Here’s how to tell if you’re a blamer: When something goes wrong, do you immediately want to know whose fault it is or do you make room for empathy and accountability? If you’re guilty of the former, you’re probably a bit of a blamer—But take heart, you’re in good company. 

We all have these tendencies, this is normal. It's how we take note of our actions, emotions and behaviours and acknowledge ways to improve the response. 

Another beauty from my favourite Brene Brown