Two teas in a pod with Teddy Melancan's and camera Judge went to the desert this weekend. Um. I love that we were both in the hold on. I guess we got to do an entrance, guys, thanks for joining us. We don't we know somebody else does the intro now, so we just get to Ellen kay. I know, thank you Ellen kay Ellen kay. Um. Yeah. So we went to the desert over the weekend. I just wasn't feeling it. I don't know what's going on for my hormones were out of wack. Usually I love going. I hated everybody. Not everybody there, but I just in that mood where you just hate everybody, you don't know anybody to talk to you, and you just want to be like isolated. I just hung out with Ava most of the time, Why Ryan and Eddie and there was a huge group of people all went riding. I didn't even ride my dirt bike, and I was like, what's wrong with you? I go, I don't know, Let's just leave me alone right now. We're in no place. I was, Yeah, I was no place to hear it be there. I don't know. Yeah, kind of I've been a lot of my friends are telling me the same thing. Have you been feeling that way, Like you're just kind of down, Like I've just been not down, like depressed, but just like no energy, no like physical, emotional, no energy whatsoever. Well, I can say this that there are a few things that I truly like want to be doing right now. Like I like to I still like to work out, like ride horses, do like the five things that I like, but anything outside of that, Like I just was right when I was waiting for you, I was doing my calendar of all the weekends that we have a way booked, and I just like texted it to my husband and I said, I need to really know are we committing to all of these things? Well that's the way I feel right now too, Like sometimes I get overwhelmed just looking at the calendar and all the things that I have to do, and it's and it's like, do I really have to do these and be in a way every single weekend? It does not work for me at all. It doesn't because yesterday I'm the same way. I mean, I had a great weekend, loved it, had the horses so much fun, and then yesterday I had lost my voice. It took four and a half hours to get home from the desert on Sunday night with a three year old, so imagine how fun that was. No, and then yesterday I was like spit. But what I've realized, which is this is how I get myself out of this guilt spiral that we do as moms. As I tell myself, like, weekends really aren't for parents. It's not like, oh, we get away and we just go and enjoy our weekends like when my damn kids are grown. Yeah, I know, but for me, I have to Mondays have to be like my mental health day because Friday, Saturday, Sunday is like them twenty four seven. You know, when my kids are little, Monday was always like, like you said, my weekend day, because it's like you're so busy when you have little kids like that all week and long and then Monday comes to your back. I like to be on schedule. I like to know, like I get up at this time, I go to the gym at this time, I do this, this time I go pick Sophia up like all that. I don't like it any other way. I'd like a schedule, I know. Anyways, Okay, wha wham, poor us, crying about poor us. But um, one of my horses is really dreamy, tam, what do you mean dreaming? Like so nice? You just like love him. I honestly am having a love affair with His name's Pete. So if you guys hear hear me talking about Pete, that's who I'm talking about. Like, I how old him? Pete? He's seven. I haven't felt this kind of connection with a horse since I was a kid, Like I just like the second I got on him at the horse show, I was like, oh my gosh, I'm obsessed with you. And then we won the big five thousand dollar class and oh good. I'm just like, so is something you're gonna be doing every weekend? Not every weekend? Because even though Dove loves going, Cruise and Bella do not. So Slate and Dove both like to go, but Cruise and Bella are like, uh, we're cool. So there's only so much. It depends where the horse shows are. If it's you don't have to commit to like so many x amount of horse shows, you just go as you please. Well, in order to kind of get into nationals, you have to do at least like twelve a year or whatever it is, and I get a certain amount of points. So it really goes on points, and if we want to go to nationals, we have to get the right amount of points. But that's what just kind of trying to figure out what works best for our family. And this weekend was fun because all of them could come be in Palm Springs. It was cold and rainy here, it was hot and nice there. But it always is like just dependent on the circumstance. But long story short, I was able to avoid the fact that I had no idea I was being pummeled on the World Wide Web when I was wikes, I don't even look at anything. You didn't get anything when I'm gone, No, like on the weekend, if I went on like, yes you do, but I get it when you're when you're busy on the weekends. Yeah, I responded to one on Twitter, But other than that, I was like, I cannot see all of these people so furious over something that's clearly a joke. What did you do now, Teddy? Well, okay, so do you care to share it with us? Yes? I guess are You're gonna just piss people off by sharing it? I mean, it's in our rundown, so I don't have a choice. But Teddy Mellencamp claims Lisa Vanderpump paid Raquel to cheat with Tom Sandoval. Teddy Mellencamp alleges that Lisa was behind the Vanderpump rules cheating scandal involving Tom Sandoval, Raquel or Rachel or whatever. Guys, I just want to point out the small hypocrisy. LVP made a joke about it being okay to attack Ranna and Kyle. I responded that it wasn't that funny to me. But then I made a joke about LVP paying Rachel to create a storyline, and again I get a tech. I'm not gonna stop having fun and voicing my opinion or doing whatever it is. But I clearly don't think that LVP threw on a bonus to Rachel slash Raquel. I was making a joke. Well, have you not learned not to comment on Lisa vaner Pump because you know, you just keep doing it, and you keep doing it and then these stories like you can't like you just but that's not who I am. If something comes up and I don't like it, or I think it's funny or whatever. I'm not gonna be on this podcast to sit there and you know, pretend that I'm not gonna have the real conversations. Maybe not report on Lisa vaner Pump. Oh, by the way, the next story is about Lisa Vanerpepp. Go ahead, No, that's yours. Stay no, no, yeah, I cannot have it. I love Dare I so happy to tell me not to report on something when you're looking at it. You, this one's you because I did the Okay, these are in the headlines of Vanner Pumps. Oh my God, Pump gets its liquor license suspended right before the Pump Rolls drama. Not good for business when at least of Banner Pump's restaurants, Pump was temporarily lost its liquor license. US Weekly can confirm, according to a recent report from the Alcohol Beverage Control ABC, which was obtained by US on Monday, March thirteenth, the West Hollywood hot Spot has had its general oh my god, howd its general eating license wait, wait, backup, sorry, which was obtained by US on Monday, March thirteenth. The West Hollywood