This week Hilary Saxton explores the impact of silencing your inner critic to boost self-confidence. She explains that overcoming self-doubt involves a transformation of both mindset and actionable steps. Hilary discusses the detrimental effects of allowing the inner critic to dominate, such as missed opportunities, increased stress, poor decision-making, and diminished self-esteem. Through a personal story about coaching a hockey team to unexpected success, she illustrates the powerful role of self-belief. Hilary provides practical advice for improving self-belief, starting with small wins and positive self-talk. The episode is a motivational guide to shifting away from self-criticism and embracing a mindset that supports growth and achievement.

www.hilarysaxton.com

This week Hilary Saxton explores the impact of silencing your inner critic to boost self-confidence. She explains that overcoming self-doubt involves a transformation of both mindset and actionable steps. Hilary discusses the detrimental effects of allowing the inner critic to dominate, such as missed opportunities, increased stress, poor decision-making, and diminished self-esteem. Through a personal story about coaching a hockey team to unexpected success, she illustrates the powerful role of self-belief. Hilary provides practical advice for improving self-belief, starting with small wins and positive self-talk. The episode is a motivational guide to shifting away from self-criticism and embracing a mindset that supports growth and achievement.
<a href="https://hilarysaxton.com/">www.hilarysaxton.com</a>

Hey, Hilary here and welcome to the Bounce Back Better podcast. Your past doesn't determine your future, no matter what you've experienced. Just know that it's possible to redesign your life from today by simply drawing a line in the sand and making a choice to live your best life.

Hit follow or subscribe and tune in weekly for episodes from me. 

Chat soon,

Hilary x

Hey, Hilary here and welcome to the Bounce Back Better podcast. Your past doesn't determine your future, no matter what you've experienced. Just know that it's possible to redesign your life from today by simply drawing a line in the sand and making a choice to live your best life.
Hit follow or subscribe and tune in weekly for episodes from me. 
Chat soon,
Hilary x

Bounce Back Better By Hilary Saxton

Hilary Saxton, known as the “Bounce-Back-Better Queen,” Her lifelong mantra is “We only have one life, so don’t settle for mediocre,” which has driven her to dizzying heights of success.

Hilary Saxton, known as the “Bounce-Back-Better Queen,” Her lifelong mantra is “We only have one life, so don’t settle for mediocre,” which has driven her to dizzying heights of success.

How to 'Shut Down' your Inner Critic Because She Controls Your Actions!

Every decision you make today is a vote for the life you'll live tomorrow.

What if you've been casting votes against your own future without even noticing?

In this episode of Bounce Back Better, Hilary Saxton unpacks the idea that every small daily decision, from the snack to the scroll to the snappy text, is a vote being dropped into a ballot box you can't see. Over time, the count starts reflecting back to you in the shape of your health, your money, your relationships, your energy, and the version of yourself you've become.

Drawing on the framework from her book 3-2-1 Done, including the story of a client she calls Rebecca, Hilary makes the case that awareness, not willpower, is the lever. There are two futures on the ballot: the default future you build by drift, and the chosen future that requires annoyingly consistent votes.

This is a warm, honest, occasionally self-deprecating episode about the gap between what we say we want and what our weeks actually look like, and the one question that closes it.

What you'll learn:

- Why your future is being built right now by the mood, food, conversations, and excuses you're voting for today

- The "three pairs of glasses" you choose between every morning, and how the choice shapes the entire day

- The difference between cruel honesty and honest honesty when assessing your own patterns

- Why current you and future you want different things, and who keeps paying the bill

- The single question that interrupts unconscious decision-making and gives you back your power

Timestamped highlights:

[02:01] The three pairs of glasses on your bedside table

[04:39] We can't expect to create one future while continuously voting for another

[09:16] Rebecca's story from 3-2-1 Done

[14:34] Current you sends the bill to future you

[15:23] The Toastmasters confession

[18:44] The one question that interrupts everything

Quote from the episode:

"We can't expect to create one future while continuously voting for another. So what are you voting for right now?"

 

Every decision you make today is a vote for the life you'll live tomorrow.
What if you've been casting votes against your own future without even noticing?
In this episode of Bounce Back Better, Hilary Saxton unpacks the idea that every small daily decision, from the snack to the scroll to the snappy text, is a vote being dropped into a ballot box you can't see. Over time, the count starts reflecting back to you in the shape of your health, your money, your relationships, your energy, and the version of yourself you've become.
Drawing on the framework from her book 3-2-1 Done, including the story of a client she calls Rebecca, Hilary makes the case that awareness, not willpower, is the lever. There are two futures on the ballot: the default future you build by drift, and the chosen future that requires annoyingly consistent votes.
This is a warm, honest, occasionally self-deprecating episode about the gap between what we say we want and what our weeks actually look like, and the one question that closes it.
What you'll learn:
- Why your future is being built right now by the mood, food, conversations, and excuses you're voting for today
- The "three pairs of glasses" you choose between every morning, and how the choice shapes the entire day
- The difference between cruel honesty and honest honesty when assessing your own patterns
- Why current you and future you want different things, and who keeps paying the bill
- The single question that interrupts unconscious decision-making and gives you back your power
Timestamped highlights:
[02:01] The three pairs of glasses on your bedside table
[04:39] We can't expect to create one future while continuously voting for another
[09:16] Rebecca's story from 3-2-1 Done
[14:34] Current you sends the bill to future you
[15:23] The Toastmasters confession
[18:44] The one question that interrupts everything
Quote from the episode:
"We can't expect to create one future while continuously voting for another. So what are you voting for right now?"
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Voting For Your Future

Someone asks what you've done over the past year and the only honest answer is "I've been busy." No standout moment. No story. Just weeks that all looked the same.

