Grief is part of the human experience. It cannot be escaped, and yet people try to conceal their grief with pleasure, mask pain with substances, or avoid it with busyness. But grief will not be denied. C. S. Lewis wrote, “No one ever told me that grief felt so much like fear.” He was reflecting that grief, because it is so uncontrollable, provokes in us a terror of the unknown. We cry out: What is next?

Early Christians in Thessalonica faced a grief that required special instruction. Living a few short years after Jesus ascended, they faced the difficulty of watching their loved ones die before Jesus came back. This was disconcerting. They expected to see Jesus return in their lifetime and now faced the realization that their loved ones would not be alive to see Him.

Paul answered their grief with truth: “For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him” (v. 14). They did not need to fear or grieve as those who had no hope (v. 13). The dead in Christ are more alive than ever! Their bodies lie in the ground awaiting Christ’s return to be reunited with their souls. And anyone alive at Christ’s return will participate in the experience (v. 17)! Together we will meet the Lord and enjoy His presence forever.

Rather than conceal, mask, or avoid their grief, Paul instructs them to be encouraged that both dead and living Christians will be reunited with Christ. While we grieve now, we are not like people who don’t know God and His plan. We grieve with hopeful anticipation of Christ’s return—the joyful reality of being reunited with believers who have died and being “with the Lord forever” (v. 17).