Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra JudgeTamra is back from filming the RHOC reunion! In a shocking discovery, she has a cousin she didn't know about... and it's a housewife!
We have one word to describe this week's RHOA …AWKWARD!
Plus, are the girls just really jealous of Kandi? What were Ralph’s motives? And, Teddi and Tamra critique the moment Drew serenaded Ralph... eek!
Two Teas in a Pod which Teddy Mellencamp and cam Ridge Edge. Welcome to another episode of Two Teas and a Pod with myself, Teddy Mellencamp and Sammer Judge.
I have been in bed for two days. Not in bed, I didn't take a shower. I just laid around. Who reunion?
I know how hard it was? This is it's been three years.
I was off too, but it's actually been three years since I've done a reunion.
Hold on, what do you mean you were off to but it's been three since you did a reunion? Oh, because of COVI, because.
We were so delayed this year. We actually filming our reunion a year after we actually filmed the show.
Remember we were right eight months.
They held us for eight months, so it was it was leading up to it so stressful for me, more stressful than normal. I mean, I've had my bad years where it's been brutal, and this wasn't exactly a horrible year for me.
But but it wasn't a walk in the park walk in the park. I had a lot of I had a lot explaining to do.
You had a lot of explaining, Well, yeah, you did, you did.
I would imagine So before we even get into this episode, we are going to recap the Real Housewives of New York and Real houses Wives of Atlanta. But before we get into that, we have some fan questions directly at Tamera. What yeah, mm hmm, oh, because well I did a little instance.
Say you, I see that's not on my rundown. I know, I just well, it's on my little my instagrams. Oh great, it's on my rams. I love being prepared, I love just.
Throwing at throwing dodge dodge. We've we've keep it going. Okay, yes, right, So first and foremost, this is actually not a fan question. This isn't me questions is a hater question. Now, this is just me wanting to know your legitimate thoughts on this. Okay, I saw the seating chart. I didn't like it this year golf collapse for me? Was it what you expected it to be or would you have sat differently? It was exactly what I expected it to be.
There was at one moment, because Emily so activated this season, I thought for a second maybe Emily was.
Gonna be next to me and Shannon was gonna be on the end. But then I was hoping for that. I gotta be honest.
I think she deserved second sea, I really do. I think she's such a big part of the show and she seems to always be towards the end.
Maybe not last year, I can't remember.
Maybe she was second seat, but anyways, Yeah, I was the other side for sure. I was like, absolutely my side. I was ninety percent sure.
But then I thought, maybe less, they're gonna switch Emily. Well because the next this is an actual fan question, Tarama, do you feel like you had a harder season this year because you stuck up for Shannon no matter what. I don't know if it was harder.
I definitely spoke my mind. I'm not gonna really, I don't really protect anybody. I protect the truth and you will see in the reunion me and Shannon go up against each other a few times. So no, but I do always feel deep down inside, like because I love Shannon, like, oh, I need to protect her, but I'm gonna I have like a little fight in my head.
Well, I just have to be honest, just be honest. This is wrong and I don't agree.
Yeah, it's hard, you know, when you have a good friend on the show. That's why I advise no housewife to bring on friends of the show. It's hard, but I developed this friendship over years.
But because of that, hold on, shoot, I just did I just talked in circles. You did just talk circles. You were officially just dodging the question. So thank you so much. Tune into the reunion to see how Tamara and Shannon got off. Oh, this is what I was reminded by, yes, because then, granted you were calling me, but I was already asleep because I'm freaking grandma to come meet you guys out that night. But know who I didn't see out with you that night, Shannon Shannon. Yeah, so hold on to give everybody backstory after the reunion. Most of the time, at least on Beverly Hills, you go in with a plan on who you're going to go to dinner with the night that night, because it's like nine o'clock. You have to make reservations. Sometimes it changes, Like there were years I would think it was going to be like these three or these four, and then it would end up just be me and Kyle, and then some one year it was all of us and it was like, whoa, this is fine, and everybody speculates what happened, what hadn't happened, so uh, truth be told.
Shannon had planned to go to Tao, which is thirty minutes the opposite way from Orange Town from the studio, and she had said multiple times that she wanted to take her glam out to celebrate, to thank them for the season, all this stuff, and she only had a limited amount of spots, and she I just felt like she kept making excuses why she didn't want everybody to go.
So was she asking you to go? She asked me to go.
But then it's like, well, I had my gland people with me, and I had friends with me, and I wanted this all to go out. But most of all, I don't want to drive thirty minutes. We already got out late. I don't want to drive thirty minutes the opposite way. So I said, why don't you just go with us where? I have no idea where we went and how they picked it.
But where did you go? What was that place?
It was really close to the studio, and honestly, I don't remember the name because I don't know La that well. It was a great restaurant. It was beautiful, And then Jen was invited as well. I had a talk with her like outside as we're getting ready to get into our cars to go, and I said come with us, and she's like, okay, I'm going to go, and then never showed up.
Ryan there.
I believe he showed up at the end to pick her up, which I don't understandhim because we have calls. Probably means that it probably.
Means she didn't go because of that. So okay, yeah, okay. Well I was a little bit also confused because I saw a lot of cozy pictures with you and Heather.
No, well, you're just gonna have to wait and see for the love.
Okay. So I have a question right now. If me and you were going to go on a trip and we got to pick two, only two housewives of Orange County to go with us, who would it be.
Well, I can't answer that, Yes you can.
That doesn't break any rules of the reunion. If you could pick two people you think that we should hang out with, who would it be? Not considering all of my issues with everybody I've probably pissed off.
Okay, I'm gonna say Shannon and Emily because that's not given anything away.
Was really hoping you were going to save Heather. Well, I'm saying what I can say.
I said what I said, and I won't get upset.
