In this episode of Untidy, Matilda and Hannah chat to passionate dad, former professional rugby player, children’s book author, and owner and founder of nationwide wellness centres, O-Studio, Tim Bateman. Tim talks about the highs, heartbreaks, and hard-earned wisdom of raising two daughters as a young parent from the baby years to boyfriends and beyond.

Tim became a dad at 19 while juggling playing professional rugby and working towards a law degree. He determinedly built a life centred around family with the intention not just to parent, but to be a good parent. Now, with his girls in their late teens, he reflects on the joy he found in the early years and the challenges of adolescence and adulthood while he navigates the art of letting go. 

Tim discusses the shock of sudden teenage transformations and parenting without a roadmap, but relying on three profound rules throughout. He shares their relationship rituals, how he’s staying relevant, and why sometimes the most powerful thing a dad can do is simply stay present, patient, consistent, and quiet, but ready with the right question if they’re open to listening!

Tim also shares openly about growing up alongside his partner, Laura, after they met at just 15. How they navigated early parenthood, big life changes, and serious health challenges. With a relationship forged in the fire of real life, he reflects on the rituals and intentional time together that have helped them stay connected over the years, and how he’s tried to model a healthy, respectful partnership to his daughters. Now, with their daughters becoming more independent, Tim talks about reclaiming time for himself and for their relationship, enjoying the space to be in each other’s company as life opens up again.

Follow @timbateman.nz on Instagram and check out @ostudio_global and find a wellness centre near you. 

Links mentioned in the show:
Check out an O-Studio Wellness Centre near you
Listen to The O-Studio Podcast on Spotify
Listen to The O-Studio Podcast on Apple
Hannah on The O-Studio Podcast: ‘Navigating the wild world of modern dating with Hannah Davison’ on The O-Studio Podcast 
Hannah on The O-Studio Podcast: ‘Separation & Co-Parenting — The honest messiness with Hannah Davison’ on The O-Studio Podcast
Check out Tim’s children’s books, ‘The Sad Banana’, and ‘The Lonely Lemon’

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In this episode of Untidy, Matilda and Hannah chat to passionate dad, former professional rugby player, children&rsquo;s book author, and owner and founder of nationwide wellness centres, O-Studio, Tim Bateman. Tim talks about the highs, heartbreaks, and hard-earned wisdom of raising two daughters as a young parent from the baby years to boyfriends and beyond.
Tim became a dad at 19 while juggling playing professional rugby and working towards a law degree. He determinedly built a life centred around family with the intention not just to parent, but to be a good parent. Now, with his girls in their late teens, he reflects on the joy he found in the early years and the challenges of adolescence and adulthood while he navigates the art of letting go.&nbsp;
Tim discusses the shock of sudden teenage transformations and parenting without a roadmap, but relying on three profound rules throughout. He shares their relationship rituals, how he&rsquo;s staying relevant, and why sometimes the most powerful thing a dad can do is simply stay present, patient, consistent, and quiet, but ready with the right question if they&rsquo;re open to listening!
Tim also shares openly about growing up alongside his partner, Laura, after they met at just 15. How they navigated early parenthood, big life changes, and serious health challenges. With a relationship forged in the fire of real life, he reflects on the rituals and intentional time together that have helped them stay connected over the years, and how he&rsquo;s tried to model a healthy, respectful partnership to his daughters. Now, with their daughters becoming more independent, Tim talks about reclaiming time for himself and for their relationship, enjoying the space to be in each other&rsquo;s company as life opens up again.
Follow <a href="https://www.instagram.com/timbateman.nz/">@timbateman.nz</a> on Instagram and check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ostudio_global/">@ostudio_global</a> and find a wellness centre near you.&nbsp;
Links mentioned in the show:
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Check out an <a href="https://www.ostudio.co.nz/">O-Studio</a> Wellness Centre near you</li>
<li aria-level="1">Listen to The O-Studio Podcast on <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/6YaqaXDW0EpKzeY857cbv3?si=f1676ef54dbe457c">Spotify</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">Listen to The O-Studio Podcast on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/the-o-studio-podcast/id1726499666">Apple</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">Hannah on The O-Studio Podcast: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/0zQSJVt6OodeNyOdni6BXz?si=1f85b1d0df734983">&lsquo;Navigating the wild world of modern dating with Hannah Davison&rsquo; on The O-Studio Podcast</a>&nbsp;</li>
<li aria-level="1">Hannah on The O-Studio Podcast: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Zb93NDcmVMfNh8rNyxynN?si=e3052fa58a894efd">&lsquo;Separation &amp; Co-Parenting &mdash; The honest messiness with Hannah Davison&rsquo; on The O-Studio Podcast</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">Check out Tim&rsquo;s children&rsquo;s books, &lsquo;<a href="https://www.paperplus.co.nz/shop/books/childrens-books/picture-books/general/sad-banana">The Sad Banana</a>&rsquo;, and &lsquo;<a href="https://www.paperplus.co.nz/shop/books/childrens-books/picture-books/general/lonely-lemon">The Lonely Lemon</a>&rsquo;</li>
</ul>
If you&rsquo;re enjoying Untidy, the best way to show your support is by tapping the &lsquo;+ follow&rsquo; button in your podcast app and subscribing on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@Untidypodcast">YouTube</a>! That way, fresh episodes will always be ready and waiting for you. Help us to keep building this supportive community &mdash; share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review &mdash; it helps more people find our Untidy, unfiltered, and relatable chats. Thank you for listening, contributing and supporting this independent production! We&rsquo;re grateful to have you here! &mdash; Hannah &amp; Matty xx
Don&rsquo;t forget! Untidy is made for YOU &mdash; the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/untidypodcast/">@untidypodcast</a> or email <a href="mailto:hello@untidypodcast.com">hello@untidypodcast.com</a>. Your stories and ideas to help shape the show! Find us online at <a href="https://www.untidypodcast.com/">Untidy podcast</a>. Find Matilda at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/matootles/">@matootles</a> and get your copy of <a href="https://www.whitcoulls.co.nz/the-feel-good-guide-6481627">The Feel Good Guide</a>. Find Hannah at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hannahedavison/">@hannahedavison</a> and her <a href="https://mybigmoments.com/">My Big Moments</a> children&rsquo;s books at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mybigmoments/">@mybigmoments</a>. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

