Everyone wants the roadmap to a successful marriage or long term relationship, and we’re being honest when we say we’ve never seen a better list to follow to give yourself the best shot at lasting love.  A relationship expert laid out the top ten rules each partner should follow to set yourself up for a love that grows stronger and better over time. Healthy relationships aren’t 50/50, they’re not about keeping score; instead it’s remembering that love isn’t a feeling, it’s an active verb that requires you to show up each and every day.