The next question for you is if you could describe the reunion in three words, what would they be.
That's a hard one. It was heated, because they're all heated, right.
I feel like there was a lot of resolution, okay, And I feel like there was a lot of There was some dirt broughdup so dirty? Did you cry? I did? Oh? For Fox's sake, Tamor we told it wasn't one about what you think it is. It was something happy, Okay. Other than that, showed emotion. I know, Ice Queen showed emotion. You had empathy. I do love for myself. The next one I didn't even really realize. I guess you mentioned it one time on one of the episodes. People want to know if you're still going through a dry spell with Eddie. No, we're good.
When I talked about that is because when we had the gym, Eddie was doing everything he could to save it. So he was up at like five in the morning and would work till nine o'clock at night and get home late. So he was gone before I woke up and you know me, I'm in bed by nine, So it was really and he was so stressed out, so it was difficult.
But we're good now. Oh great. The next one, I mean, this one, I guess is for both of us. It says, would you guys ever do the show Special Forces? Have you seen the ad for that?
I was actually I was actually contacted for that, but it didn't It didn't work out for me because I was doing the Trace and Mega show. Yeah, and I don't know, and I'm not saying that, yes, I absolutely had it, they were handing it to me, but I was reached out about it.
I can say that watching the trailer, it looks like a show that would be incredible, like it breaks down boundary, Yeah, all the things. So I think that's pretty good. Last and final reunion type question as who do you think had the best performance from the reunion and the worst? Like who had the worst reunion? Who had the best the best? I don't know. I don't even know how to answer that.
I feel like it this season everybody was in the hot seat for different reasons, if that makes sense.
So there was a lot there.
Was a lot of explaining to do, so I think everybody truly brought it.
Yeah, Jen brought it.
I think everybody did Taylor bring it? Taylor, yeah, a little bit.
She you know, she was a friend of bullshit.
Yeah, she was on you know, she's a friend up. So she wasn't out there the entire time. So it's hard. I wish she was out there for the full time because she was at every single Housewife event.
Which we had weekly. Was she out there more or less than we saw on yea, because I feel like we saw her for ten seconds on the Atlanta reunion. I cannot confirm. Oh my gosh, all right, well those are those are probably all we're going to be able to. Just want to get me in trouble, Yeah, that's actually my goal. How can I get Tamra and try trouble today? Today? My updates just for you guys. If you want to bid and come to the Melanoma Research Foundation event in October, I'm going to be there. I'm one of the spokespeople this year, and if we're doing a meet and greet and all of these things, you can go over to my instagram On I think it was last Thursday, I went for my three month checkup and I really thought this time I was going to be one hundred percent in the clear.
And of course another biopsy.
So have you got my results back? They said Monday or Tuesday, which always means tuesday. So now I'm just waiting and kind of leading up to that. I've just been trying to stay busy. And the good thing is is.
That you get checked so often that anything that pops up they can get rid of immediately.
Yeah, so that's what you guys think. Yeah, all the things overdue? Yeah, camera, I know, no time, All right, we need to get into housewife headlines. Brenn is calling out the haters who think she doesn't have a job.
By the way, I was actually wondering last night what she did for a job.
Why don't they tell us what she does? Well, that's the thing.
If it's not balanced, they don't show it or they don't talk about it. Like people are like, does she have a job, like they has beautiful clothes.
Like I'm assuming she has to work. Well, they're saying that not a trust fund baby. No, she's not a trust fund baby at all. Queens of Bravo reposted something along the lines of reposting the thing Okay, so she writes, reposting the things about me being an escort or sugar baby is disgusting. You should be ashamed. My CV is five pages long. I don't know what a CV is. I was going to ask you what a CV was. Oh, it's Latin for resume. Okay, for the love, come on, just write fucking resume. Yes, my resume is five pages long, and my career is more decorated than most. There were countless days I was working so much I couldn't even film most of the time. I can't help if the edit chooses to not include that. When you're at a point like I am in my career, you get to do the amazing things called consulting, which is what I do now for two skincare brands. Two skincare brands. You're super gross and now you're blocked. Anyone else want to get blocked today? I don't use social media to show me sitting on zoom calls and making fifty page long business decks. Don't confuse yourself. And then I mean, it just continues on and on, and she it's other people writing things. She's writing things. And then she says, and while we're at it. I've never claimed to be rich. No, she read, no, this is all true. On the red carpet at the premiere, there's a video of a reporter asking me which sex in the City character I am. I said, I'm flirty and funny es Samantha and the broke witty one of the group, like Carrie. In my Cosmo interview, I shared how during my real house Size of New York auditions, I kept saying I'm neither married nor rich, and I don't own a house. I think you're talking to the wrong New Yorker. I've worked super hard and have made a modest life for my It's not rocket science, though guys work in corporate America. No kids, no husband equals money for yourself. I pray for the day when I have all expenses that comes with kids, husband, houses, and dogs. But that day hasn't come yet. So in the interim, I'm going to enjoy this bit of security and freedom. Why I still have it? I actually think that makes perfect sense. If every bit of money I made came solely to me, I could dress nicer than I do, I could buy better things. But it's just not a reality. N Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, she has nice. She's saying, I'm not trying to pretend that I'm rich. I'm spending my hard earned money to buy things that I like.
Now here's what I was shocked at. I thought Brnn was the youngest one on the cast. Who is Aaron That actually makes sense.
No, it doesn't make sense. Why she's just seems so mature, so put together, she's just an actual New Yorker.
Yorkers are very different. This next thing I'll.
Read, but I want you to comment on because people all times are annoyed at my commentary on this.
But to me, well, I think Sutton was being very shady and rude and I.
