Failure is not the end of the story—it’s the training ground for your next chapter in health, wealth, and life.

In this episode of Your Health, Your Wealth, Dr. Patton speaks with bestselling author and real estate investor Ari Rastegar to unpack the “gift” inside failure and why your health is the most important investment you will ever make. They connect Ari’s journey from community college and minimum-wage jobs to building billion‑dollar projects with the same principles Dr. Patton uses in clinic: learn from setbacks, trust the process, and keep showing up for yourself. You’ll hear concrete ways Ari rebuilt his life through nutrition, meditation, and consistent habits—and how those same choices directly fueled his business results and family life.

Order Ari's book The Gift of Failure HERE.

Learn more about Rastegar Capital HERE.

Learn more about Dr. Eddie Patton HERE.

Subscribe to Your Health, Your Wealth on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and wherever you get your favorite podcasts. 

Key takeaways

1. Failure is a universal human experience, but most of us were taught to fear it instead of using it as data and direction. Ari describes failure as “learning how to win,” comparing it to a child learning to walk or a hitter in baseball—if you keep getting back up, refining your process, and trying again, those “losses” become the foundation of real mastery and resilience.

2. Both Ari and Dr. Patton share personal stories—community college detours, missed medical school on the first try, a speech impediment, low‑wage jobs—that looked like dead ends in the moment but ended up being the exact preparation needed for the next level. When you zoom out, those hard seasons often become the “golden thread” that connects where you were to where you’re called to go.

3. Ari’s Dallas skyscraper story is a living example of long‑game thinking: he once couldn’t get past the nightclub bouncer on McKinney Avenue, and 15 years later he bought that same building and is now developing the tallest tower in Uptown. That arc is less about luck and more about time, persistence, relationships, and a willingness to have hundreds of uncomfortable conversations with city leaders, neighbors, and stakeholders.

4. Your body is your primary asset—if you burn it out, everything else eventually follows. Ari talks candidly about years of poor sleep, extreme stress, and trying medications for anxiety and attention issues, and how his physiology changed when he cut sugar, cleaned up his diet, lifted his vitamin D levels, moved his body, and treated meditation like medication. At 43, he feels better than he did in his twenties and can clearly see his health curve and his business curve rising together.

5. Health doesn’t have to be expensive or complicated; it has to be intentional. From salmon, chicken, sweet potatoes, and frozen vegetables to a solid multivitamin and daily walking, the biggest “biohack” in this episode is consistency, not fancy technology. Ari frames meal prep and movement as part of his workday and investing strategy—not a side hobby—because when he feels clearer and calmer, he shows up better for his kids, his clients, and his deals.

Timestamped overview

00:00 – A billionaire, a neurologist, and the truth about failure

02:50 – Redefining failure: from shame to skill

06:10 – Community college, speech therapy, and the slow road to “overnight success”

13:30 – From denied at the door to owning the block: the McKinney Avenue skyscraper