Hotspot had its general eating license and its event permits which aren't set to expire until next month. Suspended dating I can't talk today, guys. Suspended dating back to Wednesday, March eighth. While the documents did not explain why the restaurant is under suspicion suspension, and I Witness exclusively told us on Monday that the real House Spice of Beverly Hills on Them Eatery, was not open for business on Saturday, March eleventh, noting that there was a line that read they were closed due to rain issues. Um, so they had look sounds like they had their liquor license pulled. I mean, I know firsthand running a business and all the ship you can get yourself into, but um, restaurants, they're pretty tough on them. So if you're if you're serving underage people, or your employees are drinking behind the bar, there's a lot of reasons why you can get it. All I know is there's no I don't know. I didn't realize that restaurants had letters like ratings until I came to LA So I don't know if it existed in South Carolina, but I remember the first time this was not at a Lisa vander Pump Restaurants, So quit trying to switch my words around every I don't know what they mean, though I know there's like I remember sitting there at like one of my favorite places and looking up and seeing a sea and almost wanting to die. I was like, I don't know means I never got above a sea in my life, but all of a sudden, eating somewhere with a seam? Do you know? You don't know? I don't know either, right, but I think, well, I think a bee is like any infraction, like something in the kitchen. There's certain ways you have to clean up. But here's the thing, guys, I as much as Timmer and I joke about it, I do not despise this one. I don't care. You actually hung out with her last time we went, But I am going to make jokes. I am going to talk about what restaurant did we go to that we saw her? Was that pomp? No? We were you know, we were at um not Schwartz and Sandies. What we were at Tom Tom? Oh, that's where we were. I can't I get them all. I wish everybody the best. And do I think that us talking about us talking about vander Pump rules on the pod shows how little. I am holding resentment towards her because the more, regardless of how much people hate me or not, the more we talk about it, the more people are peaked interest. Because I know how many downloads we got our podcast talking about it. It's a lot. So now you're just saying, now you're just being arrogant. Well, you know what, I can't help that. I Oh. The next thing was that I called myself a fan favorite or something. Everyone's flipping out about that. Oh, I did actually stumble across an internet I mean a Instagram post where they had gnats running around your head or bugs or something. Yeah, it was because Purcell called me a nat. Okay, so guys, it's in chest. I can't help that I won Rookie of the Year and then became the most hated the second. I can't help it. Did I even win? I don't even think I won. I may have just been coming. I didn't even know there was like a Rookie of the Year. And I'll sorry about your luck. The internet didn't exist when you started. Oh I did win. I want a Rookie of the Year, so go kick Rock's mother. Ever, um, there's one thing that you we were not invited to what that was? The damn oscars? I was invited to that in John party? You were why don't you go? Because it was a four and a half hour drive back from the desert and I had no voice. Well, my best friend throws that party. That's why I knew all about the Like one of my I'm one of my best seas that I ride with actually throws it. Okay, So is that the party that m File and her sister and Dewet and everybody were at. They were at Diana's table. Correct? Okay, so Diana invited that group. I don't. I mean, I'm I've got invited without ever being at a table before. So I don't know for sure, but they would one expect at the Elton John party, what happens? What goes down? Okay? So you go there? Um, well, there's two different portions you enter the Elton John party. That's where like the huge red carpet is. The two big parties are the Elton John in the Vanity Fair. Now where do these go on? Is this? That's what Elton John is at, Like across the street from the Pacific Design Center. They turn a park into like a huge you would have no idea. You're inside get with tense ten. Yeah, but it's ginormous, like it takes her weeks to put it on. You go in, Um, you do the red carpet. If you're invited to the viewing, which is a bigger invite, or you've got a table for the viewing part, then you go in. When you say viewing, does that mean they watch it live from you watch it live and during commercial breaks there's like a comedian or you know. Okay, So I see a picture of Kyle and Lisa Renna and um, Diana, is this at the actual oscars or is this at view This is all at Elton John party. Oh my gosh, see I never even knew that. Okay, so these are at the Elton John party. But I need you to scroll in. I need to text Renna and make fun of her a little bit. Please scroll a little bit. Look at her fingertips. Open it. Look they are I know, I saw, how does one eat? It's like Kevin Bugle on your fingertips. And by the way, bugles don't. I thought that I could just do this, but they don't really have that pig of the opening. I know. It's actually really hard to get a bugle entreer nail. I have a new look on my her my interview Thursday. If you have a should you do the marasol or um? Um? I would do the Marasol. I personally, UM, don't understand Lisa's dress at all. But I know what do you mean? You don't understand this the outside of an outfit. I want to see the back because how is it attached? It's like a suit, but it's just not on her arm. It's weird. It's very weird. It's very different. She well, it's Jean Paul Gauthier, I think. Is how you pronounce it? No idea? Really yea? Um, but she's like done to the nines and then derit's the most casual I've ever hear in my life. Like she she is? She is in Chanel. Oh that's a Chanelle dress. Um. Yeah. Well she had a big Chanelle bow in the back of her hair as well. Um. Very understated. For maybe she tried this looks like a different but I feel like she's maybe changing her look a little bit. Maybe because in this picture her hair is brown, the makeup's very minimal. She looks very pretty, but you know, Jurie's always so over the top with her. Yeah, that's what I'm saying to me. Dret looks the best, Like with no makeup on, she looks stunning. She is one of those people that she wakes up and her eyes whatever she does. I mean, it's not like me where I just I woke up on the cz cream. I woke up and cut three inches off my hair because yes, I couldn't take it. My extensions I have in are falling out. My hair is a disaster and it's just stringy. So I just took the scissors, parted it down the back and just chop chop. Crystal was there too, but it doesn't peer that she was at this I don't know, she's not at this picture. She's not at that table probably, or maybe it's the other side. Maybe she took the picture. But she looks pretty in that hot pink. That's a good color on her um. And then our girl Lisa Vanderpump, she was there with Kevin