Marker 01

New England winters are a good time to lean into our favorite winter activities or get more sleep!

Author, Katherine May writes the act of wintering goes beyond the season. It can be a period of reflection and down time when life throws the worst at us.  

Before we close out the year, we listen back to my conversation with May about her book Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat in Difficult Times.

She writes we “must learn to invite the winter in. We may never choose winter, but we can choose how.” 

How are you wintering?

GUEST:
Katherine May - author of Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat in Difficult Times 

Cat Pastor contributed to this program which originally aired February 19, 2021.

New England winters are a good time to lean into our favorite winter activities or get more sleep!
Author, Katherine May writes the act of wintering goes beyond the season. It can be a period of reflection and down time when life throws the worst at us. &nbsp;
Before we close out the year, we listen back to my conversation with May about her book Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat in Difficult Times.
She writes we &ldquo;must learn to invite the winter in. We may never choose winter, but we can choose how.&rdquo;&nbsp;
How are you wintering?
GUEST:
<ul>
<li>Katherine May&nbsp;- author of&nbsp;<a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B085N3MXHZ/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&amp;btkr=1">Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat in Difficult Times&nbsp;</a></li>
</ul>
Cat Pastor contributed to this program which originally aired <a href="https://www.ctpublic.org/mental-health/2021-02-19/author-katherine-may-on-wintering-the-power-of-rest-and-retreat">February 19, 2021</a>.

Produced by Connecticut Public, 'Where We Live' puts Connecticut in context. Host Catherine Shen brings us fascinating, informed, in-depth conversations and stories beyond news headlines.  We start local, but we take time to explore domestic and international issues and consider how they impact us personally and here at home.

Produced by Connecticut Public, '<a href="https://www.ctpublic.org/show/where-we-live/about">Where We Live'</a> puts Connecticut in context. Host Catherine Shen brings us fascinating, informed, in-depth conversations and stories beyond news headlines.  We start local, but we take time to explore domestic and international issues and consider how they impact us personally and here at home.

Where We Live is a call-in talk show about who we are in Connecticut and our place in the world.

Where We Live

Produced by Connecticut Public, '<a href="https://www.ctpublic.org/show/where-we-live/about">Where We Live'</a> puts Connecticut in context. Host Catherine Shen brings us fascinating, informed, in-depth conversations and stories beyond news headlines.  We start local, but we take time to explore domestic and international issues and consider how they impact us personally and here at home.

Author Katherine May On Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat

In April, 18-year-old Rihan was mistakenly detained by U.S. Immigation and Customs Enforcement. The teen, who lives in Cheshire, Connecticut, spent two weeks in a detention facility in Plymouth, Massachusetts.

Today, Rihan is back home and just graduated from Cheshire High. 

But with his legal status in limbo what's next for a young man with a dream to attend college and an uncertain future in the U.S.?

"They have taken everything of mine," Rihan said. "My legal status and everything like that. I don't have anything now to move forward in the future."

This hour, we talk with Rihan and his father, Zia. We're using their first names only for their safety and the safety of their family in Afghanistan. We'll also speak with their immigration attorney about the tenuous road ahead for a family whose legal status hangs in the balance.

GUESTS:


Rihan: Cheshire teen detained for two weeks by Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) in April, 2026.


Zia: Rihan’s father. He served the U.S. Army as an interpreter and cultural advisor during the war in Afghanistan.


Samantha Rosenberg: Cheshire Board of Education Chair


Lauren C. Petersen: Private practice immigration attorney in New Haven, currently representing Rihan and his family. She’s Founder and Executive Director of Pavillion Immigrant Assistance in Hartford, and she’s also a co-managing attorney for the American Immigrant Legal Clinic in New Haven.

Connecticut Public's Patrick Skahill contributed to this episode. Special thanks also to Rihan's uncle Tariq, and family advocate, Dick Harvey.

Where We Live is available on Apple Podcasts,Spotify, Amazon Music, TuneIn, Listen Notes, or wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe and never miss an episode.

