Welcome back everybody to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks again for tuning in. We're very excited to be back. Kathy. Are you ready for today?

Welcome back everybody to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks again for tuning in. We're very excited to be back. Kathy. Are you ready for today?

Yes? I am.

Yes? I am.

But before we get in today's episode, season, we've got to talk about AFR, Holy spooks.

But before we get in today's episode, season, we've got to talk about AFR, Holy spooks.

Oho.

Oho.

Can I just say hometown girl, Newton, Massachusetts?

Can I just say hometown girl, Newton, Massachusetts?

One yea, Juliana?

One yea, Juliana?

And I did you cry? Did you cry? I need to know, did you cry?

And I did you cry? Did you cry? I need to know, did you cry?

I've been crying since the season began. But here's the thing I knew, and I think I said last time this was going to be a horror show at the end. It always is because there's two left, but the game it is. But here's the thing. Grant started this whole thing, uh with everybody he could see everybody has his wife and the mother of his children.

I've been crying since the season began. But here's the thing I knew, and I think I said last time this was going to be a horror show at the end. It always is because there's two left, but the game it is. But here's the thing. Grant started this whole thing, uh with everybody he could see everybody has his wife and the mother of his children.

And and I'm.

And and I'm.

Following for you, like with twenty two of them are pretty close, so as it's like the little engine that could. That engine built steam until it came to AFR. And you knew that train was going to go down hill real fast and collide and crash and Lettilla I felt so.

Following for you, like with twenty two of them are pretty close, so as it's like the little engine that could. That engine built steam until it came to AFR. And you knew that train was going to go down hill real fast and collide and crash and Lettilla I felt so.

Sorry for her?

Sorry for her?

Yes did I? And I think the world is asking right now. I'm sure all you listeners. One of the things that she confronted him with was why did you keep going? Why did you keep telling me it was me? It was me? It was me. I remember Leslie thinking it was her, But and then the other side of me thought, that is the game here, that is the show.

Yes did I? And I think the world is asking right now. I'm sure all you listeners. One of the things that she confronted him with was why did you keep going? Why did you keep telling me it was me? It was me? It was me. I remember Leslie thinking it was her, But and then the other side of me thought, that is the game here, that is the show.

It is the shows. You know, someone's going to get the harp.

It is the shows. You know, someone's going to get the harp.

But here's the thing, like with Leslie, because she's our friend, we love you, Leslie. If you're listening, there were things that went on behind the scene that made Leslie think she was the one, right.

But here's the thing, like with Leslie, because she's our friend, we love you, Leslie. If you're listening, there were things that went on behind the scene that made Leslie think she was the one, right.

And I'm sure in this case there was behind the scenes things too, right, but she was calling him on from this first date. I have the words that he spoke to her, and I genuinely believe, I mean, in my heart of hearts, I believe you can fall in love with two people at the same time and then you have to make a choice.

And I'm sure in this case there was behind the scenes things too, right, but she was calling him on from this first date. I have the words that he spoke to her, and I genuinely believe, I mean, in my heart of hearts, I believe you can fall in love with two people at the same time and then you have to make a choice.

Yeah, but do you really believe, you who believes in fairy tales? Do you really believe that he didn't know who was going to pick until right before the ceremony. There's no way, Susan, No ways, it's good editing, it's good TV.

Yeah, but do you really believe, you who believes in fairy tales? Do you really believe that he didn't know who was going to pick until right before the ceremony. There's no way, Susan, No ways, it's good editing, it's good TV.

No way.

No way.

And now the proof of that is Juliana. When Latilla said, uh, did how did you know, saying Juliana's gonna have a lot of questions for you, and Juliana said.

And now the proof of that is Juliana. When Latilla said, uh, did how did you know, saying Juliana's gonna have a lot of questions for you, and Juliana said.

No, I don't know about that. Yes, well, you know what, I don't know.

No, I don't know about that. Yes, well, you know what, I don't know.

I'm out a producer and I don't have an insider track. But I think that's because Grant said things to her off camera that she knew she was the one, and she and that's what I believe.

I'm out a producer and I don't have an insider track. But I think that's because Grant said things to her off camera that she knew she was the one, and she and that's what I believe.

Okay, I'll give you that, And I think, well, I.

Okay, I'll give you that, And I think, well, I.

Also know we're going to get them both on the podcast and we're gonna be thrill up. We're going to put them on two hot seats. But anyway, I thought my heart broke for Letia, her face, her face, and when he said, I hope you don't think differently of me, I do, yes, sir Bob film.

Also know we're going to get them both on the podcast and we're gonna be thrill up. We're going to put them on two hot seats. But anyway, I thought my heart broke for Letia, her face, her face, and when he said, I hope you don't think differently of me, I do, yes, sir Bob film.

Going back to her saying she doesn't have any questions, what was your thought when she said that?

Going back to her saying she doesn't have any questions, what was your thought when she said that?

My thought was if things happened behind the scenes that made her know she was the one, I wouldn't have any questions either.

My thought was if things happened behind the scenes that made her know she was the one, I wouldn't have any questions either.

Okay, however, that's why.

Okay, however, that's why.

However, watching it back though, yeah, watching it back, there might there might be maybe not there might be disconnect.

However, watching it back though, yeah, watching it back, there might there might be maybe not there might be disconnect.

But what I was thinking was what better way I wish I was that strong of a person. What better way to start a relationship than letting go of the past. Obviously you knew there was another woman. Let go. Don't ask questions me personally, that would be that other voice in the back of my mind wondering and having a billion questions. Yeah, I think they're off to a good start.

But what I was thinking was what better way I wish I was that strong of a person. What better way to start a relationship than letting go of the past. Obviously you knew there was another woman. Let go. Don't ask questions me personally, that would be that other voice in the back of my mind wondering and having a billion questions. Yeah, I think they're off to a good start.

I mean they make an ass. They make a cute couple.

I mean they make an ass. They make a cute couple.

For Shore, they were both you know what his mama saying, grandmama saying he could see the love, she could see the love Lettia had that they I mean, that was all heartbreaking. I still though, I'm focusing on the positive. They're in love. They they started got a gorgeous timon ring. Thank you, Neil Lane. I want one of best, Neil, if you're listening, I want one of these. I think, please, pretty please. But they are starting out on a really positive note. They see to love each other, the parents seem to all get along be happy for them. I think another positive is Grant has reconnected with his dad.

For Shore, they were both you know what his mama saying, grandmama saying he could see the love, she could see the love Lettia had that they I mean, that was all heartbreaking. I still though, I'm focusing on the positive. They're in love. They they started got a gorgeous timon ring. Thank you, Neil Lane. I want one of best, Neil, if you're listening, I want one of these. I think, please, pretty please. But they are starting out on a really positive note. They see to love each other, the parents seem to all get along be happy for them. I think another positive is Grant has reconnected with his dad.