Lee. Kevin Lee's the party planner that always does the fancy cakes. Garcelle went with Brian Allen's. Now would Lisa Vanderpump sit at the table? I'm gonna say no, no, die. I don't imagine she was at them John party. I don't see Oh, I think Lisa was actually at the Oscars. She's like, take that, bitches, I'm actually at the Oscars. She's actually, you know what those award shows that are a little bit of a doozy? Um? Can we talk a little bit offended by the Hugh Grant of it all? Do you know I still haven't listened to it. I know you texted to me. If I haven't listened to it yet, I would happened what did you do? Um? So essentially it was a little bit. I mean, if it was Pek, he'd be like it was the British humor. But essentially Ashley Graham asked him questions, but clearly she wasn't like one hundred percent prepped. Yeah, She's like, who what are you most excited to see? As if they were like gonna go watch movies or something, And then he answered it kind of rude, and then he she said something along the lines of like who are you wearing? And he's like a suit? You know, Like he was like short. I don't know if he was trying to be funny, but that kind of took over the You know, she asked about glass onion and he was in that movie for three seconds, so I think that may have like triggered him, and she may have just like cut her losses at that point when she saw he had rased. But ariett making a big deal about this, like it's everywhere everywhere. That being said, I don't know if he's an asshole or not. I still think Hugh Grant's kind of hot. Hugh Grant's hot. You don't think he's hot. Hugh Grant, Yeah, not not so much. I like my mine in dark well, yeah, that's dark, dark skin. That's the that's the type of guy that I am attracted to. Like well, I know, but I don't think. I don't. I don't know. I don't mind him a little bit. You are okay? Um. The next headline is Drew's husband denies committing adultery getting physically aggressive with Real Real Housewife with Atlantis star Real House with Atlanta star Drew. The Strange husband, Ralph has fired back in court at her claims he cheated on her radar online. Oh if it's on radar, it must be true, right, has learned, According to court documents obtained by Rader Online. Ralph filed a response to Drew's petition for divorce. Ralph has told the court he did not cheat on Drew. He said he hopes to resolve the divorce in amical fashion and work to preserve the sant santity. It was that mean sy like keep it keep it private, Yeah, as the party's private lives. Yeah, for the rafty night he became physically aggressive with True last month. He then filed a counterclaim for the divorce against True. He requested join custody of their two minor children. He said the marriage was irrectiable, broken, broken, and no hope for reconciliation. He is original petition. Okay, so he's just you know, anybody can say anything in their court papers. Yeah, you could say whatever, my ex did that to me. Here's the thing, guys, if you don't want it to end badly, maybe just break up with the person before you go for it, you know, with somebody else like you. This is obviously it's going to be a messy divorce at this guy. I just wish, honestly, the court system was different, and that doesn't I know, it's doesn't make any sense to me, Why does this have to be public knowledge? Why do you have to go there? Try to not saying she's doing this. A lot of people try to tarnish the other person's image, say horrible things, some of the true maybe not true. Who knows? You can say what you want? Hold on the big part, tam what Ralph asked the court to kick Drew out of second? They shared a judge as the actual Okay, you can't say you want to do this amicably aliby a clipby a Big Words day for us Tuesdays a day for Big Words, Oh my god, and then irretrievable broken. Yeah, it's refu truly broken. Okay. The next thing is Andy clarifies on Radio Andy Claire Wednesdays. I think I said clarifies, claireflies, clariflies. I can't help it show anything for the pod. Want to miss a day? Um, Andy, that Wednesday's Banner Pup Rules episode is not recut. You're going to think it was recut. Okay, it was not recut. This was the episode. I watched that episode that was sent to me weeks ago. People are going to think that we did this or move stuff up. The conversations going on between Katie, Lala, Kent and Raquel are not to be believed in light of what came out. Okay, so it's not edited. Okay, it's not edited. Great, I can't wait. No, we're not okay, our predishers are? Are you okay today? No? We are not. We're well. Well. I had to take sinus medicine today because I wasn't do you have sinus issues? I don't know. I obviously have some sort of issues. I can't talk well. I had that sinus procedure, the balloon procedure, and it helped, but I didn't go up into like behind my eyes to do it. And now like everything's like built up and now I have to probably go back. Why do we have a case of the mondays on a Tuesday? Oh wait, today's not Monday. That's how my week's going. Okay. I like stubbed my toe, rip my toel off, hit my elbow twice a day, drop my daughter's sandwich on the ground when I'm making it. I'm like, this is at not being a peanut butter and jelly. No, it was a turkey sandwich. That's fine. At least it didn't go anyways. But okay, so back to the banter pep rules. Like I watched the first four episodes. I don't normally watch that show. Now I'm dying to see what are we on? Five? Or six? Five? Okay, so that is? Oh, so I'm missing one. Oh geez, I gotta go back and watch five. And then six is Wednesday tomorrow? Yeah, can't wait. Six is tomorrow. We'll keep going. We'll see if there's anything else I did. Did you see that Lala had a bus driving around with you know, send it to Darryl. I was starting to think, like, should we get a Twat's bus and just drive it around ourselves. Let's just talk about that for a minute. How does that happen? And how does that happen so quickly? Like she just said that it just went viral like less than a week ago. And now she's got like big giant you haul trucks, but they're all lit up with the logo on it. What it is so you can get things wrapped? Give it what it said, send it to Daryl Syl. Yeah, an you can get anything wrapped. Any car you can get wrapped, like my husband's all of his like business cars, I'll say, like Skyland but it doesn't look like it was wrapped. It looks like it's digital. Oh from the pictures, maybe not. I don't know. I think that it was like a light up. But if it was digital, one would think that's going to be even easy. You're easier probably, but but but who knows. Um. Wow, Well, we have some fan questions about a little break, and we'll come back and talk about fan questions now that we're back. We forgot one other thing before we get into fan questions. Did you see the video that Mary is filming with I'm actually looking at it right now. You can see it. Angie is our andree on there, Yes, so it yes, it's all the girls. Um, Angie, there's an angel, there's a new girl there, and then Mary and it says that right now the Royal House was of Salt Lake City. They're filming season four in Palm Springs. They get all the good trips