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Episode 255: Broken Pussy (Feat. Issa Rae)

Published Jun 9, 2020, 11:00 AM

Issa Rae breaks down the complex relationship between Issa and Molly on HBO’s Insecure, and the awkward dynamic with Condola. Issa opens up about a vacation gone wrong (in her real life), as well as the one place on her body she does not want to be touched. Make sure to check out her 2 latest movies, The Photograph and The Love Birds, and of course, HBO’s Insecure!

 

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Hu ya Eita for having me on. You were so excited. Y'all look great, you look great. Thank you. I got my drink ready, I don't really okay, old home on. We got our drinking so well. Welcome to Lip Services Ray as promised, you know because and I want to say, I do appreciate you for keeping your word on that. Please. I was hype, but I love this show, so thank you for having me and thank you for making it happen. I hated it this way and that was my only thing. Was like I wanted to be there, but what can you do? Girl? I booked my flight in the middle of the pandemic, thinking I was gonna see you. Angela was like, um Lorio, cancel your flight. She's not coming the pandemic. I was like, are you sure you speak to her? She was like, should I come just in case? I was like, first of all, Easter Ray was like one of the first people to cancel everything because they gave was like heads up. They were like, it doesn't look like Easter Ray's gonna come. This is before they shut shut down. They were like, it's not looking good. They got too close and got a in like when I was like when I was like, oh, mom, my home girl and my best friend got people like them are close to them that No, I was just like, I can't. I can't take this. Yeah, no, I feel you because I didn't know how serious it was at first because I was like in Detroit and I was it wasn't bad there at first. They were like, there's no cases here, so I'm running around and when staff New York was already kind of getting hit and I didn't know what was going on. So we girl, I was gonna find into New York for you with all the cases and everything right in and he said don't get too high because she flew to New York to get her hair done anyway, But it was for YouTube. It was for YouTube because I knew like the following week that we had you, so I was like, I gotta look up for Etha. It's about that counts. Thank you. And I do want to take a moment though, just to say, you know, to just acknowledge George Floyd and are very just because there's so much going on and there's no way I know this Normally this platform, you know, we just have fun and we talk about sex and relationships. But it is something that is real heavy right now, So I do want to make sure we do take a moment just to at least acknowledge that too. Absolutely all right, So let's get into what's going on with you and Molly on Insecure, because I want to talk about you in real life and see what the parallels are to the show. Interesting. I mean, I'm so Ethan and Molly are going through um different seasons in life, you know, I think we watched them, and we watched them through the course before seasons essentially be the same in their respective fields. You know, I think Molly's always killed it were has always been. She's with the exception of v on the last couple of seasons, but to Molly has always had it together in the relationship department, like she's never really had trouble with the man she's known he said, Lawrence to be together for for a while. And so now in this season we're seeing them kind of switch things up where Molly has this relationship that she's taking really seriously um and Issa is trying this new part of her career and and and trying to make this block party happen. And they're focused in different ways. But the issue is that they're seeing each other like longtime friends do through old eyes, and all of that has come to a head in in the last couple of episodes. You were kind of dick riding Condola, Condo, Condola, here you go. First of all, Candola is amazing. Uh if you have met another black woman who was like killing the game and is doing what you're gonna do and together, like, why wouldn't you jump on it? She's great and she con being positive and helpful. Like, but when you and Molly was supposed to meet up, like you can't force a new friend on somebody, and you was kind of like going too hard. That's a violation. I think that you're right about that. That is my Peppie, Like, don't if it's me and you and if I say, hey, let's go to dinner or let's go to lunch, and I'm thinking it's gonna be the two of us, and you've written somebody else you're dead to me, like, no better, I'm the queen of that. You're Angela brings to everybody? Why do you without notifing not without notifying Angela? Come on, you turned it into a party. It'd be like a dick. Yeah. Yeah, listen, I'm not gonna lie. That's me Like I could be. I have plans with one of my friends. The next thing I know, it'd be like people. Yeah, it's annoying. That's a good note. I mean, we don't we don't have like a friendship yet. You're gonna be my best friend soon. But never mind, because you do ship my club. But it's always a good time. I don't believe you. I wouldn't know. We'll go to this your club again, you know, and have a good time and throw some money or what. I went back, I went back to father's office and it