Joy, Hayley and Spex get into why more women are choosing to be child-free and what it actually costs to raise a kid right now. Joy weighs in on the Living Single vs. Girlfriends attractiveness debate, and Hayley shares that she’s starting therapy. Joy also talks about consent, why having a Black woman therapist matters to her, and why nobody wants to leave the house anymore. Plus a Would You Rather: change millions of lives, or the lives of the people closest to you?

0:00 Welcome

0:57 Why more women are choosing to be child-free

5:45 What it costs to raise a kid now

10:30 The impossible parent schedule

13:28 "Y'all don't care about these kids"

16:23 Living Single vs. Girlfriends debate

22:14 "You're only on TV because you're beautiful"

25:05 Hayley is starting therapy

27:47 Joy on consent and the "enthusiastic yes"

32:12 Spex on therapy in the Black community

34:35 Why Joy chose a Black woman therapist

37:37 Loving being alone a little too much

39:18 Why nobody goes out anymore

41:13 Bringing back Sunday dinner

45:55 Joy's dad and Pre-Paid Legal

46:40 The silent book club

48:07 Would You Rather: millions or the people closest to you

49:34 "None of us are going to be remembered"

55:21 Spex who invented the spoon?

58:16 Outro