You know we have.

You know we have.

When I was crying, that's what I answer. You were you crying? Yeah, they were both tearing up. Grant has been to hell, especially with his dad, and so that is remorseful. I mean, he just wants to be a part of his life. I thought that was beautiful.

When I was crying, that's what I answer. You were you crying? Yeah, they were both tearing up. Grant has been to hell, especially with his dad, and so that is remorseful. I mean, he just wants to be a part of his life. I thought that was beautiful.

And I think that Grant. I think those are some of the positives. You know, people, Oh, it's reality TV. None of it's true. There was a lot of truth on that show. And so that's you know, we're done with the season that there there, he's moving to Massachusetts, to Boston. I'm just I want to be in the parade. I want to fly back to Newton. I want to be in the parade. But they seem happy. They have a great relations with parents.

And I think that Grant. I think those are some of the positives. You know, people, Oh, it's reality TV. None of it's true. There was a lot of truth on that show. And so that's you know, we're done with the season that there there, he's moving to Massachusetts, to Boston. I'm just I want to be in the parade. I want to fly back to Newton. I want to be in the parade. But they seem happy. They have a great relations with parents.

They're going to Italy to make pizza.

They're going to Italy to make pizza.

The season's over. We're going to move on everybody, Susan Okay, first of all.

The season's over. We're going to move on everybody, Susan Okay, first of all.

Wait, wait are we going? Do we get to go?

Wait, wait are we going? Do we get to go?

I don't know, but I'm sending out my emails. I've already sent them out. Here's my name, my number, my social Security number.

I don't know, but I'm sending out my emails. I've already sent them out. Here's my name, my number, my social Security number.

Yeah, what are the dates we're available?

Yeah, what are the dates we're available?

So I thought it was interesting. I mean, we don't know, right, I can tell you what we do now. We know Gary Levingston is going and we know Leslie from our season is going and and but it was so weird because when they made the announcement, like I'm wondering, I'm waiting for my phone ring, like they don't call me?

So I thought it was interesting. I mean, we don't know, right, I can tell you what we do now. We know Gary Levingston is going and we know Leslie from our season is going and and but it was so weird because when they made the announcement, like I'm wondering, I'm waiting for my phone ring, like they don't call me?

Did they call you?

Did they call you?

I thought no? First thing I thought of, why am I not there? Why am I not there? Why is likely there? What's going on to you? Did I not? Yeah? And did you hear anything?

I thought no? First thing I thought of, why am I not there? Why am I not there? Why is likely there? What's going on to you? Did I not? Yeah? And did you hear anything?

I said? I'm waiting. I'm waiting. I got my phone on, you know, on speaker in case I call.

I said? I'm waiting. I'm waiting. I got my phone on, you know, on speaker in case I call.

But here's the thing gonna be exciting.

But here's the thing gonna be exciting.

I wonder there have to be more goldens coming. I mean that's what Jessie said.

I wonder there have to be more goldens coming. I mean that's what Jessie said.

Well, you can't do a show with two of them.

Well, you can't do a show with two of them.

I mean, come on, well if it were you me, they could.

I mean, come on, well if it were you me, they could.

Well this is true, this is true.

Well this is true, this is true.

I don't know. I want to know. Did they say where they're going or anything?

I don't know. I want to know. Did they say where they're going or anything?

Don't they would never tell us that. But maybe they didn't call yet because I have a boo boo I don't.

Don't they would never tell us that. But maybe they didn't call yet because I have a boo boo I don't.

Know speaking up.

Know speaking up.

Okay, So I'm excited to be excited to be considered.

Okay, So I'm excited to be excited to be considered.

Hopefully you and I are going to go. We won't know until.

Hopefully you and I are going to go. We won't know until.

We know, but we'll let you know first.

We know, but we'll let you know first.

Oh, you'll hear a screaming, you'll hear announcements.

Oh, you'll hear a screaming, you'll hear announcements.

Wait, Susan, I know you before we get into your broken wrist and your show. Don't give me this that you as soon as you saw then announcement. Don't tell me you weren't going through your resort, closed your summer face.

Wait, Susan, I know you before we get into your broken wrist and your show. Don't give me this that you as soon as you saw then announcement. Don't tell me you weren't going through your resort, closed your summer face.

I pulled out the suitcase. I'm patching. I'd better go.

I pulled out the suitcase. I'm patching. I'd better go.

All right, let's talk about your show that is coming out.

All right, let's talk about your show that is coming out.

Oh that's really exciting. Did you see well? Of course you send it to you.

Oh that's really exciting. Did you see well? Of course you send it to you.

I saw it.

I saw it.

I saw so excited and I got to meet Demi of course, and Claire from from Paradise as well as Bachelor.

I saw so excited and I got to meet Demi of course, and Claire from from Paradise as well as Bachelor.

What is the premise? I want to know what's the premise of the show? Tell me what it is.

What is the premise? I want to know what's the premise of the show? Tell me what it is.

We were locked in a mansion and we were trying to escape to win a million dollars. There was twenty of us and I can't tell you. I mean, you know on our show, Kathy, I was unapologetically Susan, Okay, yeah, once again, did you make me?

We were locked in a mansion and we were trying to escape to win a million dollars. There was twenty of us and I can't tell you. I mean, you know on our show, Kathy, I was unapologetically Susan, Okay, yeah, once again, did you make me?

Did you make me?

Did you make me?

Of course I did? And that would be the day that I can't share because it's coming. That's pretty funny.

Of course I did? And that would be the day that I can't share because it's coming. That's pretty funny.

So you had fun you had fun, made new friends.

So you had fun you had fun, made new friends.

Fabulous batt I know I want to. I'm sorry, go ahead, the housewive, Spencer. I mean all kinds of people vow from Dancing with the Stars. Him and I are like Bonnie and Clyde. That's all I'm going to say.

Fabulous batt I know I want to. I'm sorry, go ahead, the housewive, Spencer. I mean all kinds of people vow from Dancing with the Stars. Him and I are like Bonnie and Clyde. That's all I'm going to say.

Okay, I'm going to ask you did you win a million bucks?

Okay, I'm going to ask you did you win a million bucks?

I can't tell you that if you did, you're taking me to Italy a deal.

I can't tell you that if you did, you're taking me to Italy a deal.

Listen, you've been doing a lot of traveling, so I'm going to guess that you might have won a million bucks.