San Diego, Palm Springs. I could drive to both of them an out and a half. Oh God, I guess who. I'm a little bit confused. Mary's coming in as Meredith friend. Well, I mean she's she knows all of them. I think it's Heather Whitney, Angie k Mary and Newbie Monica and m is it a well you have to have an m name? What the heck? Mary, Monica and all attendance? Um? Wow, you could have run into them if you would have stayed bomber. Wow. I'm just gonna have to get their first cast trip and Mary Cosby is back. I'm excited. You said you're not sure. If you're excited, I need one Okay, A couple of things I need to know. Is meredithy gonna be in another new house this season? Um? Are we just zipping in for filming? And then I want Mary to actually connect with somebody on the cast. I do think she does really amazing confessionals. She's funny, but like I want to feel a friendship somewhere, right, But I feel like she she was friends with some of them before, but I just love her. She's like comic relief, all right. The first fan Yeah, Tamra Judge Tambra Judge Eyes asked, by the way, thank you for doing all those great videos with about me? Tambra Judge Eyes videos about me? I love them? Cute. What were your honest thoughts of each other before meeting? What's the biggest issue you've argued about. It's a two parter, honest thoughts. I will take it back to when I found out Teddy was joining Beverly Hills, and I was, you know, they were focusing on the fitness girl, and I'm like, hell no, really, they're gonna damn you brother, You're gonna bring on another fitness girl, Like, no, I want to be the fitness girls. Right around the time, I think I was doing my fitness competition and all that. So, but then I watched a show obviously loved her, and then we ran into each other at church and it was love at first sight. Love at first sight for me, church was passing like we were. It was quick like I had all my kids with me, You had your daughter, we're all running and your mom. We were all kind of running in so I didn't have much of a We both texted Andy at the same time like look we're together, Bob. Yeah. We took a picture and then we kept touch and then the baby. The night that I knew like you were gonna be so much fun and like one of those like friends that I would want to continue hanging out with was the night of Andy's baby. Baby shower. Oh gosh, that was fun. That was the first time texted back and forth. Wait, we exchanged numbers and then we got fired at the same time, So it was you know, the forces were pushing us together, that's for sure. And then our husbands had to sit there through multiple dinners of us like trying to get our lives back together. What's the biggest issue we've argued about. We're not big arguers amongst each other. Maybe the fact that Teddy likes pissing people off offcasts. I think that you are addicted to negative press. I think that Tamera. Our biggest issue is that Tamera is so funny and chill and laid back and like so easy going, but if one thing above her, she will harp on it till the freaking end of time. I'm like, I know we've covered that. I indeed four thousand times. I don't know what else to tell you. I'm sorry. Are you saying I don't let things go your lads like beating a dead horse, But I've already been dead, rolled into the street, moved to a new location. Oh and then I'm an is er outer, Like I just don't pick up my phone or don't talk, and Teddy's a talker, like she always wants to talk things through, and I talk when I want to talk, and she'll be like, text me, are you mad? Are you mad? She'll call me this time. I didn't even do it. I let her be we had but I wasn't mad. I wish it wasn't mad. But she brought up the same thing again. And because I'm trying to keep somebody on my side right now for reasons, we can't talk about it was like either way, I was like, I'm not going to force her to talk to me about it, but now we're fucking I wouldn't have talked about it anyways, but okay, go ahead hit the other one. R Marie s three. Wow. Why do people such if you could their name both go back and change one thing, an argument, something you said or didn't say on any season you were on. What would it be? Oh? God? Argued um if I were to any season, I don't know through you got to throw something at me. I can't remember. I barely remember what I had for breakfast this morning. I could go back and change one thing. I guess that I probably would have been just more in general, like I'm pretty reaction reactionary ary, reactionary. I'm pretty reactionary and realized impulsion. I wasn't very reactionary. No, you were two in your head. What about I don't know. Maybe the bathtip scene shouldn't done that. Maybe you should have thrown wine in someone's face. There's a lot of things I shouldn't have done, but those are all iconic moments, favorite fan favorite, icon legend, legend queen. Yes, yes, yes. What the biggest casting mistake that production has made across to all franchises. Well, we've had a lot on our show, a lot. I've had a lot of one season wonders. So I mean taken all the way back to the quinn Um, to the Lydia. I mean they actually brought her back and then got rid of her. Um, the hundredth housewife. That was a doozy um. Can't I remember her name? Peggy? That was it. There was a lot of casting mistakes, and they continue to go on. I mean I think they happened. I think that's why they're probably taking their time right now to cast the next housewife on Beverly Hills. Yeah, because you hear whenever any of those girls are saying I pressed, They're like, yeah, it's the six of us now, but don't don't you know? Things could change. So I feel like there's someone in the worst and hopefully that's someone is juicy. Um who okay? Ben fifty seven one to eight nine, ass which housewife pastor present based on your own experience a slash what you've heard from other housewives, that's the biggest reputation within the entire franchise for being most likely to throw anybody under the bus to either remain on the show or return to the show. Um. I don't really think I have an answer for that. I think that if you every franchise has like a you know, a natural born shitster, well, I think yeah, for sure. But I who would you say? As the Jersey, I would say that Jen and Margaret both would probably throw anybody under the bus. Well, I think those are strong words saying throw anybody. That means you throw your own friend under the bus. And I don't I don't see that a lot. I see that people will do things on the show to try to keep their job, and if that means throwing your friend under the bust, I guess I don't. I don't know. I don't really know of one. Yeah, yeah, camera, I don't really Do you give me a name? I just gave you from No, well that's from Jersey. How about your cast? Somebody that would be willing to throw anybody under the bus? Um? I think that if I was on, if I were to guess from your show, I think it's different. Are we going to say confessional or in person? I think in a confessional. I think Emily gives really good confessionals, and I think she'd be willing to throw shade at anybody. She's a good shade thrower. I'm a good shade thrower, that's