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"BREAKFAST AT THE AMERICAN GIRL DOLL STORE!" W/ Bryan Safi

Published Aug 10, 2022, 3:35 PM

Bryan Safi joins Arden and Katie from Arden's childhood home to talk love in the time of Covid Cruise Ships! WHIPPED CREAM! EL DEBARGE! WHIPPED CREAM DISPENSERS!
- Arden thinks ROCK! PAPER! SCISSORS! Followed up by a slap in the face with a fish is the GREATEST GAME OF ALL TIME!

- Bryan is going to SUE Arden for MAIL FRAUD!

All that plus........TWEET OF THE WEEK!

Welcome to Will You Accept This Rose? A production of I Heart Radio. Oh yeah, Oh my god. I'm so horny right now. I'm so morning from my from my love though, I am so horny that my life. I'm so horny for the love of my life. And I'm looking at the love of my life right now, at the love of I'm horny from what I'm seeing. I've never been hard here. I see I came, I weren't you know. I think I know who's gonna I'm gonna get my final roads. I'm getting pregnant. La there, Hello, and welcome to a very special traveling episode of Wily Except This Rose. My name is Arnin Rain, coming to freeloading from my brother in my childhood home of Little Compton, Rhode Island. Look at J J. Marines living room. She designed that after my dad died, and I have to say it looks fancy. I look reech right now. Also with me the lover's getaway thank you is my fiance, my darling, my love, the one who I saw and fell to my knees, the man who is my fiance. While we're in town to belong to the tennis club for two weeks, were it feels like we're a couple. We're a couple. We are a couple for two weeks and it's a hot romance. You know him from One One with Jennifer Love Hewitt's starring Brian Soffie. You know him you with Penn Bagley starring Brian Soffie. I appreciate you know him from the incredible podcast Attitude. You know him from his stand up Thank you very much. You know you know him from my Lie Bat to Laurette improvised show where he gave me the birthday gift, asked the T shirt that rend asked me about my butt hole and the antie sound. Honestly, what a pair. And you know how about the man coming to us from my brother's newly redone childhood bedroom that his his wife redid And I gotta say that zoom room is I feel that you have the better zoom screen coming to you also from Little Compton, Rhode Island, Brian Safie. I gotta tell you, I'm merely I'm merely dozens of feat from Arta Marine right now. But the important thing is because we're under the same roof, but we're coming from completely different zooms and completely different points of view, but that's really how love is formed. That's how love is formed. I feel also, you know what, there's actually two more stars at this poet. First of all, I have my vacation nails. I'm an alley, I'm an ally. I'm an ally. I mean, I think the gay lifestyle is sinful, of course, but I love the colors I got. If she ever invites you to Rhode Island, just know that with the actual secret goal. As you were in church twenties two hours to day, I'm in convers's conversion, conversion therapy. It's conversion therapy. It's conversion. It's really not a joke being my fiance for two weeks. It's it's I assume we're going to be engaged by the end of it. That's right. I am an ally right now with us with her car air conditioning out in a heat storm because guys weren't trouble ladies and gentlemen. Katie Money Levin, Katie Dr Banana is with Will Ferrell right now, not like as like a lover's getaway, but they're in Scotland together at the Edinburgh Theater Festival doing his podcast, The Ron Burgundy podcast. She's there producing that, so jest I mean a chance Dr Benn may have insomnia. Do you want a text her if she's she has insomnia? Okay? I mean when I was texting her just now, she didn't respond any of the group text So I think we should call midnight there, we should wake her up. I'm gonna run and get the real star of this vacation on this podcast. Will you guys chat amongst yourself for once? Oh my god, I have absolutely First of all, I'm gonna be super fucking pissed if there's a star bigger than me here. I was, Katie, I was promised second billing on this show. That's right above the title. Okay, okay, what didn't you say? This is not a paid sponsor? This is what is it? Now? You know that we don't cook. We Mike grew away. We are full when we freeload from you. We are like orphans. You've never turned on a stove. We spend a lot of money on groceries that end up just being powders. It's a peanut butter powder be fit. I'm obsessed. We are. There's a trip a powder all over every surface. A peanut itself is like really already ready made. You don't have to do. Can I give you an elevator? Can I give you an elevator. I'm gonna give you the elevator. I'm going to give you an elevator. So the elevator is Peanut butter powder has like a fifth of the calories and you just out of the water and it tastes it's the same. It's because all it is is dehydrant peanuts. Like stomp doesn't have like a fifth of the calories because there's like no sugar or anything. Yeah, there's no I like the just I just have peanuts and salt nothing else. I don't like anything else in it's not even better. This is even better because here's the thing. It's like no poweries. Basically, master I am Brian last time. Bought this last time because we go on our lovers get away every year for a month. We bring our powders, We bring our protein powders and bring our peanut butter powders. To love a protein powder, say I. So he ordered one of these and he was embarrassed to pull it out and he was like, this will probably last us the whole month. I think I ate the entire jar. By Tuesday, I doubled that at least. Yeah. I mean, and these arrived today and I busted in on. He was on like a business call. I opened his package. I'm so you know, I was going to be you know, I'm a great host. I hope it's my guest baggage. And I was like, it's fine, I am. If you know a lawyer, Katie, I need to talk to somebody. But if you're going to serve me with papers, again, serve me with papers now. Brian and I have big plans. So first of all, we got to go. We got to go. Our friend took us to the We don't we're not members anywhere, which is why we're free looking. Got to be a member out here to be a member. So that's why we're that's why we are a couple for two weeks. And so our friend, who had access to this fancy beach, brought us to this beach today. And then we found out that with our lover's two weeks past and the tennis club Friday night, the entertainment, and we're gonna go dand coming called Yadi by nature nature? Why by nature? God are they gonna play like yacht rock or yests. We did a Google. Oh my god, that's gonna be I already I ordered myself a sailor's captain and a sailor's scarf, which, by the way, I have a duplicate of from the birthday party that we were going to throw a for you last year here and nobody was going to come and nobody rs VP two and the new books say, by the bell, so um, I actually have worn this sailor's hat, so I know it is eleven dollars and surviving tomorrow. You might want to get yourself a captain's hat. Might I'm like the skipper, I think you're the captain. Yeah, maybe I'll do it. I'm not trying to have internalized misogyny. I only picked this sailor because it was really cute on me. Yeah, yeah, no, I get it. I think I think captain. I think on the captain. Now, yeah, captain, you are the one that who's mail fraud. I'm committing that's right. Any final things before we get to the batloor, any other highlights of our trip so far? But we've gone we haven't got to the gas station. I went to the probe about the dunk store. Today, we went down town Hall to go visit Anita to get our dump stickers and our coupons of dump coup We went at three thirty and they closed for you have to have get a dump sticker. But if you're not like a resident of Little Comptain, which technically we're not, but we're gonna pretend we are. We're gonna go get a dump sticker for our rental car. But if for my brother's other guests, I gon to be a nice house guest and by twenty dump coupons. So is the dump sticker like cute? Does it look like a cute little dump truck? Like you know what's it feels like a status symbol a little bit like you feel like I can take my trash and knew where I want. That is the most coveted membership at all. Well, we tried to go get this. We try to get the dump sticker and the dump coupons from Anita at town Hall, but it was three in the town Hall was already closed. I loved the town Hall closes at like three pm. They're the absolutely phenomenal. Later lady at the General Store who I ran into again today, who was wonderful. She will absolutely not get out from behind the register. And if there's two people in mind, she goes, I can't, I can't leave this register. I can't leave this register all day, slam busy, constantly. I bought. I bought a creamer with a possum on you. I want men to go show you what I guess. I love. I love. The first time she lit up, I made you know you were there. I brought Jessica to the general store and this is what I bought, and she lit up. I cracked the lady at the general store who wouldn't get up, and then she had. She was like, you gotta tell me where these are. I need this because I love possums. For one second, I've never met one person, much less now heard about two who love possums. What do you about possums that live in my yard and I feed them and they have name. There's ghosts in pebbles. What do you feed them? Like? Lettuce, dried apples, like you know, the chips? They love those peanuts they love even though peanut stuff like that. Yeah, even though I don't cook, I like to heat up my milk for my coffee, and we didn't have a creamer. Look at this creamer. It was a postum on it. I got a general store. Yeah, that's definitely not a possum. Okay, great, I have a Okay, I have a Hedgehog. I got a creamer of the hedgehog. But she lit up. She was like, I need to know where you got that creamer. I need that. She was like, I need that, and I was like, I was excited because it was an in. I was like, yeah, you do, you need it? You need it. It was that's what a deal? What a deal? Cream? She goes, I hate to I shut it to think about how many coffee pods are in the trash today? And I said, oh, do you have to like take out the trash? She goes, I guess I do. And then she looked at another employee who was younger, and she was like, I can't get off from this register. You're going to take out the trash. And I was like, that solved that, baby. I shout at a thing. How many craffee pots? I'm obsessed? I mean in conclusion, truly, truly. We also we were traveling through the airport together. I saw a man with one kitchen glove on walking like a dis rusher glove, and I freaked out like I was excited. I don't know if it was j J or if it's Arden's brother. The kitchen gloves in this home I would wear out. They are the softest I'm telling you. You put your hand in them and you feel like you are in Ankara. I need to know what these are because mine suck and mine keep getting holes in them, and then water get there. You know, you know who takes her this now she doesn't like to be named by first name. My brother's bride. Okay, she knows. Think she gets it at Wilbur's. I'll find out. I'm going to take some of those