Steve Harvey has advice for...

• Safronia in Pelham: I am the mom and the dad in our household. Something has to give. I do all of the running around for school and now I’m going to have to find something to do with the kids for the summer. My husband comes home, grabs a beer and hits the recliner. He thinks that it’s cool because he pays for all of the activities but I have a full-time job too. I’m also expected to have sex and look cute all the time while he and his beer belly live their best lives. How do I get him to be a daddy and not just a sponsor? How do I get his attention?

• Dee in Indianapolis: My girlfriend and I finally had sex and she said it’s not something that she wants to do often. I thought I had done something wrong and she said that it was a great experience, but I’m almost too big for her. I told her the best way to get used to it, is to keep trying it out. She doesn’t see things my way so now we’re back to not having sex. Is there a better approach I can take to get her be intimate?