Listen, you've been doing a lot of traveling, so I'm going to guess that you might have won a million bucks.

Well that I can't wait? And when does it come out?

Well that I can't wait? And when does it come out?

To the due April eleventh. They're going to download on Huloo all eight episodes, so you con binge? What do yeah? Get THEA and the why.

To the due April eleventh. They're going to download on Huloo all eight episodes, so you con binge? What do yeah? Get THEA and the why.

I'm really happy for you. I truly cannot wait to see it. Okake a lot of fun now, I'm assuming because I saw you after that show that you taped, even though you wouldn't tell me anything about it to your.

I'm really happy for you. I truly cannot wait to see it. Okake a lot of fun now, I'm assuming because I saw you after that show that you taped, even though you wouldn't tell me anything about it to your.

Bestie, That's why we signed NDA.

Bestie, That's why we signed NDA.

Oh right, okay, thank you.

Oh right, okay, thank you.

You were fine, you didn't hurt yourself, but as I see you now, you have a broken rest.

You were fine, you didn't hurt yourself, but as I see you now, you have a broken rest.

Tell us about that season?

Tell us about that season?

Oh yeah. So we were going up in Saint Martin, up to Ance Marcel. We were going on a hike. They were going to surf and I was going to film. And you parked a car here and it takes about twenty five minutes and the terrain isn't that rough, but it was. And the water's hitting the rock. It's like rough ocean.

Oh yeah. So we were going up in Saint Martin, up to Ance Marcel. We were going on a hike. They were going to surf and I was going to film. And you parked a car here and it takes about twenty five minutes and the terrain isn't that rough, but it was. And the water's hitting the rock. It's like rough ocean.

Okay, stop, you know I'm a big hiker. Please God tell me you had on hiking boots.

Okay, stop, you know I'm a big hiker. Please God tell me you had on hiking boots.

I had sneakers.

I had sneakers.

Oh Jesus, Okay, okay, that's the beginning of the end right there.

Oh Jesus, Okay, okay, that's the beginning of the end right there.

I was like getting winded, you know me, And I'm like, oh my god, there's the end. We're almost there. Was so excited and you stepped down. At this one point, the bottom of my sneaker hit gravel and slid and I went to fall back and I went to break my fall on this giant boulder and sure enough, but here's the worst part. I had to go back. It was only twenty five minutes up. It took over an hour to get back down these steep hills. It took over an hour with the broken bone to get back. And he would put the bag and then walk back and make me stay and help me down a little step, because God forbid, I fell again. It was horrific. They took me to a French hospital and I was nervous about that. Of course, it was two hundred and fifty dollars was just to walk in. I didn't care. I need this help. He casted it, told me I was going to need surgery, a plate and screws. I flew home two days later after the swelling went down and had the surgery. And there's this giant plate and four screws, which is a lot like you two years ago. I have to do everything.

I was like getting winded, you know me, And I'm like, oh my god, there's the end. We're almost there. Was so excited and you stepped down. At this one point, the bottom of my sneaker hit gravel and slid and I went to fall back and I went to break my fall on this giant boulder and sure enough, but here's the worst part. I had to go back. It was only twenty five minutes up. It took over an hour to get back down these steep hills. It took over an hour with the broken bone to get back. And he would put the bag and then walk back and make me stay and help me down a little step, because God forbid, I fell again. It was horrific. They took me to a French hospital and I was nervous about that. Of course, it was two hundred and fifty dollars was just to walk in. I didn't care. I need this help. He casted it, told me I was going to need surgery, a plate and screws. I flew home two days later after the swelling went down and had the surgery. And there's this giant plate and four screws, which is a lot like you two years ago. I have to do everything.

I don't know, but when you ever, So when Susan called me from Saint Martin and told me she had a broken wrist, I knew. I knew what was happening because I fell, not hiking. I fell playing with my granddaughter on a sport court and broke my fall the exact same way. So I said, here's what's going to happen to you. But as always, Susan has to outdo me. I have two small screws and one small plate in my wrist, and.

I don't know, but when you ever, So when Susan called me from Saint Martin and told me she had a broken wrist, I knew. I knew what was happening because I fell, not hiking. I fell playing with my granddaughter on a sport court and broke my fall the exact same way. So I said, here's what's going to happen to you. But as always, Susan has to outdo me. I have two small screws and one small plate in my wrist, and.

I have one large plate and for screws.

I have one large plate and for screws.

So Susan, you win again.

So Susan, you win again.

I didn't want to win this one.

I didn't want to win this one.

I know, but I will tell you it's You're going to be fine.

I know, but I will tell you it's You're going to be fine.

You just have to be careful. It is if anyone is never so. We both had dislocated bones. That's when you fall backwards on your wrist. It's almost impossible not to dislocate a bone, said my surgeon.

You just have to be careful. It is if anyone is never so. We both had dislocated bones. That's when you fall backwards on your wrist. It's almost impossible not to dislocate a bone, said my surgeon.

Was it your right hand, Kathy?

Was it your right hand, Kathy?

Yes, No. When I tell you, you and I do the same thing.

Yes, No. When I tell you, you and I do the same thing.

And I wait, can I just tell you I was with my at the time five year old granddaughter and I am scribing in pain, and I've called my children, Susan, do you think either of my two children, Austin answered their phone? Of course, not, of course not. Oh no, that's exactly what we did. After that happened. They put me on one of those emergency things. So when I dial them, and they said, please use it sparingly because it will come to if they're in a meeting. Will listen you you've had the shot.

And I wait, can I just tell you I was with my at the time five year old granddaughter and I am scribing in pain, and I've called my children, Susan, do you think either of my two children, Austin answered their phone? Of course, not, of course not. Oh no, that's exactly what we did. After that happened. They put me on one of those emergency things. So when I dial them, and they said, please use it sparingly because it will come to if they're in a meeting. Will listen you you've had the shot.

Wait. When we got to the destination, of course, he said to his son, go he wouldn't go surfing, of course, And I go, no, no, no, I'm not going back. Just sitting down. They laid towels under a little bit of a shady part, just so I could sit and gather my thoughts. I was and I was like, I don't want to walk back.

Wait. When we got to the destination, of course, he said to his son, go he wouldn't go surfing, of course, And I go, no, no, no, I'm not going back. Just sitting down. They laid towels under a little bit of a shady part, just so I could sit and gather my thoughts. I was and I was like, I don't want to walk back.

I don't.

I don't.

Can you get the hellic? After?

Can you get the hellic? After?

That's about right?

That's about right?

I couldn't hold on Susan.

I couldn't hold on Susan.

So when she got home, she's calling me from the airport. This hurts so much. I said, Sweet, You're gonna be okay. I wish everybody knew the conversations that Susan and I have had since she broke this risk.

