Do you feel stuck, unfulfilled in your career, and tired of pretending that everything is greeatttt?! -_- Well, this episode was made just for you! Today, Zuri is chatting with ‘Millennial Therapist’ Tess Brigham, a psychotherapist + certified life coach -- about how we can take back control of our lives and design the life we’ve always dreamed of!



Tess is going to breakdown why millennials are suffering from mid-life crisis; if dream jobs are a myth; is it okay to job hop (and what employers really think!); to answering the never-ending question of ‘when is it time to pivot?’; and finally why we need to say adios to passion and bonjour to purpose.



Next, the Group Chat girls (Cleo, Leah, + Star) are getting vulnerable and sharing their POVs on how (or IF) they've even found their passions; the pressure of living up to parental expectations; and open up about the tools they’ve used to overcome career burnout and why setting boundaries is the key to their mental health!



You’re gonna love how real this convo gets (not to mention the tangent about starting an OnlyFans side hustle... oh, and opening an escort service). HOW did they get there? (but also... tell us more??!)



Share this episode with a friend NOW + let us know your favorite part of the convo: @ZuriHall and @HotHappyMess




Head over to hothappymess.com for all the show notes mentioned in this episode and for ALL the deets on how to join our exclusive Facebook group!



Recent episodes: if ya feel like bingeing:



ICYMI: Listen to Episode 25: Insecures' Yvonne Orji on Why You Should Always Bet on Yourself

ICYMI: Listen to Episode 24: Imposter Syndrome (How to Fight it + OWN Your Opportunities!)

ICYMI: Listen to Episode 23: How I Made It: Zuri Hall's Career Story

ICYMI: Listen to Episode 20: Should I Get Married? Let’s Talk Engagement!

ICYMI: Listen to Episode 12: The Best Sex Ever Episode (What You’ve Been to Shy to Ask!!)

ICYMI: Listen to Episode 10: Have Commitment Issues? Let’s Talk Attachment Styles!

ICYMI: Listen to Episode 6: Is It Time For You to Pivot?!

Go back to the beginning --- ICYMI: Listen to Episode 1: How to Be Happy






Follow @ZuriHall and @HotHappyMess on Instagram to keep the good vibes going.



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Do you feel stuck, unfulfilled in your career, and tired of pretending that everything is greeatttt?! -_- Well, this episode was made just for you! Today, Zuri is chatting with ‘Millennial Therapist’<a href="https://tessbrighamcoaching.com/"> Tess Brigham</a>, a psychotherapist + certified life coach -- about how we can take back control of our lives and design the life we’ve always dreamed of! Tess is going to breakdown why millennials are suffering from mid-life crisis; if dream jobs are a myth; is it okay to job hop (and what employers really think!); to answering the never-ending question of ‘when is it time to pivot?’; and finally why we need to say adios to passion and bonjour to purpose. Next, the Group Chat girls (Cleo, Leah, + Star) are getting vulnerable and sharing their POVs on how (or IF) they've even found their passions; the pressure of living up to parental expectations; and open up about the tools they’ve used to overcome career burnout and why setting boundaries is the key to their mental health! You’re gonna love how real this convo gets (not to mention the tangent about starting an OnlyFans side hustle... oh, and opening an escort service). HOW did they get there? (but also... tell us more??!) Share this episode with a friend NOW + let us know your favorite part of the convo: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/zurihall/?hl=en">@ZuriHall</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hothappymess/?hl=en">@HotHappyMess</a> Head over to hothappymess.com for all the show notes mentioned in this episode and for ALL the deets on how to join our exclusive Facebook group! Recent episodes: if ya feel like bingeing: ICYMI: Listen to <a href="https://www.hothappymess.com/post/hhm-25-yvonne-orji-an-alphababe-spotlight">Episode 25: Insecures' Yvonne Orji on Why You Should Always Bet on Yourself</a>ICYMI: Listen to <a href="https://www.hothappymess.com/post/hhm-24-how-to-fight-imposter-syndrome">Episode 24: Imposter Syndrome (How to Fight it + OWN Your Opportunities!)</a>ICYMI: Listen to Episode 23: <a href="https://www.hothappymess.com/post/ep-23-zuri-hall-career-story-from-pinching-pennies-to-becoming-an-emmy-winning-tv-host">How I Made It: Zuri Hall's Career Story</a>ICYMI: Listen to <a href="https://www.hothappymess.com/post/hhm-20-is-marriage-for-you-we-have-the-answer">Episode 20: Should I Get Married? Let’s Talk Engagement!</a>ICYMI: Listen to <a href="https://www.hothappymess.com/post/hhm-ep-12-the-best-sex-ever">Episode 12: The Best Sex Ever Episode (What You’ve Been to Shy to Ask!!)</a>ICYMI: Listen to <a href="https://www.hothappymess.com/post/i-have-commitment-issues-attachment-styles">Episode 10: Have Commitment Issues? Let’s Talk Attachment Styles!</a>ICYMI: Listen to <a href="https://www.hothappymess.com/post/hhm-episode-6-is-it-time-for-you-to-pivot-ft-deepica-mutyala">Episode 6: Is It Time For You to Pivot?!</a>Go back to the beginning --- ICYMI: Listen to<a href="https://www.hothappymess.com/post/hhm-episode-1-how-to-be-happy"> Episode 1: How to Be Happy</a>  Follow <a href="https://www.instagram.com/zurihall/?hl=en">@ZuriHall</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hothappymess/?hl=en">@HotHappyMess</a> on Instagram to keep the good vibes going. Learn more about your ad-choices at <a href="https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com">https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com</a>