was it was. It was definitely more licked than I remember. I gotta go to the club at Eastern and see, all right, so we're gonna play a little game with you. It's kind of based on the show so and everybody's gonna play right now, all right. So have you ever had a vacation go terribly wrong with a bay? Have I had a record? Yes, Yes I have. I have been on to detail. Yes, yes. Man. Uh it was just, uh, we we weren't like on solid ground. We had just started talking and dating, and we went to Miami together and they just you know, we we learned. And also it had been a while since we had seen each other and I'm not gonna lie. I put on a little weight. He wasn't expecting that, and he was just an asshole and it was just we just didn't have the same chemistry and I felt mad insecure of course, he was just like an asshole in every single way, and I ended up like cutting the chip really and leaving and going back home. He said something about you gaining a little weight. He was like, oh, you know it was it was like colloquialism. He acted like he liked it, but don't comment. You know what I'm saying. And I didn't know that I had put all weight, but it was just like nothing. I hate your fat roles too. I hate that. Don't touch my stomach. That's my role, Like, yes, my stomach, and don't do it. Just act like you don't see it, you're blind to But yeah, y'all stomach is good. Like I'll be like we've all been in quarantine. He all put on a little covid weight. Okay, we've all been landing about it and then not even around and yeah, man and the like that's there. Go to plate. I feel like that's there. Go to place like they love to touch your stomach and stuff like that. You're like, come on, you know that, I don't want you to touch my goddamn stomach, like not today. Yeah, you'll be trying to you trying to lay flat, sucking in like, also, don't lean on it. Have you ever like lay on your stomach, lay on my stomach the fellow and it makes noises like I'm mad, so conscious, be be black fit and I do not, like, don't don't lay on it. You'd be like, oh, it's just digesting. It's just you know nature. They're like, you don't or you gotta go to the bathroom. Have you ever been a ride or die in a relationship and would you recommend that? No, I'm I'm I'm a writer, but I wan't. I haven't. No, I don't. I'm not to a fault. No, I don't do that. I have sense in my relationships. I've never been like I'll die for you, right, what do you think? It's the furthest you've gone that you had to look back and be like, Lisa, now, what the fuck? Probably like supporting a man in a way I think that's the furthest I've gone. But like no man has put me in danger, like no man has disrespected I don't tolerate a lot of things. It takes a lot for me to like die. You never failed, nobody out of jail and nothing. No, I haven't. I haven't had any jail base. I would, though, like if I talk with you, I would. I don't think that that's like it depends on what you did, obviously, but I have no problem with that. You definitely was a ride or die in the Love Birds movie. Yes, you don't have a choice, but they actually did because the end. It's funny because it was like, um, since we knew that, have nothing to do it, don't get the way to end if you But it's funny. It's not even about the end. It's about the whole movie and how hilarious it is. It doesn't the end is just a small portion. But let me just ask you this. If you had to prepare for a role in the movie, do you like immerse yourself and the experience and you were going to be in a row you had to have an orgy? What I what? I like actually have an orgy for home? I absolutely would not that um hell of a research. I wouldn't do that, but I would ask people who would participated in them, and I would ask them expensive questions. I would Yeah, I would go as far as I could without actually doing it. That's the funniest time, I think when they went to the um and you'd be like, are you gonna call out more numbers? You see it, you'll remember that part. Okay, So, g have you ever had an oorgy? I don't know if it's counts as an orgy, but I've had like a situation where there was, um, five girls and a guy. That's an orgy. Yeah, that's an orgy. You only have sex with one girl and then the other girls. For heaven, we're doing things with each other where y'all all having sex at the time where y'all all having sex the girls. Yeah, that's an orgy. G yea counts so yeah one time. What what's what's the difference between the orgy and group sex though? Isn't it the same? I think it's the same. That's the same thing. It's an orgy when everybody is participating and it's like everybody's doing stuff with each other, and group sex is just like this person that you know, like here here, here, here, here, do you have to have sex in the orgy? Or can y'all just be like, you know, groping each other. Yeah? See, that's what I'm saying. I think maybe group sex is just like sex in the group, and then the orgy is like everybody combining and getting all in Like, no, stop, you know whoever is with whatever, let's just do it. I've not done that. Do you know anybody who's like a swinger? Do I know anybody personally that's a swinger? I don't think so nobody that's like told me that. Maybe friends of friends, But no, I don't know any swingers, do you? Yeah? For sure. I feel like that's a like before I got in the industry, that's all I heard about the industry was like, you know