for sure. I'm not going to throw my own. I mean this is a This is a show about throwing shade at everybody I think talk about I think we're all possible. Yeah. I think that's why you're hired in general. Yeah. If you're not willing to do that, then you need to sit on the bench. Get out. Oh this is a good question and you have to answer it. Wait which one? Okay? Pop culture? Um, do you agree with Jill's there and that all the New York ladies deserve equal pay for legacy? I think it should have been based on how many years you were on originally and then gone. It's really difficult because this is a brand new show, and I don't know how it's based. Is it a six episode show? Is it you know? Is it gonna be the same girls every season? Like, there's a lot that goes into it. Jill has not been on TV for a very long time. She was dressed on Girls True that consistently, Like she hasn't been on Housewife show. She hasn't been on the Real Housewives of New York for ten years. Maybe I don't even know. It's been a really long time. So these other girls that have been on longer, leg I can kind of see, Like it depends on but we can put it and then regardless about legacy or it's not like you're coming back to like when you came back to OC or any of those things. Girls Trip is a news show. Legacy would be a news show. Girls Trip, well, that's a the same, right, Yes, So I would say if they're starting a brand new show, they should all get paid the same. I agree to, but I also think some people are going to fight harder if they've been on TV consistently. But you know what I will say, about Jill. I do like that, she said in a recent interview. I give her a lot of props to this listen. I feel like I should be paid the same, and if I'm not, then I just won't do it. And she didn't sound like she was doing it for a like a negotiation tactic. She wasn't doing it to try to get problems attention. I think she's just like she's been off TV for except for a girls trip, for ten years. If I don't get paid the same, I'm not coming back. So I respect her. Yeah, I get it is what it is, um, But and then again, I don't know what they're paid, what they were offered. Was it something drastically different, like I'm gonna give you two thousand, I'm gonna give you two hundred. Then I'd be like a piece out. And there are some shows that I have done that you go in and they tell you everybody's getting paid exactly the same options. When I started the show with your favorite nations, we all got the same Yeah, and you just go in and then you all get not like that anymore. It is not like that anymore. But there are new shows that you know, I just got an offer one where I knew everybody was getting paid the same. Um. The next one is Tarma. I've heard you mentioned more than once about a certain wives who don't treat production? Well, can you tell us the ones that don't. I'm not going to name somebody, but I will say that we have one on our cast right now that does not treat production well. Is it the one that we would assume by what we watched the season you weren't on. Yes, okay, great, moving on. Oh my gosh, this is the best name ever. Look at this person. Tat Twats Tat Twats. I love that. Um, you've got to ask this one. It's your turn, Teddy. We know how you feel about going on as a guest on your OG franchise, but would you ever consider being a guest on rhoc as a friend of Tarras? I'd pay to see you and Vicki in a scene. No, I wouldn't just show up to like a party or something. But if it was like Tamra's birthday trip or something major. What if what if you got like a friend role? I don't know. I wouldn't do a drop in friend role. It would need to be like a consistent salary. I'm not I'm not a drop in. I've learned what the drop in feels like, and it don't feel good and I don't ever want to do a drop in again. Yeah you want, you want a contract, I would be I would be fine with being like a Marisol On potentially, But honestly, you don't know if Marisol she films just as much as the other housewives. That's my point that that's different than you know, she just doesn't have to show her family life. But we have seen her husband oh yeah, a couple of times. So now, um, Tamra does the podcast exist in the reality of RHOC season seventeen, wondering if it gets to be at least acknowledge, if not, part of your story. It sort of breaks the fourth wall but doesn't really. Um. Well, at first, I didn't think the podcast was going to be on the show. Um. I did push to possibly film some stuff with Teddy and it never really happened for whatever reason. Do are we mentioned? I do think that we will get mentioned because thank you Teddy. Yes, yes, thank you Teddy. Every couple of weeks I get the same ramp, screenshot it and send it back. No, I oh, yeah. Well the problem is it was taken out of context too, so there was like, yeah, yeah, it's all a show. Hawaii Sunset eighty seven asked Teddy when recapping Real Housewives Are Orange County. We'll be able to call out Tamera if and when things get messy. I think I call it Tamra. Now I think she calls me out, Yeah, and I would expect her to. And I do get messy, I get really messy. Yeah, I mean, I think I think the point of this show that we're that we do, this podcast that we do, is to talk about whatever our feelings are. And there may be time so you guys listen and I see a different side of whatever Tamra's doing that I'm going to agree with her on because I love her and know her personally. That's what you have to also realize that, like sometimes you guys may look at something as a bias because of friendship, but yes, when you know a certain side of somebody, you know their heart, you're going to give them the benefit of the doubt more than when somebody's been an asshole to you, well being a as in an asshole most of the time, I do know, but well, both both of us. Yeah, but I do look at other shows and I'm like, you know what, Like with Jennifer Aiden, I feel like she does come off very strong and they show, you know, her coming off like that. But I have a soft spot because I'm like, she probably not like that. I met her at Raba. Pancho isn't anything like that. We joked around about the bathtub scene and all that she thought, you know, the one she thought I was mad about, which I'm not um and I'm like, you just don't know, Yeah, you're not. You don't really don't know. It's like idolizing a star forever, like Eddie idolized Lance Armstrong forever and then he actually then he actually met him, and then he was he was douche lord, he said. He true. He was so rude to everybody. Yes, so he wasn't rude to me when I met him. You probably dated him, did you know how I did? Just kidding you guys, don't come at me. I don't think I'm sure, ol Crow. Okay, do you know there was a housewife that dated Lance who Carrie Douber. Oh, yeah, I remember that she dated By the way, Carrie wants to come on the pod. Oh yeah, she should come on the pod. She had her yoga picks. I'm every single sanity see her doing it. I'm like, I can really have my toes in my yoga class. Well, I'm not limber at all. Teddy, do you wish you had a chance to explain the all in Drama and Housewives? Um? I actually did