gloves home. I'm not even kidding. No, no, she takes care of us. She's like she does. I want Brian to have a good time. She sends you this Bresso putts like make sure that we have That's so nice, your whole family. We are a host days. The Marines love to host. There's a lot of things we don't like to do. We don't like to cook, but we love to host. We also last night, and I know we will talk about the Bachelor in a second. It's okay, this is now Alaric has Little Compton, Rhode Island podcast. Okay, so there was a there was a aler got a fire table. It's now I hooked up to a gas line. So the world's tiniest little pro paint take. So I went to the propane store today at propane fills, shout out Timberdon, Rhode Island. So I got my little timpantin my propane tank filled. He's like, I'll see you in seven hours because it only has seven hours with a burn in it. But we um Brian's sister emailed us it was last night under the stars the Lion, the Lion Portal, which happens August. It's it happens August eight of every year, and it's like, yeah, it's like the day when like the star Listen, I'm gonna butcher this because I don't actually subscribe to this stuff except that I believe in it too. It's about but it's when the Earth, the star called serious Orion's belt, and the Sun are all in the line something. Yeah, it's like looking it's the Virgo of Leo season. I saw people tweeting about this. We turn things by the fire pill last night. It's basically good to heal old. You can release things, and you can, and then you write down like things you're grateful free for. I wrote down peanut butter powder. Yes, the job, my future hedgehog creamer. Yes, I mean, it's just honestly, it's been a we've really we've had a great time. And we have a new friend staying with us. Yes. Bryan didn't know, and it's like folding in a meringue. And I promised him, I'm like, you're gonna like this person and this person I would say, there's like a nice friendship love affair happening. I would too. I mean, what's typical here is when someone else comes, we usually have about a six hour brawl. And we were based very protective guests. Always Bryant. It's always Bryant, it's always me, So we get along Gray Now it was she's lovely. She's lovely. When the power goes out, we'll be back. Because the lights just flickered again, that goes out. We're very I'm a very vulnerable rural because it's hot that the power is going out there. I don't know. I mean we're on like because we off the grid and we get ours and rolling black here. So I'm a horrible rural girl, a horrible girl on the Virgin The Valiant Lady cruise ship a giant ship floating four people from Paris to Belgium. In a second, Whitney tweeted, She's like, can you imagine if our mentalist watching this, like trying to explain how they're using the largest ship in the world to transport twelve dudes. I actually said that my friend was over watching and we're talking about because I don't like cruise ships are bad for the environment. I don't. I don't like them much. And I was saying, like, do you think it's like it was still being built or something, and they had to do like tests and they were like, well, we have this one floor done. Y'all can hang out on the floor. That's a great guess, because why why? It truly feels like did you see that movie snow Pier, Sir, Yes, it feels like that the train with the last survivors on it that just has to keep going. That's what it feels like. Post apocalyptic. Imagine if that humanity's last survivors were fit those guys, guys exposing their ankles in portholes. If that no, I'm not. I've never watched gay porn, but I imagine it starts out with two minute a porthole and then it died taking a shower and a lady licking an ice cream coming. That's right. It always starts out at a spa treatment and it isshes with a woman eating dessert, which is great. That's a typical gate po. By the way, how many angles did they get of her eating that ice cream? And it was like four shots it was, and it was that colum was a perfect circle. By the ice cream was perfect. It was a perfect And then because we had to read because the WiFi was so bad to watch the show, we had to keep restarting it watched, we had to start. Then there was like a pink rope that went through a hole that went like so it was like him in the shower, her were the ice cream code. And then there was like basically like a rope dick that kept going in and out of a hole out of the side. They were just somebody somebody thought they were being a real rills slide and like a train entering and then full penetration. There was a point five second of not to mention the absolute and dignity of the whipped cream in the mouth later. I mean, someone was having a field day with this. That like getting like kind of tea vague in public. You're gonna you're gonna put your mouth under here, I'm gonna put whip cream like that. Okay. Here we are on the ship. We're sailing to Bruges, Belgium, and we had watching Rachel Go. I am excited to explore Bruge Belgian. I love real Belgian chocolates. That was great, you know you want a hit, Honestly, like She's what every every European tourists love. Is someone coming over being like, where's the chocolate? That's all they brought up was the chocolate, the chocolate and the waffles for other things. I'm sure, I don't know. I mean, I'm sure Bruge. I've heard Bruges actually a great city, and I feel like but they told everybody, like everybody please exit the city. We need to abandon the city, like they abandoned this COVID ship. Like those doors were closed in Bruge. No one was hold except that horses at. They did horses at Why it looked pretty good. Maybe there like March, you know, I think, oh, I think this was like I think it was like winter. I think it was like four because they were shivering later the two women were shivering later when they were honestly think this was like December January. I think it was. But they were not picked. Then we when did it end? It ended in like may Mark. We started in January, we started in jail. Well then it was probably they were so I bet it was still I bet it was still called then okay, So then we have earache in the shower, the rope in the hole, Rachel going I love well do chocolates, and then Rachel if anybody needs a lesson and becoming a champion. Now Brian plays tennis with Stephanie, who's coming to Little Compton as well. Bryan plays tennis with stuff any as I This will be I swear to God the last time I say this story. But like watching Rachel, this is an example of what what Stephanie said to me, which was I was insecure about my back end and insulting it. And she's like, every time you say that, you tell people that you have a bad backhand. We believe you, so we think you're bad. So it just stop. Don't speak words against yourself because you're giving other people arrows to shoot you it. Watching her do it, we all get insecure her writing this narrative that she's constantly rejected in a manner like Brian May. Brian recently went on a date with a gentleman who kept saying to him, you're out of my leg don't worry this person doesn't listen, okay that you're out of my leak. It's like, if you say that, I'll be like, okay, yeah, then I'm You're right, I'm out. I mean, this is not how you felt when that was said to you. After we said like ten times, I was like, well, I mean I don't know either you're a liar or like I guess, okay, you know what I mean. Not to sound I know that sounds like I'm cocky. I'm not, because I was like, because by the way, I believe, like, no, you're not like zero percent? Are you out of? Am I out of you? That's absurd saying it, and then you and then you start telling people that and then like if you keep saying to the guys like I know you want to be on Gabby. Gabby is the fun one, like, and then if I would kind of be like, well maybe I did pick I Really, I think I'm surprised a lot of those guys aren't starting into a question whether or not they should be there, because she's just doing nothing but pushing them away or giving I gotta say, even by the bachelorette standard, she is pretty insufferable. And and it's so self created because like it's just the it's the thing she says. It's not like how she sounds, or what she's doing, or how she looks or anything like that. Literally, the words she's saying that are like stop saying that, stopping. Look, Gabby had three guys in a row, Teller, she was rough around the edges are morals are not a ligne like she had a rough You've got to be able. We all have days. Look, the world is very rude. Sometimes we've all had terrible things said to us. And we all also have certain things in our upbringing or that we have beliefs about ourselves that when on our bad days, if we have PMS or we're just feeling a little low, we can all have bad narratives in our head that we're damaged in some way, to we're so damaged, blah blah blah. Take it to a therapist, take it to a close friend. Don't tell the people that you're like the reason you're there is to be courted. That's the whole purpose of your job in your assignment. Bring a journal, Like, just write it down in a journal, Like I'm feeling really insecure today, like I feel I feel like I'm a bad, bad short. Just write it down. Her insecurity is just it's out of control, like I feel like she trying to be the bachelor, and also it's just like everything she's doing and I want if I was one of the guys, I'd like red flags, red flags because she totally the type of person like that, the type of girlfriend that would just get mad at you and you would have absolutely no idea what you did. And security. Her insecurity is like her insecurities like manifesting itself as selfishness to where like you could have rallied so those guys could get off the boat for five seconds. That was so annoying. You canceled the group date. You've canceled road ceremonies and canceled cocktail parties, like like, how how could anybody want to propose to you if they've spent zero times? And also in defense of those dudes, like it is one of those things that's like if you if you are really invested in the show, like some of the might some of them might be here for the wrong reasons and the right reasons whatever, But if you really invested the show, that is shitty that the person you're trying to date. It's like, I have to cancel this date because someone else made me upset. Somebody you talk to you really so like they're like there were three guys there, Tino, Zach and Tyler, who she we've seen have like a much deeper action with. Then Logan, who I think we haven't seen her talk to him since the first night, and she's just saying, fuck you, guys, I'm gonna sit and cry in my robe. Y. So then okay, so she's feeling rejected. It's her turn for a group date. But here we go. It's Logan. He's like, look, this is a hard Rachel, but I feel for Gavvy. I um and um, I need to talk to Rachel. And he was saying to the guys like boy, I feel mixed feelings seeing my name on that card, like he was trying to tell nobody asked why then um, and then he's like, um, she's in full uh oh, she has a ton of makeup on. She was in full face, like it was like a contour galore. They give this poor ladies and blame me. I've had many a bad spray tan in my day. I'm Milannia Trump. Too