Don't like this at all. Yeah, so Sutton Strap shades Erica Jane. I'm too busy to attend her one dollar Vegas residency and a full page six article here. I will talk to Cynthia about this as well, because Cynthia will be on the pod later this week to recap Orange County. But Sutton says she has no plans to see Erica Jane show about at all and Blonde, regardless of the cheap ticket prices. Sutton joked that she would buy everyone in the audience tickets after being told they were just one dollar. Okay, listen, I'm I'm pretty sure sure that these tickets are not a dollar or coven dollars. The tickets were on resales sites for standing room only, not the actual tickets that you're buying, not the ones who are we sat or the ninety percent.
But that is so rude of her to do that. Like Erica is literally picked herself up, like trying to rebuild everything that she's lost, And I would hope that people, even if you don't like her on the cast, you'd be happy for her.
But this is the problem that I have with Sudden and you guys come after me all you want, but when this comes around next season on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills and Erica comes for Sutton and says anything to her, Sudden will cry victim.
You my feelings, you're probably and I don't like victims. I can't stand victims. Just on what you did and move on. But the thing is, like when we had Erica on the podcast in Las Vegas, she was very nice and sweet, diplomatically got Sutton like, didn't shade her.
She didn't shade it, right, I don't remember that sure, no, she was very just like she didn't come for her. So that is my problem was sudden always like sudden, be who you are and if you're an asshole, be an asshole. But quit pandering to Twitter all of the time. It actually, it like makes my temperature rise because I see what you're doing. You are trying like you don't give a shit whether people are doing well or not doing well. You just want to get likes on Twitter. And you know what, I know, end of the day, when somebody comes for you because of your bad behavior, take it then because that was shitty.
That's one thing that bothers me really bad is after a season is over that some of the girls will get on Twitter and social media Instagram.
And start creating their own narrative. So the fan accounts will be like, you know, oh I was attacked. I was attacked. So then people put in their head, oh she was attacked. So I don't know, how do you expect for Erica? So just this is a question, how do you expect for Erica to go in the next time she sees some smiling and happy because I hope she doesn't. But that's my point. What do people want because Erica's demeanor. She's not one that's gonna be phony and fake, like the way that Sutton is to your face. She's actually gonna be like that's you know, did.
Erica defend her ticket prices on her social media?
I didn't see anything. Why would she class standing room only? At the end of the day, you're playing for the fans, and if you're having a sold out show, but there's leftover standing room only, and you want to sell those tickets to people that want to come in and squeeze in so that they can see you and have that experience, the more the better, right, I agree? I agree? So shame on you, Ston, like honestly, and I'm sorry. There's all and now that this is the problem. Now I'm going to be a dick. There's always been tons of standing room whenever I've walked into your store. Oohoo, never been squeezed in tight Mike drop. Okay, Well, the next one is Real Housewives of Salt Lake City. Monica Arcia called out Lisa Barlowe on Instagram, accusing her of making microaggressive comments. The photo was taken back and June of seventeenth. June seventeenth of twenty twenty didn't realize I was so unrecognizable with my fair skin back then too, the way some people are so damn comfortable lying. First of all, I wasn't meeting Jen at the airport, Lisa, I met you at the airport because you were also running an aeron for jin. Also, what kind of air like? Now? I need to know that was actually the first time we met in person, aside from our countless phone convos. But keep on coming with all that bs. Second, the way that you are coming and clutch with those microaggressions. You couldn't pick me out of a police lineup or witness protection. Third, the way you made the most uneducated statement of the episode with your fair skin blonde hair comment, as if Latinas can't have lighter skin or blonde hair. But yet you claim to be a cultured New Yorker. I know what you're implying. We all do. Does your friend work in the hair industry where people color their hair and change their looks constantly? Ps, fair skin is better than orange? Oh that's a dig that was very long winded. Now do you like your housewives to go on social media and go after every comment that's made about them? I mean I feel like I would, I would do like I would respond. No, back then, we had blogs. We had to see that's the difference. Now. I actually appreciated the blogs because then the women didn't feel the need to post long, ash things on their Instagram. We had a blog and we submitted it two days before the episode, I remember, and then it would go up. So I had my blogs where I said all my points and then if people wanted to pick up points from it. But I mean I did do.
Some of your blog was long, wasn't it. My blog was fucking good.
It was a long Listen. I could just tell me I'm a bullet point. Though they go back and read my blogs like they were fucking on. I don't think they're on there anymore. They got rid of the blogs, you know what.
I have them on my word dot x shall Rob rob Rock.
You probably do, yeah, probably do. But AnyWho, moving on to Heather and Whitney Rose's new cousin link. When you sent this to me yesterday, Tamra, I did not even read it past them actually being cousins. You're fucking cousins with them. I am cousins.
So real housewives in Salt Lake City, Heather Gay and Whitney Rose is new Rhos cousin as may After climbing Heather and Whitney's tree through their shared second great grandmother, Jane Robinson, I learned that their ninth great grandfather, John Chipman, married ninth great grandmother Hope Holland, daughter of the Mayflower passenger John Holland of Elizabeth and Elizabeth Tilley. Okay, they're tenth great grandparents. Now, if you recall, the real house is Orange County. Tam Or Judge is also a descendant of John Holland and Elizabeth Tilley through their daughter Lydia.
So that makes me.
Whitney and Heather's eleventh cousin. I sent Whitney a text yesterday, I go, hey, cousin, I've never.
Been so happy to not be on a list of cousins in my entire life.
I'm also related to Leanne locked In Lockin, Lockin Luckin.
Maybe we should learn your cousin's name.
I know, I know, but that's kind of like Ralph and Courtney well ileventh cousins down the road, Like, yeah, okay, I found you on the Genie dot com.
But here's the thing. I'm here to tell you if I were to guess, I think Ralph and Courtney are boning allegedly.
Oh you think they're kissing cousins, kissing cousins, kissing cousins.
I also like Ralph.