So when she got home, she's calling me from the airport. This hurts so much. I said, Sweet, You're gonna be okay. I wish everybody knew the conversations that Susan and I have had since she broke this risk.

But the good news is.

But the good news is.

Your back, your wrist is healing, and you know you're you're gonna be fine. You're gonna do some rehab. You know you have a lot of people who love you and care about you.

Your back, your wrist is healing, and you know you're you're gonna be fine. You're gonna do some rehab. You know you have a lot of people who love you and care about you.

Thank you everyone for sending all the well wishes and the questions. You we all them. It hurts. You are well loved. I'm not giving up. Kathy can do it. I can do it.

Thank you everyone for sending all the well wishes and the questions. You we all them. It hurts. You are well loved. I'm not giving up. Kathy can do it. I can do it.

But do you know what you're getting for Christmas from me?

But do you know what you're getting for Christmas from me?

What?

What?

Hiking boots?

Hiking boots?

You got to go hiking with sweet a lot.

You got to go hiking with sweet a lot.

Oh, hiking is so much fun. Take a picnic, lunch, a bottle of wine.

Oh, hiking is so much fun. Take a picnic, lunch, a bottle of wine.

I didn't do that. I think it was oxygotten. They gave me.

I didn't do that. I think it was oxygotten. They gave me.

That's perfect.

That's perfect.

Yeah, well, you know what, just take it slow, do what the doctor says, do the rehabity.

Yeah, well, you know what, just take it slow, do what the doctor says, do the rehabity.

You got a lot of good things coming up in life. Listen, that's what I was going to say. That's your nation.

You got a lot of good things coming up in life. Listen, that's what I was going to say. That's your nation.

Please put up the good vibes for Susan, me Haunt, whoever you know that send emails, you know, telegrams whatever.

Please put up the good vibes for Susan, me Haunt, whoever you know that send emails, you know, telegrams whatever.

That just showed my next.

That just showed my next.

We want Kathy and Susan. We're not watching unless Katy and Susan. Wait.

We want Kathy and Susan. We're not watching unless Katy and Susan. Wait.

I have a question if you go, if we got.

I have a question if you go, if we got.

To be able to do cartwheels.

To be able to do cartwheels.

Oh, I'm sorry, that's why you can't do a cartwheel. Wait, I want to know bikinis.

Oh, I'm sorry, that's why you can't do a cartwheel. Wait, I want to know bikinis.

That's all I wear? Oh god, yes, and I'll have a chunky belly. Everybody says, start your negativity and put it in a hat. Okay, I don't want to hear it. It is what it is. I am sixty eight years old and I got a little pudge in the middle. So well, I'm going to be on bigger than what I did.

That's all I wear? Oh god, yes, and I'll have a chunky belly. Everybody says, start your negativity and put it in a hat. Okay, I don't want to hear it. It is what it is. I am sixty eight years old and I got a little pudge in the middle. So well, I'm going to be on bigger than what I did.

That's right, you know what.

That's right, you know what.

I yes, I am going to not be Susan. I'm going to have on the bathing suits from the nineteen forties. You know, the log sleeves, the long.

I yes, I am going to not be Susan. I'm going to have on the bathing suits from the nineteen forties. You know, the log sleeves, the long.

Skirt with one hundreds on screen, with hundred screen. That's right, I.

Skirt with one hundreds on screen, with hundred screen. That's right, I.

Say, is always on the beach, right, you're asking me, I've never been those people didn't have air condition I would never do that.

Say, is always on the beach, right, you're asking me, I've never been those people didn't have air condition I would never do that.

Well, listen, Gary and Gary Levingston and Leslie, we are so happy for you. We hope more of the Goldens will come. We hope that you heal Susan quickly. You're well on the way. We can't wait for your show. Got to get out. It's all good, it's all good stuff. And congratulations again to Juliana and Grant. We wish you a lifetime of love and happiness.

Well, listen, Gary and Gary Levingston and Leslie, we are so happy for you. We hope more of the Goldens will come. We hope that you heal Susan quickly. You're well on the way. We can't wait for your show. Got to get out. It's all good, it's all good stuff. And congratulations again to Juliana and Grant. We wish you a lifetime of love and happiness.

And get ready because we're getting you on these podcasts.

And get ready because we're getting you on these podcasts.

That's right.

That's right.

We want to dish. We want the dish, all right.

We want to dish. We want the dish, all right.

So today we're going to be answering more of your fan questions. Make sure, because we love hearing from you, that you're submitting your questions and your comments. We love, love, love. How many times can I say love reading them? All you got to do is go to Bachelor nation dot com slash Golden Hour and send us all your thoughts and wishes and guesses.

So today we're going to be answering more of your fan questions. Make sure, because we love hearing from you, that you're submitting your questions and your comments. We love, love, love. How many times can I say love reading them? All you got to do is go to Bachelor nation dot com slash Golden Hour and send us all your thoughts and wishes and guesses.

Absolutely send us everything, your questions, your updates, and your opinions, because that's what we're here for. You can also dm us on Instagram at Bachelor Happy Hour.

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Okay, Susan, yes, you READU gated into this episode because today, like most great days, we are going to start it with the question of the day. It's a good one all ready.

Okay, Susan, yes, you READU gated into this episode because today, like most great days, we are going to start it with the question of the day. It's a good one all ready.

Yep.

Yep.

Have you or a close friend of yours ever experienced a really tough breakup? What was it like and how did they get past it? Oh, I'm gonna let you handle this one because we let me say how long is this podcast? Susan's gonna give us. Oh, I don't know, five or ten examples of serious breakup.

Have you or a close friend of yours ever experienced a really tough breakup? What was it like and how did they get past it? Oh, I'm gonna let you handle this one because we let me say how long is this podcast? Susan's gonna give us. Oh, I don't know, five or ten examples of serious breakup.

She's had to be honest, My most hurtful was when I was very very young. The part that hurts me is because I'm usually the one that ends it and it takes forever because I feel so bad. But what came to mind was I love you, cousin Donna. Don't be mad. But when somebody breaks up with Donna, Oh my goodness.

She's had to be honest, My most hurtful was when I was very very young. The part that hurts me is because I'm usually the one that ends it and it takes forever because I feel so bad. But what came to mind was I love you, cousin Donna. Don't be mad. But when somebody breaks up with Donna, Oh my goodness.

She gets upset just.

She gets upset just.

To set like you could lock her up and throw away the key until she feels better. It's unbelievable. She don't hear you.

To set like you could lock her up and throw away the key until she feels better. It's unbelievable. She don't hear you.