someone so swingers, you know. But now that I'm in it, I don't know anybody who does it. See that's always asking you because I hear that a lot too. I'm not like, you know, in Hollywood at all. So I was just wondering. But you might also have taken a pledge to not tell us. I'm gonna said that. Yeah, I'm in a little little bitty now we have now I wish I wish I knew like it was it was more excited. But I also don't have a lot of industry friends either, so it's maybe that's why I gotta get into know. Nobody tells me anything. All right, next match checks for you the Orgies. Have you ever stayed with someone just because the sex was amazing? Uh? Stade with them? No? He had sex with them, like, yes, yes, absolutely, but I wouldn't say if that's all they had to offer. Not how about like the airport like the T. S A guy? Have you ever had someone that you wasn't necessarily attracted to so much that because I don't, it doesn't seem like you're too attracted to him on the show, but you fuck with him because he focks good and you know he hold you down when he needs to. I think ts A Bay was cute. I think D was attracted to t. S A Bay and he put it down. I think that his just lifestyle wasn't about her, like he you know't had kids by different women or whatever, and that's just not She didn't. She also just wasn't. She was not. She's in the work most so she wasn't think about like a relationship, but in real life, yeah, I don't. If it's a friends with benefits situation that yes, absolutely, I wasn't have a problem with that in like a maintenance category, Like what does that mean? It's an emergency right glass, Yes, exactly when I need to when I need to have the handled. I'm gonna call ts a thing like I look at him as one of those type of situations. But but as opposed as opposed to what so that does that mean? Like you're already in a relationship and then you're like, oh I need some outsider or if you're like this is a single woman speaking as a single woman would be in her roster. Yes, so he wouldn't be the main he would be like the other man. Why can't he a name? He has too many baby moms and to West drama. But he's sober. He's such a writer because like he was there doing security at the door for you, like like I like, I like, I like to if it if he didn't have the other situation, he could have. But you know what this makes me question, is Easa a user? Mmm? You did live at that guy? And I mean he offered and you know, I think that she's just gonna take advantage of what's available to her. Don't if you don't mean it, but then okay, because that is that's Molly's issue, right. She feels like EA's character uses people. Can you see where she's can I see? I can see that from Molly's perspective, she always witnesses East like she always helps Easa get out of these situations. Molly is about or die person. And I think that from Molly's perspective, like Issa kind of lies and uses in a way, like every single time that we've seen uh Molly rope into these situations. Molly might be like Easter might be like like the Pilot, for example, it's like, oh girl, we should tell a break, like we should sell a break my birthday, like come out, you're you're sad, Let's go to the club. And her intentions are always like, okay, let me use my friend to get into this club so I can meet this guy. Oh girl called Cella, Like we're about to be lit. I have, but it's my guy. They been coming through blah blah. You know. So she said she might be manipulated in that way, and that's what Molly has witnessed over time, but she's always been like, Okay, he said, I guess you know. I'm here for you no matter what. But I do think that Molly is the type of she's judgmental and sometimes he said, is not trying to hear the uh, you shouldn't do this girl, or that's the like why are you doing this? So she might have to use certain tactics to grow people. But I have seen, like he say, has used Daniel a lot through the course of this season. But I think that's just because she might take him for granted, you diget a lot of a lot of backlash for and let's sever she got backlash too or not, like can come on your face, Yeah, we didn't understand your problem with the whole one of my fe places for it to go. So the fact that you didn't like it, I was like, girl, why it's better there than inside? Like I think that she was. She was dealing with an accumulation like she just walken't about that whole life like she thought she was, and it was an accumulation of what she felt like was disrespect. Things were not going her way, So that happening was just like okay, uh huh, Like I feel like it got in my eye like it was it was just it was too much for her to handle. And you know she was she felt like it was vindicted. But I think she just wasn't ready to be about that light. But I didn't you feel about something like the first not eat insecure. I'm not a fan of it on my face. I just I don't like it by any parts of my body. I would rather it inside it all costs. Like I'm fine with that right, Like I'm not about the oil of a like I don't need it and I have blows ship. I'm good and I just like I like the separation is You're a Capricorn, right I am? Yes? What what? What? What days? January? There, I'm the third seah of January when yours before you? Oh my god, twins, Okay, I said I sent a bowling party happening those edition Yeah afterward, we know you got that Atlantic Records. You know what I'm saying, So