I didn't like how she came into the room, shut the door on.
The whole thing. We'll get into it, but we even get into that. Let's do a little watch what happens live with Uba, because she Uba is about shades. She shades. Uba thinks the women are too hard on Jessel. She doesn't think the women are too hard on Jenna. However, she says, Say is not in tune with her emotions. Aerona just shits her. Jenna is too much in control, and Jessel needs to be nicer to her husband. Bren uses her smartness and not so nice ways. And how did she fit herself into this? Weirdly, she didn't really come back, oh anything on herself. They didn't ask her, so she didn't. I guess she didn't want to add her.
So Andy asked how she felt about each woman?
Is that how this started? Yeah? And then Uba on povit. I mean, if I had Jessel as a wife, I would go to Vietnam too. I love Jessel, but she then says, sometimes we're mean to people we love. The most part about that, Jessel was just on this pod and she said nice things. She said, Uba is who she's closest with. Oh my god.
Okay, so she's just so basically she's saying that she's not a good wife.
Is that what she's basically, No, she's basically saying I would want to get away from her too if she was married to her, but I love her.
She's I'm sorry, that was very passive aggressive.
But then she says, you're you're mean to the ones you love. I actually disagree. I think we can give each other a hard time, or my husband and I can give each other a hard time, but like, I don't go out of my way to be meaner to him than I would be to anybody else, Like I love him. Yeah, but I may be harder on him.
I think it was just a passive aggressive comment. She's like she's getting it out there, she's sticking it to her then going I love you, but I love you I can't say. Even Andy looked a little like, huh.
But I can't say this. I loved Jessel on the pod. I was sad you weren't there because.
I know it was such a her softer side to her.
She was so cool and laid back and easy. She had like a tricycle in the back, all the things.
She's definitely coming into her own on the show.
At first, I thought she was kind of the weakest link, but now I feel like everybody on that cast has their spot. I think the cast is amazing.
Yeah, I hope I appreciate it.
I do too. But then Uba says watching back, she would have gone with Jenna on the business class if she could afford it, and she thinks Aaron was causing shit. Here's the thing. Aaron was doing her job. I would have done the same thing. And also Jenna just say, I'm I've worked hard and I'm rich and I want to go on first class when I want to fucking go on first class, right, take ownership for it. Don't turn it into a whole big thing that it wasn't like. It is like I'm booking my spring break travel with my friends right now. My friends have a private jet. It is amazing, so great. They want to come and go on different days. So I was like, listen, I'll still come with you guys, because I want to travel there with y'all. But we'll fly. I asked this home coach because we got to get back on a different day. I love you, but I can't stay that long in a laying down, relaxed type vacation. We're a four nights max type of peace. I'm taking first class home.
No, I probably won't, Are you kidding? There's six of us.
Oh yeah, if I'm going like more than five hours than first class, for sure, But for two hour flight from Mexico, I'm pretty sure we can all just hunker down. We can get to extra leg room. We maybe we'll get to extra leg blue extra leg room. But fans are very much thinking that Aaron twisted what Jenna said because Jenna was I know.
This is an annoying thing. Is like, because Jenna said that, everyone's like, oh okay, Like people don't have their own minds. They sometimes they listen to one cast member say something and they can totally change their mind.
When that's how what happened. We saw what happened.
She sat there and said, truth is with her ice back.
I don't want to fly coach, like did everybody saw that there's no twisting of any words. Let's take a little break and then we'll come back and discuss Real Housewives of Atlanta and New York. All right, so we are back last night's Real Housewives of Atlanta. I had started I have a question. I want you to acknowledge something.
Did you have you noticed that PRABA was started to supersize episodes. That means instead of an hour episode, it's an hour and thirty minute episode.
I I honestly thought I was on glue yesterday because, for one, I had to crawl out of my skin and then put my skin back on out of watching that freakin' reunion last night. There was so many awkward parts. But then I realized it was awkward parts extended.
I know, but I want to ask you guys out there, do you like the extended or would you rather have another episode? Because an hour and a half to sit there and watch is a little a little long.
But my question also is was that the second reunion?
It was a second reunion, so if it wasn't supersized, it would have there would have been three reunions.
But that's that's a red flag. That means they supersized it. So then I'm pretty sure with the supersize, maybe they didn't need a full another hour would they be supersized, But with a supersize, I don't think you have to pay the extra bonus. Plus, I don't think we really needed it full another hour. I mean, it's even talking this.
One, but they're even doing it on the show. It's like ten to fifteen minutes extra here, fifteen minutes extra there.
So I can't tell the difference because I go straight from a show to then it like the way it records on my sling is that it does that and then write in to watch what happened happens to live. So I'm like, I don't know, but it starts out where Andy asked Courtney when Ralph told her he was planning on divorcing Drew, Courtney says, when he knew about the affair, Candy says that Drew's girl crush was Tie SCHARII had information given to her about Drew and Tie, their private messages between Drew and Tie.
How would you rate Courtney's performance at the reunion?
Was she there? I don't like her.
I'm sorry, I do not like her. I feel like there is definitely something weird between her and Ralph. Do you think she dropped off the text messages to Charae's house.
I think Ralph did. ALG think Ralph had her do it. But honestly, if you ever see me hug and look at my cousin the way that Courtney looked at Ralph backstage, I know that was I was so uncomfortable by that. And listen, you guys know how I feel about Drew because she has done the pod with me so many times, but Ralph, he's the only fucking guy there. Yeah, I do feel like that Drew was trying to shut him up on certain things. I feel like there was more to it.
I feel like she was I mean, he's no charmer, but I feel like she was like, really like, you're gonna go there.