many times to count I have my I've looked like I've worked in the shipping department at the Cheetos factory New My tan hands, my hands have been so harsh that I mean it literally like I was like nuclear waste, like dipped in nuclear waste. Her hands to the top and then white palms and then they stopped at the fingers. Did you know? Did you see that? Tan? I mean, I can't, I can't. So then, um, that's so bad. So then um, she's so he goes to talk to he like, can I talk to you for sec He's like, look, I never got a chance to tell you how honored I am every time you give me a rose. She's like, well that's really nice to hear, um, but something's really holding me back. You know, I thought the first night I was going to get a rose from Gabby. And I have to say it, I felt like, even though I'm not sure how I feel about him, I actually felt like he handled this move in a more elegant manner than I thought he was. He put it really well. He really did, and like I kind of thought he was like a bit of a dumb dumb but I was like, oh, he actually like came off well. You know, I agree, that's not an easy conversation to have, and I thought he did it well and he was respectful too. I do too. I was shocked, and it also kind of felt like, look, you get like ten minutes of these ladies total, and in theory you might be marrying one of them, and they're like, okay, pick which one you want to marry right now. And let's like, all right, well, if I'm, in theory supposed to marry one, you're allowed to be like, we I got it wrong. I actually, if I'm gonna maybe marry one, which is the biggest decision you can make, I think I may be rather marry the other one because I've only spent twelve minutes with you both total. But maybe I like that other one more, Yeah, how do's nothing wrong with that? That's nothing wrong with that? And she's like, this always happens to me. Oh my god, everyone's always doing this to me. Here's here are my examples. She can't name one. Yeah, I can't, literally, I mean, like why did she? I can't even remember when she freaked outlet because people, Yeah, that people wouldn't look at her while they were on Gabby's date in the audience watching of boxing. Yeah, she she was like, it has been my lowest we have. It's like Brandon's Gabby. It was Gabby. Gabby had a group date. Of course, it was like a violent boxing date. So there's guys boxing and they didn't They're on a COVID ship, so they bought they needed an audience, and so they brought the gay guy the guys down from the stateroom and like Rachel and Rachel and the guys were just watching their friends beat the ship out of each other, and she got all teared. She was like they were not looking at me at all. She lost her she lost her mind, and it was how enraging that it was just like they weren't there for you. They were there like they probably honestly thought they couldn't talk to her or something. She and then and then she goes into the room later where they're all hanging out and brates them and it's like, you guys really disappointed me today. I felt so unloved of so unseen. And they all each other like what did we do? We didn't do anything? What do we do? So then she's like, you know, He's like, um, I have to step away. She's like, real quick. My friend Anthony Rogers just texted me no joke saying is Rachel annoying as hell? Or is it just me? Yes? Yeah, listening to this and here this and know what happened at this exact moment. By the way, it's also like she's a cool lady, she's a pilot. Like she's like like, I just like I can't see an independent lady, like stand up for the independent ladies. What do you do? Be cool? I should be the bachelor. I would be better. I wouldn't nail. I never would never is absolutely warranted. No, I would never cry unless somebody was like I don't know, like I don't know, like I hate you're not talented. I don't know, like I hate you as a host. I don't know you're does not. Your decorating sucks, but no one would ever say to you because it's not true. Well thank you. I don't know why would make me cry something. I'm sure there's something. It would definitely are my feelings. If one of the guys was like, hey, I think the other one's a lot hotter than you, I would be like, oh, that's so me. But no one's done that. They've done that, like they're just like, I think of a better connection with Gabby, you know the person she hears I'm not as hot as gay right Gabby? And that final road ceremony dress. I wouldn't I would not want to stand next to her like that. I wouldn't want to be. The other option is that when they looked like the Metropolitan Opera, Yes, remember they were wearing those like those shawls and the cloaks so waiting for the aris. Oh my god, her body, Gabby's like she's even as a straight lady. I was like, holy, why mother nature makes it? Wow? Not cens Tassia have I been like wow, that's a human female form that is spectacular. And Rachel was doing like full know me Malone the height of her fame in Vegas show Girls extraordinar whoever is dressing Rachel, that's like LaToya would wear that Jackson Laurel dress with a giant crystal. This is ridiculous. Still on her tip, the huge rose crystal, and then the crystal collar is very LaToya, very LaToya. Very like tonight at Caesar's, it's very oh, pussy formal, pussy hadf formal, honey. Okay. So then so she's like, well, I appreciate you telling me. I wish you told me earlier. And then it goes to this everybody leaving me rejection feels bad. Something is clearly wrong with me. I'm supposed to be. My time hasn't been one week without one week where someone who stayed all week. Why don't they all leave? I don't want to do that any more. Meanwhile, Gabby has only one more guy on her side than Rachel. Yeah, I can't. And then we see a horse's ass and chocolate. We're constantly seeing that horse's ass bounce. Oh my god. But in conclusion on this, I mean, and then she didn't Even then she canceled. She cancels the date like the guys get let off the ship for a second. They're like walking in sight and they're like, yeah, Rachel's decided to cancel the date, like go f yourself. Yeah that was not cool. It was sucking annoying as hell. I would have been so annoyed if I were just barely let off the fucking James Cameron Children of the Corn from the depths of the Oldest Lady Alive. They found the fucking necklace. They vaulted that boat back up and there's like fifteen people on this death cruise and they're like, oh my god, Land. We haven't seen it in forty five years. Our parents talked about Land. We thought it didn't exist anymore. They're up in Bruige and they're just like, sorry, babes, get back on the boat, get back on the boat. Yeah. Um, I have to say I would be I know, if they were like, get back on the boat, I would be like I would I might just make a run for it, like I think I will. Absolutely I would have just like like we have got a runner, were getting your own rail path, be like I'm going, Yeah, I don't know, Bruise is clearly abandoned. I don't know what happened there, I'm gonna go with it was cold, not to mention several times during this they had a full blown blitz the fires fireworks, as if that country hasn't seen enough do you know exactly? They're like Brian last night was saying, you remember World War Two, We're gonna reenact World War two and like your city on fire to a raid. We have a fill air ride. So here we are, Um, we have uh, there's chocolate, there's wrestling in chocolate. Um. And she is going, I am such a failure as a bachelorette and um, and Jesse Palmer goes to talk to her. When Jesse Palmer is the voice of reason and he's like, well, she's like you know, I uh. He's like, look, you've got a bad set of cards. She's tearing. She's like, I'm failing on the role of bachelorette. He's like, look, you I tried, we all tried. You cannot be the perfect bachelor bachelorette. He's like, what do you want to do. She's like, I want to cancel the date. I do love that the people say, like, you know, being a parent didn't come with an instruction book, but also that the only other time I've heard that expression is being a bachelor bachelorette doesn't cover with it, Like it's those the only two times I've ever heard that. Yeah, there is dozens of other seasons you could. Yeah, you go on a date, you go on the day. Yeah, there's there's there's so many, like I mean, honestly, like the way that when she told Gabby she didn't go, but Gabby's like the way she was like, you didn't go? Yeah, So she goes to talk to, uh, Logan, She goes to talk to Logan, goes to talk to Gabby and and she says, you were our only overlap. So I backed away. I was very interested. I mean again, she was classy from the get go. She liked Logan, she didn't put up any fight. She let she but they both kissed Logan the first night. Rachel was like, I like Logan. So Gabby stepped away, like, but she did also have a really good moment that first night with Logan, but Rachel claimed him and she was cool and and so she was like and then I used to like Gabby a lot um our friend who's with us. Jessica doesn't like Gabby as much. I love Gabby like she's she thinks she's thinks she thinks she's being too much of a dits And but as a woman with a high voice, I think it's hard to be the bachelor. And I think she's being warm and giving everybody a chance. I don't see she she sounds ditzy, like her actual voice, like her tone sounds ditzy. No, they're not ditzy. No. No. As a woman with a certain voice, I am team Gabby. I think also the way she goes yeah, yeah, that's that's a lot to be honest with you. All right, now we have now Brian. There was a big debate last week. Steve Heightener thought she wasn't listening. Um, and so we had a big debate where I actually was saying that I felt like she was listening and that was her way because she was on a date with a very the guy you think is he's very quiet, and he was opening up about his trauma which had to do with tennis, by his childhood trauma to do a tennis Bryan and I play tennis together, um and so um. We actually had a lot of people email in here's what was fascinating. A lot of the women thought that Gabby was listening. A lot of the men think that Gabby is not listening, although that it wasn't completely true. We had um one person, uh Alora Gene Gabby is a great listener. Um. I thought this was a really interesting point of view. I think Gabby is a great listener. I think the debate about the yeah yeah during someone else talking speaks something that women slash people socialized as women tend to do, which is used filler words to a not to be interrupted and be too show we're actively engaging in content. If women don't use filler words, then that we're more interrupted more frequently and we're listening. We don't want to be seen as zoning out, so we say yeah or a hot to indicate that we're actively listening to what's being said. I think men and people socialized as men don't deal with that as often, and because they are listened to by default, they don't have to use words the filler words to be heard, and then they find it annoying or indicative of something else. I thought that was a really interesting point of view. It is interesting, yeah, because I definitely also thought she was saying it a lot um and but I didn't think she wasn't