explain it because that was the year I went in and did the drop in and I talked about it. Um. I have nothing to hide there. There's no like shame going about it, and they never showed it. Um. I think when there isn't anything to hide regarding a drama, then they don't show it. They know, like I came told all my entire piece of it and it was like oh and all the women were like makes sense, got it? Like Ran fought me on it. It wasn't something that I think bringing your business onto the show can either backfire in your face or work for you. Um. I know when we had cut Fitness, there was a lot of talk like Vicky had said, well, my office is a cross street. I don't see anybody over there. Well okay, then then it gets like negative shit in the press about it and that's not good for your business. Yeah, you know, we survived ten years. I think we did something right, but it's it's difficult and like um Vina CBD, Like I didn't have it. I filmed a lot my last season, but they didn't show any of it. And we're doing amazing, So I just want sometimes it's just the platform that you not necessarily shows aren't made to like promote our businesses now, um, so all we can really do is share our lives and then what the parts that they want to show they're going to show and the parts they don't, you know. The koto cuff Queen asked, does camera Field that the show's show has become more or less authentic over time? Does she feel there's marked difference between the early seasons versus now. Um, I'm not going to say less authentic now. I think that the times have changed and reality TV has changed in a hole. When we started the show, like I came in third season, it was just about documenting your life. It was about going to lunch and seeing your kids, and there wasn't a whole lot of drama I think until I came in. And also the looks and everything have changed too. Everything has changed, everything is elevated, and just like anything, once you start out, you know, just look at everybody, even girls that start their first season now and you see him three years later, you're like, oh my god, they've changed their clothes, they changed you know, their hair, they change everything. Yeah, So I don't I just think it's different. I think the times are different. The show has been on for seventeen years now, so thanks change, Thanks change. And I think what people are watching are changing and constantly and what people you know, yeah, what people want is changed, Like people want that drama reality TV. And if they don't want drama, but they if they don't have it, they're furious and blah blah blah. I know. It's like, okay, you know you can fight with these people all day long. It's like, well, that's not really how you act in Orange County or whatever. Okay, Well, there's a lot of things you don't see. You don't see me folding clothes. You don't see me, you know, cleaning toilets. You don't see me doing those things. And if you did, you wouldn't tune in. Well, speaking of tuning in, we did tune into the Real Housewives of New Jersey Anymo. Some of these women could truthfully be on Real Housewives of Orange County, but not not because of the way they act, but because they're actually Orange. Why is everybody orange and Jersey. Yes, they're very into their spray tan, very very very tan. And at this point it's taking it to the next level. But it's just a little break. We'll come back talk about Jersey. There's a lot of therapy this episode, a lot of therapy. Okay, so we are back to talk about My first question is why does it look like Teresa's having therapy in a waiting room? Well, and I will say the same about Bill and Jennifer with us that was like in a hoarder's paradise. That was very strange. But I will say, um, I did relate to Lauris this very first in the very opening, when Polly tells her she's Wattles when she walks. Now, when I was in high school, there was a song that was made Tammy Wattle Wattles when she walks, because my last name is Wattle. So I'm like, hey, that sounds familiar. Yes, Well, you know, Rachel sent me a message about what Rachel um from Jersey let's see. I guess, so what I'm seeing tonight? Are you seeing Jen Fessler? I am. I'm gonna go see Jen Fessler. Taylor Armstrong ran into her two nights ago, so she's gonna go as well. And then Emily Simpson's gonna come by a little bit later, so have a drink at her hotel. Well, I'm going to need all the details, and I want to know if you were supposed to do I know, but I'm like, oh my death bed here, I'm like sipping lemon water, trying to get my life together. But in the meantime, Rachel Foda sit a message, Teddy. I just listened to your podcast with Melissa and I was dying laughing when you were talking about my walk. It was the first thing I said to my husband when I watched the episode, l ol, and I said, I think people are just jealous of how graceful we are. We're dainty little flowers. I know. Well, hell, I'm the one that was talking about the walk. I pointed that out. Brownie points there, okay, and then she wrote, I agree, so delicate and feminine. But either way that we've confirmed she's coming on the pod now, so all you have to do to really connect with one another is have a terrible and Rachel, I need to know who makes those jeans? Are they Frankie b So? Why are they below your hip bones? Maybe she's long, has a long torso unlike usum non, we have short tersos. I want a torso extension? Do they do those? Um? Okay? I need a bugle to get myself through this. Okay. The next thing, they're so j Aiden donating clothes and garbage bags. I was like, she's just like us. I do the same thing. Oh, I do too. I have a ton of them and my square padroom is filled with get rid of it before it looks like jin Aiden's therapist. Teresa goes to therapy where she's learning to work on her delivery and how to approach things differently. Teresa talks about how she didn't grow up with her cousins and didn't want that to happen to her kids. She also says her brother's temper scares her and triggers her since her dad had a temper um. She did give Gluie credit for helping her with her outburst. The therapist said that that Louie is very calming for her. But I'm all for self improvement, just not with my housewives. I don't want my housewives to improve themselves. I want I love Teresa the way she is. I like Teresa flipping tables and throwing drinks. I'm sorry, she's entertaining. Please Teresa, don't stop flipping tables. She's not going to But all we're gonna see is this continuation of this. Remember when she was all about the namast day. Yeah, everybody goes through different seasons. So this season is all about controlling the temper, and then we're going to see My guess is we're going to continue to see her brother's temper, so that we're going to see the parallel. But that being said, I think they're both hot headed. Well, me and my brother are hot headed. Me and my brother are both hot headed and grew up hot headed. I mean we used to live together. My parents had a rental house and we were in our twenties. Maybe he's three years time into May and he got mad at me one day and he had a big, giant slurpie red cherry and got mad at me and