Well, because here's the thing, they have kids together. Courtney brought up her kids, brought up her son. Did it pretending to think she was off camera, but clearly, when the camera's pointed in your direction, you're in a confessional. You know what you're doing. And to show up at the reunion like that was sitting on the other other side, that's like the women that didn't like her dick move while she's serenading him. That wasn't even Yeah, we'll get into that. But I'm not sure who really print those text messages. I would I would assume Ralph. But yeah, Ralph, you take that cloud password, change cloud password.
Do you think they're true? And Andy said he read.
Me because these are incriminating, but he did not read. No, he said they're not actually incriminated. It will No, No, Andy said they are incriminating. He said, I wouldn't want somebody going on to my No, you're talking about the text messages that Drew showed Andy from Ralph, not the one Chara printed. There was two separate ones. So the ones that were printed out are ones that I'm assuming Ralph or Coordinat or whomever gave to Charay, and Charay felt they need to print out.
Which why, like, wait, explain to me the two separate sets of text messages.
One was one was the text one were the printed text messages allegedly between Tie and Drew.
I thought that's what Andy read into.
Andy read Drew's phone, which were text messages that were sent to Drew allegedly. Oh, you're right right cooking up with Ralph.
Okay, you're right right with an ass and he said that.
Was being being catfished, right, He said he was being catfish and all this shit, and that she got.
The same text messages and nobody responded and.
Either a lot so gross. I mean, Courtney says to Drew, there's nothing that with bringing text messages to the reunion. I don't have a problem with that. But Courtney saying to Drew at the reunion that she single handedly destroyed her kids' lives. It's disgusting because at the beginning of the day, regardless of what Drew's current relationship status is, we watched the way that Ralph treated Drew from the very beginning. Begin all questioned it. We tried to give them the benefit of the doubt, and you could see that even Kenya was soft spoken, and like, when Drew walked off stage, Kenya came in because you could tell and I hate using this word, but there's not a better word to use than this was triggered by the way Ralph was acting.
And then Ralph tried to go after Kenya. Well how long were you even married? Yeah, I would have liked to see Ralph go after Drew. He would go, like just go and say like I'm sorry, like I don't want you to feel bad, but let's not go after like like get up and follow her. Oh I thought you meant like attack her when she left the stage. I would have liked to see him get up physically and go after her and try to console her. But he literally he was there himself. He wasn't there to protect any children, and he wasn't there for her. He was there for himself. He was there for himself. He was there for the paycheck. Even my ex when we split up, they asked him.
To come on the reunion. He said no.
Then he did do a sit down with Andy, and then after he did it, he wouldn't sign the release form because.
He realized it's fucking wrong. Yeah, he realized so, and that SU's a lot of respect. And I think if you're gonna come on and try to play the victim the way that Ralph did because of whatever alleged that could be happening with Tye, then actually a much your part too. I may have pushed her to this point because I haven't been there, like we've watched him repeatedly treat her badly. It just makes me mad because I hate like do I think that Drew is probably lied about some things while she was on the show. Yes? Do I think that everybody in the entire world lies from time to time? Yes? Do I like, I don't know, he just used a stupid, soft ass voice of fake. I just hated every sign.
Well, hopefully we'll never have to see him again.
I'm sure we will because they're still living together. No true fix that. Well. Then Andy asked Sonia if she found support and her friends during her miscarriage. Sonia says she was disappointed in Kenya when she sent the message. Everyone responded immediately and also separately to show their support, Kenya, says Sonia. Kenya says she called Sonia, but she never picked up the phone. Andy asked Kenya if she's closer to having a child. Kenya says she has decided to adopt and she's thinking of around the ages of three or four. Do you understand Sonia's point of view as to why she'd be upset?
I mean, I empathize, yeah, I mean no matter, you know where you stand with that person as a woman. When somebody has a miscarriage or goes through any kind of anything that's so emotional, it's so easy just to say I'm so sorry, I'm praying for you, whatever it is you need to say, but to not say anything and then to say, oh, well, I called you, and I think Sanya said no, I didn't get a call from you.
I think here's where I have my issue. I wish Sonya would have just said, listen, Kenya. I feel like, when we're not filming this television show, you're not a friend. And that Yeah, when I was having my miscarriages, I could you could honestly hold me up against a wall right now and say, Teddy, tell me who called you or who sent you flowers or who did what during each one of your miscarriages. I couldn't fucking tell you because I was breaking down. But also, gifts and those types of things are not my love language. Like I remember I had two friends that came over and like it's gonna sound ridiculous, but like one brought me like a crunch trap supreme from Taco Bell and like I remember laying there and we watched like Grey's Anatomy and like cried and like I remember those type of moments. But that's like a friend friend, So I would have appreciated. Maybe if Sonya's it's not about a phone call or to me, it wasn't after any of my miscarriage. It was about So you're saying that that Kenya probably did call her, she just didn't see the phone call.
And I mean, they're not that close.
But I don't think. I don't think that Kenya is a cold hearted bitch.
I think that she did what she I don't think they're friends.
I just don't think they're friends. If you told me something terrible happened to you tomorrow, I would probably drive to your house, go sit with you, be there for you, just because I sent you some fucking flowers and never called you and never reached out to you. Like I don't think that made a difference either, Like, No, it doesn't. It doesn't. So it's either you're close enough that you're there for the person or you're not. And I don't think they are. She may have texted and said I'm sorry, or she may have called and she didn't answer and that was the end of it. They're not friends. And do I think that means that Kenya didn't have empathy for her? No? But do I think that they're actually close enough friends that she's going to come lay in the bed with her and break now. No, no, no, not at all, but it just I do I don't know, Kenya says.
She Kenya says she likes Sonya, but there have been multiple incidents where she questions her her loyalty to her. So Sonya says she has genuinely tried to be Kenya's friend on camera, but it's not reciprocated. Reciprocated. But did you notice she kept saying on camera on camera, I know, she says, when they're when there's opportunities to be friends off camera, Kenya does not she did Kenya's I think Kenya is probably one.