let's make it happen. Mike Kaiser, Oh, I do want to talk or used afterwards us. You know, I do want to talk about that with with the label that you have with Atlantic. I think that's so dope, because what's your show? You've allowed me to discover so many artists and there's even some artists that like I personally like that. I know it's still like on the rise, like Inglewood, sir, who you like showcase and stuff like that. I think that is so amazing, Like what what was your How do you even pick these songs? How are you such so good at picking these artists in these songs? You put me onto a lot. I mean, I just yea so well, thank you. I love music. We also have an amazing music supervisor, heure Lee Man, who's put me onto so many great artists too. Like for me, like at the beginning of the show, I always said I wanted to showcase l A artists. I wanted to showcase female artists, and I wanted to showcase independent artists too. And you know, obviously have my own music taste that I wanted to bring to the table. But we all, we've had we worked with so many people who are passionate about music, like believing my two goods who came from music videos and artists. Who's the showrunner had a show called The Hustle about hip hop and you know, Rafael CD composes our music like he makes the from scratched for this He's so phenomenal. So like we just made made sure that there was a team in place to make sure that the music was on point. And I'm just always passionate about making sure the music fits everything. Um So, you know, I'm taking a lot of the music that here gives me. I'm taking a lot of my own music and making sure like it's placed at the right places because it has to have a very specific vibe and a few and uh that that makes the show to me as part of the show had a lot of those. That means a lot of those artists too. It's excitingly, I mean, that's dope. I'm just excited to feature them as they are to be on the show and that's it's like a symbiotic relationship in that way, like the episode wouldn't be complete without them. I feel like we're getting cheated out of your wraps. Like I know, in the beginning, we had so many raps and they kind of slowed down what's going on East, you know, as as Easter becomes more and more secure her with herself and honest with the world around her. She doesn't need the mirror. You know, I think the mirror is it is a crush. And we've seen her be in season one, like she wasn't telling about ship. It was all internal. And I think the more she's able to rely on herself and and like be truthful to the to the outside world, she doesn't need to tell the mirror from her business. But you know, we got a couple of raps. We got a couple of raps. We still think broken pussy. We just had singing it earlier. There's some broken pussy experiences happening as we speak right. Well, that was my next question. Have you ever had an accident or injured your vagina? You have? You have? Because I just I'm just now starting to feel better, so I'm comfortable talking about uh, not as lasted like more than a day, but I'm definitely yes, I have injured myself. How on me? How? And then I'll tell you what just happened to me. I am not telling you had person will know what I'm talking about. No, I'm not someone that she doesn't want to give. Thank you so much, but today it was too big. It was too big. You tell your Angela's right so I'm gonna tell you what happened. And I'm just now recovered. So this is like kind of gross. But so last month when I had my period, I was like scrubbing everything I was cleaning with bleach and then bug, you're pussy No, I was sing back, child, do a good transmission, thank you. I'm just setting this scene because I was also happened to be on my period while I was cleaning, and I felt like my tampon was slipping out a little, so I stopped and I washed my hands real quick, and then I tried to push the tampon back in, but I guess I still have bleached under my now, and I burned it inside of my vagina and I was in so much pain and it lasted a really long time. I couldn't even put tampons in for the rest of my period because it hurts so much. But now I'm recovered because I have it again. This is last month, so I was so nervous to put a tampon in. But I'm finding you had a Donald Trump ass pussy China Corona. I was. I ain't nobody playing Corona in here. It was a terrible injury, and I was in pain that there is like it was burning. I'm so sorry, I feel it. I don't have nothing to say to that. I don't know about your clean that's clean there and you gets out there right that I was gonna say that. So you know, sometimes like with the quickness, I've had to like just shade almost Like I remember one time my house was like, oh I can go on the photo shoot. I don't have time to like sit and like never do this thing or get a bikini wax. So I shaved and then whatever was done. And then the next day I was like, okay, I have time at least let me there. My can't do that. You can't do that. And I had in a matter of fact, it was for the season two photo shoots of Insecurit. I mean this like shaving suit on like a thing and I swear. I was like, yeah, I don't have It's like I don't have any skin va anymore. But you know, it cleared up, it did clear up. Thank god. I'm having issues because you know, the waxing salons are still closed. So I thought I could wax myself and like, let's just say I can't and it doesn't work, and