Despite its name, self-sabotage isn’t out to sabotage us at all—it exists to help keep us safe from potential danger or harm. It’s a protective mechanism created by our psyches to keep us safe, and what’s safe for our psyche is often what’s familiar. So, when we try to change our lives, our psyche triggers the alarm bells inside us, reverting us to our status quo and labeling it as self-sabotage. But if we view self-sabotage with gentleness and compassion, we may be able to turn it from foe to ally.

In this episode, I explore self-sabotage and how it acts as a protective mechanism. I discuss compassionate curiosity, what it is, how it can help us work through our tendency to self-sabotage, and how we can develop it. I also outline the different ways our inner saboteur can manifest and explain how we can turn our fears from enemies to allies.

“When we stop viewing it as ‘sabotage’ and start viewing it as parts of the brain trying to keep us safe, we can develop compassionate curiosity to notice what’s going on and what we’re afraid of.” - Karen Goldfinger Baker

This week on the Trauma Hiders Club Podcast:
What our inner saboteur is trying to protect us from
Impostor syndrome, ambivalence, fear of success, and other manifestations of self-sabotage
The power of compassionate curiosity

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Despite its name, self-sabotage isn’t out to sabotage us at all—it exists to help keep us safe from potential danger or harm. It’s a protective mechanism created by our psyches to keep us safe, and what’s safe for our psyche is often what’s familiar. So, when we try to change our lives, our psyche triggers the alarm bells inside us, reverting us to our status quo and labeling it as self-sabotage. But if we view self-sabotage with gentleness and compassion, we may be able to turn it from foe to ally.
In this episode, I explore self-sabotage and how it acts as a protective mechanism. I discuss compassionate curiosity, what it is, how it can help us work through our tendency to self-sabotage, and how we can develop it. I also outline the different ways our inner saboteur can manifest and explain how we can turn our fears from enemies to allies.
“When we stop viewing it as ‘sabotage’ and start viewing it as parts of the brain trying to keep us safe, we can develop compassionate curiosity to notice what’s going on and what we’re afraid of.” - Karen Goldfinger Baker
This week on the Trauma Hiders Club Podcast:
<ul>
<li>What our inner saboteur is trying to protect us from</li>
<li>Impostor syndrome, ambivalence, fear of success, and other manifestations of self-sabotage</li>
<li>The power of compassionate curiosity</li>
</ul>
Where High Achievers Get Through Shit - TOGETHER
Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Trauma Hiders Club ‘The Podcast’ with Karen Goldfinger Baker. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts.
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Trauma Hiders Club Podcast where high achievers like you finally reveal what keeps them awake at night, and that no amount of money or recognition will fix. I’m also making it my business to speak with people who get you.

Hell! I get you. I AM you!

So get your best hiders face, sit down and let you guard down! What’s on the other side of this shit. Will change your life. 

Trauma Hiders Club Podcast where high achievers like you finally reveal what keeps them awake at night, and that no amount of money or recognition will fix. I&rsquo;m also making it my business to speak with people who get you.
Hell! I get you. I AM you!
So get your best hiders face, sit down and let you guard down! What&rsquo;s on the other side of this shit. Will change your life.&nbsp;

Trauma Hiders Club Podcast

Trauma Hiders Club Podcast where high achievers like you finally reveal what keeps them awake at night, and that no amount of money or recognition will fix. I’m also making it my business to speak with people who get you.

Hell! I get you. I AM you! 

So get your best hiders face, sit down and let you guard down! What’s on the other side of this shit. Will change your life.  

Trauma Hiders Club Podcast where high achievers like you finally reveal what keeps them awake at night, and that no amount of money or recognition will fix. I&rsquo;m also making it my business to speak with people who get you.
Hell! I get you. I AM you! 
So get your best hiders face, sit down and let you guard down! What&rsquo;s on the other side of this shit. Will change your life.&nbsp;&nbsp;

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