you know, you can't talk about the details, obviously, because we're going to leave that in the hands of the law and we're just trying to do things as right as possible. I know some people might think, oh my god, they're stealing their grandpa. It's so much. It's beyond that. And unfortunately, a lot of our family has been a lot very business and fortunately or unfortunately, what's right is right, and Mom worked very hard for myself and my siblings, and it is what it is. People want to understand it until.

They know the detail, and it comes down to whether you're healthy or not. And I think when you're not healthy, it's when you make it personal like it's family. But if you take the titles away, if you take away grandpa, and if you take away granddaughter, and you really find out what's going on. Wait, this deal didn't pay this deal? Well that's wrong. It's that simple. But because of years and we're healing from us, right like from us, and I could only imagine they have to go through their healing because so many things happen and they thought that was the right way to do business back then. But it's like no, so but then it's like take away that from someone that was used to that and it you know, like it's just it's gonna happen because they.