This week your bffs talk about what they have learned from being in the Beyhive, the struggles that marginalized people have to ignore perfection and the impact it has on Black youth. We also talk about why Sofi has the WORST layout ever and why you too should be rejecting the tariffs. 

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This week your bffs talk about what they have learned from being in the Beyhive, the struggles that marginalized people have to ignore perfection and the impact it has on Black youth. We also talk about why Sofi has the WORST layout ever and why you too should be rejecting the tariffs.&nbsp;
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"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.

"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.

BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

Rejecting Perfection (...and the Tariffs)

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In celebration of Women’s History Month, Joho and Jon dedicate this week’s episode to the Black trans women whose courage and brilliance helped shape movements for civil rights, LGBTQ+ justice, and social liberation — yet whose names are too often left out of mainstream narratives. Through stories of Frances Thompson, Lucy Hicks Anderson, and Mary Jones, this episode shines a light on resilience, survival, and truth-telling across centuries of systemic harm.

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In celebration of Women&rsquo;s History Month, Joho and Jon dedicate this week&rsquo;s episode to the Black trans women whose courage and brilliance helped shape movements for civil rights, LGBTQ+ justice, and social liberation &mdash; yet whose names are too often left out of mainstream narratives. Through stories of Frances Thompson, Lucy Hicks Anderson, and Mary Jones, this episode shines a light on resilience, survival, and truth-telling across centuries of systemic harm.
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Unearthing Our Mothers 

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This week, we’re joined by the hilarious and brilliant Nicole Daniels! Jon and Joho sit down for a deep (and very funny) chat about how real life inspires Nicole’s unforgettable characters—from the overly earnest craft store lady to the nonprofit boss we all know too well—and what it takes to make comedy look effortless. They dig into the creative process, queerness in comedy, and how Nicole stays grounded while balancing her own identity with the ones she performs. 

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This week, we&rsquo;re joined by the hilarious and brilliant Nicole Daniels! Jon and Joho sit down for a deep (and very funny) chat about how real life inspires Nicole&rsquo;s unforgettable characters&mdash;from the overly earnest craft store lady to the nonprofit boss we all know too well&mdash;and what it takes to make comedy look effortless. They dig into the creative process, queerness in comedy, and how Nicole stays grounded while balancing her own identity with the ones she performs.&nbsp;
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 I Am Not an AMPM Cup (Featuring Nicole Daniels) 

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This week your BFF's are joined in the third seat by Nina Parker to talk what it means to set boundaries in the workplace (and in your life), talking about the missing recipes in today's media and why we all should be thinking BIG.

YOU GOTTA THINK BIG BITCH!   

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This week your BFF's are joined in the third seat by Nina Parker to talk what it means to set boundaries in the workplace (and in your life), talking about the missing recipes in today's media and why we all should be thinking BIG.
YOU GOTTA THINK BIG BITCH! &nbsp;&nbsp;
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THINK BIG B*TCH! (Featuring Nina Parker) 

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Rejecting Perfection (...and the Tariffs)

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