18:40 – Why Texas—and especially Dallas—is positioned for explosive growth

22:20 – Designing community: schools, green space, and thousand‑home projects

26:30 – “Meditation is medication”: stress, inflammation, and brain health

29:45 – Costco, sweet potatoes, and $9 vitamins: health on a real‑world budget

31:50 – Labs, hormones, and why this 43‑year‑old feels better than at 25

33:10 – Sugar, labels, and treating food like an investment portfolio

34:40 – Pizza with the kids and the 80/20 rule of real life

36:00 – When your health and wealth curves finally line up

37:10 – The little things are the big things: closing encouragement

Failure is not the end of the story&mdash;it&rsquo;s the training ground for your next chapter in health, wealth, and life.
In this episode of Your Health, Your Wealth, Dr. Patton speaks with bestselling author and real estate investor Ari Rastegar to unpack the &ldquo;gift&rdquo; inside failure and why your health is the most important investment you will ever make. They connect Ari&rsquo;s journey from community college and minimum-wage jobs to building billion‑dollar projects with the same principles Dr. Patton uses in clinic: learn from setbacks, trust the process, and keep showing up for yourself. You&rsquo;ll hear concrete ways Ari rebuilt his life through nutrition, meditation, and consistent habits&mdash;and how those same choices directly fueled his business results and family life.
Order Ari's book The Gift of Failure <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Failure-Turn-Missteps-Success/dp/1544523211">HERE</a>.
Learn more about Rastegar Capital <a href="https://rastegarcapital.com/about/">HERE</a>.
Learn more about Dr. Eddie Patton <a href="https://www.eddiepattonmd.com">HERE</a>.
Subscribe to Your Health, Your Wealth on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-health-your-wealth/id1753618933">Apple Podcasts</a>, <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/5Kt5d56fOGpaPnn2PmwPb2?si=c6f20d1320484e33">Spotify</a>, and wherever you get your favorite podcasts.&nbsp;
Key takeaways
1. Failure is a universal human experience, but most of us were taught to fear it instead of using it as data and direction. Ari describes failure as &ldquo;learning how to win,&rdquo; comparing it to a child learning to walk or a hitter in baseball&mdash;if you keep getting back up, refining your process, and trying again, those &ldquo;losses&rdquo; become the foundation of real mastery and resilience.
2. Both Ari and Dr. Patton share personal stories&mdash;community college detours, missed medical school on the first try, a speech impediment, low‑wage jobs&mdash;that looked like dead ends in the moment but ended up being the exact preparation needed for the next level. When you zoom out, those hard seasons often become the &ldquo;golden thread&rdquo; that connects where you were to where you&rsquo;re called to go.
3. Ari&rsquo;s Dallas skyscraper story is a living example of long‑game thinking: he once couldn&rsquo;t get past the nightclub bouncer on McKinney Avenue, and 15 years later he bought that same building and is now developing the tallest tower in Uptown. That arc is less about luck and more about time, persistence, relationships, and a willingness to have hundreds of uncomfortable conversations with city leaders, neighbors, and stakeholders.
4. Your body is your primary asset&mdash;if you burn it out, everything else eventually follows. Ari talks candidly about years of poor sleep, extreme stress, and trying medications for anxiety and attention issues, and how his physiology changed when he cut sugar, cleaned up his diet, lifted his vitamin D levels, moved his body, and treated meditation like medication. At 43, he feels better than he did in his twenties and can clearly see his health curve and his business curve rising together.
5. Health doesn&rsquo;t have to be expensive or complicated; it has to be intentional. From salmon, chicken, sweet potatoes, and frozen vegetables to a solid multivitamin and daily walking, the biggest &ldquo;biohack&rdquo; in this episode is consistency, not fancy technology. Ari frames meal prep and movement as part of his workday and investing strategy&mdash;not a side hobby&mdash;because when he feels clearer and calmer, he shows up better for his kids, his clients, and his deals.
Timestamped overview
00:00 &ndash; A billionaire, a neurologist, and the truth about failure
02:50 &ndash; Redefining failure: from shame to skill
06:10 &ndash; Community college, speech therapy, and the slow road to &ldquo;overnight success&rdquo;
13:30 &ndash; From denied at the door to owning the block: the McKinney Avenue skyscraper
18:40 &ndash; Why Texas&mdash;and especially Dallas&mdash;is positioned for explosive growth
22:20 &ndash; Designing community: schools, green space, and thousand‑home projects
26:30 &ndash; &ldquo;Meditation is medication&rdquo;: stress, inflammation, and brain health
29:45 &ndash; Costco, sweet potatoes, and $9 vitamins: health on a real‑world budget
31:50 &ndash; Labs, hormones, and why this 43‑year‑old feels better than at 25
33:10 &ndash; Sugar, labels, and treating food like an investment portfolio
34:40 &ndash; Pizza with the kids and the 80/20 rule of real life
36:00 &ndash; When your health and wealth curves finally line up
37:10 &ndash; The little things are the big things: closing encouragement

In Your Health, Your Wealth, renowned neurologist Dr. Eddie Patton exposes the hidden forces driving up medical costs for millions of Americans. From the fragmented healthcare infrastructure to hospital billing practices and pharmaceutical pricing, Dr. Patton provides an exhaustive examination of why the U.S. spends significantly more on healthcare than other nations.

"The US healthcare system emphasizes autonomy and choice for patients,” said Dr. Patton during episode one. "Accessibility is a key term that will be important in healthcare as we move forward." 

Dr. Eddie Patton is a recipient of Texas Monthly Magazine's SuperDoctors®, Houstonia Magazine's Top Doctors awards, and was appointed by Texas Governor Greg Abbott to the Texas Council on Alzheimer's Disease and Related Disorders. These accolades, along with his decades of experience, make him the ideal host for a podcast like this.

The podcast is a must-listen for anyone grappling with skyrocketing premiums, outrageous medical bills, or lack of access to quality care. Dr. Patton encourages listeners to "Increase your mindset, health set, and heart set as it pertains to your health and the healthcare system.”

In Your Health, Your Wealth, renowned neurologist Dr. Eddie Patton exposes the hidden forces driving up medical costs for millions of Americans. From the fragmented healthcare infrastructure to hospital billing practices and pharmaceutical pricing, Dr. Patton provides an exhaustive examination of why the U.S. spends significantly more on healthcare than other nations.
"The US healthcare system emphasizes autonomy and choice for patients,” said Dr. Patton during episode one. "Accessibility is a key term that will be important in healthcare as we move forward." 
Dr. Eddie Patton is a recipient of Texas Monthly Magazine's SuperDoctors®, Houstonia Magazine's Top Doctors awards, and was appointed by Texas Governor Greg Abbott to the Texas Council on Alzheimer's Disease and Related Disorders. These accolades, along with his decades of experience, make him the ideal host for a podcast like this.
The podcast is a must-listen for anyone grappling with skyrocketing premiums, outrageous medical bills, or lack of access to quality care. Dr. Patton encourages listeners to "Increase your mindset, health set, and heart set as it pertains to your health and the healthcare system.”