AJ Holiday and TamBam welcome Chantal Heide, known as “Canada’s Dating Coach” and author of No More Assholes, to We Talk Back for an unfiltered conversation about modern dating, relationship standards, and the importance of boundaries. Chantal breaks down her “corporate model” for intentional dating, encouraging women to date multiple people while avoiding kissing, sex, sleepovers, and exclusivity for at least three months. She explains the difference between “guys” and “men,” challenges questions about body count, and argues that rushing physical intimacy can make it harder to recognize red flags and walk away from unhealthy relationships.

Drawing from 20 years as a stripper, her personal dating experiences, and the journey to meeting her husband, Chantal shares why screening potential partners matters just as much as setting boundaries. The conversation explores emotional attachment, self-worth, meditation, accountability, and choosing long-term compatibility over instant chemistry. Ultimately, AJ, TamBam, and Chantal challenge listeners to rethink their dating habits, communicate expectations early, and prioritize character, consistency, and emotional maturity when looking for lasting love. 

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