Ask The RTLO and Junior - 03.19.25

Published Mar 19, 2025, 7:03 PM

Our Ready To Love Officer (Tommy) & Junior step in for the CLO to answer relationship questions.

Right now, it's time to ask the riddlo. That's already love Officer Tommy and Junior. Here we go, guys, All right, guys, this is from Sasha in Clarksdale. I had a party and everyone got drunk. I let my cousin sleep on the couch and his friend sleep on the floor. My boyfriend was mad that I let them stay over. That's my family. So I'm not trying to hear that. Why do I have to explain myself?

Okay, what was your boyfriend? Then? Was he at the part?

Well, she didn't say. She didn't say he was mad that she He must not have been there because when he found out about it, he got mad.

But I get this, I get why I'm man, especially if he's not there. Man, it's like, okay, you had your little party. These people need to go home now. You got all these men up in your house and that's that's just one group of people. We don't know how many other people stayed at the house too.

So but your cousin though your family, well, we.

Ain't talking about the cooks. We ain't talking about the cook we talking about that one. We don't know nothing.

What's about?

No, No, the boyfriend was man that he let them, that she let them. Still, she didn't just say the friend. She meant the cousin.

And that's what them mean because he knows the cousin. It's this other one that we don't know much about. I promise you that's what it's about. And he probably sexy looking. Okay, he looks, trust me, he does.

Baby, you can say here, don't you don't have to drive?

No, No, it's and it's too many ways to get people home. We can ouber you, we can we can lift you. You know, there's too many people way we can get people home and somebody going that way. You know, we can get you to your house. You come back the next day and get your car.

They were drunk though, you heard the drunk part.

That's why you get in the old bar. What you got, jor what I got?

I'm with Tommy. It's not the cousin that's on the couch. He has the couch. It's the friend that's on their flow. Yeah, that's the issue.

What do they have going on?

They have to have something going on.

It's a sexy friend on the floor.

Yeah, yeah, a bedroom and he up against that baseball that it looks different.

That's why is he posing?

And he's supposed to be sleeping.

Why is he posing?

Okay, put it like this, Shirley, what's the guy talking about?

Aaron Pierre?

Move?

Oh?

We go head on over there to Jayla Hurst. Yeah, come on, okay, So Jalen Hurst is on the floor.

Listen, Beverly, and yes not for got to go.

Stays over at my house. He's not on that floor lawn. Okay, I get your point.

You kicked the boyfriend out for Jaylen. Yeah. Wow, and he got that bigger ring.

All right, moving on, moving on, I get your point, Tommy Joy and Concord the Joy writes, my husband refuses to put things back where they go before I go to bed. I want the house to be tidy so we can wake up refreshed and not stressed. I have to wait until he goes to bed so I can straighten up. I'd hate to nag him, So what do I do?

You're a hard spot because it seemed like he been doing this and he's not gonna stop this. This is his pattern, So you don't got You've allowed this pattern to develop, so this happens all the time and late night you cleaning up the whole kitchen and getting everything back in order. It's just turned into what it is now. You can come to him and say, baby, can you at least help me clean up? All right, I'm up later than you for another hour, trying to get the house right. Can you at least, you know, show me some love. I am your wife. Can you come help me and have this stuff out here? Is yours?

Yeah, she's cleaning up after his messy.

But yeah, so come on show me some love. Or if he ain't helping clean up in the kitchen and guess what, guess what it messes up.

But another room.

We know how to fix this, We know how to get it with he two o'clock in the morning and there there kitchen trying to get it right. We can fix well, we can fix all. You gotta just cut it. Cut a certain thing off, and trust me, things will change, you know.

Absolutely right, cut something off at two o'clock in the morning. It's it's it's we can watch two things at two o'clock in the morning. That's it.

We do that.

We're watching that and we're not. It's not it's not doing that.

I'm not.

First of all, you gave him a title to you did give him a title? You said, my husband is pretty much you said, you're telling us your husband.

Asked what you're saying?

Yeah, but you gave him a title of husband.

So he's a leader. Oh he's just a leader. He don't all right? All right? So what should she do?

Just tell him that cut it off?

Divorce. Well that's all I got through the small stuff. Yeah I can't. It's not small.

At midnight, I'm not I don't want my house.

She can nag him. Get the nagging. He'll start picking up.

You don't want to hear your mouth no more, get the naggon whatever.

Clean up? All right?

Moving on to von Dale and Bloomington and Bloomington, Vondel and Bloomington. Right, my wife talks back to me. I have a problem with that first line, but anyway, either yeah.

Who are you? Okay?

I just she'll say it to my face where she walks away mumbling calling me nasty names. I wish we could have discussions without all the back talk and her being childish. How can we approve? How can we improve our communication? She is immature, though.

She is this is immature. But I think the thing that drives. That drives most of me. And great that that walking away mumbling, oh that drives me. Just I can't stand that. What are you saying because all that mommy is about me. What you're saying, I want to hear it.

You don't know right there?

You know there's always something like call it that going to be very clear and bold. Oh you did not hear me. Let me be clear.

Then I don't like the fact that he said, my wife talks back to me.

What.

Yeah, I can.

Talk back to you said, Yeah, you said what you wanted to say. I can say what I want to say.

Yeah.

I don't like the I just don't like the confrontation that we get into the top back area, that we got to get to this level.

Yeah, we shouldn't have to get to that.

Yeah, well then yeah he should change his mindsett and stop saying my wife talks back to me. He doesn't like what she's saying. That's all.

Here's my question. Did von Dale leave a phone number so we can talk and talk?

If your wife you think your wife talking back to you, to call me, ride us back with your phone on Ndale in Bloomington.

We can talk. I can't believe this is bothering you, Von Dale.

You thought it was normal, Junior.

And I've never heard nobody lead with that question. My wife talks back to me, brother, you better, you better pick it up.

Bro. They do it all the time, all right, Judie, what is your house like? Boy?

You need to come over here and spend a weekend time going weekend time.

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