Of those that just she's probably a Heather de Bro. She does this show and then she that's it lives lives and lives their lives. She probably has friends outside the show.
But by the way, I will tell you, sometimes doing that is better for your mental health because that friend that you have on the show sometimes always wants to talk about the show.
Yeah, and that's like exhausting. Yeah. Do you think that Sonya is genuinely interested in friendship Kenya? I think that I think that Sonya of course was going through a hard time with having a miscarriage and now being pregnant again and going through it. But I think that Sonia is probably not feeling a close relationship to really any of the women. And I think that when you're on a television show and you're not feeling that natural connection that continues on after the show, it's worrisome.
Yeah, the audis Sonya has become more likable.
Oh, I think Sonia is likable. Yeah, as the season went on, she's she's more likable. I think if push came to shove and we were gonna pick, like, all right, which woman would we have the most fun with on a weekend? I feel like Sonia would be cool. Yeah. Does she drink? Yeah? Well I'm not. We all pregnant hopefully, but oh duh. The Then Candy says that everyone wants to hold her to the fire, but nobody brought up Charat's stuff not going right on her website. Candy thinks she's held to a different standard and that Marlow is jealous of her success. Marla says she's not jealous of Candy because she works too much and takes care of too many people.
But okay, let's just dissect that Candy says that every everyone wants to hold her to the fire. Okay, but nobody brought up Chat's stuff about her website. Really, you're gonna go after her business. I feel like she's doubling down.
But then I see we're having different views on this because to me, it's interesting that marlow now says Candy takes care of too many people for her when she previously called out Candy for not supporting people.
Can't show up to anything because she was so busy doing other things, Like, I feel like Candy is not that invested in it and for her to be like and I think that's what they were talking about.
I have a question because you marlow was invested in this reunion. Marlowe was giving me I'm wearing a frickin' cape this entire union, just sitting there like, well, I think.
You're invested as much as you can be. I mean, if you're the questions or are to you, you have to respond to them. If they're not to you, then somebody else.
I don't know your response is to anything. I don't know. I don't remember her talking, so maybe that's the point. That's the point, but I don't think that you can compare. You cannot compare Candy being held to the fire, which I don't think she was. I think she was questioned because of her absence to Charret's website problem. No. I think that she was being questioned because there was a shooting in her restaurant, and Marlowe came for Drew and said, because you didn't actually use the word shoot shot, you use the word incident. That like everybody was upset because people aren't actually holding her accountable to this shooting, and Marlowe bringing up things two years ago to solely make Candy look bad when I don't know do you think I mean asking your opinion. I don't think Real Housewives of Atlanta exists without Candy. Okay.
Do you think Shandy is treated differently than the rest of the cast.
Yes, because I think they're jealous. I think that she is the head hauncho. I think that she they let her try. I think because she's been on so many years and she's so good, they let her do things that the other women can't do, which I saw on my show. I'm sure you see on your show. Like I'm taking this week off, I'm doing this blah blah blah. Why we're all stuck going to some shitbox freakin' place dealing with some crap we don't want to deal with. Why this person gets to go on a vacation for Thanksgiving and we don't. I don't know.
I feel like Candy has an answer for everything. I mean, Candy says Charay knows the most about taking breaks, and Shary says they continue to bring her back when the show is lackluster and that she has made history. She also says she's been asked back more than she's come back, So when the show gets lackluster, they were.
Bringing Charay back. I have a question, Candy wasn't cutting it. You have to pick a side of the couch. What the side of the couch are you picking? I'm picking the Kenya Candy Drew side Kenya Candy Drew. Yeah for sure. So yeah, the same time, that's that's our answer. I feel like we've already talked about Ralph enough. He's probably thrilled that he was in the seat next to Andy, And why did he come dressed like he was going to the frickin' Oscars? Like, are you hosting the Oscars? Ralph? No, you're here to be serenaded. But is it a serenade when it's a breakup song? I don't know.
It was very weird, but Ral said he came to the reunion so his kids have a correct representation of who their father is.
Is bullshit.
He came because he enjoys being in the limelight. Let's make it what it is. By the way, how old are their kids and are they going to be watching The Real Housewives of Atlanta to make sure that there's perfect representation between their parents that they don't.
According to Drew, they don't even know they're getting divorced. And honestly, if you wanted to show your kids how good your relationship is, maybe treat the woman that you married and had kids with a little better because we've watched you repeatedly treat her like shit.
Now Andy had asked the question about does it matter who initiated the divorce, Like.
They're like, I did it, I did it. I did It's like.
I mean, I think they both have like a slight.
I don't know. I think they're both so angry that they both like want to make sure that it's on the other person. Why the divorce happened. Do I think they probably ever should have gotten married. I think they were attracted to each other. Do you think they're gonna get back together? No? Are you sure? I do not think so. I hope they don't. Even when we saw the way that Kenya said twirl on that Ralph, I think she was showing up for Drew in that moment Drew was gone. And I think when Drew is not on camera and she's like getting glad and she's with the people she's most comfortable with, you really see the softness to Drew and like the mask. I think since I may be wrong, but I think because Drew was an actor at such a young age, she has been performing for so her whole life.
Yeah, you saw Ralph say you're acting right now.
I'm like, shut up. I just but okay. I maybe here's the thing. I love the song. I hope it goes number one. I've seen that it's already at number three. I think all the things. I really wish they would have had her do an outfit change and taken Ralph away and just let her perform this.
Yeah, I thought it was kind of cringey with Ralph there. I think if it was more of like a stage thing. Maybe they had shot it prior so they can just push it, you know, put it in there and post it would have been better.
But having Ralph there was weird. It was really weird. Like I.