then I tried to shade, and then I got like raised their bumps, and now I'm just a fucking hot mess, so no one can see my pussy for like at least the whole entire months. I gotta let everything grow back. Just to be clear, he said, there are the same time. That's right now, Okay, I have to tell everybody's business, and ship posted it on the ground. Well, but what are yall doing on you? Yeah, we're having an org. Me and GG just finished shocking. No, no, no, no, no, it's Gigi's birthday. It's not birthday, happy birthday. I was literally your birthday right now, whateverday. And we flew here in the house together where she's actually in the room across the hall, and she just burn me a drink and um, you know, we're we're still quarantine. We're in the house. We're hanging by the pool. When we did go to the beach, there was no one else there. When we went grocery shopping, we wore masks. We're just and I'm not away from don't buy it. As I heard her cough, cruise, how many people, g five? How many people were on the plane. Yeah, the plane is really very empty. Well, but he said, to be clear, they live in Atlanta, and you see what Atlanta is like right now, So we had to get out of that motherfuck rather be here, Okay, dealing with the madness that's going on Atlanta, because I don't want to where going on in Atlanta. They're out clubbing there and never coming back the parties like they're just living life like there's no pandemic happening in Atlanta, and I'm just confusing. I don't understand that I was in my fire to coming to St. Thomas. I was in my house for like seventy days straight. So damn. Yeah, I don't out there and I don't want no person that al Right, here's my next question, Issa. Have you ever lent somebody money and they didn't pay you back? Oh? Yeah, like it was nothing life now it is? Yeah, it kind of is what it is. Once you're leaving somebody money. I learned that quickly you can't expect it back. I don't want to say that a lot because the people who do owe me money, who have had like refit pay me that. I mean, I don't want you to think that I'm just okay with it. So yeah, but you do in your head have to be like, I can't lend out more money than I can afford to not get paid back. Can you still be friends with somebody though when they when you lend them money and they don't bring this up again? Uh? That that's hard. Like I at least the people that I let money to know that they do it. But I hate to like pretend to ask, like I don't, like, you know, you have to you have to acknowledge it and then let me be like, oh cool, but don't assume you know, like I don't know. I'm sorry, and just does one of us owe you money? Because it sounds like she was about because she was saying that, like any one of your friends, like the one that's above or underneath you. I mean, if you want to give me some money, I'll take it. No. No, No, he's gonna say no because that's her because you know, when you let somebody money and then you see them like doing all kind of ship. Yeah, I'm like the st. Thomas. You know, that's why don't you go to the same timas specifically for COVID or were you just were you not invited? I was like kind of all right, it's not Lori y'all's trip. She but she invited me but didn't her. It was didn't invite me until I said I wasn't invited and then they were like, oh you should come, Oh yeah, g G why so like, uh, well, you see a good friend and there is another part of this that's not on this call right now that she's referring to, and then yeah, good friends. But aside from that, they didn't have a direct flight from New York and I'm not going to like it was not trying to Yeah, I'm not trying to do a nine hours to get someplace that shouldn't take that long. What's your favorite vacation place? Uh? My favorite? My favorite vacation place has become a little boogy, but cam I like the South, the frim okay, the friends a lot like I just go to experience that I got a trip out there for free for the time. And then I was like, oh, this is not right. I'm gonna I'm gonna keep really been there twice see because you were right now, I ain't there yet, y'all. I ain't made it yet. I went to the film You went to the film festival, right, No, I never got to go, but they have the other thing that the ad Festival. What's the the cam Lyon. I went to that, which is like the for all the advertisers. I went there with cover Girl and then I got invited for to speak for something called mipcom. So both times I was like, oh this is and then I went there for vacation. Okay, but if you're manager at publicist, every can they can't let me know I would work. I don't have a problem. Or if you have run friend a friend because now we're all friends, so we're are capricorns and you see how good of a friend I am. Um, so don't invite Gigi and look, I'm sorry. All right. This is also something that happened on Insecure, and I gotta get your thoughts on this because on the last episode, right, Molly finds out something about Nathan that Lisa I don't think knows or does she? Oh okay, okay, so do you think that Let's just say this. You have a boyfriend and a best friend, right, so your boyfriend's roommate or your boyfriend's friend is dating your best friend. If your boyfriend tells you something that's a secret, do you tell your best friend about the guy she's dating. Yes, Oh well it depends on like, is it gonna mess up their relationship? If it's something