I'm married. My husband is aware, and okay with me sexting men online. I disclose a general statement to him what I send, and say etc. He gets excited for me because I get excited from it. I haven't done that in a while because...well...life. I have this coworker that every time I see him, I just want him. I've tried very subtly to engage with him via text – but, either he isn't interested or, figures since I'm married I'm off limits. Sometimes we are alone at work, and I can't focus! What should I do? How do I get over him without telling him he is the sexiest man I've never seen? Help!