This week, we’ve got a spicy one from Kerry in Melville — four roommates, one missing dinnerware mystery, and a brand-new housemate who just moved in. Suddenly, plates, bowls, and mugs are disappearing like it’s a magic trick gone rogue. No broken glass, no explanations… just gone.

Now Kerry’s wondering: Would it be totally out of line to peek into the newbie’s room while she’s out? Is that just smart detective work… or a hard no on the housemate code of conduct?

We’re unpacking it all — the ethics, the instincts, and whether Kerry should trust her gut or call a house meeting instead. Because nothing brings out the real drama like shared kitchens and passive-aggressive group chats.