trivial, then no, but something like what you're talking about, only if it comes up, like if it comes up and she's in harm's ware doesn't see it, or like it needs to know because she thinks of something else. I'm telling her, and I'm gonna be like, don't you gotta a surprise when you hear like let him. I'm definitely gonna tell her if it if it could, if it concerns her in a major way. Okay, but what if you're what if she's the type of person that will probably be like each I told me, because you know how you have friends that would do that. We'll just run it back. I'm looking at you. Okay, So let me say what I gotta say about that now. No, but let me explain myself in that situation. I feel like, if your loyalty is to me, if you're my friend, it shouldn't matter what the fun like, You're supposed it to me because you're my friend. So if I tell you, I don't want you to fucking put me on the last that I'm the one that told you your loyalty is not to him. So who gives the funk with heat to her boyfriend? Wait, what do you mean? Because if you're that situation, Okay, So in the situation, I'm thinking about what I just saying, Like it would have been my boyfriend and you would have told me something. So my thing is, your loyalty ain't to him. That nigga, you gotta tell me. And it doesn't matter if I say where I heard it from or whatever, Like you shouldn't be hearing that ship either, you get what I'm said, Cause it's like he's cheating on the both of us. So you should just be equally as mad, beat him up or do something. You have a friend that you want to tell her something, but you know she's gonna tell everything, Like well Angela told you'd be like, I'm gonna tell you this and don't tell them that I said it. Yeah, lo key, I don't. I don't tell them anymore. But but in the situation where like that's that's my Like I have a boyfriend and that's the roommate or whatever it is. In the Molly nathan Issa Andrew situation, I don't care like if you're if you're like Issa told you, I'm like, I wish my boyfriend would try to come at me and be like why you tell? But you tell me it matter to her exactly. So that's what I think. I think, like you should have your loyalty to the person like period and they shouldn't be mad because you your friends should be looking out for you. So if you tell something to your friend, how could you get mad? You're being a loyal friend. But you know what it worth is when you talk somebody eself and they stay with him after you don't told them some ship and now you feeling awkward that I told you some ship that ship and they jokes. Bitches always stay. Let's be real, like it takes a long time for bit just to leave. Bit just stay as as um the show. Because you didn't stayed through some stuff and you even got forgiven and messed with some people again after cheating who and who you went back to? You went back to sleeping with Lawrence after you cheated out and bucked it out? O true, yea my part, and now something about to happen, and absolutely I feel like and then look I interviewed him the other day and I asked him who did he think was wrong in the whole situation? Is it Molly or Issa? And he rode for you today he was like, damn, they're like funck Molly, We're gonna jump her. He didn't say that, but he was like, Molly's totally wrong and he's is my boot. He didn't say that, but he okay, look at chocolate. Look And that would take a lot, like I can you imagine, like why would something happen right now? I mean, I don't know. It could, it couldn't. But I'm not saying either way. But I'm very interested to know why you guys think that's the case. And I hope you you won't be disappointed if it's not. To flashback to previously, I just want to cheat to know that I wrote for you when you cheated our Lawrence she did, I wrote for you. I was like, well, I was like, ans yes, and all fairness, he didn't have a job in that long and she was taking care of him and it was her birthday and he didn't do ship and I was you know what I'm saying, All of those things can make you like, I don't know how mad she ever forgotten your birthday? Hell? Yes, yeah, it's it's like you. For me, I'm not very hi made in a way like I'm whatever, not even high maid. She has a bottom nineteen forty two behind time and she goes to cans. I'm joking. And you see that light girl, you see that light fixtures? Like, what is that? Can I finish my anybody that got upside down wine glasses? Come on, come over, it's all for infesting that thats fired on me anyway. Just don't forget my birthday. I'm saying, just don't do that. I don't ask for much, don't That's right. I go together, now, go ahead, And I'm saying, remember because of you on my birthday, she'll give a funk about me. No, I'm joking. Yeah, I don't know what yours is, but I know her the day before yours up. That's gonna be my new candolas. Oh that's found. Let me ask you this. How are you feeling though? Like are you nervous to go back out? Like what's the plan for you? I'm waiting for everybody else to go out like I don't I'm not pressed. I don't have anything that that I need to do in Luckily, you know, a lot of our work and the industry is kind of become a remote. I think my only concern is, like I do want to shoot. I want to finish. I want to do Season five. I want to be able to finish other projects that I have, you know, But it's just I'm not I'm also not if nobody else is working, I'm not working either. And