She makes cousin, Donna, I love you. I'll make it better if it ever happens again. Where we won't rely on she she can't.

She makes cousin, Donna, I love you. I'll make it better if it ever happens again. Where we won't rely on she she can't.

She wants to know why. I said, Donna, there isn't a why. It's just unaccepted, cousin to move on.

She wants to know why. I said, Donna, there isn't a why. It's just unaccepted, cousin to move on.

Oh, I feel so bad, writ it's a letter down.

Oh, I feel so bad, writ it's a letter down.

And the next time young, you said young because I will tell you my worst Remember I was married very young. My worst breakup, and there were very few for me was my first love in high school and it was His name was Seth and I just he was just the love of my life. I I kept breaking up with him and take me back, and then one time he didn't, and it just broke my heart.

And the next time young, you said young because I will tell you my worst Remember I was married very young. My worst breakup, and there were very few for me was my first love in high school and it was His name was Seth and I just he was just the love of my life. I I kept breaking up with him and take me back, and then one time he didn't, and it just broke my heart.

It really it hurts until kids get hurt. My daughter's first breakup. Oh my god, I think I went on prozac.

It really it hurts until kids get hurt. My daughter's first breakup. Oh my god, I think I went on prozac.

It was I mean, I think first loves and first breakups are tough, don't.

It was I mean, I think first loves and first breakups are tough, don't.

You, Yes, yes, every breakup is tough when one side is hurt.

You, Yes, yes, every breakup is tough when one side is hurt.

You know, you know, how do you get past it?

You know, you know, how do you get past it?

You start dating somebody else or you you you realize at the end of the day it was for the best, because that's.

You start dating somebody else or you you you realize at the end of the day it was for the best, because that's.

The time heals all is what I say, And you have to go through it.

The time heals all is what I say, And you have to go through it.

I don't know that it heals all that makes things better.

I don't know that it heals all that makes things better.

Well, you get back to being yourself again. But it's it's a yucky thing. I don't wish it on anybody. I mean, if everybody could just agree that they're not doing great and the relationship you'll still miss it and you part as friends.

Well, you get back to being yourself again. But it's it's a yucky thing. I don't wish it on anybody. I mean, if everybody could just agree that they're not doing great and the relationship you'll still miss it and you part as friends.

As friends, yeah, is that a friend?

As friends, yeah, is that a friend?

That's Susan tough breakup does not equal ending as friends by day.

That's Susan tough breakup does not equal ending as friends by day.

I wish it could be.

I wish it could be.

Well, you know, I wish pigs could fly when it happens.

Well, you know, I wish pigs could fly when it happens.

All right, then let's get into our fan questions. I'm going to read the first one. Kathy, Ready, Ready, Ready, ready, all right. This is from anonymous. Hi ladies, I'm about to file for divorce and I feel like I'm standing at the top of a massive mountain. What should I be expecting. We have two kids and have been dealing with fun, marritable issues for the past four years. We really can't take it anymore. I just don't love him anymore, and everything he does bothers me. I don't want to have my kids grow up in a tumultorious tumultuous and tumultuous.

All right, then let's get into our fan questions. I'm going to read the first one. Kathy, Ready, Ready, Ready, ready, all right. This is from anonymous. Hi ladies, I'm about to file for divorce and I feel like I'm standing at the top of a massive mountain. What should I be expecting. We have two kids and have been dealing with fun, marritable issues for the past four years. We really can't take it anymore. I just don't love him anymore, and everything he does bothers me. I don't want to have my kids grow up in a tumultorious tumultuous and tumultuous.

Thank you.

Thank you.

Well, guess what nobody should fight for four years in front of their children. That's what I'm going to say right off the bat. But what should I prepare myself for? What should I do if he doesn't react? Well, would any of it? Oh wait a minute, he doesn't know you're getting another boy?

Well, guess what nobody should fight for four years in front of their children. That's what I'm going to say right off the bat. But what should I prepare myself for? What should I do if he doesn't react? Well, would any of it? Oh wait a minute, he doesn't know you're getting another boy?

Well, here's the thing she said.

Well, here's the thing she said.

She also said, we always said that we wait to divorce if we ever did, until the kids are in college. But I really can't take it anymore. I just don't love him anymore and everything he does bothers me. So she is about to file for divorce from him, and I'm guessing, ANONYMO that he does not know that you are filing for divorce.

She also said, we always said that we wait to divorce if we ever did, until the kids are in college. But I really can't take it anymore. I just don't love him anymore and everything he does bothers me. So she is about to file for divorce from him, and I'm guessing, ANONYMO that he does not know that you are filing for divorce.

What should you prepare yourself for? Lots of legal bills?

What should you prepare yourself for? Lots of legal bills?

Lots you thought the fighting was bad, it's you know, it's going to come as a huge shock to him if you file for divorce and he is served with papers. So my advice to you would be tell him that you want a divorce and that you're going to file for divorce. Don't let him be served without him knowing it's coming. And what should I do? If he doesn't react, well, well, he's probably not going to react well because guess what. Divorce is not just about money, but it's always about money. It's about children and visitation and who gets the house and the vacation house and the cars, and who's going to pay the mortgage on the house and how you know, how much time do you have to go through this list? So it's going to be really rough. But if you don't love him and you can't take it anymore, you're doing the right thing. But I think you need to talk to him first at it.

Lots you thought the fighting was bad, it's you know, it's going to come as a huge shock to him if you file for divorce and he is served with papers. So my advice to you would be tell him that you want a divorce and that you're going to file for divorce. Don't let him be served without him knowing it's coming. And what should I do? If he doesn't react, well, well, he's probably not going to react well because guess what. Divorce is not just about money, but it's always about money. It's about children and visitation and who gets the house and the vacation house and the cars, and who's going to pay the mortgage on the house and how you know, how much time do you have to go through this list? So it's going to be really rough. But if you don't love him and you can't take it anymore, you're doing the right thing. But I think you need to talk to him first at it.

What do you think we should talk to him? And he may react just fine. You might be as miserable as she is.

What do you think we should talk to him? And he may react just fine. You might be as miserable as she is.

It sounds like they're both pretty miserable.

It sounds like they're both pretty miserable.

You know, But but you do need to discuss it. Don't surprise him with papers. Talk to him and say, listen, I've done a lot of thinking and either one of us are happy. So how about we get on the same page and make.

You know, But but you do need to discuss it. Don't surprise him with papers. Talk to him and say, listen, I've done a lot of thinking and either one of us are happy. So how about we get on the same page and make.

