In today’s Social Media Advice: Marva on Reddit writes, “At the very beginning of our relationship, before things were serious, I cheated on my boyfriend with my ex. We’ve been together for five years and now we’re talking about getting married, but I still carry the guilt like it happened yesterday. He has no idea and part of me wants to come clean before we take that next step, but I’m terrified it’ll destroy everything. Is honesty still the right thing this far down the line? Is it selfish of me to want to clear my conscience at the cost of our relationship?”

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