I’m a 37-year-old man with two kids. I have been dating a 28-year-old woman who has three kids with two different baby daddies.
 
We started dating two years ago, and at first, the relationship was the best I had ever had. When the relationship was still fresh, I asked my girlfriend if she wanted another child in the future. She said no because she is not working, and the fathers of her children are giving her a hard time when it comes to child maintenance.
 
I also told her that I didn’t want another child because I might lose my job at any time. The company I work for was firing employees almost every month.
 
The sad part is that she has never worked a day in her life, and I have been helping her wherever I can, both with the kids and with her needs.