Sure that you work with someone on telling the kids. You know, kids can survive divorce really well if you do the divorce and and the you know the follow up if you do that, well, But you know one thing I will say to you. Do as I say, not as my mother did. Do not trash your soon to be ex husband.

Sure that you work with someone on telling the kids. You know, kids can survive divorce really well if you do the divorce and and the you know the follow up if you do that, well, But you know one thing I will say to you. Do as I say, not as my mother did. Do not trash your soon to be ex husband.

To your children. It is their.

To your children. It is their.

Father, their dad. Be kind, be kind and let their Let your children love their dad.

Father, their dad. Be kind, be kind and let their Let your children love their dad.

Get divorced. You are yes, sorry, I have to do. We should luck and yes, if he is on the same page, it should go smoothly. But I've never seen a divorce go that smoothly.

Get divorced. You are yes, sorry, I have to do. We should luck and yes, if he is on the same page, it should go smoothly. But I've never seen a divorce go that smoothly.

Sometimes I've seen a few. For me.

Sometimes I've seen a few. For me.

I mean you saw me, Yeah, you saw me jump into this question because my parents were divorced and it was like, did you ever see the movie The War of the Roses hardly remember It's where they're hanging from the chandeliers fighting they take up They literally that was my parents.

I mean you saw me, Yeah, you saw me jump into this question because my parents were divorced and it was like, did you ever see the movie The War of the Roses hardly remember It's where they're hanging from the chandeliers fighting they take up They literally that was my parents.

I mean, it was so bad.

I mean, it was so bad.

The kids don't need kids feel that, you know.

The kids don't need kids feel that, you know.

That's what I'm saying. That's why I said keep the kids out of it. It's just it's not a good thing. You want your kids to grow up and be healthy and happy, and you want to move on and find happiness in your life. So if you get the divorce, do it the right way and also talking to your husband.

That's what I'm saying. That's why I said keep the kids out of it. It's just it's not a good thing. You want your kids to grow up and be healthy and happy, and you want to move on and find happiness in your life. So if you get the divorce, do it the right way and also talking to your husband.

That man is going to be in your life for the rest of your life because it's your children's father, so better to be civil about everything. Yeah, and get a good bayer.

That man is going to be in your life for the rest of your life because it's your children's father, so better to be civil about everything. Yeah, and get a good bayer.

Okay, we good good luck Anonymous? Okay the question.

Okay, we good good luck Anonymous? Okay the question.

The next question, Carly writes, Hi, Kathy and Susan, I really need your help. I'm pretty sure my boyfriend is still hung up on his high school girlfriend, and I don't know what to do. They were together all through high school and broke up when they went to college. We're both twenty seven now, and I never thought an ex from high school would be a problem, but I really think it is. He is still in contact with her via her Instagram dms. I have snooped and I didn't find anything incriminating, but the amount of times he reaches out and talks to her is stressing me out. He saw her at his ten year high school reunion, and the way he looked at her made me sick to my stomach. She is single, which really stresses me out. What do you think I should do?

The next question, Carly writes, Hi, Kathy and Susan, I really need your help. I'm pretty sure my boyfriend is still hung up on his high school girlfriend, and I don't know what to do. They were together all through high school and broke up when they went to college. We're both twenty seven now, and I never thought an ex from high school would be a problem, but I really think it is. He is still in contact with her via her Instagram dms. I have snooped and I didn't find anything incriminating, but the amount of times he reaches out and talks to her is stressing me out. He saw her at his ten year high school reunion, and the way he looked at her made me sick to my stomach. She is single, which really stresses me out. What do you think I should do?

Ouch? I think there's a little bit of jealousy here, but he's obviously not over her. In other words, she's thinking, is that other girl the high school sweetheart said book I'm ready come back? He would jump and leave her like a hot potato.

Ouch? I think there's a little bit of jealousy here, but he's obviously not over her. In other words, she's thinking, is that other girl the high school sweetheart said book I'm ready come back? He would jump and leave her like a hot potato.

You think he would.

You think he would.

I don't know him. I don't know him. But she's snooping. He keeps reaching out her. He's looking like a damn fool. Obviously the woman's not biting.

I don't know him. I don't know him. But she's snooping. He keeps reaching out her. He's looking like a damn fool. Obviously the woman's not biting.

Well, how do you know she's not well?

Well, how do you know she's not well?

If he keeps reaching out, she just can't find anything.

If he keeps reaching out, she just can't find anything.

But you don't know that they're not mean. We don't know. Here's something, Carly.

But you don't know that they're not mean. We don't know. Here's something, Carly.

You know.

You know.

I know I'm going to sign old fashioned here, but where there's smoking, where there's.

I know I'm going to sign old fashioned here, but where there's smoking, where there's.

Smoke, there may be fire.

Smoke, there may be fire.

If he's why would he be reaching unless well, there's a few things we don't know. If they live in the same hometown and everybody's friends with their high school friends, you know, maybe that's one thing. But I'm not reading it this way. Ten year high school reunion, chit chatting.

If he's why would he be reaching unless well, there's a few things we don't know. If they live in the same hometown and everybody's friends with their high school friends, you know, maybe that's one thing. But I'm not reading it this way. Ten year high school reunion, chit chatting.

I don't know.

I don't know.

I think you have to have the conversation with him. But again, Carly, I would phrase the question that you're feeling insecure, You're feeling.

I think you have to have the conversation with him. But again, Carly, I would phrase the question that you're feeling insecure, You're feeling.

How many years ago is it? Kath happened ten high ten years.

How many years ago is it? Kath happened ten high ten years.

And he's still talking to her.

And he's still talking to her.

So but you know what I'm saying again, I'm big on not accusing. You can't go in and say to your husband they are married, right, yeah, they're married. You can't go oh no, it says boyfriend. Oh I thought you were married. Oh yeah, yeah. I mean I think you have to. I think you have to fess up and say, you know you're feeling insecure. I don't know how long you've been dating him, but you know how long you've been dating this guy? Are you going to get engaged? Are you thinking about marrying him? Or is it a casual relationship? We don't have enough information here. How serious is this boyfriend girlfriend? Maybe it's not that serious, Susan, I don't know.

So but you know what I'm saying again, I'm big on not accusing. You can't go in and say to your husband they are married, right, yeah, they're married. You can't go oh no, it says boyfriend. Oh I thought you were married. Oh yeah, yeah. I mean I think you have to. I think you have to fess up and say, you know you're feeling insecure. I don't know how long you've been dating him, but you know how long you've been dating this guy? Are you going to get engaged? Are you thinking about marrying him? Or is it a casual relationship? We don't have enough information here. How serious is this boyfriend girlfriend? Maybe it's not that serious, Susan, I don't know.

We don't know.