Untidy podcast honours the person within the parent. Hosts, Matilda Green and Hannah Davison dive into the undergrowth of sex and relationships, mental health, healing, body issues, identity questions, and more with a range of guests. Connect, laugh, learn, and keep moving forward. 

Follow the show and get in touch on Instagram @untidypodcast. Follow Matilda at @matootles and Hannah’s work at My Big Moments and @mybigmoments.

Untidy podcast honours the person within the parent. Hosts, Matilda Green and Hannah Davison dive into the undergrowth of sex and relationships, mental health, healing, body issues, identity questions, and more with a range of guests. Connect, laugh, learn, and keep moving forward. Follow the show and get in touch on Instagram @untidypodcast. Follow Matilda at @matootles and Hannah’s work at My Big Moments and @mybigmoments.

Untidy

Made for you, the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess! Untidy podcast honours the person within the parent. Hosts Matilda Green and Hannah Davison dive into the undergrowth of sex and relationships, mental health, healing, body issues, identity questions, parenting, and much more with a range of incredible guests. Come along to connect, laugh, learn, and keep moving forward. 

Follow the show and get in touch on Instagram @untidypodcast, watch us on YouTube, and TikTok. Follow Matilda at @matootles, Hannah at @hannahedavison, and My Big Moments kids' books at @mybigmoments. Check out the website at Untidy podcast. Get in touch!

Made for you, the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess! Untidy podcast honours the person within the parent. Hosts Matilda Green and Hannah Davison dive into the undergrowth of sex and relationships, mental health, healing, body issues, identity questions, parenting, and much more with a range of incredible guests. Come along to connect, laugh, learn, and keep moving forward.&nbsp; Follow the show and get in touch on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/untidypodcast/">@untidypodcast</a>, watch us on&nbsp;<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@Untidypodcast">YouTube</a>, and <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@untidypodcast">TikTok</a>. Follow Matilda at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/matootles">@matootles</a>, Hannah at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hannahedavison">@hannahedavison</a>, and My Big Moments kids' books at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mybigmoments">@mybigmoments</a>. Check out the website at <a href="https://www.untidypodcast.com/">Untidy podcast</a>. Get in touch!