Show Notes
What happens when grief becomes the turning point instead of the ending?
At just 22 years old, Sean Hotchkiss lost his father to suicide. That devastating loss led him into years of addiction, unanswered questions, and emotional isolation. But instead of allowing tragedy to define his future, Sean chose a different path—one built on healing, vulnerability, recovery, and purpose.
Today, Sean is an author, men's coach, and advocate helping men break free from outdated ideas of masculinity while encouraging honest conversations about mental health, emotional resilience, and asking for help.
In this deeply personal episode, host Tony Mantor and Sean discuss:
Sean also shares practical advice for anyone feeling overwhelmed, ashamed, isolated, or emotionally exhausted—and explains why telling your story may be the first step toward healing.
If you've experienced suicide loss, grief, depression, addiction, or simply want to better understand men's mental health, this conversation offers hope, compassion, and practical encouragement.
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