if if we have a vaccine and ship, like if it's not, if I'm not confident, then I'm not going anywhere, right, So you don't have the Only thing I do is go to the supermarket western week because gotta get my fresh frits and vegetables. Yeah. Yeah, I tried to do the instacrt thing, but they keep bringing me the wrong ship, so I go to the grocery store too. And I mean when we came out here, but other than that, I haven't gone anywhere but to Gigi's house because she lives close to me. We both living in Atlanta. You're in St. Thomas, Well, I mean, but when we're in Atlanta with I'll go to her house like you know, a little real quick. But other than that, I stay in the damn house. We both are working from home, just like you, Like we broadcast every morning for our shows, and I mean, I'm broadcasting from out here. So I'm scared, honestly, because the only thing that doesn't scare or that does stick out to me is that I've never seen Donald Trump or any of those people with a mask on. So Loki, I want to look at it, like, what the funk is? Are they just like selectively killing certain people and saying it's corona, Like, I don't know what's going on, but I would think that he should be the main one wearing a mask. I mean, I think that he's he's just afraid to look weak, but like they're protecting him or they have some sort of vaccine backfo. I really hope that he you know, I subtracted, but I've given up hope. I mean, there's just you know the fact that so many other people have caught caught it in the White House. I'm just like, how is he avoiding it, especially with being so stubborn, But they keep him that man, I'm protected, and he put it bleach in his vagina design That's what did it? All? Right? So are we cool with schoolboy q R? No? Now after this alright. I feel so bad. I felt so bad because we wrote that, you know, into the script, but I didn't think about, like, oh when people could get real backlash, Like he had no idea writing him into this storyline. We never said like, hey, we actually do it, so it looks it makes him look trankulate, so sorry school like you. Uh. People were upset with him for real. Yeah, people were like, why you didn't go to East Black party and shout out taking It's like he's such a good sporty retweeted it, like wait, just keep watching you gonna like no you we didn't see so they kind of like, did she like cancel him or what happened? Was that her funk that schoolboy Q dropped out? No, I love that. I love the thought process behind that. I think Condola was just like trying to trying to keep different, you know. She was just like we're getting too close and I just want to keep this professional, like I don't need to talk to you every day, like Issa was texting her about castor oil articles, talking about what happened to tell Mitchell, like the friendship stuff that she was going through. I still felt like she was coming through and and doing her part to make sure that the block party um happened. But I don't think she's abotaged. They still can they still be friends after this? That's a good question, would you? Would you still be friends with her? I think that they should have never been so tight so fast to begin with. It was just too many things Like this is how I feel, right, you can't really befriend somebody who starts dating your ex because that's never gonna be a real friendship. You can't even talk about your relationship. I'm talking you know what I'm saying. Once you found out, like once that happened, there was a hard thing. Yeah, mean Angela, any were already friend but there was their friends like that though, Like, I don't think you'll ever be able to be good friends with somebody that's dating your especially like a really recent as I can see if it was an X from like a long time ago. But she can't comfortably she can't even comfortably talk to you about her relationships. So how can you be friends with somebody who can't even talk to you about the person they're dating? But what if you think you're over We're not even over him. We wasn't even dating him. I'm like, please, just sucking one more time, even doing push up to you know what I'm saying. You find all the fine men up on their huh. I mean they auditioned, they come through the talented, so that is the priority. First you're talented and you look crazy. You also, Lakeith Stanfeld, I think um y'all too was so great together in that movie. And then y'all did a little flirt and on social media and um, I was like, well, that would be a cute couple. But then I was like, I think East has already taken m You know what. Keith is a phenomenal actor. He is so handful, He's great, and you know when you when you're playing a role with someone, you kind of get caught up. So we were doing a bunch of interviews and he was just complimentary and then he said some things that I didn't know, uh, and I was just I was flattered. That's it. That's it. Well, I do want to say each want to be like she is in just like beautiful outfits popping. So I'm not like you not like right now because she knows your birthday, but even like you look your hair, dudes, like everything being so when I go for these natural hair styles that you've got going on with that, thank you, Felicia Leatherwood. That's my hairstyles, and she kills it. She kills all the natural hairstyles. Okay. Last question I have for you is about FaceTime call etiquette. So when is it okay for people to