listening. It always seems like she was. But here's another one. This is from Rachel Smith. Gabby a good listener. Yes, I absolutely love Gabby. I think she's showing she's involved with the conversation by saying, yeah, I'm a nurse too, and I find myself doing the same thing. Because she's a nurse, Gabby, I see you know, so that patients feel heard or something. Yeah, she said, I'm a nurse too, and I find myself doing the same thing with people, especially patients. It's a way to show involvement, focused listening and understanding towards others. I don't think she overuses it at all. Imagine an r N that sits and stares at you without any acknowledgement while you were disclosing how that trailer hitch got stuck in your exit only area. She has been trained to be a yeah or three years for Gabby, that's a really interesting yeah. Again. No, I think she's absolutely listening, and I think it's just her way of engaging and a lot of the women, a lot of the women think Gabby listens. Joel Bollam thinks Gabby listens. Um let's see Christine Danziger. What someone who doesn't think she's listening? What did they say? Yeah? Okay, so the women thinks she's listening. The women thinks she's listening. This is from Henry Ireland. Um, this is he doesn't he doesn't The women like the guy Henry says hello, I have to say. Gabby's yeahs and head nuts when she's listening to people drives me crazy. It feels like she's so bored and wants to get out of there. I think it's because the way she says yes. I don't think it seems like she's bored. I just think she says it a lot. She goes yeah, yeah yeah. It's like I think the way he says it comes off like I said, like we're talking earlier, dizzy, and so it seems almost insincere, I think. But that's just the way she talks. I think. I think if she was like oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, I think people might not have as much of an issue with it. But because she's like yeah, I have to say, I find it very comforting. I find her very warm. I feel like she's to me. I find her to be a warm listener. So that is uh anyway, all right. So basically, um, she's like, so she says to Logan, I decided to put my friends first. I have to so you go take a time out. I have to talk to my friend. Um. And so Rachel's tam hand and Gabby's tam hand and Rachel was like, this is humiliating and and and She's like, I want you to get what you need. I have to see. I felt like Rachel wanted Gabby to send him home, but Gabby didn't. And I'm proud of Gabby because the first night Gabby and Logan actually had a connection. I remember that because they was only like, you know, overyop and I was thinking, like, oh, Gabby and him seem to like kind of get along better. Yeah, And she's like, well, I don't think Logan's trustworthy. Meanwhile, she goes to her own cocktail party in a sequence tip Flower back on the boat, so she didn't even she hasn't left the boat at this point. She hasn't. Yeah, she's she's going, Okay, UM, why don't I take a quick break and we'll come back and we'll talk about our tip Flower. Oh, bone zone. Time for the bone zone and we're back. Okay, so she has not seen bruise. She's in her tip flower dress. That dress was so bananas because I feel like Gabby has some cute out. I mean Gabby's are a little more an animpants. But like, whoever is dressing Rachel isn't doing her any favors. Do you agree with that, Bryan? I mean it just looked a little veguas. It looked a little like, you know, it was showtime for for for Rachel. It looked um, very sort of villain sexy Villaine's villainess, sultry villainess. So then she showed up. She was like, all guys, do you want to leave? Like, what a way to start a cocktail party? Well, do you guys hate my birthday party? Or what is the worst piece of ship? This is the worst party. But do you hate this trip? Are you hating the right? It's like that thing. Can you imagine tell me now if you hate going to if you don't want to go to Yaddi by nature? Are you hating this right? No one wants to hear that. It drives to crazy. This is what I'm saying that she would just like constantly if you were her boyfriend. She would constantly be mad at you and you would have absolutely no idea what you did. And it was like, literally just be like your tone was wrong or something like, because she takes everything so internally, then it's just like it's too much. It's too much. I haven't Okay, this is the part where I show you another childhood item. Child an item part of the show the whole place. This was my grandmother's. This is my grandfather My gosh, hey, you know I love this. Don't think that I don't fucking love this. This was my grandma's. It is a doorstopper. Is it the kittie love that? I do love that kitty. It's so cute. It's like Mittens because it has a mustache, but it doesn't have thumbs. Oh yeah, Min's lived in this house. Did live in that house? Do you think Mitts hated that doorstop? It was like she said, what then up with this other catin she doesn't have problems with. Yeah, I hate smitt and Smittens doesn't hate me. Um um, okay, So Tino is pissed Tino. This is the first time I was like, oh he sucks. He was like piste off. They go get the champagne. He's like, you know what, I'm really hurt and I need to go tell Rachel that my feelings are hurt and um and he's like, you know what, I I was kind of upset that you canceled, like and like like basically, he wanted to go get an apology from her for canceling the party. Honestly, I thought it was kind of hot. Yeah, I just thought. I just thought, like, I don't know, I guess part of me was like, yeah, she should apologize for that. That wasn't coolize, Yeah, an apology that she claims to like Tino so much, she claims to like exact so much, Tyler so much. Why would she just ghost to them? I do love that. I like you so much that I want to tell you what I think and it's not nice. I like that approach, but I agree with him completely. Yeah, Okay, I don't know. I think Tino. Tino does have dick vibes, but I actually got like it was was momented here. I cannot believe his name is Tina. Why then there's nothing cool edgy fun. Whatever I think of Tino, I think of my so called life and to me that's not Tina. By the way, he's going to play a del Rey. No, you can't be you can't be Tino from ply A del Rey. I want like Tino from benson Hurst. You know what I mean, Like, oh, it's Tina. Tino's got the fun party. Well, exactly about to say Tino's coming to the party. That's why. That's how that Tino has got the I d Tina's got the cocaine. Yeah, Tino's the guy. Look at the sunset starting behind me. Okay, so the is so gorgeous things that it is happening. So then um so then she's like I'm aired, and he's like, I want to be your person. I want to tell you everything. He's like, well, today hurt, I felt unseen. That that phrasing was really like, okay, yeah, I'm done with that word. I think, Yeah, I feel unseen. Well, I'm looking at you. I'm feeling really unsane, right, I'm looking at me. Right, I felt really unseen, but I'm looking at you. Yeah, I feel really unseen. But I'm literally looking at your face and I literally feel that I don't feel seen by you. Did you enjoy my cat doorstop or the peanut butter powder that I showed. I feel insane. I did. I mean, I saw it, so I think I see you. I can't I that I can't handle. And here's another thing that we discussed earlier. Side note, I can't handle this. I'm just a really big EmPATH. People that self identify as an EmPATH if we don't all have feelings, I just feel really deep. I'm a big EmPATH. There are very few people who aren't empaths, and those people are are typically like they're like Charles Manson. Yeah, yeah, but we all feel things like you don't get to claim feelings like you're that's the human conditions that we feel things and you don't get I just feel really sad that I hurt someone's feelings. Okay, that doesn't make you an EmPATH. That makes you like someone with a pulse. Yeah, I'm an I just pick up on like I pick up on other people's energy. Yeah, like, oh I thought about my friends today. I'm an EmPATH. Not really, No, I can't. You're just a human. I can't deal with that. I also can't deal with the word foodie, Like I'm a big foodie. I mean, like just be like I love food. I like exploring restaurants. I like different, I like exploring new cuisines. A foodie, I don't know, I'm an eaty. I'm definitely an eaty, not a foodie. But I mean again, we spent eighty million dollars on food and all we have his powders. I was like Cathy Hilton. The first night we Brian showed me a new space food that I didn't know existed. I did. It was hearts of palm linguini in a pouch, and he was like, you need to rinse off the heart of palm. Oh my god. Yeah. I literally was like, I don't the palms in a bag And I go, you just need to like rinse it out otherwise it will taste like hearts of palm, So you just need to rinse them off. And Hilton, who's butler, was off and she goes this, this is how I rinse them off, and she fills the bag with water like with the noodles in it, and I was like, no, like with a calendar. I couldn't believe that I was giving you tips because I never like and I'm like trying to figure out how to rinse the bag I've never seen anything like that. I was literally like a billionaire who's lost their staff during COVID and didn't know how to like boil an egg. You know. It was what I've never seen. It was pretty. We were also exhausted, to be fair, I don't cook, though I don't either. I don't cook, so yeah, but Art and I just I just like, rinse these off and you just filled up a back, you know. I was like, I was like Patricia on Southern Charge. It was it was we were so tired. It takes I can't you have it, but I still Then then you think and then you immediately left and you were like, oh my god. Of course it wasn't like you like, but I did put water in a bag to rinse off the pasta like I stuck at it, and then the and then the Paul Meany was like floating up and like out. It was really it was like orphans had been abandoned. It was wonderful. It was incredible. Okay, So then so then Tino continues to be open and vulnerable in me, and I love that he wants me to be around I can't. She loves that. Meanwhile, Meatball is like we missed you today. How do you feel about Meatball? Is your first time seeing meatball? Brian? Yeah, wasn't that impressed. Do they calling me Paul because it doesn't have a personality? Yeah, that's how we got the nickname. Yeah. Um and then um, you know we have Zach. Uh. So she was like kissing people and uh, she was definitely kissing some stuff with Zack and then he was like, you want to get some screaming out. So they're screaming out in the lido deck. She's like, it's my incredibly get my frustrations. So then when they're paying, they were both good screamers. By the way, I did notice that they weren't awkward about it. They were good. And I feel like when they're being all so attentive to her, she's like, now I'm happy. She's like she's like a child star. She's like it's yeah, she's like a child star, right, and it has to be her sixteenth birthday party at all time. So then um, Tino got the group date, Rose Zach was upset, and um that was the end of the group date of that. Any final thoughts on Rachel and her group date. Um, I