Why does the female orgasm still feel like one of life’s biggest mysteries—even in 2025? This week on Velvet’s Edge, Kelly is joined by board-certified sexologist and host of the Orgasmic Enlightenment podcast, Kim Anami. Known for her transformational retreats and global work around intimacy, Kim breaks down the myths, mental blocks, and cultural baggage that keep so many women from experiencing their full pleasure.

From the reasons society still struggles with good sex, to why women orgasm differently solo versus with a partner, to how menopause and aging shift intimacy—Kim shares her wealth of knowledge on reconnecting with your body and reclaiming your right to pleasure. You’ll hear practical tools for women who struggle to orgasm, advice for men who want to be better lovers, and the empowering truth that sex gets to be better at every stage of life.

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Podcast: Orgasimic Enlightenment

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Why does the female orgasm still feel like one of life&rsquo;s biggest mysteries&mdash;even in 2025? This week on Velvet&rsquo;s Edge, Kelly is joined by board-certified sexologist and host of the&nbsp;Orgasmic Enlightenment&nbsp;podcast, Kim Anami. Known for her transformational retreats and global work around intimacy, Kim breaks down the myths, mental blocks, and cultural baggage that keep so many women from experiencing their full pleasure.
From the reasons society still struggles with good sex, to why women orgasm differently solo versus with a partner, to how menopause and aging shift intimacy&mdash;Kim shares her wealth of knowledge on reconnecting with your body and reclaiming your right to pleasure. You&rsquo;ll hear practical tools for women who struggle to orgasm, advice for men who want to be better lovers, and the empowering truth that sex gets to be better at every stage of life.
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The Velvet's Edge Podcast is an invitation to explore the beautiful, messy truth that real growth is an inside job. Hosted by Kelly Henderson—a celebrity stylist and men's groomer who has learned firsthand that "looking good" on the outside only gets you so far—this podcast is a space for the conversations you don't always hear out loud.

Life has a way of knocking us flat, and Kelly believes there is purpose in that pain. She uses her own journey of plot twists to show that true beauty is found by going inward. On some days, you'll hear deep dives with therapists, healers, and other people who have turned their pain into something beautiful. On other days, Kelly and Chip Dorsch laugh their way through the weird, messy "WTF is this life?" moments, because growth is easier when you and your bestie can laugh through it together.

This podcast is for you if you've ever felt empty despite doing everything you were "supposed to" do. It's for you if you're stuck in a toxic relationship cycle and don't know how to get out. It's for you if you're in the middle of a total life plot twist and have no idea where to start. You aren't broken beyond repair. You are simply a human on a soul's journey, and even though we each have our own path, it's a lot easier when we have a little help from our friends.

The Velvet's Edge Podcast&nbsp;is an invitation to explore the beautiful, messy truth that real growth is an inside job. Hosted by&nbsp;Kelly Henderson&mdash;a celebrity stylist and men's groomer who has learned firsthand that "looking good" on the outside only gets you so far&mdash;this podcast is a space for the conversations you don't always hear out loud.
Life has a way of knocking us flat, and Kelly believes there is purpose in that pain. She uses her own journey of plot twists to show that true beauty is found by going inward. On some days, you'll hear deep dives with therapists, healers, and other people who have turned their pain into something beautiful. On other days, Kelly and Chip Dorsch&nbsp;laugh their way through the weird, messy "WTF is this life?" moments, because growth is easier when you and your bestie can laugh through it together.
This podcast is for you if you've ever felt empty despite doing everything you were "supposed to" do. It's for you if you're stuck in a toxic relationship cycle and don't know how to get out. It's for you if you're in the middle of a total life plot twist and have no idea where to start. You aren't broken beyond repair. You are simply a human on a soul's journey, and even though we each have our own path, it's a lot easier when we have a little help from our friends.

Velvet's Edge with Kelly Henderson

Unpacking the Mystery of the Female Orgasm with Kim Anami (The Velvet)

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