In this episode, Hilary Saxton calls out the trap most of us fall into without noticing: living in the great waiting room. Waiting until the weight's gone, the mortgage is paid, the kids have left, or things finally calm down before we let ourselves actually live.

Through the story of Billy, a five year old who struts through a shopping centre with total confidence and zero permission, Hilary unpacks why we stop living and start waiting, and how the stories in our heads quietly run the show.

You'll walk away with three simple, doable shifts to stop postponing your life and start living it now, plus the one question worth asking yourself every single morning. This isn't the rehearsal. It's the actual thing.

What you'll learn
Why "busy" is a calendar, not a life, and how to tell the difference
How comfort and routine quietly become a cage
Why the story you tell yourself is the real handbrake
Three practical ways to start living today
The morning question that beats "what would make today productive?"

https://hilarysaxton.com/blog

 

Someone asks what you've done over the past year and the only honest answer is "I've been busy." No standout moment. No story. Just weeks that all looked the same.
In this episode, Hilary Saxton calls out the trap most of us fall into without noticing: living in the great waiting room. Waiting until the weight's gone, the mortgage is paid, the kids have left, or things finally calm down before we let ourselves actually live.
Through the story of Billy, a five year old who struts through a shopping centre with total confidence and zero permission, Hilary unpacks why we stop living and start waiting, and how the stories in our heads quietly run the show.
You'll walk away with three simple, doable shifts to stop postponing your life and start living it now, plus the one question worth asking yourself every single morning. This isn't the rehearsal. It's the actual thing.
What you'll learn
<ul>
<li>Why "busy" is a calendar, not a life, and how to tell the difference</li>
<li>How comfort and routine quietly become a cage</li>
<li>Why the story you tell yourself is the real handbrake</li>
<li>Three practical ways to start living today</li>
<li>The morning question that beats "what would make today productive?"</li>
</ul>
<a href="https://hilarysaxton.com/">http</a><a href="https://hilarysaxton.com/blog.html">s://hilarysaxton.com/blog</a>
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Busy Isn't a Life, It's a Calendar

In this episode of Bounce Back Better, Hilary Saxton unpacks "assumption tax," the price you pay for acting on stories you never stopped to question. It starts with a white suitcase in a hotel lobby and a woman Hilary never spoke to, and it ends with a clear, practical way to stop the spending.

This one is funny before it's confronting. There's a suitcase, a pair of Zara pants, and a changing-room moment Hilary will never fully recover from. But underneath the comedy sits a sharp diagnosis: most of us are running our lives on sentences we've never checked, and those sentences cost us in our money, decisions, relationships, and peace.

Hilary breaks down the four areas assumptions quietly drain, why an assumption only needs to be believed (not true) to affect you, and the five-word question that creates enough of a pause to stop you paying.

What you'll learn
What assumption tax is and the four areas it quietly costs you
Why an assumption doesn't need to be true to run your life
How assumptions turn relationships into stories instead of conversations
The five-word question that interrupts the pattern
A simple one-area exercise to try this week

https://hilarysaxton.com/

"An assumption does not need to be true to affect your life. It only needs to be believed."

In this episode of Bounce Back Better, Hilary Saxton unpacks "assumption tax," the price you pay for acting on stories you never stopped to question. It starts with a white suitcase in a hotel lobby and a woman Hilary never spoke to, and it ends with a clear, practical way to stop the spending.
This one is funny before it's confronting. There's a suitcase, a pair of Zara pants, and a changing-room moment Hilary will never fully recover from. But underneath the comedy sits a sharp diagnosis: most of us are running our lives on sentences we've never checked, and those sentences cost us in our money, decisions, relationships, and peace.
Hilary breaks down the four areas assumptions quietly drain, why an assumption only needs to be believed (not true) to affect you, and the five-word question that creates enough of a pause to stop you paying.
What you'll learn
<ul>
<li>What assumption tax is and the four areas it quietly costs you</li>
<li>Why an assumption doesn't need to be true to run your life</li>
<li>How assumptions turn relationships into stories instead of conversations</li>
<li>The five-word question that interrupts the pattern</li>
<li>A simple one-area exercise to try this week</li>
</ul>
https://hilarysaxton.com/
"An assumption does not need to be true to affect your life. It only needs to be believed."

How to 'Shut Down' your Inner Critic Because She Controls Your Actions!

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