We are told that failure builds character, that it teaches resilience and it points the way forward. But in real life, failure is usually less inspiring than that. It is embarrassing, exposing and harder to learn from than the slogans would have us believe.

In this episode, Antonia and Jacqui take apart the psychology of failure: why it hurts so much, why shame so often gets there first and why our instinct is usually not to learn from failure but to defend ourselves against it. They explore the difference between failing at something and feeling like a failure, the role of identity, family scripts, gender, and social pressure.

This is a conversation about how to meet failure with curiosity and let it become information rather than identity.

We are told that failure builds character, that it teaches resilience and it points the way forward. But in real life, failure is usually less inspiring than that. It is embarrassing, exposing and harder to learn from than the slogans would have us believe.
In this episode, Antonia and Jacqui take apart the psychology of failure: why it hurts so much, why shame so often gets there first and why our instinct is usually not to learn from failure but to defend ourselves against it. They explore the difference between failing at something and feeling like a failure, the role of identity, family scripts, gender, and social pressure.
This is a conversation about how to meet failure with curiosity and let it become information rather than identity.

What Matters Most shines the light on the therapy we need in our everyday lives. Drawing from the minds of two friends, Jacqui Maguire a clinical psychologist and Antonia Prebble, an actress and presenter, we create a space for exploring everyday issues that make up the moral and cultural climate of our era. Each week Antonia will bring the topic, Jacqui will bring the therapist lens, and together they will get curious. It’s as simple as that!

Conversations between two friends that support, provide practical tools, are lighthearted at times, joyful, soulful and offer that little bit of ‘friendship mixed with therapy’ on the days that you might need it.

What Matters Most shines the light on the therapy we need in our everyday lives. Drawing from the minds of two friends, Jacqui Maguire a clinical psychologist and Antonia Prebble, an actress and presenter, we create a space for exploring everyday issues that make up the moral and cultural climate of our era. Each week Antonia will bring the topic, Jacqui will bring the therapist lens, and together they will get curious. It&rsquo;s as simple as that!
Conversations between two friends that support, provide practical tools, are lighthearted at times, joyful, soulful and offer that little bit of &lsquo;friendship mixed with therapy&rsquo; on the days that you might need it.