And it's like Shrey missed a perfect opportunity, perfect opportunity to say.
I liked the beat. Do you remember when I think it was Ken that performed And Andy's like, so, what'd you think? And she's like, uh, I like the beat. I mean I can't say this if I was crying and the like and I Drew legitimately was crying backstage you could see it, and then had to come forward and like sing on that little stage wasn't even stage. It was Andy seats well, Andy all excited to be on the couch for the first time. And then he's like, I think I actually like my seat more and he's like oh on her like under boobs coming out.
I was like, this is a lot, a lot, it's a lot, this is a lot. I actually said to Andy at the reunion, I go, I watched the first reunion for Atlanta. I said, you were very into it.
You were very you were almost like a housewife like biting the plum and all that, and he goes those girls are fun.
I was gonna say he likes them. Of the most things, they are a lot of fun.
But when Drew says she wrote the song while her and Raff were going through issues, this captures what they were going through.
It's called throw us Away, du Dum. And then I learned that Ralph's getting blowjobs from around the world.
Is he more worldwide than Candy? Well, I was gonna say, not only is Candy worldwide, but Ralph's penis is too. Allegedly, but I haven't got any pics of it. But oh my gosh, someone sent me a dick pic the other day and somebody you don't know, somebody I don't know, But it's not It came from a girl. So now I'm wondering if it's Ryan's it came from a girl. It came from a girl.
Well, I have that dick pics If you want to send it to me, I can compare.
Is there long blondish pubes kind of flowing in the wind? Okay, Well, I'm unwell, I don't know why a girl would send me a picture of this Penis.
Just some random girl sent you a dick pic.
Yeah. I went my Plus ninety ninth and it was there, and I was like, well, did she have any explanation? No, So that's why I thought maybe she was sending it because she wanted to show me, oh Ryan dick pic. Yeah, I don't think anybody has that dick pic. Well you have it. Me and Heather, Oh my gosh, we happened to be there at the time. Well, I don't want a dick pic, and I don't want to sell a dig pic. I don't want any dick pic. I'm fine saying real dicks in person, only real dicks. I don't want to see picture dicks. All right, let's take a quick break and then we will come back and talk about all things New York. This was just said, it's just sad. It was very it was very heavy.
We got to know a lot of the girl's personal stories, and it was a lot of sad stories.
I think the problem that we're running into now is the women need to start focusing on their connection together and you start getting drunk and stupid. That's what they need to do. I'm gonna call Brent says that Jenna gives us gifts and then tells random strangers about her personal life. Brent says, I have cried in front of you and you didn't even tell me. Your name is Judaith. Jenna says she is guarded and has nothing to do with the women, and it is difficult for her to open up because her mother showed zero emotion growing up. Do we think the women are being too hard on Jenna.
No, I don't think they're being too hard on Jenna. I think they're beating a dead horse at this point. Leave Jenna alone and let her come to you. It's just a lot, like a lot of repetitive stuff like we all know like, and Jenna explains later on in the show that her mother had Asperger's and she just learned to like shut down and be quiet, and that's a representative of who she is today. We need different personalities on the show. If everybody was vomiting their feelings all the time, then it would not be good. So I like that Jenna is more reserved, more quiet.
And also, in Jenna's defense, she pulled out her teeth on national television. I'm not sure how much more open you can get. I mean, Emily's vagina waxing was a little tough, it was, but whole waxing. I mean, that's even worse, even worse. And then what about the women at the meal where they're like, Aaron, you can starve us on your own time, but here we are ordering food on this trip. Oh my gosh, there's just a lot about food on this SI.
That's all she talks about, all she talks about. But she talks a lot about eating, and she's a tiny little thing. And then welcome to filming cy.
And then Jessel tells the women about her child childhood. Jessel's parents are from Africa and they came to England as immigrants. Jessel says she wanted to go into fashion, so twenty two she went to New York with the money. She said. She was packing boxes her entire year of interning SIS. Then I'm pretty sure it's and size confessional, she says. In nineteen forty two, Columbus sailed the Ocean Blue, and guess what Jessel's parents from Kenya like somehow jumped on board and they got onto the Mayflower and then they all ended up in London. By the way, did I say in nineteen forty two, not four thirteen ninety two. Yeah, that tracks is that? Is that like traquila? Tequila? Isn't it nineteen forty two? Yeah, nineteen forty two is tequila? Now? I mean today on the Walk with Cruise, he always tests me on math, and he asked me what seven times five was, and I was like forty And he's like, Mom, you're embarrassing it's thirty five. But I haven't done my time stables in a long time. I probably would have said the same thing. I don't know. I don't know those things. I don't know. I just felt like it was it was a lot. I mean, these women want to learn more about each other.
First they harp on Jenna about not knowing en up about her, and then they could care less about Jessel.
It's just it's a lot.
And then do you think that Jessel's becoming the breakout star of the show.
I think Jessel will continue. I think now that Jessel's trying to get more comfortable in.
Her own It's a marathon for Jessel, not a sprint. So she got warmed up little engine that could, and now she is off and running.
