Growing up in a conservative South Asian household, Ajay opens up about the silent battles many young people face , questioning who they are while carrying the weight of tradition, family honor and community perception. Ajay reflects on how moving to New Zealand gave him the space to breathe, explore and express himself freely. He discusses how the cultural landscape here embraced him, allowing him to step into a form of art ,pole dancing that challenged stereotypes around masculinity within the South Asian community.

Through vulnerability, humour and honesty, this conversation breaks generational silence and creates representation where there was once invisibility. This episode embodies what our podcast stands for: creating a safe space to discuss conversations families hesitate to have, celebrating authenticity, and amplifying voices that redefine identity on their own terms.