In April, 18-year-old Rihan was mistakenly detained by U.S. Immigation and Customs Enforcement. The teen, who lives in Cheshire, Connecticut, spent two weeks in a detention facility in Plymouth, Massachusetts.
Today, Rihan is back home and just graduated from Cheshire High.&nbsp;
But with his legal status in limbo what's next for a young man with a dream to attend college and an uncertain future in the U.S.?
"They have taken everything of mine," Rihan said. "My legal status and everything like that. I don't have anything now to move forward in the future."
This hour, we talk with Rihan and his father, Zia. We're using their first names only for their safety and the safety of their family in Afghanistan. We'll also speak with their immigration attorney about the tenuous road ahead for a family whose legal status hangs in the balance.
GUESTS:
<ul>
<li>
Rihan: Cheshire teen detained for two weeks by Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) in April, 2026.
</li>
<li>
Zia: Rihan&rsquo;s father. He served the U.S. Army as an interpreter and cultural advisor during the war in Afghanistan.
</li>
<li>
Samantha Rosenberg: Cheshire Board of Education Chair
</li>
<li>
Lauren C. Petersen: <a href="https://lcpimmigration.com/">Private practice immigration attorney</a> in New Haven, currently representing Rihan and his family. She&rsquo;s Founder and Executive Director of <a href="https://pavilionct.org/who-we-are">Pavillion Immigrant Assistance</a> in Hartford, and she&rsquo;s also a co-managing attorney for the <a href="https://cirict.org/immigration-legal-services/">American Immigrant Legal Clinic</a> in New Haven.
</li>
</ul>
Connecticut Public's Patrick Skahill contributed to this episode. Special thanks also to Rihan's uncle Tariq, and family advocate, Dick Harvey. Where We Live is available on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/where-we-live/id706066099">Apple Podcasts,</a> <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/0j08SgnZIU5BmjDyHbgjgP">Spotify</a>, <a href="https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/43f3a507-ebfa-4876-b34a-030759a8924c/where-we-live">Amazon Music</a>, <a href="https://tunein.com/podcasts/Government/Where-We-Live-p1207905/">TuneIn</a>, <a href="https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/where-we-live-connecticut-public-radio-lz9NAwSEexh/">Listen Notes,</a> or wherever you get your podcasts. Subscribe and never miss an episode.

CT student detained by ICE reflects on detention and his hopes for the future

The “sandwich generation” is made up of people balancing the demands of raising children while caring for aging loved ones.

This hour, we learn about the emotional, professional and financial realities facing this population of caregivers.

Journalist Kelli María Korducki discusses her reporting on caregiving and career sacrifice, while University of Connecticut professor Laura Mauldin offers insight into the gender dynamics of care.

And later, we hear from a Connecticut resident and member of the "sandwich generation.” We learn what it's like to navigate these responsibilities in everyday life and what policies could provide some relief.

Guests:
Kelli María Korducki: independent, New York City-based journalist and author
Laura Mauldin: associate professor in the Department of Social and Critical Inquiry at the University of Connecticut and author of "In Sickness and Health: Love Stories from the Front Line of America’s Caregiving Crisis."
Natalie Shurtleff: Associate State Director of Advocacy and Outreach for AARP Connecticut

The &ldquo;sandwich generation&rdquo; is made up of people balancing the demands of raising children while caring for aging loved ones.
This hour, we learn about the emotional, professional and financial realities facing this population of caregivers.
Journalist Kelli Mar&iacute;a Korducki discusses her reporting on caregiving and career sacrifice, while University of Connecticut professor Laura Mauldin offers insight into the gender dynamics of care.
And later, we hear from a Connecticut resident and member of the "sandwich generation.&rdquo; We learn what it's like to navigate these responsibilities in everyday life and what policies could provide some relief.
Guests:
<ul>
<li><a href="https://www.kelli-korducki.com/">Kelli Mar&iacute;a Korducki</a>:&nbsp;independent, New York City-based journalist and author</li>
<li>Laura Mauldin:&nbsp;associate professor in the Department of Social and Critical Inquiry at the University of Connecticut and author of "<a href="https://lauramauldin.com/in-sickness-and-in-health/">In Sickness and Health: Love Stories from the Front Line of America&rsquo;s Caregiving Crisis</a>."</li>
<li>Natalie Shurtleff:&nbsp;Associate State Director of Advocacy and Outreach for&nbsp;<a href="https://www.aarp.org/states/connecticut/">AARP Connecticut</a></li>
</ul>

'Sandwich generation' caregivers balance stress of being caught in the middle

Advanced degrees are increasingly out of reach for many. Receiving financial aid has gotten more difficult too.

Many schools are already rethinking how they support their graduate students.

We'll get an update on financial aid and hear what some Connecticut institutions are doing to make their graduate programming more affordable and accessible.

Guests:
Emily Roberts: Financial Educator and Owner of Personal Finance for Ph.Ds
Kymberly Pinder: Stavros Niarchos Foundation Dean of the Yale School of Art
Jessica Blake: Federal policy reporter for Inside Higher Ed, based in Washington, D.C.

Advanced degrees are increasingly out of reach for many. Receiving financial aid has gotten more difficult too.
Many schools are already rethinking how they support their graduate students.
We'll get an update on financial aid and hear what some Connecticut institutions are doing to make their graduate programming more affordable and accessible.
Guests:
<ul>
<li>Emily Roberts:&nbsp;Financial Educator and Owner of&nbsp;<a href="https://pfforphds.com/">Personal Finance for Ph.Ds</a></li>
<li><a href="https://www.art.yale.edu/kymberly-pinder">Kymberly Pinder:</a>&nbsp;Stavros Niarchos Foundation Dean of the Yale School of Art</li>
<li><a href="https://www.insidehighered.com/author/jessica-blake">Jessica Blake:</a>&nbsp;Federal policy reporter for Inside Higher Ed, based in Washington, D.C.</li>
</ul>

Author Katherine May On Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat

In 1 playlist(s)

Where We Live

Social links

Follow podcast

Recent clips