And now that I've spoken to her and I kind of understand her relationship and all those things. Now it's it's feeling a little bit more authentic. But Brent says, Jessel is that she sucks. Did you ask her if she had sex yet? Yeah? She has? Oh thank god. Yeah. Brent says, Jessel is the Indian version of simple Life Paris. And then our Si and Brin discounting Jessel's experience. In your opinion, I mean, they are, yes, but it it was an interesting It was a long station. It was a long winded like they asked Jessel to share. She shares, and now they want her to say that he sho make fun of the right way. Yeah, like you know you wanted her to do this. I know it's I said, do you want to learn more? You don't want to learn more? Like and then Si said her mother loved loved her, but she was an alcoholic. At sixteen, she saw her mother wake up and drink and then drink all day. SI went to see her mom in the hospital and would draw on her eyebrows before she passed away. Si says her mother's asset ashes earn a shopping bag in her closet. SI is thinking about planting the ashes in her tree and Jessel, I hope it's a mez bag or a Chanelle bag you wouldn't want to target, or a Walmart bag. Then Aaron and Bran want to get to get I have question, do you care if people touch their hair at the dinner table? No? I never noticed it. But then right after that happened yesterday, I walked out because I was watching it. During the day, my son and his friend and Edwin were watching the Rams game, so I went down to check on them and we had ordered mincheese and cruise as Bestie was like, Teddy, oh my gosh, there's a little piece of hair in my minchiese. And I was like, and then I felt like uber because I'm cool. But it was such a I don't even think it was hair. I think it was fuzz. But I don't notice that people touched like it was like it's this little teeny like black piece of fuzz or something like. It could have been something from a sweatshirt or something like. It didn't seem like hair to me. Okay, that being said, I don't notice that people touch their hair while they're eating.
Honestly, if I eat something I see hair, just pull it out and I keep eating.
No, I mean if I'm at a restaurant, that's different. But at how I'm like, ah, it's either minor eddies or Sofia's. Well, that's different. But if you order something, no I would I would definitely say something. If I ordered something, I'm paying for it.
But you know what, there's a new naked waisted two point zero and that is erin and Brynn.
It's no longer Tamra and VICKI.
So Aaron and Brann want to get Jessel drunk, so she'll send pictures to pop Poppe. Brynn tells Jessel that you need to expose your yoni to the sun and let the rays penetrate you with vitamin D. It sounds like a sunburn and melanoma where I don't want it. Do you think Erinon and Brenn were genuinely trying to be helpful or trying to embarrass Jessel.
I mean, if I send a picture of myself spread eat go to Edwin's sunning my vadge, I don't think he'd want to jump on it. But if I sent the picture of me with the top off to the back the way that they took Instagram photos, I think he'd be into it. I but I mean, now we're hearing because we already.
Talked about picture.
So now people are sunning their badges and their buttholes. Like, I'm so behind. I can't even see the sunburn.
It's never seen sun ten minutes in son, I can imagine be a pride? Could you imagine a sunburn on your lips?
I listen.
I don't think that area needs to get any darker for me.
No, I don't know. If I don't look, what do you marrying? You don't like get it waxed or shaved.
I shave myself, but I don't stick my head at my asshole.
Watch. Well, then Aaron keeps telling us she's a girl's girl, and I think that she means, uh, whatever she tells the girl, she's going to tell the other girls. That's what I pretty much decided. Yeah, well, here's my philosophy.
If it is talked about on camera in front of you, you have every right to repeat it.
Yeah. I agree. Then the women think that Brend needs to freeze her eggs, but Bren is hesitant. Brent says, when she went into her appointment, they asked her who she'd like to make embryos with Brent says she went through her contact list. Aaron says that it's a weird lie and does not believe it. Brent says she would not lie about this, and then this becomes like a very emotional conversation. Listen.
Yeah.
But also Aaron said, if I'm not mistaken that she said the doctor told her to look through her contact lists and to find somebody. I did not hear that unless it was cut but Bren said, I started looking through my contact list to see who I could. You know, I do know when you go, okay, well here, first question is I am on board for Aaron being the resident schuitster. That's good, but everybody every con here. I don't think she overdid it. I think if if I don't know, if she went through the same process, I'm not sure. But if the doctor said go through your phone and try to pick some guys out, I would call bullshit on that too. Yeah. I think I did not hear exaggerating for a story, and then Erin took it very literally.
Did you hear Bren actually say that the doctor told her to look She.
Said, Well, here's what I do know. I do I did not I didn't actually hear Bren say that, I do know that when you go look to me on my own. I mean, I went with my husband and went through my IVF process. When they harvested harvested my eggs, they said, your eggs will be more viable if they're embryos. And that's when then Edwin had to go in watch the nineteen eighties porn with full Bush go in the cup. They mixed the stuff together and bam. But I do have a friend that's not in a relationship with somebody else, and they may have given her that same information that it makes them more viable and lasts longer. But I don't imagine the doctor was like, let's find just someone.
Well, I think that we'll find out the reunion guys. Just so you know, a lot of times things are just kept out, so there is discussion at the reunion to clarify things. So when I watch it, I did not hear her say the doctor said that, But maybe she did. Maybe that's maybe she was just making a joke.
The doctor said embryos are more viable, So I started going through my phone looking through men. She could have just said that, we don't know, but I can be somebody that takes things too literal, So I don't know.
Well, the fan thinks that Aaron's twisting everything.
I don't think so.
I think she's just doing a really good job of repeating what she's hearing. Love hearing these girls' stories. Jenna is opening up as much as she can. These women need to go easier on her. I'm not sure if I that need more fun to depressing, missing the old New York.
They need to leave Jenna alone. So people are up in arms about the girls going after Jenna. I think that if Jenna can just well, now that we know that Jenna's been sober for two years, I feel like there's a lot of information we're still missing on Jenna. I think Jenna has a very vocal fan base because she is the most who has the most following on social media? Is it Jenna? Well, she's the most well Jenna is the most well known, like she's going in well known regardless of size. You know, Instagram following is higher, which I don't actually know at this point. I think there's like four hundred. I think I'm only following each New York girl as they come on the pot.
That's really my I follow it. Once you're on, I follow you.
Hello, here we go. I'm tagging you and I'm following you. So I don't know about those two followings. Sai is a five hundred and forty three thousand, Oh, she's got what she gained. And Jenna is that five hundred and ninety nine thousand, So Jenna is the top. So Jenna, Jana's the topach all right, you guys. That is the end of that recap. Thank you so much. We will be back. Yeah,
