This week we are joined by iconic and legendary MTV host Dave Holmes to discuss what it means to create culture and how so many of us have LGBTQ+ people to thank for it. We also discuss what songs from yesteryear taught us about ourselves and why we need to make MTV gay again. 

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This week we are joined by iconic and legendary MTV host Dave Holmes to discuss what it means to create culture and how so many of us have LGBTQ+ people to thank for it. We also discuss what songs from yesteryear taught us about ourselves and why we need to make MTV gay again.&nbsp;
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"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.

"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.

BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

Make MTV Gay Again (Featuring Dave Holmes) 

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/e73c998e-6e60-432f-8610-ae210140c5b1/clips/6014c985-bee8-45fe-a818-b4e900217168/transcript

This week we are joined by Amber Wagner & Jacob Willis from the Jst Us Podcast to talk about the thing that we often struggle with: being a better advocate for ourselves. We also engage what it means to require someone to step up to be a better friend, lover or both and what happens when things get a little spicy - all pun intended. 

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This week we are joined by Amber Wagner &amp; Jacob Willis from the <a href="https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&amp;source=web&amp;rct=j&amp;opi=89978449&amp;url=https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jst-us/id1656744719&amp;ved=2ahUKEwiwpf2jzOqXAxXqIUQIHfuqEfoQFnoECBsQAQ&amp;usg=AOvVaw35H6YKwVrdYU_Jk_P6Ug4q">Jst Us Podcast </a>to talk about the thing that we often struggle with: being a better advocate for ourselves. We also engage what it means to require someone to step up to be a better friend, lover or both and what happens when things get a little spicy - all pun intended.&nbsp;
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Jst Us Girlfriends (Featuring Amber Wagner & Jacob Wallis)

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This week we talk to the talented and writing genius known as MNEK about their new album, why certain words might trigger us and what it means to be a Muscle Mary. We also talk about what it takes to make a GOOD pop star because it's giving NOTHING and we literally can't keep tell many of the dolls apart!

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Follow MNEK: Instagram | Stream the Album 

This week we talk to the talented and writing genius known as MNEK about their new album, why certain words might trigger us and what it means to be a Muscle Mary. We also talk about what it takes to make a GOOD pop star because it's giving NOTHING and we literally can't keep tell many of the dolls apart!
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Be a Bulldozer (Featuring MNEK) 

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This week, the BFF:Black Fat Femme pod is joined in the third and fourth chair by famous LA couple Trino & Adam. The gang (all pun intended) talks about life, finding and keeping love and what it takes to love yourself in a world that is often asking you to be "out" in silence. 

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Follow Trino & Adam: Instagram | Tik-Tok 

This week, the BFF:Black Fat Femme pod is joined in the third and fourth chair by famous LA couple Trino &amp; Adam. The gang (all pun intended) talks about life, finding and keeping love and what it takes to love yourself in a world that is often asking you to be "out" in silence.&nbsp;
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Love Like Us, Too (Featuring Trino & Adam) 

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Make MTV Gay Again (Featuring Dave Holmes)

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