Couples want everything to go perfectly on their wedding day. Yet, mishaps often make for the best stories and most entertaining videos. Perhaps your flower girl refused to walk down the aisle or the minister mixed up your vows.

In Genesis 29, Jacob experiences an unforgettable mix-up. Following his parents’ advice, he made the long journey to his mother’s family. In those days before mailing addresses, Jacob had to figure out exactly where they lived. At the local well, he asked if anyone knew his Uncle Laban. Not only did the shepherds know Laban but they also pointed out his daughter Rachel. Jacob was immediately smitten and offered to work for Laban for seven years for Rachel (v. 18). In the ancient world, these types of economic commitments were often made between families when a marriage was arranged. Even so, seven years was a long time.

When the wedding day came, Laban substituted his older daughter Leah for Rachel. When Jacob discovered the trick, he confronted Laban, “Why have you deceived me?” (v. 25). Laban explained, “It is not our custom here to give the younger daughter in marriage before the older one” (v. 26). This may remind you of the time when Jacob stole his older brother’s birthright (Genesis 27). Now on the receiving end of deception, Jacob would work another seven years to marry Rachel.

It was through Jacob, Rachel, and Leah that the founders of the twelve tribes of Israel were born. God used this “mishap” to fulfill His promises to Abraham. It is reassuring to know that even deception and family dysfunction cannot thwart God’s plan. God can overrule evil actions to accomplish His will.