Are you craving Best Life, minus the Burnout… constantly striving for more, and quite frankly — F’n over it? Want more happiness, peace, and purpose… NOW? Well then LET’S. GO. From Emmy Award Winning TV host Zuri Hall comes ‘Hot Happy Mess’ — your new go-to podcast for mindfully ambitious Millennial women. It’s the same fun, down-to-earth vibes that Zuri’s known for during her candid red carpet interviews + celebrity sit-downs (on MTV, E! News, and now Access Hollywood)... but this show is all about the most important VIP of your life: YOU. And it’s time to own it!This podcast will help you take it all a little less seriously, and find your magic in the middle of life’s messes. No more putting off your living for tomorrow.Self-Care. Relationships. Mental Wellness. New Motherhood. Team No Kids. Career Wins (and Fails). Social Media. Real stories from real, amazing everyday women. We’re covering it all. Our North Star is ‘Happy’ and it’s not an end destination — it’s a state of being, during the entire journey of our lives. Wine (and tequila, and vodka, and whiskey… and pretty much everything else) will be spilled. The occasional f*bomb will be dropped. Laughs (and a few tears) will be shed. Messes will be made… but we’ll find our magic, in the middle of them. Together. New episodes every Monday!Follow @ZuriHall and @HotHappyMess on Instagram to keep the good vibes going.

HOT HAPPY MESS will help you find your magic, in the middle of life’s messes. Self-Care. Love. Career. It's Best Life, minus the Burnout!

Zuri Hall's Hot Happy Mess

Are you craving Best Life, minus the Burnout… constantly striving for more, and quite frankly — F’n over it? Want more happiness, peace, and purpose… NOW? Well then LET’S. GO. From Emmy Award Winning TV host Zuri Hall comes ‘Hot Happy Mess’ — your new go-to podcast for mindfully ambitious Millennial women. It’s the same fun, down-to-earth vibes that Zuri’s known for during her candid red carpet interviews + celebrity sit-downs (on MTV, E! News, and now Access Hollywood)... but this show is all about the most important VIP of your life: YOU. And it’s time to own it!This podcast will help you take it all a little less seriously, and find your magic in the middle of life’s messes. No more putting off your living for tomorrow.Self-Care. Relationships. Mental Wellness. New Motherhood. Team No Kids. Career Wins (and Fails). Social Media. Real stories from real, amazing everyday women. We’re covering it all. Our North Star is ‘Happy’ and it’s not an end destination — it’s a state of being, during the entire journey of our lives. Wine (and tequila, and vodka, and whiskey… and pretty much everything else) will be spilled. The occasional f*bomb will be dropped. Laughs (and a few tears) will be shed. Messes will be made… but we’ll find our magic, in the middle of them. Together. New episodes every Wednesday! Follow @ZuriHall and @HotHappyMess on Instagram to keep the good vibes going.

Are you craving Best Life, minus the Burnout… constantly striving for more, and quite frankly — F’n over it? Want more happiness, peace, and purpose… NOW? Well then LET’S. GO. From Emmy Award Winning TV host Zuri Hall comes ‘Hot Happy Mess’ — your new go-to podcast for mindfully ambitious Millennial women. It’s the same fun, down-to-earth vibes that Zuri’s known for during her candid red carpet interviews + celebrity sit-downs (on MTV, E! News, and now Access Hollywood)... but this show is all about the most important VIP of your life: YOU. And it’s time to own it!This podcast will help you take it all a little less seriously, and find your magic in the middle of life’s messes. No more putting off your living for tomorrow.Self-Care. Relationships. Mental Wellness. New Motherhood. Team No Kids. Career Wins (and Fails). Social Media. Real stories from real, amazing everyday women. We’re covering it all. Our North Star is ‘Happy’ and it’s not an end destination — it’s a state of being, during the entire journey of our lives. Wine (and tequila, and vodka, and whiskey… and pretty much everything else) will be spilled. The occasional f*bomb will be dropped. Laughs (and a few tears) will be shed. Messes will be made… but we’ll find our magic, in the middle of them. Together. New episodes every Wednesday! Follow @ZuriHall and @HotHappyMess on Instagram to keep the good vibes going.

27: Screw Finding Your Dream Job, It’s Time for Your Dream LIFE — and Purpose, with Tess Brigham

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