In this bonus we saunter into the latest unplanned segment: poo news, dredge the bottom of the dating pool to bring you more bad bios, and decide to start a book club.

Untidy is made for you – the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess we call parenthood. Follow the show and get in touch on Instagram @untidypodcast. Find Matilda at @matootles and get your copy of The Feel Good Guide. Find Hannah at @hannahedavison and her children’s books at @mybigmoments.

This Untidy bonus episode is co-produced, edited and hosted by rova. It is proudly brought to you by My Big Moments – kids’ books backed by research and Kiwi ingenuity to make your tricky job of parenting a whole lot easier.