On this episode guest host Bob Conlin presents another of his relationship episodes, this time he talks to us – from his perspective – at two o’clock in the morning because he couldn’t sleep. The topic of heartbreak is on his mind and heart, having been reminded of previous heartbreak in his life through a client of his who is currently going through a breakup.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
BEST MOMENTS
‘Always look at the opportunity, always see what’s possible in our challenges and in our lives.’
‘In my previous relationships and heartbreaks, I would look at how I caused it or how what I did/didn’t do created this experience for me. Which is not always totally fair to oneself, but there are two inputs in any relationship and it’s important to own your part of it, but you don’t have to take 100% responsibility for it.’
‘I’m sorry this is happening to you, if you’re in this process, it will get better even though you may not believe it will, it does.’
‘Heartbreak for me is such a physical manifestation. That hollowness and emptiness inside my chest. The hollowness was deafening and all consuming, there’s so much despair. But ultimately what I wanted to share was how much of a gift heartbreak is and can be.’
VALUABLE RESOURCES
ABOUT THE GUEST
Bob is a Life, Love and Leadership champion, author, coach, trainer, husband, father, and a professional certified coach with the International Coach Federation.
His philosophy is that we are in relationship to everything and the top three opportunities for growth exist in self, loving others, and career. As a relationship coach, he’s doing the work that he was meant to do, in order to fulfil his life purpose.
As the author of the forthcoming book ‘Why Your Relationships Suck: How to Create Strong Relationships with Courage and Heart’ – and as a devoted student of the relationship development he preaches – Bob enjoys a rewarding and fuller life being a husband, coach, leader, musician, and traveller. He and his family were featured in Episode 3 of CBS’s “The Greatest #AtHome Videos” in August 2020.
Website: www.conlincoaching.com
ABOUT THE HOST
Paul has made a remarkable transformation from existing for many years in dark, desperate despair; to now living a really healthy, happy and fulfilling life.
From an early age, he was in the vice-like clutches of the demon drink and constantly embroiled within a dark cocktail of toxic beliefs, self-hate and destructive violence.
Along with his empathetic and dedicated team of world-class coaches and mentors, Paul’s purpose is deeply transformational:
Developing World Game-Changers…
He is extremely passionate about helping others to find their purpose, have a voice and ultimately, make a real difference.
This has been built on a long and distinguished history of heart-centred coaching and mentoring. He has also been responsible for raising significant amounts of funds for many charities and good causes around the world; positively impacting and inspiring thousands of children – mainly from challenging backgrounds – within the UK & worldwide.
Through this World Game-Changers podcast and books, he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.
CONTACT METHODS
Tel: +44 (0) 7958 042 155
E-mail: Paul@Paul-Lowe.com
Web: https://www.Paul-Lowe.com
Web: https://www.worldgamechangers.org/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IamPaulLowe/