Anonymous has been with his partner for about three years and says their relationship wasn’t perfect but they got through the challenges, and even started talking marriage. 

Last week she called him fighting about something and he decided to hold back in that argument but she took it as him being avoidant, and said she was annoyed by the behaviour as she feels like he doesn’t know how to deal with confrontation. 

Anonymous says the biggest challenge in their relationship seems to be communication as she feels like he’s often not available when she calls.