Amy and T.J. discuss the shocking news that Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban are separating after nearly 20 years together. There is no speculation or “sources say” here, instead we discuss the facts, what we know and what we don’t know and what we will probably never know. But here is what Amy and T.J. know all to well: What it’s like to get divorced in the public eye and the added pressure and scrutiny that it brings to an already difficult time.