Groceries: Wegmans Astor Place

We're off for the Holidays, but we wanted to gift you something from behind the paywall! One of the most recommended stores in our DMs and emails. Named to Fortune's Best Companies to Work For, the 107 year old Rochester NY-based, family-owned Wegman's Food Market. For the rest of Season 4 of Groc…

Zombie Laws, CPR Dummies, Apartment Fire and Murphy's Oil Soap

Bryan takes us on his 36 hour NYC Pig Bitch Tour which includes an apartment fire, "Birdboxing" himself, a coffee tour and Bergdorfs. At her convent, Sister Mary Gibson triggers some scent memory by using some Murphy Oil Soap to clean her hardwood floors. Bryan tells us about Michigan Democrats try…

Pastor Joel Webbon, Walmart's DEI Programs, Thanksgiving and Fresco by Scotto

We're back from Thanksgiving and Erin is never cooking again, meanwhile Bryan had a celebrity encounter at one of New York's hottest restaurants. Erin tells us about Pastor Joel Webbon's riling up of his supporters against the 19th Amendment. Bryan is annoyed by former music video director Robby St…

Texas Decriminalizing Gay Sex, Georgia Maternal Mortality Committee, Camping Mattresses and Broadway Movie Musicals

Happy Thanksgiving! The discussion about our 2025 queer white water rafting trip continues with worries about whether or not we can bring full mattresses to camp on. Bryan discusses the latest attempts by the Texas Legislature to decriminalize gay sex. Erin tells us about Georgia's Maternal Mortali…

For the Love of DILFS, Gendered Drug Testing, Queer White Water Rafting and Poki Roni

We're back from the wayOUT Gala where we honored Harper Steele and Bryan spent a lot of money on a joke (for a good cause). Erin shares some disturbing gender disparity details regarding drug testing in this country and how changes could improve medicine and the economy. Bryan stumbles upon Stormy …

Disengaging with Trump-Voting Family, The 4B Movement, Carol Channing and Breaking Up with Scherzinger

After praising her performance in Sunset Blvd. Bryan is upset with the lead Pussycat Doll's recent Instagram likes and comments of conservative content, and Erin is introduced to the 1985 Alice in Wonderland with Carol Channing. Bryan teaches us how to disengage and set boundaries with our Trump-lo…

2024 Election Post-Mortem

Well, that happened. Erin and Bryan have a raw morning-after discussion about the Election Day results, what is going on in America, and the small victories that will help guide us into the hell that will be Trump's second term. For this week’s bonus This New Thing We're Doing! visit www.patreon.c…

Can Husbands Find Out Who You Voted For? LGBTQ+ GOP Platform, Bate Boards and Guilty Pleasures

Happy Halloqueen! This year Bryan dressed as the skeleton of Vincent Price and Erin is a woman who can never get warm. Erin describes her gym's trainer "bate board" of guilty pleasures, and Bryan recounts a neighbor's on-the-nose costume party. Erin tells us about Olivia Dreizen Howell's viral twee…

Reproductive and LGBTQ Rights on Your Ballots, Sunset Blvd. and LA Workout Classes

Bryan's back from New York where he witnessed Nicole Scherzinger's star turn in Sunset Blvd. on Broadway. Erin is back in LA and describes the generational gap between herself and the others in her workout class. Erin covers the reproductive rights propositions and ballot measures up for a vote in …

Grindr AI, Texas Supreme Court, It's Just Lunch, and C3P0

We open this week with a discussion about the matchmaking service It's Just Lunch and, following the news of Elon's upcoming Optimus humanoid army, why we'd rather have a twinkish C3PO-style robot. Bryan tells us about Grindr's newest AI "wingman" development to help users improve interactions on t…