chucked it miss me, but slattered the wall, went all over the carpet and that stuff stains, So I'm used to that. No growing up, That's how I was. Me and my sister will be passive aggressive until the day we die. I just recently told her that she hurt my feelings over Thanksgiving. Oh my goodness, well Thanksgiving, I mean I hurt my brother's wife's feelings ever Thanksgivings. Well, my sister. I was trying to help her, and she was sick and she wanted to go home from my grandpa's, but she was not wanting to make my brother leave yet, and so I said, why don't you just take HUD's car, And then she snapped at me. But she snapped at me in front of everybody, like our entire family. And this is how bad it was, Like she didn't even know she snapped at me. Show me how she snapped at you. What did she? She said, you don't need to try to help me right now. I've got this. And I was like, and did you say anything back? No? Nothing, No, I look nothing like it doesn't look like you got it. Figure it out. I looked at me justice, and I said, but don't tell me you started crying. No. I looked at him, and I go what do I do? Do I cry or do I yell back? And he goes just silence, and I was like, oh, hell no. So then later that night she was like teddy like once we were all home and her kids were to sleep, and she was like, should we have a glass of wine? And I was I'm tired, okay, So keeping all that in the one thing I will say for me, like, if I'm mad, it will definitely let it out. But when you keep it all in like that, but then, just so you know, you still hurt my feelings. And we were at Thanksgiving, She's like she had no idea what happened, and I'm like, oh, my eye holding onto it. And she was like, I'm so sad that you said that. Could we make a new plan. I was like, I'm making new plans. I love you, but oh jeez, you gotta let things out because then they breathe and they make you upset to your stomach and all that stuff. Everything fustors. And well, next, speaking of things that are festering inside, I need to know if Dolores dad chooses the size of coke that he brings to all events or this is just something I didn't notice are you kidding me? He walked in with a two leader of coke really didn't notice. Oh my god, I'll have to go. That reminds me of my family, like bringing the two leaders of like, um, we are no soda family. Oh see. Our Indiana beverage of choice though, is called Big Red. So everybody, that sounds horrible. It sounds like sounds like chemicals, It tastes like chemicals, but it's so good. She just had this conversation without the ear this morning. She's like, do you have any iced tea? And I'm like, no, I don't. I got you drink iced tea? She goes only water, iced tea, no soda allowed, and I said, oh good. Something rubbed off on Ryan. Um. Then this the next I need to talk about it is when Jennifer tells Bill that Mark Margaret called her a disheveled drug addict, and she calls Margaret an albino with a wig. That's gonna go over well on the blogs, really well. Really says all she does is smoke marijuana at night when her kids are asleep. My question is who spokes marijuana these days anymore? When there's been a CBD. Right, Well, I know, and we have THHC obviously, but I'm not a smoker. I don't. I know it's different, it affects you differently, But how does it affect it? Because I need to understand. I don't smoke just because I don't want to put like that into my lungs. But you know, like we have gummies that get you excited, we have gummies that put you to sleep with THHC and it. We have gummies that we'll just mellow you out. Pretty soon, We're gonna have seltzers it instead of drinking alcohol, you can drink you know, two or three seltzers at an event or social event or whatever. I don't know. I mean people do smoke it, but I'll send you some. The last time I actually smoked pot. And I've read about this on the blogs. Me in high school the way that I was, but I there was this one guy's house. He was the cool guy growing up, and he on Friday nights would have a list of people that could attend his parties. And I remember being crade and being so excited that my name was on the list this time, and I like, you would have to walk up and actually you have to pay no, but no two dollars for boone's farm. You'd probably have to give it to chef and then she would go get your Boone's farm because he looked the oldest. So we would go in and I remember, I think his name was Dave, so frightening that I just remembered it, but it was my very my one and only actual smoking pot time was out of a water bong. And oh yeah, that was very big. What is it like, late eighties nineties? Yeah, And I just remember being like so proud that I got into the party. There's a big water bong, everyone surrounding it. We're all listening to music, pretending like we like widespread Panic and fish and all this kind of shit, wearing our burken stalks. I do the water bong. I throw up everywhere within two Guess whose name wasn't on the list? The next Friday, yours we had. I had a cousin that lived with us when I was in high school, and he was a huge pothead. We found out he was growing pot in the closet and in his bedroom, and one day he got me stone in high school and we went to stayder Brothers to pick up some stuff and I had Stay Brothers Art, Yeah, stayder Brothers. Like you know, it's like a grocery store Alphabeta remember Alphabeta, No, you probably don't. Anyways, I had a huge thing of like spaghetti sauce, dropped it in the aisle, laughing, doubled over, laughing. I'm like, this is not for me. But let's get back to Jennifer and Bill um now she called, but she also called Dolores a mute, So I'm I'm gonna believe these are not gonna go over well. People are gonna get pissed off about this. She's gonna hear about that, and Jennifer there's nothing wrong poll THC. I'm fine with. But then Jennifer tells Bill not to be nice to Margaret, and it's like they're they're both like people are like do you blame? Who do you blame? I'm like, they're they're both. They're both going at each other like crazy, They're they're really kind of both to blame, and they're both throwing like not even rocks each other, throwing boulders at each other with the things they're saying. Well, then we continue on to where Melissa says Louie is charming but manipulative, which is kind of what she said when she was on here that it's obvious that Louie told Teresa to make good with Margaret so she'll still stop talking poorly about them. Melissa knows Teresa can't stand Margaret and Melissa and Joe, and she is not rolling with the fake parade. That's not going to go over well either. No, and I feel like Melissa's being more vocal this season than she ever has been because I feel like she feels like it's done, even though she's continuing and I and I believe her when she says she doesn't want it to be done for the sake of all of their kids. But I think at some point in every relationship you just get to the point where're like it's just done. Right, Um, I will applaud Raquel, Raquel, Rachel. What's her name, Rachel? We're on Housewives, not Vanderbund Rules. What Rachel? Her name's Rachel? Right, there's too many things going on