just took I just took that someone in the next block actually can visually picture her and see her. You know, I mean, I don't feel seen by you. I don't feel seen either. I don't feel seen by like you're not looking at me right now. No, I'm actually actually like two doors down in my brother's bedroom right now. Right it looks like you're on vacation like that. One feels like a baby. You're like in the Bahamas, John, I wish actually don't some like exciting like B and B somewhere come on very exciting angle the pitched roof. It looks fancy right now, it looks great. Everyone's backgrounds are crushing. We're killing it. Okay, So then we have um um group date. Gabby shows up in a very sexy outfit. She has a little black top, like a crop top, and then she has a black skirt with a really high slit, and then her legs are like a mile long, and she is wearing thigh high boots. If I had legs that long, I would only wear a thigh high. It was a very goth outfit. I liked. I just say I do love. I do love, and straight guys trying to describe a woman's outfit and he was like, she's like looking cool, Like she had like a black outfit on. Yeah, they were like on horn like sexy Wednesday out of like shoes. Yeah, it was like black basically she but it was like a high split THI high boot. It was kind of a dominatrix situation. It's like rain, it's pooring. We need the rain. There's been a there's been a dry spill, fabulous all we needed. Well, we're gonna be able to take a shower this week. The wells are ruining dry in town. We can't shower, Is that true? Yeah? Yeah, it hasn't been raining since January. A lot of the wells were running really because I'm talking most town water rain there. There's no earth. Earth is in trouble. Oh yeah, it's not rained here since January. That's crazy there because you would think it would be like i mean, I'm assuming most springs there a ton of snow and then a ton of rain. Yeah, it hasn't rained at all, and that's really bad. Meanwhile, they're on a fucking ghost cruise of fifteen people around the world. Everyone's making fun of all the I mean, the people should be on their private chets anyway, But what about these fuckers? Huh yeah. Meanwhile, so they go out a boat. They almost knocked the guys out. That was a very low bridge. It was one of those guys could have getting knocked on the fore. That was a limbo for sure. That was a limbo. Rock. Yeah, for sure. Rock. And they go and they eat waffles and Earache talks Gabby into getting tea bagged by the whip cream dispenser when he comes in her mouth that whip cream thing. What did you think of that, Katie? I thought, I thought it was very funny and I like that. Like Gabby, she's silly like like she's want to go along with it, and she knew what she was doing. I do. I like that. I like the ABC showed it. I will say, when I saw him do it, I was like, no fear that he's gay. He's not. There's nothing gay about him. That was that was a tooth the intake y. You'd have to fry that mouth open. That was a toothy in by the way I wanted. I didn't want it in that man. I wanted it in a cup. But I wanted that whip crepit. Oh my too. I love what I wanted that whip cream. Meanwhile, they played soccer and Nate was so cute with the little kids. I had been picking them up and running Nate is there's really cute. He seems almost too sweet for the show though. I'm just like, don't let her ruin you. Nate. You're so because he's hot and sweet and he's like an electrical guy like you were the real dude. He's actually a real person. He's got a child, and you're like, oh, if you don't win, like the sea of I mean, even if you do win, like the amount of ladies sliding into his damns, We've seen it firsthand. It can ruin anyone. And he's got that great like to barge prince look that I love so sexy. I love us say it again that a guy can wear just like a pearl choker on the Bachelor and like not one other guy. Imagine with Chad they like, what do you were like that? It is like where I was like, oh, yeah, that's just Nate, like nobody's at least we've gotten to the point where it's like, not like these are actually a very nice I was going to say, I really actually like most of the men, I think they're all not nice, and they seem cool. I have to say, I really like I think Gabby has a They've really grown on me. I think she's got a good group of guys. They're also nice, even Eric, even Eric is cute. I like your like he's The hair is very strange to me. Hot. So that our friend Paul got a mullet and he looks handsome with it, looks great. Paul looks hot with Paul was always cute. Paul with the mullet, Paul got hot, looks great. So then we have I loved this. You know, I love a party game. I love two buckets of fish and it's one to three shoot whoever loses getting slapped across the By the way, Arden mentioned several times so much should love to that game. And I thought for sure there was going to be some fish on the table today, literally because I feel bad for the fish. I wouldn't do it, but I but I would hit you with a brick of cheese. You know what, we gotta play it, we gotta do it. I thought it was so entertained me. It made me laft. It's so funny to me, it's so ridiculous, really very much. Rang my bell that game that is so funny to me. One and you smash somebody in the face with a fish. Yeah, that was fun. Did that appeal That didn't appeal to you as much? Um No, But I gotta say I liked it. I did like it. I liked watching it. It was fun to watch it. I don't know that I would want to get slapped with a fish. Oh, I don't want against I want to be the slapper, the slapping. Yeah, I agree, I agree. The mechanism is fun. I'd rather listen. I'd rather fight with a fish than like, use my fists, you know what I mean? Yeah, Brian, we should also tell people we on I Heart. We haven't. We are going to have a new podcast yet. We are going to have a new podcast. Arden and I are going to have a new podcast. We have a new podcast and Tanna is producing it. And it's called No Autographs Please, and it's just Stays in the Life. And we're going to record our few, our first few episodes here and it's going to be coming up. It's gonna be so fun. It's gonna be so fun. It's gonna be if you enjoy hearing about us buying possum? Possum? Where going to ya? Yaddi? By nature, you're gonna love no autographs when you think of milk, do you think of possums? So do we are you? Yadi? By nature? Are freeload off your brother and pretend to be lovers just to go see yah rock wait charge charge it to a Laura Cameron. Yes, Um, he'll never be seeing. We'll never pay never any of this. He's never going to get reimbursed for any of this. Okay, So then um um so then she's like, I feel like the luckiest girl in the world. Um. So the guys are psyched. The guys are like, all right, you know what, We're down to a small group. This is really cool. They're back on the boat we got, you know. And then the shy guy gave a little kiss from last week. What's what's his name? The shy guy, I don't know, he had the date with j He's a little kiss and then um, and then Logan arrives and he's like, I bet you guys are curious. I am here, Like, yeah, we are? Are you here? And he's like, you know, I initially how to connect you with Gabby. But then I met with ray Chill and I told her I can no longer see you, and Nate's like, I don't get it. Um, I saw her person. I thought that her person was here, and he's like, well, I will be moving in and she showed up looking like a sexy mermaid in a green mini dress. She's very sexy. Yeah, that was another like, um, sort of Vegas, right, honey in a Vegas out there for sure, Vegas mermaid in Vegas. While um, she's like, uh, we have a fun twist. Uh, I don't know who said that, and um, the guys are rattled. And so Nate pulls her aside and he's like I want to show you all of me, and he's like look the logan logan addition. I thought at first, okay, what's going on, but he was to handle it so well. He's like, I want to be chosen, so you have my support to explore what you need to and like, I'll be here if you need to explore that. I want to be the one that's chosen. I thought he had that. Great, it's a good answer. Yeah, Eric got more vulnerable. He's like, I feel vulnerable. Usually when someone says, I want you to see the whole part of me. They usually like turn around, undo their pants, take them off, and then show them their butt holes. Obviously, I, like every other one everyone else watching, was expecting that. Yeah. I was like, why why then let's see if this thing we haven't seen. Yeah, I didn't use the whole part of me. I was expecting it, and I was bummed that it didn't happen. So then Eric feels very uh, he did not like it, and so he was like being on the date with you with six guys, like it feels very real with us, and being with six guys like I wanted to steal you away for kiss um and she's like and he's like, well maybe I could still you away for a kiss now, and she's like I think about you a lot, and he's like, I'll take that kiss I didn't get to steal today. And she's like, I like this kiss, and uh, yeah, there she's a trap and she climbed right in. Yeah, she's she has fun with these guys. I gotta say, like any time that shows footage of them, like after the one on one dates or anything like that, they're hop hopping, skipping and jumping. She looks like she's a lot of fun. She's a fun bachelorette. She's a good time she's not a drag. Like if you get to go on dates with a bunch of hot guys like have a good time, that's fun for sure. So then Logan he pulls her aside. He's like, uh, do you feel kind of good like? And he's like, well, I wanted to be sitting here holding your hand, and so that was I mean, like, I'm sure it's almost like the fun of the affair of like I know, I know that must have been really hard for you, like having these feelings, like going through a lot. And he's like, I'm very into you. You know, there was sort of a fun like affair, like I know that must have been so hard for you to leave Rachel like that you knew he was getting a rose. There was no way he wasn't getting a rose. By the way, this is the serial killer. How I can read this, How I can actually read this back and have it any senses insane? You do though, you do it flawlessly. Thank you so much. And then she was like, look, it's the premise of everything is listened to your heart and I thought you did everything with integrity and then she gave to barge Nate a rose and uh he was sur into it. And Eric was like this sucks. I don't know when I because I don't think I can stand to be here for eight more weeks to see where I stand. Is he like threatening to leave? It's like that's what this show is, bro. You can't tell you you're gonna win until the end. So I feel like he's gonna be like a little fucking drip and just like pow and get out of there like a turd and like me, like that's the name of the game, dude, I know, but the guys always crumble when when it's just like but my way though, they just didn't handle it. Yeah, they can't handle it. They can't handle it. Um like they've never seen the show and they don't know how this is how it works. And it was just like what, there's other men here and it's like, yeah, that's that's all the Bachelor. It's like how one like naked and afraid. Remember, the guys