We don't know.

It doesn't say how long she Carly, you don't. We don't know how long you've been dating him. Carly, you need to write us back, tell us how long you've been dating him. Are you guys living together? Are you in a committed relationship where you're talking about marriage or at least forging a life together?

It doesn't say how long she Carly, you don't. We don't know how long you've been dating him. Carly, you need to write us back, tell us how long you've been dating him. Are you guys living together? Are you in a committed relationship where you're talking about marriage or at least forging a life together?

Katy, do you think if she brings it up to him her suspicions to her feelings, that that would be a good idea or a bad idea.

Katy, do you think if she brings it up to him her suspicions to her feelings, that that would be a good idea or a bad idea.

Oh?

Oh?

I would bring it up with him, but I would solve anything. I would put it on me. I would say, I'm feeling a little insecure. Of course, she'd have to admit that she's been, you know, looking at her DM. But you know what she could You could say, hey, have you been talking to him?

I would bring it up with him, but I would solve anything. I would put it on me. I would say, I'm feeling a little insecure. Of course, she'd have to admit that she's been, you know, looking at her DM. But you know what she could You could say, hey, have you been talking to him?

And if you mean me?

And if you mean me?

Says her respond then you know. But it would be how the woman's responding to him. That's how I would make my decision whether or not I was going to bring this to surface.

Says her respond then you know. But it would be how the woman's responding to him. That's how I would make my decision whether or not I was going to bring this to surface.

Wait a minute, how the woman's responding to.

Wait a minute, how the woman's responding to.

Her like he keeps reaching out to her, and what are the responses from those messages?

Her like he keeps reaching out to her, and what are the responses from those messages?

Well, again, they could be meeting in purpose. We don't have enough information, I'm telling you we don't.

Well, again, they could be meeting in purpose. We don't have enough information, I'm telling you we don't.

We don't.

We don't.

But you have every right to feel like you're feeling, that's for sure.

But you have every right to feel like you're feeling, that's for sure.

Yeah, for sure. Or you do you do? And if you do decide to talk to him, Carly, do not accuse him. Tell him it's how you're feeling.

Yeah, for sure. Or you do you do? And if you do decide to talk to him, Carly, do not accuse him. Tell him it's how you're feeling.

Don't be susan.

Don't be susan.

Yeah, exactly, tell him how you're feeling and see what he says. But you know what if he says what I haven't talked to her in ten years except at the reunion, will they have your answer? Then you have your answer, and I would move out and you know, take all the food in the night sheets with him.

Yeah, exactly, tell him how you're feeling and see what he says. But you know what if he says what I haven't talked to her in ten years except at the reunion, will they have your answer? Then you have your answer, and I would move out and you know, take all the food in the night sheets with him.

Good all right, good luck, sweetie. Question number three Patty, Yes, hi, ladies. My son is going through his very first heartbreak and I don't know how to help him. He's eighteen and have been with his girlfriend for three years. From what I understand, they broke up because she doesn't want to go to the same college as him, and they both don't think distance will work. It's been about a month since the breakup and I just can't get him out of his room. I never had a serious boyfriend until college, and that breakup was a breeze for me. A story for another day, lol. So I don't have a lot of experience with this stuff. What can I say or do to help him? Thank you so much? Oh God, I hate I hate it. There's nothing you could do. Maybe there's nothing you can do.

Good all right, good luck, sweetie. Question number three Patty, Yes, hi, ladies. My son is going through his very first heartbreak and I don't know how to help him. He's eighteen and have been with his girlfriend for three years. From what I understand, they broke up because she doesn't want to go to the same college as him, and they both don't think distance will work. It's been about a month since the breakup and I just can't get him out of his room. I never had a serious boyfriend until college, and that breakup was a breeze for me. A story for another day, lol. So I don't have a lot of experience with this stuff. What can I say or do to help him? Thank you so much? Oh God, I hate I hate it. There's nothing you could do. Maybe there's nothing you can do.

Well.

Well.

I think she can tell him that she's there if he wants to talk.

I think she can tell him that she's there if he wants to talk.

I don't think she said that.

I don't think she said that.

I think I think that if he really is, You're gonna be surprised when I say this, Susan. But Patty, if you really cannot get your son to come out of his room. That is cause for worry in my book. I mean, it's been a month and he is not coming out of his room.

I think I think that if he really is, You're gonna be surprised when I say this, Susan. But Patty, if you really cannot get your son to come out of his room. That is cause for worry in my book. I mean, it's been a month and he is not coming out of his room.

Means going to school literally, Well, they're going to college. And you know what, how many college kids know they break up and they agree to do their things, but when they're home, they'll get back together to see if it's as strong as it should. That is what college is about.

Means going to school literally, Well, they're going to college. And you know what, how many college kids know they break up and they agree to do their things, but when they're home, they'll get back together to see if it's as strong as it should. That is what college is about.

Well, I'm not arguing with that, and I honestly don't think that distance, especially at that age, particularly at that age works. However, you know, I think that you're right. Going to college is a time for exploration and having fun and meeting new people. So I don't fault the girlfriend for breaking up with him.

Well, I'm not arguing with that, and I honestly don't think that distance, especially at that age, particularly at that age works. However, you know, I think that you're right. Going to college is a time for exploration and having fun and meeting new people. So I don't fault the girlfriend for breaking up with him.

Do you.

Do you.

I mean, no, she's trying to be honest.

I mean, no, she's trying to be honest.

Yeah, but I do I would be concerned that your son, who's eighteen has not come out of his room.

Yeah, but I do I would be concerned that your son, who's eighteen has not come out of his room.

I might get some help with that. I mean, I'm not a therapist again, but if he's been in his room for a month, he's taking it maybe more harder than he should, I think.

I might get some help with that. I mean, I'm not a therapist again, but if he's been in his room for a month, he's taking it maybe more harder than he should, I think.

I mean it's his first one.

I mean it's his first one.

Susan, a month in your bedroom, I know that's a long time.

Susan, a month in your bedroom, I know that's a long time.

That's a lot time. So what you can do to help him? Maybe maybe you know, talk to somebody, if you get one of his friends to come over and talk to him and see if his friends can help.

That's a lot time. So what you can do to help him? Maybe maybe you know, talk to somebody, if you get one of his friends to come over and talk to him and see if his friends can help.

I mean, time does heal, I think honestly. But when she wrote this, it should be about over by now, like it's it takes time, it has to take its course. Yes, probably better now. I don't know when she wrote us Patty.

I mean, time does heal, I think honestly. But when she wrote this, it should be about over by now, like it's it takes time, it has to take its course. Yes, probably better now. I don't know when she wrote us Patty.