right now in the press with Rachel's Roquel's um telling Melissa that Teresa is warning her about Margaret. That was a great newbie move getting in the mix, sturing that pot throw on that shit getting people pissed off. So I have to applaud her for that. The newbie is fitting in very well. All of them, the newbies are doing well. I do feel like there should be a warning like where they say, like we interrupt the usual Housewives programming for a charity softball game where you will where everybody will get along and enjoy woman another oay, all for a charity event. But every time I watched it, I feel like I just watched this last season right now my season, well, you know, and the one thing Dolores is talking about Polly that he wasn't there because his heart is short circuiting and he's going in procedure, which only made me believe that he has a FIP, just like Eddie did, because that's kind of what happens your heart and they go in and blade it. So I hope he's okay. I do really like the relationship. I thought this episode was a little a little bit of a filler, but my biggest gegaway truthfully, and we can all talk about our marriages here, and I can say this, this is kind of the rule that I've said to Edwin Monday through Friday. I'm not going to give you hell about your timing, like if you're a little bit late, if you have this, if you have that. But like the weekends are me and the kids. So when she when jen Aiden says that Bill goes to the poolhouse for three hours every day after work, I am curious on that, like like, like, well, what is he doing? Well, it's not working. It sounds like he's checked out, is what it sounds like. Because like I personally, but I'm I'm I'm different than everybody. There are some people that are totally fine with like their husbands going and doing like golf every Saturday morning and racquetball on Sundays and blah blah blah. I'm like, no, no, we make group decisions for the weekends because during the week I give you more time for you because he works so much. No I know, for three hours every night every night, because he probably doesn't even get home till probably after five. And if he is home, why is he not coming out to eat? Maybe she exaggerated and said he was out there every single night, because that would be a big fat note to me. I would have a problem with that. That's what I'm saying like, I don't require Edwin to be home for family dinner every single night because we eat at five. But if he was home and refused to come out and eat with us, oh no, that would not I would have rage. If you're not home, you're still at work, you do you well? Yeah, yeah, yeah, your food's in the microwave. Sorry kid, yeah, stove. But I'm just out in the poolhouse. What the hell are you doing? Okay? How about when scary therapist says what brings you? What brings you here? And Bill smarks like and then that smirk went away real fast. When Jennifer blurts up he cheated on me for ten years? She didn't say four jin years? She said ten years ago? Oh ten years ago? Sorry, sorry, Yeah, that's why I met um. There was like, Bill's very quiet, it may need more from you. Well, no, shit, Bill, Bill's not willing to give it. Bill, if you're in the gin at all, just blink once. That's all we need. Oh man, I mean, I give him credit for really putting their relationship out there, and I'm actually really shocked that Bill's willing to do this us on camera. I think that Bill's just happy that jen is getting like a paycheck. Yeah. I think he's like, yeah, whatever, I'll show up. I don't care. She's gonna stick with me regardless, So here we go. I don't think. I don't think there's like a divorce in the cards between the two of them. I think we're wow. I think the situation sometimes. But I do have a question, a very serious question for you. Margaret surgery on her wrists, and she says that her husband still wipes her ass her and I'm telling you right now, I would rather use my foot to wipe my own ass than ask my husband to do that. And by the way, she has another hand. I was gonna say, I can. I am not the smartest tool in the shed, but I can wipe my ass with either hand. I'm fluid like that. I need to just pretend that she didn't say that. But listen, do you think she's saying that or she's I mean, she really meant it. She's being funny because then she followed it up with he's a plumber. It's his job now tonight. When I when I see Jennifer, is there anything you would like me to ask her? I want to ask her. Okay, here's the thing. I think she's really funny. I think she's smart. I think she's good at diffusing a situation. But I do think theatrics are a little much in her delivery. So I just want to know if you want to know if she's really like that or she's just like her mannerisms, like if she was going to take a bugle. I'm gonna give an example of Jess, Like if I was going to have a bugle myself, I would just be like this, you can quiet. These are a really hard fight, by the way, hard thing for an example. God, they're good, by the way. I just not to like dog out bugles, but like whose chip is bugle is their favorite? That's an aggressive chip to take down. I don't know. They're pretty good. I like it're delicious, but I really had to chew aggressively. Now I will see that. I that this is a really good episode for Jen Bessler because she called out Margaret Margaret's her friend, and that that's that's a good housewife that you you know, she's like, you shouldn't act like that. I've never seen you act like that. It's not a good look for you, you know, And I want to believe that. Margaret was just like, too bad, Margaret, that's how I feel. Too bad. I was like, well, we'll see next season. What you do Jen Fressler, Right, yeah, nicely said, but I don't really care. Yeah, my paycheck's bigger than yours. Do you think do you think that, um, we might have talked about this before, but do you think Frank gets paid? I think the husband's on Jersey get paid. Really, by the way, we shouldn't Britney spoke this episode, I got another one. I don't just I'm sucking the sawt off it. No, it's so good. Britney spoke, and it made me like her. I want Brittany back. Brittany, you're confused. I want Brittany, Frank's girlfriend to actually really be able to communicate on the show, because when she started talking about Dolora stuff, I liked what she had to say. Well, funny thing is, when I first saw her in the background, you thought she was Danielle. I know, I thought she was Danielle. I know, But guys, we want to hear more Brittany. I like, I like, I'm into the Dolores storyline this year. She's not causing all the drama in the world, but I'm happy to have about when um Polly told her I guess she fell in the shower and he said something like your ass saved you. You fell and bounced back up. Yeah, So who would you rather have sex with? Polly or Frank? Oh geez, really, why do you ask me these questions? This is how we're closing up the show today. But I remember Annessy both at the same time. I don't know, No, you have to pick one. Frank now, me too? Yeah, what's wrong with us? I just like now I personal. Now I worry about who we are as humans. Cheers on the Bugles by Jim