always crumbled away quicker than the women, and men can't handle a woman saying yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, So then we have. So the logan is like, I don't care that the guys are threatened, and that's the end of the date. We're gonna take a quick break and we'll be right back. Oh yeah, a sexual time out and we're back all right. Now we have our to one on one dates. Rachel is on a date with Avid. He's great, what he's hot. Hot, He's maybe my I think, maybe my favorite of her of her dudes. I thought this was a really good day. Get me too. They seem to have chemistry and she seemed to have a great She seemed to have a great time, which seems to be more and more difficult. Yeah, I was like, this is a this was a successful date. She was like, I feel safe with you. Um, I need to know that we both feel that way. Like she had to start out insecure, don't for like, if he's gonna like you, look, you'll find out sooner or later. You need to know right now you're about to go on a date. She's like texting him while they're at dinner, being like, do you still like me? He's still like, you think you want to go for Gabby? Right, She's more fun. You probably want to leave. Just actually a lot enjoy the last few seconds where you go for Gabby. So we see the horse ask of you again and she goes works tonight. We're exploring bab Rouge is how she phrased, We're exploring bab Rouge. I love chocolate. Um, he was really good at catching chocolates in his mouth. Expert expert level. Like she would toss it and he would could like a steal. Was legitimately impressed. Yeah, like legitimately. I was like, this guy needs to put write this down. I always think in terms of resumes, you got to write this down on your special skills. But you got to write this. You never know when that's going to come. Never. That is money, money in the bank's right. What's your special skill, Brian? You know I don't really have one. Um, I can I can fly and being sexy. I can see through your clothes. Yeah that's pretty cool. I can see through everything. But I can steal your identity. Yeah once every five years they smoke a cigarette. Um, I can talk about you behind your back. Okay, So then she's ah. Then we walk on these gorgeous ladies making the lace. The lace was so beautiful, that handmaking and all these years. I thought Little Fair was canceled. But there who knew? They were making lace right and Bruge the in your Girl girls. It was Sarah McLaughlin, the Indigo Girls, Atlantis. They were all there hunting, they were all there making lace. That lace was good, Jess, that wasn't good beautiful? Are you kidding me? Kidding me? Are you kidding like that? You can like that in America? You think, oh, I could just go finally, It's like, are you kidding me? Kidding me? Not like not like that? A handmade lace? You know. I asked my friend, I said, where did you get that lace? Said? You have to go abroad? I said it, well, but you can't get it here, It's impossible. I was like, I asked my friend. I was like, where did you get my friend always wears a veil? Where did you get always with a veil? I'm like, should never taken off a wedding dress? Oh? You know, always the bridesmaid, always the bride, always the bride, always the bride, always the bride, always the bride. I was the bride. I mean that veil. So then this was a good move. They put on the veil and they're like okay. She goes, oh, it feels right, and she's like, what would your wedding be like, like I like being a bride um And then he was cute. He goes wrap it up? Can we get a gift wrapped? Cute? That was cute. Good line, good line. And then she wears a crazy dress. It was the dress with the with the like the rhyan Stone caller. Oh yes, the breakfast at Tiffany's. The breakfast yeah at TIFFs except that then it was short. I thought it was going to go all the way down, but it was just kind of a short dress. Any dress breakfast at It was a breakfast at the American Girl Doll Store. It was, by the way, it was absolutely breakfast it first sure was breakfast American Girl Doll Store. There's the title. There's the title of the episode, Breakfast at the American Girl Doll Store. And everybody's in the dress with the with the crystals from and so she's like, um um stability. She's like, I don't want to get hurt, Like, okay, well guess what you might people get the risk you take give you fall in love, you might get her. So are you sure you don't want to get hurt, because so far your narrative has been I'm about to get hurt. It seems like you want to get hurt. Maybe I'm not even kidding. You're out. You're forcing that somebody to hurt you. She's like, um, and he goes. Stability is a big thing for it. It's almost a perfect guy because he's insecure. Stability is a big thing for me. My parents were never together. I moved in. This was so sad and with my dad when I was ten, um and for the rest of my life and my mom just like took off and I had like no contact with her until I was adult. We're cool now, but like, I didn't want to be with my dad. I want to be with my mom. Is like, where'd mom go? That's hard with your mama. She's like He's like, He's like I never got to see her. But we're close now. She made something for me. It's a rubber bracelet. She made a bracelet. She made a rubber bracelet. Um, and it was to give me courage and strength. Last week, I know has been trying for the last few weeks, have been trying for you. Maybe this will turn things around. They won't Nothing well, nothing can. You've been on a downwards pile for the past few weeks and nothing has happened to you yet, what is going on? Rachel? And like this rubber bracelet cannot turn the car, This tire cannot turn the car on. And then they go outside and there were crazy fireworks. They set the city of Bruges on fire. Let's decimated as they decimated, And then they had a great kiss with Avid. Yeah, pretty hot. He's hot, so hot. He's also got the cutest smile, Like he's he's maybe my favorite so far. He's hot and he's sweet, and he seems shy. He seems like a genuinely nice person. He's in the running. She actually has a few good choices. Zack is good, Tyler is good. Like what's the how many idia need? Three? Three or four? That's a lot of good guys. When Logan left us, like you barely talked to him, and you've got the good guy, even the best of those dudes for her. Honestly, I like even and I like Tyler a lot. I think has a great connection with both of them. They both seem like really cool and understanding and like, I don't know, they put up with her. So there you go. Somebody sent in a really funny photo. Um, okay, wait, so this is from Gabrielle byreand Um, my husband watched the show with me. In the second he saw Logan. He made this comparison and I can't see it. You've not watched the movie Storks. There's a little bird with a long neck and a trump comb over that looks exactly like Logan, And every time he sings, he always sings, how you like me? Now, look at this, it looks just like lo God it does part of the movie Storks, but that is Logan. I either heard of the movie Storks. He looks just like. It's like a perfect, really funny I'll text that to you. We can put that on our we can put that. I'm gonna share that. Um and um, She's like, it's the perfect night with Avan. I can see myself falling in love with Avn. I'm almost there. They burned Bruise to the ground and they got back on the Valiant Lady, and uh, there they go. Um. Johnny is getting filled in on what happened. He starts spinning out. Um, he's a Palm Beach Gardens realtor. Yes, wherever Palm Beach Gardens is. I assume it's around there. And so they go on a date and he's like normally I'm really macho. And they go to a beer tasting thing and they we meet Aimed and Vincent to a beer far. She like drinks all the water in the tub. Yeah, I'm so attracted her. So they spank each other with I mean, she's a good time. They're like spanking each other with like plants. They hop into the like she's like d T girl and he's too, I guess, which was out of his comfort zund but me like yeah, like I got crazy, but he liked it. He liked it. And then they hopped in the beer tub and she drank it and she's like it's been fun, but it's a little surface level I can be I need someone who can be there for me. And he's like, I'm the most suppressed person on the planet. Oh my god, he's what the doctor ordered, watch me grow baby exactly. Someone who can be there for me that I have to cheer up. Who's like I'm a piece of ship and I have to be like no, no, you're great. And he's like, I don't believe you someone to save. Oh my god. Um, he's like, I never act like that on that date. I loved it, and uh and he's like you're fun, Like you're really fun. You were fun for me. He's like. She's like, does it take longer as a person for you to be weird? He's like, yeah, I'm superguarded. You know. I was in a relationship and it's it ended right when I started to be myself and she just disappeared. So it was impossible not to take it personally. I would love to hear the other side of that story, by the way, oh for sure. And then that's what I was like, Okay, there's another side to this happen. And then he said this phrase and again, you've got to become a champion. Then talk about becoming a champion. Do not put fucking blood in the water and other people arrows to shoot you in. He said, I'm the least confident person ever. Don't say that to a date on the first date. I'm the least that is. That's so much emotional labor for the other person, Like if you're not in a place where you can date you or or where you were feeling like that you're not go therapy, go to a group, go to go to alan on, get on prescription if that helps, Like do you work it out like everybody's got ship and horse, and don't go on a reality TV show. No, that's not gonna you can't. So he goes, I'm the least confident person ever people. She's like, no, I see how the guys are people like to be around you. Um, you should feel that. He's like, I don't see it. Yeah, he really was kind of doubling down on it. And then he's like, look, I struggle with depression. I struggle with all the time. I am low all the time. And really what he said, I wrote it down. Look, I had depression in my twenties. I was bad, very bad depression in my twenties. And I went to therapy and I see a therapy every week. And by the way, there are no excuses because therapy ranges from free to very expensive. There are options very depensive. It's not always good either, good at any level. And by the way, like very depressed is not something anyone else in your personal life really can help you with. I mean it's really when I was really depressed, nobody knew what to do, and like, I didn't know what to do, but like, you know, you gotta start to go talk to somebody, anybody. Go talk to somebody that's not your family or friends, like a professional. Um. And and it's okay to get depressed. It's okay to course, everybody has moments, where as the human condition is not an easy condition. But you gotta you gotta do the work. They can't make a fix it for you. You can't save anybody unfortunately. Um. And he's like, and she says, I've struggled a lot with anxiety depression. But it's sounds like she's done the work. She's doing the work. She's like, you