Sheldon Shelby shares his extraordinary journey from a typical upbringing in the Caribbean to overcoming numerous challenges on his path to joining the British Army. Sheldon reflects on his early life in Trinidad and Tobago and Grenada, discussing the impact of his parents' separation and his determination to succeed academically despite not considering himself naturally gifted. He recounts the struggles he faced when moving to the UK, including homelessness and navigating the complexities of immigration, before ultimately finding his way into the military. Throughout the conversation, Sheldon emphasises the importance of preparation, resilience, and taking ownership of one's actions, sharing valuable insights from his experiences in the Army, including his commendations for saving a civilian's life. This episode is a testament to the power of perseverance and the lessons learned from both successes and failures.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

1. Resilience and Determination: The journey from the Caribbean to the UK involved numerous challenges, including homelessness and job instability. Despite these obstacles, there was a strong commitment to not give up and to keep pushing forward towards a better future.

2. Value of Education: Although not initially seen as academically inclined, Sheldon realised the importance of formal education. Pursuing higher education and certifications, particularly in cybersecurity, became a priority to enhance his career opportunities.

3. Importance of Preparation: Preparing for life after the military was crucial for Sheldon. The approach of always having an exit strategy, akin to military training, was  a necessary mindset for transitioning to civilian life.

4. Community and Support: Building a network of supportive peers and mentors is essential. Sharing aspirations and seeking guidance from those who understand the journey can provide valuable insights and encouragement.

5. Real-Life Experiences Shape Success: Sheldon underscored that success is often accompanied by personal challenges and failures. Sharing these experiences can help others navigate their own difficulties and understand that setbacks are a part of the journey.

BEST MOMENTS

"I was always scared of failure, but I'm equally scared of not trying."

 "I believe it's very important to have something to get you in the door... to maintain it and have it successful, I do need that formal education."

"Success is a lot of challenges that a lot of people wouldn't tell you because it's personal to them."

 "It's about getting it right. And then that continued in the military, because, you know, when your knowledge is low, your anxiety is high."

"I do not want to be doing this forever... anybody tell you they want to do... send them to me. I think they're lying."

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HOST BIO

Joe O'Connor is a resilient business entrepreneur and Financial Adviser dedicated to supporting business owners and veterans in their transition to civilian life. Despite facing life-threatening challenges at a young age, Joe defied the odds and embarked on a remarkable journey. From excelling as a Combat Engineer and Physical Training Instructor in the Royal Engineers to starting his own business as a Financial Adviser, Joe has displayed unwavering determination.

After rejoining the Army as a reservist in the Bomb Disposal Unit, Joe reached the rank of Sergeant before transferring to the SAS, where he endured a severe injury and was medically discharged. Undeterred, he resumed his role as an IFA and founded a charity that aids injured veterans and their families.

Joe's charity is currently finalizing plans for a training center and 23 Lodges, aiming to provide vital support for veterans transitioning to civilian life while addressing stress, anxiety, and PTSD. Today, Joe's mission is to unite business owners and veterans, helping them unleash their full potential for success.