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This week your BFF's celebrate Black history by hanging out with the one and only Jade & XD (Jade & XD/Gettin' Grown) to talk about both our favorite Black history moments and our favorite Black history anthems. We also give the cold and the horns in NYC their flowers. 

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This week your BFF's celebrate Black history by hanging out with the one and only Jade &amp; XD (<a href="https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&amp;source=web&amp;rct=j&amp;opi=89978449&amp;url=https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jade-x-d/id1578749770&amp;ved=2ahUKEwiI8LSfubqLAxVNl-4BHYrLBKYQFnoECBwQAQ&amp;usg=AOvVaw3hlyRWE_w_fDLf-1Z8dndu">Jade &amp; XD</a>/<a href="https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&amp;amp;source=web&amp;amp;rct=j&amp;amp;opi=89978449&amp;amp;url=https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/gettin-grown/id1220265487&amp;amp;ved=2ahUKEwjS85-qubqLAxW8le4BHfooLXUQFnoECCQQAQ&amp;amp;usg=AOvVaw3iomMHAOMJqq2mAqO-7Xln">Gettin' Grown</a>) to talk about both our favorite Black history moments and our favorite Black history anthems. We also give the cold and the horns in NYC their flowers.&nbsp;
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"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.

"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.

BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

Black Anthems and a Sexy Catfish (Featuring Jade & XD)

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In celebration of Women’s History Month, Joho and Jon dedicate this week’s episode to the Black trans women whose courage and brilliance helped shape movements for civil rights, LGBTQ+ justice, and social liberation — yet whose names are too often left out of mainstream narratives. Through stories of Frances Thompson, Lucy Hicks Anderson, and Mary Jones, this episode shines a light on resilience, survival, and truth-telling across centuries of systemic harm.

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In celebration of Women&rsquo;s History Month, Joho and Jon dedicate this week&rsquo;s episode to the Black trans women whose courage and brilliance helped shape movements for civil rights, LGBTQ+ justice, and social liberation &mdash; yet whose names are too often left out of mainstream narratives. Through stories of Frances Thompson, Lucy Hicks Anderson, and Mary Jones, this episode shines a light on resilience, survival, and truth-telling across centuries of systemic harm.
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Unearthing Our Mothers 

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This week, we’re joined by the hilarious and brilliant Nicole Daniels! Jon and Joho sit down for a deep (and very funny) chat about how real life inspires Nicole’s unforgettable characters—from the overly earnest craft store lady to the nonprofit boss we all know too well—and what it takes to make comedy look effortless. They dig into the creative process, queerness in comedy, and how Nicole stays grounded while balancing her own identity with the ones she performs. 

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This week, we&rsquo;re joined by the hilarious and brilliant Nicole Daniels! Jon and Joho sit down for a deep (and very funny) chat about how real life inspires Nicole&rsquo;s unforgettable characters&mdash;from the overly earnest craft store lady to the nonprofit boss we all know too well&mdash;and what it takes to make comedy look effortless. They dig into the creative process, queerness in comedy, and how Nicole stays grounded while balancing her own identity with the ones she performs.&nbsp;
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 I Am Not an AMPM Cup (Featuring Nicole Daniels) 

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This week your BFF's are joined in the third seat by Nina Parker to talk what it means to set boundaries in the workplace (and in your life), talking about the missing recipes in today's media and why we all should be thinking BIG.

YOU GOTTA THINK BIG BITCH!   

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This week your BFF's are joined in the third seat by Nina Parker to talk what it means to set boundaries in the workplace (and in your life), talking about the missing recipes in today's media and why we all should be thinking BIG.
YOU GOTTA THINK BIG BITCH! &nbsp;&nbsp;
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THINK BIG B*TCH! (Featuring Nina Parker) 

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Black Anthems and a Sexy Catfish (Featuring Jade & XD)

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