know, sometimes I feel like I'm broken and no one else understands. She's like, I had fun today. Um. And then she she goes, she goes, can we do it again? Please? And then they run through the street. She's really cute. They're giggling, and she goes, I love the inside of Johnny. Um. He doesn't know how romantic or sweet or special he is. I'm like, pick pick the guy with the kids. She said in regards to Johnny, like three times there I noticed, It's like I love the inside I love this. I love Look, she never said I love him, but she said I love this about him, and I was like, she does, said nowise because I felt like we haven't seen them interact the lot. I haven't seen much of a connection there, and I see like the connection with Jason or Nate or I think like those two, yeah, Jason and Nate, Like I feel like there's one other guy I can't think of, Hope, but Johnny. I feel like that just kind of came out of nowhere, and I wonder if there's stuff that we haven't seen between them. She is here for it with him. He is a front runner, honey. Um so then um so, then it's a cocktail party. We're at the cocktail party. Finally we haven't had a cocktail party and forever because so Study keeps canceling them. Oh my god. Um, Nate and Gabby were all over each other and it was so cute. She goes, I got a present for you. I got little Belgian chocolates for your daughter. And he looked like teary, and then they really I've never seen someone do that before. It was really thoughtful. It actually maybe be like, oh, she's picking him like it was kind of like letting him know, like, I don't know, it's really sweet, it's um. Logan was nervous. Um. Gabby looked incredible in that dress. Holy shit. I wouldn't want to be the other bachelor's standing next to Gabby in that dress. I wouldn't want to be one of two and not Gabby. I would not be able to go to Lincoln Center and stand on that stage next to her. I wouldn't be able to do meepid. I I don't know that. I took voice less in sophomore year in high school and I sang that opera in front of my school fabulous. Yeah me and my teacher was like, oh her lips and she would say, oh good dude, lord, dude, of a report. Yeah I did, and that was good block to see chee not anyway, I'm just that was really good. Can you imagine that fourteen year old arts so sweet? I love it? Things? Hello, I have a performance for you very preppy jocks who don't relate to me. Maybe just don't make this is the ticket. Maybe this will get me invited to your party. Yeah, maybe this will make what do you guys ever need live? Operate your your keggers. Hey, maybe this will make one of you want to date me. I have tried everything exactly. Well, you can't say I didn't try that's right. Um, So then I was like a TikTok influencer before TikTok, but with opera so cool. So, by the way, you're really good though, for real? That sounded really nice. Yeah, thank you. You sounded so good. Isn't this cool? Isn't this so so cool? Look what I can do? Look what I can do? Cool? We we said that last year. Remember we started saying, but you can you retell our listeners. My favorite story about when you saw the girl on the Oh. There was a girl at a water park, probably like seven ish, and she'd be you know those fountains that come up from the ground like they just rock splash things. She was like standing over it with her legs spread, and the water kept shooting up and she kept going yeah, yeah, she loved it. She loved it, and she could not believe that. I was like, oh my god, this girl is rocking out to this. She was so stoked, just like rocking out. She was so soaked. Yeah, yeah it was great. That is so funny. It was awareness I can't believe. I can't believe you're lucky enough. I truly couldn't believe it. And it was one of those things I was like staring at her, going like what is she doing? And then I was like, Okay, that's amazing, and stop staring and keep it moving. I mean, did she have like a parent, is there any supervision? Like I think her like mom was on the sidelines. Yeah, like talking to her friends like like, you know what, there's nothing wrong with that, honey, be free, enjoy yourself, expressed yourself. And then that's why it's a cooler generation. There's going to be more comfortable in her skin than That's what it's all about. That's how you raise a very's parenting one. Can you take them right down to the geffen that fountains exactly into the fountain and shoot this, have at it, just have at it, knock yourself out to have a great time, honey. So then um, Logan was nervous. Um. Then um, then they do rock paper scissor. She goes, you better let me win at the party, like with the slapping, and then um she hit him with the fish and then they kiss. It was just really great and then they have their opera capes on at the Rose ceremony, and Um, Gabby picked Jason. Spencer was surprised me. Spencer was second. He was the one that you asked about Brian that was in the military with He said he was cute, he was great Logan and then she cut Mario and Michael. But Mario was stucked. He blew it because he got the first impression Rosen and he flirting with Rachel. He did it to himself. He did it to himself. He like lifted Gab. He lifted Rachel and was like flirting with her in front of Gabby after he got the first impression Rose. Then Rachel cam did Zach who we like Tyler, and then um, the third one was what I can't remember who was that because she already had a yes. And then she goes and she describes a city that has never been described this way, a city known for its landscapes. What are you talking about known for his land I mean maybe the Netherlands is known for it, but I've been definitely never heard of Amsterdam is known for its landscapes. I mean, like, what does that even mean? Because it's a it's like a very like, uh, famously flat place. It's got the tulips, it's got the I guess maybe the canal. I don't know. Yeah, I guess it was very odd. It was a strange. What I'm trying not to say, it's known for drugs, fucking and a frank. I thought they were going to say, right, say, bicycles, you could snap, canals. Arts. They have a big modern arts scene there, like lots of museums. Yeah, yeah, there's landscapes. So they're going to take that giant boat with four people out it and go there. And then meanwhile we see we see somebody saying in the good previews coming up, oh that I am too broken for anyone to love. I think ear Ache peels out. Do you think so? I think I think ear Ache is going to eject himself. Why Rachel's going to have a meltdown? No, no, abb she says, am I too broken for anyone to love? I don't know. Maybe there's also something with Logan that we see, Yes, something's going on with Logan. Would I imagine if they're after if after all of this with Logan, he comes out and he's like, oh yeah, have a girlfriend, Oh my god, like that would honestly be insane, because that's kind of like what it seemed like. There's a situation with Logan. What could that situation be besides he has a girl back home, like I mean, I guess it could be anything. It could also just be like crazy editing where they like situation where it could be he has a tummy ache and it's not good to be here today. It could be like that. They're just editing it weird. Yeah, they do edit things. Uh, they do edit things in a very weird way. They try to trick us real and it works. Um, but yeah, I don't know if we see Gabby crying a lot and it worries me, I know, I don't like that. I don't want to see my girl crying a lot. Usually Rachel crying and we're used to it, and then we expect that. I don't like that. Um well, um, should we take a quick break and then come back and do the tweet of the weight? I don't know about you, but things are getting so hot in here. I think I gotta take I'll pay your break and we're back. You guys, we got so many new reviews. We love our reviews. We appreciate that. As Brian, I'm so excited to start a podcast with you. I can't really, I can't wait. It's it's like the culmination of the situation at hand. That's exactly it. And we can talk about Teresa Judas wedding hair. That hair, honey she spent on that hair. Bobby pins und bobby pins fifteen imagine sticking your fingers in to go for a kiss fifteen hundred. She said it came out perfect, exactly what she mfished. I mean, it's incredible, It's unbelievable. Have you seen it, Katie. It's like someone just put a why do you google every reviews? Google Teresa Juda's wedding hair, and we'll have Anna put that wedding hair on us in the flyer. She'll put the wedding hair on all of us in the pictures. Okay, here's every review. A five star review um from m Ham's seven. A joy to listen. I've been listening to the podcast for a year without ever having watched The Bachelor, the whole cast, right, Brian, you have no idea how many listeners we have that ever they've never watched. Isn't that the best yeah. That means you have a winning personality and oh my god, and great guests like and it also means we talked about a lot of other stuff than just the Bachelor. Um. I've been listening to the podcast for a year without having ever watched The Bachelor. The whole cast of characters was funny enough that it didn't matter to me that I didn't know who they were talking about. It felt like listening to an old radio soap opera interspersed with insightful inside of funny momentary. I finally bit the bullet and started watching the show so I could chat about it with my best friend who loose far away, and it's been a great way to connect with her thanks to the will accept this rose if hectornating me into the Bachelor nation. Here's another one podcast for Champions five stars Mick Marvin. I don't have the patience for the Bachelor of the Bachelor, so they're not watching either. But I'll now I don't have to go without. Arden has great guess and I'd like ford to laughing every Weeklos. I mean, what a compliment, what a tribute? Oh yeah, here's the one from Aaron uh in Vermont. I can't read the full title because it's on my phone, but it says the Funny Friends Friends I wish I'll end up. I'll just fill in the blank the funny Frish friends I wish um uh. We're on a COVID ghost ship with me and I'm so glad I found this perfect Lee Sparkly show. I love the way you watch the batch, so warm, friendly and hilarious. Onward, Come on, Brian, that's nice, right? Are you kidding me? That's the nicest thing. I can't believe it. That's literally the nicest thing anybody's ever Senteray, here's an email we got we love Emails Rose Podcast at gmail. And by the way, if you win Tweeter the Week, you can win a sleep Crown pillow and you've got to email us. You're mailing address, and Julie is going to send you the pillow, So email us. You're mailing Brian, do you have a sleep crown? I don't. I don't even know what a sleep crown is? What? What? Okay? Don't? They're not paid sponsors. Is this woman Julia? She found us through Laura Lopez. Lauren has an entire like bed filled with him I'll let you. I might travel one with me. So it's the equivalent of like a sleep mask and like a weighted blanket, but you like stick it on your face and sleep on your It's a pillow and it covers your ears in your eyes, and it's like gives like pressure and as like a nose gap, pat nose gaps. And he literally put it on your