In this episode, Antonia and Jacqui explore the shift from the older, more clinical definition of trauma to a broader, more psychologically nuanced understanding: that trauma is not only about what happened, but about what happened inside us as a result, particularly when an experience leaves us overwhelmed, unsupported, unseen, or unable to fully process it.

They unpack the difference between distress and trauma, the distinction between big T and little t experiences, and the ways unresolved trauma can continue to shape us long after the original event has passed.

But this conversation is not only about naming trauma. It is also about recovery: the role of safety, support, remembrance, and connection, and why trauma work must be approached with care. Jacqui also walks listeners through EMDR in depth, including what it stands for, how it works, why it can sound unusual at first, and why it has become such a respected and effective treatment for trauma.

In this episode, Antonia and Jacqui explore the shift from the older, more clinical definition of trauma to a broader, more psychologically nuanced understanding: that trauma is not only about what happened, but about what happened inside us as a result, particularly when an experience leaves us overwhelmed, unsupported, unseen, or unable to fully process it.
They unpack the difference between distress and trauma, the distinction between big T and little t experiences, and the ways unresolved trauma can continue to shape us long after the original event has passed.
But this conversation is not only about naming trauma. It is also about recovery: the role of safety, support, remembrance, and connection, and why trauma work must be approached with care. Jacqui also walks listeners through EMDR in depth, including what it stands for, how it works, why it can sound unusual at first, and why it has become such a respected and effective treatment for trauma.

What Matters Most shines the light on the therapy we need in our everyday lives. Drawing from the minds of two friends, Jacqui Maguire a clinical psychologist and Antonia Prebble, an actress and presenter, we create a space for exploring everyday issues that make up the moral and cultural climate of our era. Each week Antonia will bring the topic, Jacqui will bring the therapist lens, and together they will get curious. It’s as simple as that!

Conversations between two friends that support, provide practical tools, are lighthearted at times, joyful, soulful and offer that little bit of ‘friendship mixed with therapy’ on the days that you might need it.

What Matters Most shines the light on the therapy we need in our everyday lives. Drawing from the minds of two friends, Jacqui Maguire a clinical psychologist and Antonia Prebble, an actress and presenter, we create a space for exploring everyday issues that make up the moral and cultural climate of our era. Each week Antonia will bring the topic, Jacqui will bring the therapist lens, and together they will get curious. It&rsquo;s as simple as that!
Conversations between two friends that support, provide practical tools, are lighthearted at times, joyful, soulful and offer that little bit of &lsquo;friendship mixed with therapy&rsquo; on the days that you might need it.