Yeah, Patty, you need to let us know what because is married. Now we're gonna re that.

Yeah, Patty, you need to let us know what because is married. Now we're gonna re that.

That's worrisome to me and I know we love our children and we hate to see that our heart's broken. But Patty, it truly is. It's a it's a write of passage. It happens to all of us, whether it's in high school, you know, college, if you if you've never had a heartbreak, Patty, you're one lucky girl.

That's worrisome to me and I know we love our children and we hate to see that our heart's broken. But Patty, it truly is. It's a it's a write of passage. It happens to all of us, whether it's in high school, you know, college, if you if you've never had a heartbreak, Patty, you're one lucky girl.

Yeah. I want to hear your story, she said, story for another day call us.

Yeah. I want to hear your story, she said, story for another day call us.

Yeah, let us know. We want to hear your story.

Yeah, let us know. We want to hear your story.

It could be anonymous even we don't have to know it to you, but thank you for writing. You'll keep them in here. Yeah, all right, then, well today we're going to play Who's most likely to Kathy, we'll switch off reading and say, who, between the two of us is my most likely to do it? Okay, I'll say, sorry, who's most likely to talk their way out of a traffic ticket?

It could be anonymous even we don't have to know it to you, but thank you for writing. You'll keep them in here. Yeah, all right, then, well today we're going to play Who's most likely to Kathy, we'll switch off reading and say, who, between the two of us is my most likely to do it? Okay, I'll say, sorry, who's most likely to talk their way out of a traffic ticket?

Well, I'm just going to answer that question.

Well, I'm just going to answer that question.

Since I've never had one, and Susan just talked to herself her way out of one, I'm going to.

Since I've never had one, and Susan just talked to herself her way out of one, I'm going to.

Go I cannot. Susan.

Go I cannot. Susan.

You want to You want to fess up about the traffic ticket you got recently.

You want to You want to fess up about the traffic ticket you got recently.

Yeah, it was late, I was tired, I had a pee and I was speeding.

Yeah, it was late, I was tired, I had a pee and I was speeding.

However, wait, how faust are you going to this?

However, wait, how faust are you going to this?

I don't want to talk about that. It was on the parkway. I mean, if any just say there was parkway there? Three ditch okay, three digits? No? No, no, he clocked me at ninety four.

I don't want to talk about that. It was on the parkway. I mean, if any just say there was parkway there? Three ditch okay, three digits? No? No, no, he clocked me at ninety four.

Yes, but you told me you were going over all.

Yes, but you told me you were going over all.

All that He didn't cock me.

All that He didn't cock me.

It what Overah?

It what Overah?

So I guess it didn't happen if it was in the forest and the tree didn't, No one heard the tree fall.

So I guess it didn't happen if it was in the forest and the tree didn't, No one heard the tree fall.

It didn't.

It didn't.

It was straight away. Do you know my my bucket list? It's like to drive the autumn, So I don't get a ticket.

It was straight away. Do you know my my bucket list? It's like to drive the autumn, So I don't get a ticket.

Like that is my thrill in Germany where else I've done it.

Like that is my thrill in Germany where else I've done it.

I've done it, but you didn't go one hundred or more. I was in a car where they were going to fast.

I've done it, but you didn't go one hundred or more. I was in a car where they were going to fast.

You were driving.

You were driving.

You're damn right. I wasn't.

You're damn right. I wasn't.

But he was a great cop. He was young, he could have been my son, and he knew I was tired. He asked where I was going all that stuff, and then he said, listen, I'm going to write down that you weren't obeying the traffic sign I mean the signs. And I go, okay, thank you, okay, just don't give.

But he was a great cop. He was young, he could have been my son, and he knew I was tired. He asked where I was going all that stuff, and then he said, listen, I'm going to write down that you weren't obeying the traffic sign I mean the signs. And I go, okay, thank you, okay, just don't give.

Me points, no points on lines, all right. Get caught going through a partner phone. Have you ever done it, Susan?

Me points, no points on lines, all right. Get caught going through a partner phone. Have you ever done it, Susan?

Yeah, I have to. Yeah, I always catch them going through mine. Good, knock yourself out. There's nothing not I don't really care because.

Yeah, I have to. Yeah, I always catch them going through mine. Good, knock yourself out. There's nothing not I don't really care because.

I want to lie with younger kids today. They know how to have.

I want to lie with younger kids today. They know how to have.

Oh they can crack into everything.

Oh they can crack into everything.

No, but they can. You can hide it. Hide on my phone, they can hide it.

No, but they can. You can hide it. Hide on my phone, they can hide it.

Let me tell you I found things through it annex Oh, Anthony, poor little Anthony, Yeah, dirty, oh.

Let me tell you I found things through it annex Oh, Anthony, poor little Anthony, Yeah, dirty, oh.

I found stuff when I went through. That was the beginning to the end of that relationship.

I found stuff when I went through. That was the beginning to the end of that relationship.

Okay, yeah, go ahead, okay, Oh I am famous Irish exit at a party? Who wants to do the long goodbyes? You were ready to go home? Cap that's another twenty five minutes if you have to think about everybody, and then you got to hear why are you going?

Okay, yeah, go ahead, okay, Oh I am famous Irish exit at a party? Who wants to do the long goodbyes? You were ready to go home? Cap that's another twenty five minutes if you have to think about everybody, and then you got to hear why are you going?

So I just go okay, yes or no? Just yes or no.

So I just go okay, yes or no? Just yes or no.

Do you always thank the host or hostess at a party and say good night to them before your Irish accent?

Do you always thank the host or hostess at a party and say good night to them before your Irish accent?

It depends on the party now, not necessarily, Oh, I always do. I mean most of the time. But if I'm scooting most of the time, the host, her hostesses or there's a couple are talking with people and I don't want to go announce that I'm leaving, all right? Get scammed online?

It depends on the party now, not necessarily, Oh, I always do. I mean most of the time. But if I'm scooting most of the time, the host, her hostesses or there's a couple are talking with people and I don't want to go announce that I'm leaving, all right? Get scammed online?

Wha, that's Susan, that's you.

Wha, that's Susan, that's you.

Oh my god.

Oh my god.

You know what.

You know what.

Susan's online all the time, shopping. That's why she's going to get scalled.

Susan's online all the time, shopping. That's why she's going to get scalled.

That doesn't mean necessarily mean shopping. Like I came to mind the dating sec Remember I told you the scammers out there, Kathy, they're not real. They have pictures like you could kind of tell them. They use the word m am instead of I am. They'll go, AM doing this or M going like, are you kidding? I got scammed when I when I first did it, like years ago, fifteen years ago.