face and as as Dracula says, you go to a dream portal, Yes, I'm gonna let you touch it. I can't. It's really soft. Yeah. And so if you go to rose Pot and again she's this is not a paid sponsor because legally by the FTC or whatever that's called, we have to tell you this is not a paid sponsor. This is literally because we love Julie. If you go to Rose podcast, you go to sleep crownd sleep Crown dot com, back slash w y a t R and then you put in the code champion, you get a discount. I'll let you try mine. It is the best there's so so if you have one, Katie, right, yeah, it's great. And it also like I mean, it covers out all all of the noise and the comforting because it's kind of like you know awaited link it. It's just like it's so great, it's comforting, and you know, I have a very I have a hard me and sleep are it's adds. It's a devil's dance unless during the day. Unless during the day, I actually go queen during the day. Okay, we also got a beautiful email. This one is great. This is from Curly Power Steve and Wells is the topic. So I started to listen to you guys. When I went to law school. It was a really hard time. I'm gonna do it with the Rhode Island accent. It was a really hard time in my life. And what I would do is that I would turn on your podcast. Everyone laps around my apartment complex. One lap equals a quote a mile, and I tried to do four quote miles every night, every day. Every day. Was really hard. Everyone told me law school would be had, but I didn't believe it. But it was definitely supad and the mental toughness was so real. But y'all with a bright spot of my life thing that we get me up and working out was no one that I can listen to your podcast one hour equals one mile. Today I am a lawyer. And don't get me wrong, it's still had. But listening to Wells and Steve really took me back to walking around may Opotment Complex a quite a mile at a time. I'm laughing my ass off. I really needed that. Thanks and I will be listening forever. XO XO. Lawyer Collie Powers Callie Power, prodi Colli prodi Colly name for a lawyer. It's true when Brian sus I have to say I have an upcoming lawsuit against Arden and I would love for you to represent me for being too sexy and forgive me this time because of my because you broke into my mail, and that's okay, already admitted it. Look, I'm guilty. I opened I actually thought. I looked at the box and said art. And but I'm not much of a narcissist when it comes to Amazon packages and they've I mind, they're all coming to me. I understand. I legitimately would never have actually opened your mail. I actually art and are you kidding me? Of course out of that, and I know you knew what it was. Well, I thought I got excited, and quite honestly, I was bummed because I was like, oh, these are just my boxes. I was like with my shampoo or whatever. Because it arrived it was a heavy box. I was like, oh, ship, it's my shampoo. Well, because there's no shampoo or anything here, so I was like, I was getting like a big bottle to like last me a few years here, so I have to order it again because we're also here for a while so that we're not allowed to shower. But then I actually went back out before I opened the boxes. I was like, well, where the fund is the peanut butter powder, like I've taken these in and I was like, I guess it didn't come the peanut powder. So then I went and stole some of Jessica's hummus. I ate some of her humus because I was like, well, I guess the peanut butter powder didn't arrive. I'm gonna go steal from my other guests. And I took a couple of her Jessic because of her Mary's gun crackers crackers that I used her red bahamas. I stole it from her when she was in the den. And then I opened the box. I was like, I didn't have to steal from Jessica. I could have just stole from Ryan, Listen, the solution is always right in front of you on the tooth that I didn't know it was because I that forced me to go steal from our other guests. And then and then I'm like, oh my god, it's not I it's not my shampoo. I can't clean my hair. Who cares? Because I can't seek a shower anyway. So ultimately it's up to Jessica to suit. Excuse me, you could say, Jessica, it's up to Jessica to sue Jessica. When you could go to Carly Powe. Car it's your new lawyer or maybe should be my defense lawyer. Carly Power is my lawyer. Yeah, I guess so Okay, well we'll have to find a different prosect, find you a different lawyer. Okay, great, all right? Are you guys ready for so many fun tweets? Brian even such a good guess? Are you kidding me? I love you? Are you kid? Are you kidding me? What are you looking for? I'm really excited to do. Will you please ordering Captain's chap for our young Yes, I'm friend, I will for Yaudi by nature, absolutely, And you have to find our stupid outing in Rhode Island for our podcast. Oh yeah, we're gonna go to somewhere dumb. We're gonna go to like a doll store or like off track betting or something. Okay, great, you're gonna get off track betting. Okay, great, okay, so I um, okay, here we go, Here we are. So there was again, there's so So if you want to participate, you gotta tweet at us by midnight on the Monday nights Pacific time. You gotta tag me at ad marine A d E N M y r I N or at anna host n A h O s s n I e h that queen set me these, even from Scotland, even with freaking uh Will Ferrell, Are you kidding me? Are you kidding me? Are you kidding me? You think she's not gonna she's still die to BBS? So she sent that and then you do hashtag w y A t A if you want to be considered Okay, Um, all right, we got so many to choose from her now on it down to this too. Here's Emily Ward at OMG, It's Emily Wad. Sometimes Tino speaks so slowly it seems like he's on satellite delay. Um. This is from Lauren at Purple Undersquare Hayes really hoping that fantasy Sweets takes place on the Virgin Cruise ship. Oh the irony. This is from Fantini thirty five at Santini thirty five. Okay, look it's Clayton. Oh no wait, it's just a Belgian horse. He was built like a horse. Um um. This is from a This is from Julie at Sassina Glass. No way to say quote. I'm an American who doesn't care about COVID, like drinking whip cream straight from the publicly shared nozzle and a foreign country. There's a photo. Oh my god, Oh my god. This is from Carnival Cruise is Official at or A Palmer three ABC promos this week, there's a lot of capitals. Will the women find red flags in the red Light District? Can they weed out the boys on the men? Well, one of our producers get fired from planning an overnight date at the Anne Frank Counse. Oh god, amazing June next week to find out right there? Oh my god, what if they go to the Inn Frank House. I really hope they don't. I really hope they don't. Really funny one This is from Carnival Cruises official Laura Palmer. Three. Fun fact every time the Bachelorette shows a Virgin Cruises logo, a Disney Cruises employee drops dead true. I think that, My god, this is so funny to me. Um um u um. This is from jeff Graham at Jeffrey C. Graham, Rachel, If any of you guys have reservations, I want to know about it the guys. Yeah, how permanent is this sequence? Flower dress situation? Alright? This is from Carnival Cruise's official at Laura Palmer three. Attention Carnival Cruisers. The gift shop on Deck nine is having a flash sail on their signature crystal flower dress. Ladies, make sure to snag one before tomorrow's formal night. Those are all good. This is from Jeff Graham at Jeffrey C. Graham Taylor Swift's private plane. I make the biggest carbon footprint the Valiant Lady housing ten people challenge extensive saying, oh my god. Here's another one from Carnival Cruise's officials. Somebody he wants a pillow and I feel like she should be in the running. Laura Palmer three. Me an hour before any plans requiring non elastic pants. Unfortunately, she decided to cancel to Day's. Some things went down and she doesn't feel like she's in the right mind. Wonderful. Um uh, this is another one from jeff Graham, Jeffrey Sea Graham Rachel as the guys run towards her. You guys are always so out of breath. Covid mischievously smiles. Okay, okay, and then um here's one final one, one final one. Rebecca at Elegant Crop Top with the opening title card of Gabby and Rachel in the convertible. I still think they should drive off a cliff together. Yes, all right, narrowing it down to two, what do you think? B B B. I mean I like challenge accent, like that, Okay, I like that one, and then I like Disney Disney ploye dropped Dad. I like. Those are my two faves. Okay, so here we go. Final two. Carnival Cruise is official at Laura Palmer three. Fun fact. Every time the Batchel Wretch shows a Virgin Cruises logo, a Disney Cruises employee drops death fabulous or jeff Graham at Jeffrey C. Graham Taylor Swift's private plane. I make the biggest carbon footprint the Valiant Lady Housing ten people. Challenge accepted, Challenge accepted or Disney Cruise b B B shit. Um, I'm going to say Disney cruise. Okay, all right, Katie Levine, I'm gonna say Disney Cruise Hill. Oh my god, I was gonna say challenge accepted. And I'm proud of both of them because they were both they were both guard Carnival Cruise is official at Laura Popper three. You just wont yourself a good crowd in the week winter. Fun fact, every time the Bachelorette shows a virgin cruise is logo. I mean, this is fucking great. Disney Cruise is employed drops hilarious, It's hilarious. Um, you guys, what a dream? What would you like to promote? Brian Soffee? Um, you know, listen to Attitudes and uh ask Grana on. You can find that anywhere you get your podcasts and nine one one starts next month, so you can watch that on talk. Are you gonna make some TikTok videos of our cooking our peanut butter powder to get ourselves ready for you gotta follow us on TikTok. I'm at Adam Marine official. Brian's not on there yet. He'll be at Brian's Sofie something bien Soffie official. Sure, why not? Um? And then we'll be doing probably this fall. It'll come out no autograph please, and we'll have you back on it like sexy as hell. By the way, this, if anybody's watching, this is a fifteen dollar old navy dress. Look at you, bucks, that's a fifteen dollar old navy dress. I just got it careers for a little Compton. I can't wear this around town. I got to wear my giant like potatoes sating. By the way, you were, this is a good should this be my new profile shot? A good shot? It's a good shot, guys. I'm living my best life. I'm dirty, I'm eating peanut butter powder. I'm freeloading like Cato killin from a brother fabulous. Ryan and I are engaged for two weeks. I couldn't be happier. My mom is so happy right now because we're engaged. Because we're engaged exactly. She's like, I knew it was a phase. Yeah, you just had to meet the right suite, she said, to meet the right girl. You have to be the right girl. That's always the case. Always, you know what, I'm an ally, I'm that's an ally. That's there's so long for a little Compton. I feel I feel like I misjudged my nail situation for this town, for this town, too much attention. What are you gonna do, Katie? What would you like to promote dol as always Please go to your local shelter and adopt a foster dog and you're still full. 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