start facetiming? Like how far along do you have to be? How are you about answering facetimes? I saw even you were posting about, you know, doing the love Birds movie and how you were glad that you answer that particular FaceTime call. But how are you with FaceTime? Like, what's your thoughts on etiquette with that? I've never used it before the pandemic. I hate FaceTime. I don't see the e of it, Like I don't like supplies FaceTime called. It just feels like if that's like a thing now, like instead of texting or calling, people are just face time you and I'm looking at my phone life just why didn't go away? Right? It's it's useless to me? So yeah, I feel you on that, and it's just now I think you use it for family and friends to keep in touch and stuff like that, but I don't I could go without using face time for the rest of my life because were in like ah, if I were, if it necessitated it, like if I were in a long distance relationship, or if I were you know, if I had a family member who was sick and I can never see her or something like that, that I would use it, but just to like keep him and be like what's she doing? Or like that's a phone call or text it's math annoying, and I don't like I want to look to it because then you gotta hold the phone like this from al on your hand hurt. You probably don't look well. Me. I never look how I want to look on the phone face time, and now I gotta look crazy and hold the phone, and I don't even want to talk to you. And then you and that literally fare and you're like I can't really tell how I look to the I think when it comes to friends, there should be a question like is it okay, Like you know, you should ask for like FaceTime, Like let me say it's not okay, but I got my girls first. My girls do that. Though it's always like dudes that do that will like surprise FaceTime you or just you know, and It's like, why would why would I don't get that we have to be FaceTime ready ready, like like on it crazy. I called back. I'll be like, all right, let me get my scarf and my minded off this I was in the bathroom. You're gonna come up with something. I ain't even hear my phone rang ship, Like you just call me. They're like, yeah, you have the phone face and makeup on in the back. They're like, why you look so shiny like you. I want to ask about the reality shell that you have within Insecure, So I want to know if you're gonna do anything with that moving forward. It's hilarious and see, oh my god. Shout out to the cast of that. You know, we we we always come up with these shows in the show show within the shows in the writer's room, just based off of things that we're like really listening to, based off the things that we find funny and things like that, and so this was kind of based off of we were all listening to true crime podcasts and noticed like in these podcasts is always like they're always trying to find a white girl, and that is focused and they don't ever try to find us, you know, they don't ever try to find black women. And so there was something sad and darkly comedic about what that would look like and and that's going inspired it. But you know, shout out to Terry Vunn, to Ray j to Porsche, like all these amazing cast members who left their talents, and that's always the fun part seeing who we could get to do these shows. She said she would quit Real Housewives to come do and Secure. That's what she told me. She was serious. Yes, I'm sure she's mad talented. She had me dying like her scenes are so funny. So I mean, I say, look out, look out for we may be releasing a little more. That's well, we appreciate you for taking time, and we are going to do this in person and trust and believe Capricorn season in January, when we're able to be back out and about, we are gonna be bowling party and you're gonna have the time of your life a d nice d Jane, like we do every single year. So I'm tying, I'm I'm gonna work it out, you know what I'm saying, And congratulations on all your success. A new season of Insecure is already locked in, so we're for that. Thank you. We want to thank you too for um, like even having a show that we can really relate to, because this has been a long time coming for us to be able to put on TV and see faces like ours and relate to things like what we talk about. Because even when lip Service, we get a lot of backlash sometimes for like being so open about our sexuality. But the fact that we see other women, you know, like you that's doing that, it's it's very amazing to see and we just will always support you. We've always loved you, and we want you to continue to keep flourishing and growing because we gotta, you know, we we need to see more of you. Thank you so so much. I feel the same likewise, like I hope you guys don't stop what you're doing. You're so fun to watch and I love that you have these candid conversations and have this platform for us. So so thank you for having me on. I meant that I was excited to come on and yeah, let's enjoy I followed up. I was like, um, I ran into say and she said that she wants to do list service. We all got a crying girl. I had. I had other people sending emails. I did, and if you say were like, who went to your dream guest? I was like, you read and she said she's gonna do it. Thank you and safe your evening YouTube. I had a safe travel black back and see all in person. Thank you, Bye bye

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